I need help settling an old debate on what was creepier: a 17 year old guy making out with a 14 year old girl that's still technically in middle school, or a 19 year old guy getting into a relationship and having sex with a 14 year old girl that's a freshman in high school.
Neither are on the level, but I feel like this answer is clear. This happened 10 years ago, btw, so now all parties involved are adults.
19 year old with high school 14. How the fuck is this even a question? You don't fucking magically become maturer because you're in high school
>>18655730
i don't know where you're from but that second one is statutory in most places so i think that's your answer. more years apart = creepier in almost all cases. use that as a general rule of thumb.
>>18655731
This.
>>18655731
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>>18655737
Cool. I'm OP and this validates my position. My asshole "friend" went off on a rant in a group text full of people about how I am a huge scumbag for preying on young girls because I made out at a party with a girl that was coming out of middle school while pleasantly ignoring that he's two years older than me and dated and fucked a girl five years younger just months later.
Why he brings it up when we're long out of high school, I don't know.
>>18655747
dude if you wanted to you could file a complaint and by law many states would have to take him to court if he fucked a 14 year old when he was 19. i actually don't know of any state that would be OK in. bring something like that up and he might change his tune lmao