WTF do I do ??
>pic related
How the fuck do I get em out ?
>>18653853
lmao that nigga laughing at you, call an exterminator mang
>>18653871
I did call... he took them with him... now they are back again
The same raccoons bro
I have a feeling that he let them go like 4 miles away from my house
>>18653895
Call him back and demand he come get them again and take them further away?
Should I refund my College Class? My computer stopped working so I can't type notes in class, but my mom would be Pissed and it seems the only way to get off my court ordered mental health treatment is to take a class and do something. What should I do?
Lol use a notebook and pencil
>>18653896
I can type much faster than I can write and I have tendinitis so writing is hard
>>18654034
This is why China is going to win.
The past three nights, I've had three dreams in which I flirt and start to date a difference girl each time. I have a girlfriend, and don't consider myself very lonely. Could these dreams just be a coincidence, or am I a /lonely/ fag?
You'll never figure it out, dreams are subconscious.
>>18653940
3 with the same idea in a row just seems a little weird, and I hate to admit it but I liked each dream, and its girl.
>>18653964
Weird stuff happens
You would figure it out better yourself
How clean will an install to Windows 10 be from a fresh install of Windows 7?
I only have the key for Windows 7 and I don't want to go buy another for 10, but I also don't want to get bogged down with a potential shitshow from upgrading from one OS to another.
Thoughts? Will I be okay in the long run? I know I'm basically reinserting the camera up my ass with Windows 10, but idc.
>pic not related
Alternatively, can I reformat with Windows 10 and then just use my Windows 7 key to activate it?
>>18653837
install archlinux
>>18653892
nah dog
My now ex girlfriend has drifted closer and closer to suicide. She's been suicidal since I met her.
She keeps asking me for permission to do it and I keep saying no. It's very intense. Now she says she hates me, because I keep "making her sad" with the things I do. (Example includes her asking to play a game online while I was working on a project and me saying I just needed 30 minutes.)
Kinda out of ideas at this point lads. I don't want her to die. But she's seemingly helpless and way too needy. It's her that's the problem- I know this. I know it's not my problem either. But what the fuck? What do?
Does she have parents? You should talk to them at least.or mutual friends
If you know it's her that's trying to give you her problem then let her fucking die in peace.
I work as a support worker with young people with mental health problems. They threaten us with suicide sometimes.
Essentially, you have to set boundaries. You tell them exactly what is an isn't acceptable. If they threaten to kill themselves after we've set the boundaries, we call for an ambulance because suicide is a medical emergency.
That's all you can do. You can't let her hold you hostage and make you responsible for her life.
For almost a week now I've had my chances to talk to and befriend a girl at my school who is usually pretty lonely, but never built up enough courage to do so or even sit next to her, and have felt absolutely terrible afterwards. I usually promise myself not to make the same mistake again but it always happens anyway because I can't seem to start a conversation despite having everything planned out. Tomorrow is my last chance before the weekend, and I don't want to sit through the entire weekend and feel like shit because I was a gigantic pussy. Help me guys.
>>18653827
"Hey [girl's name] wanna have my orange juice?"
shameless self bump
Does she stay alone of her own choice or what?
I'm going to rant about something right now because if I don't, I'm afraid I'm going to go full Falling Down mode. Feel free to share some advice, but this is more of a rant thread than an advice thread.
>Dad is depressed and is always bitching about how he lost the will to live, how the economy sucks, how I should handle my money, etc
>Mom is depressed and is always bitching about her back pain, her lack of expensive dresses, how her neighbors have better things, etc
>Girlfriend is often sickly, drastic mood swings all around, and is always bitching about how I should be saving almost all of my money for our wedding
For fuck sake, every single day is nothing but bad news and whining. "Anon, I'm drinking so that I can die faster", "Anon, my dentist botched my surgery and now you have to sue him", "Anon, I'm poor and I need you to buy me a new dress", yadda yadda.
And if I do manifest a slight expression of anger or discomfort, I'm greeted by anything but comprehension.
"But anon, you're not in pain like I am", "But anon, you're not as poor as I am", "Anon, you don't understand muh feelings".
I'm tired of always hearing bad news and complaints. Tired of being surrounded by moaning, bitching people. And most of all, tired of having to greet their moaning with a smile on my face.
Can't at least one of them bring a semblance of good news, or at least be grateful for some positive things in their lives? Can't I spend a single day without being reminded how life sucks or being lectured on what I need to do?
I'm honestly contemplating abandoning everybody and moving to some distant shithole, but I don't have enough money for that.
Fucking hell, I'm tired of all of this nagging, and I don't know what to do anymore.
They are literally dragging you down
Taking care of your family is a great ideal to have, but like all ideals and relationships you don't actually _need_ them
Moving away and being free of this would be very liberating
>>18653822
It doesn't sound like you've ever actually told them clearly how you feel about all of this, what about printing this shit and reading it out loud to them? If they ignore it and don't try to make any change then >>18653957
Tell your gf the wedding budget is $500. Wasting all your money on a one-day party is ridiculous.
Would you say I'm an ectomorph? I'm about to try to get /fit/
Yeah, you're fairly well squared off.
>be me
>go to an mma gym
>cute girl seems too like me and we make small talk when we're next to each other
>very responsive
>she stops going to the gym
>find her on facebook
>talk for a while, she says she'll be back next week
>next week she ain't back
>ask her about it
>takes too long to answer
>i just stop the conversation after a couple of texts
It's absolutely clear that she has no interest in talking to me, right?
My long time girlfriend left me several months ago and i have absolutelly no experience talking to other women.
Balls in her court. She'll get back to you or go to the gym if she's interested. Don't message again.
>>18653806
Couple of things:
Don't look up a girl on Facebook unless you ask for her digits/tell her in person.
Always wait on the girl. If she's interested you'll meet up one way or another.
Texting done right can make girls moist, but I shy away from texting too much when first meeting a girl. Ask her out somewhere.
My mom is showing signs of love for our town's local 7/11 indian store clerk. I don't want her to do anything with this man, and i know i don't really have a say in any of it, but she's already adapted to things of his religion. We've always been a christian family of 2 parents, a brother and a sister but since my parents have split she has been really clingy to this man. What should i look out for, what are some positives and negative effects of having a strict indian man who enforces his disgusting religion onto our family? (not racist)
also i think he might be hiding some secrets, he says his name is mike but i find that highly unlikely.
>>18653805
>he says his name is mike but i find that highly unlikely.
most likely just a name he took on because his real name is too complicated for americans or wherever you live. lots of mid-eastern and chinese people do it, and it's not really a "secret".
>>18653805
Sorry man. Gandhi has already impregnated your dad. Also he's a paki so grats she's going to be looking like the pic related.
>>18653805
>thinks since some oriental person uses a Western name, he must be harboring some deep, dark secret
lel
come on friends, you really need to go out more.
What's easier for a westerner to say: Mike or Villupuram Chinnaih Pillai Ganesan?
>be me
> have gf
> my first
We were texting for a long time, than we met for the first time .. we have lots of fun
We have sex every day
We both love each other
She told me that she gets very horny when ever I'm with her ..
Any girls here ? Please explain
Cuz I thought I would get laid just once/few times a week ... but we do it every day
I'm new to relation ship and don't know shit what to do.
I don't want her to feel that I'm using her in any kind of way... I really love her.
So you don't want as much sex as you two are having? If that's the issue why not just ask her to take things more slow?
>>18653788
I'm perfectly fine with it.
The thing is that I'm concerned about her feelings about doing it every day.
Are females as horny and want sex like guys do except the time when they are have bleedings
>>18653782
As long as your enjoying yourself, let her enjoy herself.
I've been invited to a friend's vow renewals in December. He sent the save the date, and I have said in many ways that I will be there, but as I do more research into getting there, I'm realizing it's going to be a huge pain in the ass, and not as many people that I know that I thought were going are going.
I would also miss something I do annually with my dad, but I don't think he'd be mad about it.
Is it wrong for me to back out now that it's simply become too inconvenient for me?
It's not blood or your actual immediate family. I wouldn't lose sleep over it but that's me
what does it mean when putting up my hand and saying something in a lecture/class and literally even the anticipation of doing it makes my heart pound and my body shake and then those things continue for a good 10 minutes afterwards?
>>18653760
you need to keep doing it until you get comfortable with it. i used to do the same thing whenever i would ask out a girl or try to kiss a girl. just keep practicing and it will go away eventually
I broke up with my ex gf (who did alot of toxic shit) and I feel like she is always going to better than me.
- Have more fun than without me
- Have a better future than me
- Have better opportunities than me.
- Be with someone more attractive than me.
Even though I broke up with her because of her emotionally cheating on me and other shit like that. I feel like I'm going to miss out on life without having her in it.
She was my high-school gf but really did some fucked up things to me.
I've been depressed for the last 6 months about this -- I wan't to get her off the pedestal but I can't.
How does /adv/ get someone off the pedestal.
bumping bc same
>>18653748
just smile and know that youre you, do fun stuff, do crazy stuff. by a motorcycle or something just start doing stuff to get your mind off her. do body workouts
also listen to death grips
>>18653748
>really did some fucked up things to me.
such as
What is the minimum number of weekly or monthly sex times I should accept from a relationship?
With my current 5 year old relationship, I've been doing it once a week, tops. It usually ends up being 2 to 3 times per month.
I've talked about it to her 1 year ago and she accepted trying to have it more but she has been slacking off again now.
I've masturbated and seen more porn with her than when I was single.
How much of an asshole would I be if I left her because of this? Is this too petty?
I'm almost coming to the conclusion that I'm only with her and being loyal right now because I'm busy at work, and if I had more freedom (aka free time) I'd have cheated on her or left her. Does working on getting a side girl ready for when I'm less busy is a way too shitty thing to do?
>>18653741
>What is the minimum number of weekly or monthly sex times I should accept from a relationship?
This should be set by you and your partner. If you aren't happy in the bedroom, your relationship is probably doomed to fail.
> I've talked about it to her 1 year ago and she accepted trying to have it more but she has been slacking off again now.
Try talking to her about it again. If she steps it up again, maybe she just needed to be reminded.
> I've masturbated and seen more porn with her than when I was single.
This isn't good.
> How much of an asshole would I be if I left her because of this? Is this too petty?
Absolutely not. Sex is a vital part of any serious relationship.
> I'm almost coming to the conclusion that I'm only with her and being loyal right now because I'm busy at work, and if I had more freedom (aka free time) I'd have cheated on her or left her. Does working on getting a side girl ready for when I'm less busy is a way too shitty thing to do?
If you feel this way you need to break up. Any longer is just continuing in a relationship that will never end well. Get out of it now and start looking for that side girl to be a new main girl.