So I've been with this girl for 4 years last month and a week ago I broke up with her. She has extreme self esteem issues and anxiety and I did my best to be there for her but she was so controlling i lost everyone close to me in my life. Breaking up with her was very messy and during the break up i caught up with an old flame and we kissed but she went for europe for 3 months. I really really like her but is this right or am I out of my mind because I'm fresh from a long relationship?
>>18654025
You lost a girl that was obsessed with you .. she was jealous of everyone around you
Is it possible to work full time and be in college full time as well?
After I graduated back in 2016 I took a year off and landed a pretty good job that pays $18 an hour working 45ish hours a week
Now I really don't want to be stuck doing this the rest of my life honestly...
So I'm thinking is it possible?
My shifts are from 5pm to 1-2am so id be in school 7am? - 4pm?
Anyone go through a similar situation or know someone who has?
Parents are offering to house me until I graduate but I also have the option to live on my own
Not impossible but boy it sounds draining. Also no time for hobbies. if you think it's worth it, go for it
Bit of a weird one here guys.
I've been clinically depressed for 3 years. My life has gotten to a point where i have nothing, nobody or anything to aspire to. What little life i have is pointless.
But, as much as suicide seems like the best way out. I don't think i have the balls to do it.
So, somehow I've come to the logical conclusion that completely scrambling my already broken brain is the best bet.
Will ingesting 103 grams of dried magic mushrooms accomplish this? I really don't want to come back from this.
>inb4 vomiting
I have anti-nausea drugs.
>>18653981
If you don't help your self, no one will.
You have to know that you are on your own in this life. If you always think of your self as a dip shit than you allways be like that ...
The worst enemy to you is yourself
>>18653981
Biggest enemy to you is your self.. if you think that you are a dip shit , than you will be like that. Here in life , there won't be anyone for you , just your self ! Always, even if you have the best life you can imagine
>>18653981
I see you'd are willing to ingest shrooms. What about LSD?
In some anecdotes LSD has help relieve depression.
“I just felt like the fog — the ugly, miserable fog of depression — was gone. And at the end of the day, I thought to myself, ‘Wow. That was a really good day.’”
Source: http://wtop.com/health-fitness/2017/02/can-lsd-treat-depression-microdosing-mainstream/
LSD can help you see the true nature of your problems.
Why is life so fuckin' gay?
Maybe gay is so fucking life?
>>18653984
If gay did fuck life... That would make life gay...
My condom broke while having sex with my girlfriend but i pulled out immediately. How likely is it that she'll get pregnant
Wait 8 months and find out
Why are you on 4chan when you could be getting her to take the morning-after pill?
0% mate believe it or not babies are hard to make
>Tfw I have a learning disability in math
>Tfw can't do simple multiplication and division from memory
Is there any hope for me to get a job lads?
What jobs are good for someone like me?
>>18653969
Flipping burgers
Any job that doesn't involve maths.
>>18653969
You don't get a pass because of a learning disability.
Please get advice from books, educators, professional associations, etc.
You might learn differently from normal people.
You could still accomplish great things, but you will just have to work harder for it.
Good luck.
I'm trying to learn a bitta code to make games and/or websites as a hobby
I'm in the middle of learning JavaScript through Codecademy but it's pretty confusing.
Any tips? Good places and ways to practice?
>codecademy
>confusing
wew
So there's this girl I'm trying to make a move on, a shy one, and I was wondering if a suit would intimidate her. This would be after church, so it wouldn't look too out of place.
>>18653959
Why would she be intimidated? It's just clothing, I guarantee she's seen people wear suits before.
Not if it's your birthday suit
Hey /adv/, I'd like to some opinions on this situation I have. Whenever I try to call someone I'm interested in, they won't answer and then text me later saying things like "You called?" etc.
Wouldn't you rather call back since you were called first? Is it wrong of me to think this way?
Personally I loathe texting since it's very difficult to read the other person. And if it's been a while since I've talked to them it's a pain to write what's happened in the last three weeks. So I usually open up the conversation a bit and then ask them to hang out, which they usually respond with "I'm busy" etc.
What the fuck I'm supposed to do in this situation? I've experienced the same thing with friends, too. Thanks for letting me vent my frustation and I appreciate the advice.
>>18653952
Kids these days textcause it's easier and they can answer when they feel like, without being put on the spot. Become young again so you dont hate texting as much
Hopefully by texting you mean firing off a quick Skype/IRC/Messanger message or something, not using the ancient SMS services.
I met this girl at last week during orientation orientation. We spent a lot of time together and have a lot of things in common. She's essentially my only friend here. We ended up making out, but after we were supposed to go out together to a party she ended up cancelling and didn't give a reason. It seems like she's ignoring me for some reason. What am I supposed to do? I'll keep it brief now, but I'll provide more context in the shameless self bumps.
>>18653919
>Made out with a girl on the first day
You don't get to be sad about your life, normie.
OP Here.
This is where things get a little tricky. On one of the days there was an end of orientation party. We chilled and drank, and I ended up bringing her to her room because she said she was tired. I headed back to the party for a while and ended headed back to my room when I'd realized I'd had too much to drink. I entirely remember what happened other than that I apparently sent her some drunk texts that were harmless.
>>18653944
I'd hung out with her over the weekend. I only know her for like 4 days by then. But that's irrelevant. I don't really make friends easily. This was basically luck or whatever you'd call it, personified.
I'm scared. No this isn't a fucking joke. Ever since two nights ago, large blue veins only on the lest side of the lower to mid part of my penis (So bottom right to the part before you get past circumsized skin only) is inflamed a bit. I was trying to prolongoue ejaculation like they tell you not to do and this happened. They hurt a bit, not much yet. I just don't want to have to do any procedure or have the inflamed vein touched. Would you consider this vericose veins? PLEASE HELP
>>18653914
Go to doctor ... if you have inflammation in veins that means that it will fucking explode if you don't take care of it
>>18653914
Stop masterbating for a few days.
wtf are you doing on here, get off of here and go to the doctor
I'm a tall good looking white guy, with not a lot of money. Seeing as a plane ticket to Shanghai is well within my budget, a flight over is looking pretty appealing.
Could I land in the middle of a big Chinese city and roam around feeding myself off the goodwill of locals? Maybe use city folk with no friends and a decent paying job to pay for nights out.
There's a lot of depressed people in the world with money and I got nothing but time.
Thoughts?
You'd look completely different than them. People barely want to help beggars that look like them. Why the fuck would they want to help a foreigner. People are xenophobic naturally unless raised not to be.
>>18653885
You seem to know jack shit about East Asian societies. They are much more inclined to tell you to fuck off for being poor than to feel generous. You think they make up for their piss poor working conditions by being charitable to the poor?
You are either in or you are a peasant factory worker/farmer. You think you're going to sweep some China grandma off her feet with your good looks? You probably can't speak Mandarin or Cantonese..not to mention Chinese people are probably the most racist people on earth next to Koreans, Japs, and Russians.
There are a few vloggers on youtube that track their adventures in China as a westerner.
In smaller towns, many will want to take pictures with you as you are probably the first white person they've seen. Many will be kind and generous to you but no way to tell if it's reliable enough to prevent you from starving.
Does this really work ?
Or is it
>>18653880
It does look like it works.
Too bad it's too expensive for me... meh
>>18653880
The thing with inhalant suicides is that if you at any point decide to turn back then you potentially fuck yourself up. In this case you might be inducing a stroke.
Exit bags are the best methods of suicide, but I would refrain from using a mask like that. If you accidentally release too much pressure from the gas tank, you will rupture your lungs and your painless suicide will turn bloody and painful after all. But otherwise, yeah it's a good method.
I woke up in a cold sweat, just now. Had a dream about a girl I used to date 10 years ago. Why the fuck do I still think about her?
She was really attractive back then, but I've moved on. I've fucked women that were just as, or arguably more attractive than her since, and MORE IMPORTANTLY, I'm in a relationship now!
Once I woke up, I googled her, because I hadn't actually seen or heard from her in a decade. She's gotten really fat and moved back to our hometown. I just don't get it. Why is my brain fixated on this failed-Stacey from a decade ago?!?!
>>18653879
Dreams are built from random memories, I've tried to find meaning from dreams, there is none, your subconscious pops up the first shit it can find.
>>18653917
Well, my subcoscious is fuckin' retarded.
I woke up and had a fap. All better now.
>>18653879
I have dreamed about my cousine in a dream
All because I had sex with her 6 years ago
Hey bros, I could use some advice on a specific girl, most people can see through past the emotion so I could use some honest advice, thanks
>Get back from school for the summer
>work same summer job as before
>girl I had crush on for 3 years is still here
>her bf broke up with her
>few days later, she hits up an old friend who tells me
>their date was meh
>fast forward in July, my 21st bday
>invite friends, the girl, and the mutual friend
>mutual friend tries to sleep with her in the woods but she runs
>Im busy dealing with something else, so I didnt know it was happening
>few weeks later, she hits me up to hangout with her
>We go get tacos, and she tells me how mutual friend tried something
>Apologize, but the day is going well
>We decide to get ramen the next week
>get caught helpign a buddy on an online exam, prof emailed me about knowing about it
>start getting anxiety in the date
>she calms me down, helping me out
>the crush feeling is evolved
>we hangout again, she comes over plays vidya because she wants to try to get into it
>Watch a movie
>shes twitching her fingers, Im not sure if shes ready
>she comes over again, says "im a caring friend" but uses me as a model for photography
>we sit going through some stuff, really close
>felt she was almost ready
>she leaves, I say goodbye
>text her, twice within this week
>no response
>friend asks who this guy is on her snapchat
>cant see her story, but not blocked
Guys what do I do? I feel like shes removing me from her life, but why walk away like that? Cant she just reject me? Please any advice helps, it may seem petty, but it seems a big deal for me. I leave for school sunday, so Im hoping that she texts me before then and gets the chance to see me
>>18653854
She tried her best to make you like her
>>18653854
>>shes twitching her fingers, Im not sure if shes ready
Women want a man sure of himself.
Your uncertainty here screwed you over.
You always push as far as you can.
She will let you know when she is uncomfortable.
This is when you back of a bit, wait, then reengage slowly.
>>she comes over again, says "im a caring friend" but uses me as a model for photography
See how you became a "friend." This is how she sees you because you friends don't make sexual advances.
>>18653866
>>18653884
I do like her, but she was talking about her ex-boyfriend a lot so I didnt feel like she was ready for a relationship. When we out for food, she said she wasnt looking, and no matter how hard I made an advance, without straight up kissing her she felt stonecold. Very little movement