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Medical advice okay?
I feel like I have a clogged ear, and it has not gone away for 3 days. I dont remember getting water into it, or anything like that.
I dont have any form of insurance, I am in the USA.
All I want to do is find someone who can look into my ear with a Otoscope and see if there is an obstruction.
I cant pop my ear, everything I tried to relieve it wont help.
I had symptoms of a cold earlier in the week, but it went away. thought I had a clogged tube, so I took some ibuprofen, it helped, but ear still feels clogged.
what do?
There is a Walgreens in my area that has immediate care, its $89 to just walk in. I'm really broke right now, and that's gonna be hard to spare.
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>>17976284
It could be wax build-up. If so:
Get ear syringe. Fill with warm water. Stick ear syringe in ear. Shoot warm water into canal. Masturbate to the feeling. Works well if you also place hydrogen peroxide in your ear to soften up the wax.
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>>17976284
give it a few more days, like til monday, and see if it's still plugged up.
ENTs are rarely of any help, and I imagine even less so for some walgreens nigger. The most they can do is drain wax provided that's the cause (it might not even be). Chances are it's sinus related. go to the drug store and pick up some over-the-counter decongestant and diuretic (stay hydrated), and nasal spray if you feel like it. This will help drain your sinuses if they're clogged and may alleviate your symptoms
also, try not to take ibuprofen unless you absolutely need it, especially if you're having ear problems. It doesn't interact well and may cause tinnitus, which is a lot worse than a plugged up ear
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>>17976301
I tried the peroxide thing. I dipped a qtip, and let it drip into my ear. I kinda felt it hit my eardrum maybe, but made no difference.
>>17976306
I had symptoms of a cold earlier this week, I have a bit of a cough now. I never had an ear infection tho.
I just want someone to look into my ear with an otoscope.
I have afrin. I'll try that.
I took ibuprofen because my right side where my ear is clogged felt swollen, and it hurt to rest my head on that side, so I thought the ear tube was swollen shut. The ibuprofen provided some relief, but did not help me equalize pressure.
Tried holding my nose, and blowing out. Felt my other ear pop, but not the one with the issues.
I can wait till Monday to see if it clears up.
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>girlfriend graduated college
>moved to the city (close to me) and started looking for jobs
>wants to hang out literally every single day
>calls fucking two or three times a , usually at the worst time like when I eating dinner or about to go to sleep.
>interrupts gym, laundry, video games, movies, hanging out with friends, reading
>she basically just wants me to entertain her
>tell her I have shit to do and can't just be around to amuse her
>tell her she should make some friends in the city
>she refuses to do absolutely anything alone, even meeting people.
>tell her she needs to pick up a fucking hobby then
>she just says she can't concentrate on anything because looking for jobs is stressful.
>she uses one of those shitty psychological tactics
>"Anon I understand completely that you're busy and you should have your own life"
>"... but if you're not at my beck and call to do anything I want at any minute, it must be because you don't care about me"
>"... you're just selfish. Why is your every day life taking priority over your girlfriend?"
what the fuck
I honestly want to break up with her, but it feels pretty shitty considering she just moved her and doesn't have a job and is clearly stressed out. But really, she is expecting me to give up everything just because.
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>but shes stressed
so? do you want to be kicked anytime shes 'stressed'? girls can be stressed from the moment they have their first period to the moment they die OP, its no excuse to mistreat. yes people are going to go through rough patches, but if they're already making you consider breaking up than its not the kind of rough patch you're ready to sit through.
talk to her, see if you can calm her the fuck down and make her see reason, and if not, break up wtih her.
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You're on the right track, you're communicating your feelings and holding your ground doing so. This is a conversation best had in person. Tell her in all honesty that she is stifling you, and it is causing you grief and is overall quite offputting. She needs to understand what it means to give you space. How she sends her time when she's alone is up to her - she can be lonely and mope all she likes, but you are entitled to your personal space as you see fit, and if she doesn't like it tough titties. Do not bend to her will in this matter because you'll never get that freedom back. Be firm and put your foot down. If she doesn't like it she can leave because you're not going to give up your individual life.
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>>17976246
>Low tier manipulation spotted
Your GF id manipulating you into being her amusement slave, dump her.
It only gets more annoying and worse from here anon.
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As a female, is it gay to have this picture on my wall?
I printed it and put it up because I like pink floyd, but both my boyfriend and my best friend had bad reactions to it, my friend even asked me if I'd turned lesbian like I was getting off to it because it contains butts
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>>17976237
>is it gay
only if it turns you on. otherwise its just nudity.
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>>17976237
Would having a landscape portrait of 6 sets of exposed balls on my wall make me seem gay?
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>>17976239
that being said, you will still get people being twats about it regardless of if its gay or not
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How do i get over some shit i did while i was drunk?
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>>17976234
by apologizing and deciding if it was bad enough to reign in drinking
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Depends what you did.
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>>17976234
Well, drinking more of course to forget it ever happened, obviously
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Broke up 3 weeks ago and went no contact right away. Still nothing after all this time. Will I ever hear from her again?
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>>17976217
this is an /adv/ice board, not a psychic board.
you may never hear from her a gain. or you might. there is no formula.
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Probably not bud
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>>17976217
that's retarded, probably not
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Is there any actual benefit to not watching porn? I've been fapping to SFW and my imagination for a week and all I can say is it's made my life more boring and difficult (as in more difficult to reach an orgasm when I'm fapping).
Why should I keep doing this? Should I do nofap instead? Or just go back to fapping to porn?
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>>17976214
Fap to whatever the fuck you want
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>>17976214
porn wires your brain differently. it makes you less prone to have sex with the same person more often and more prone to fap when you could be having sex.
if it isnt causing problems dont worry about it.
porn isn't like hardcore drugs, its more like junk food. dont over consume and you're fine.
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>>17976225
Where is the scientific study
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What board is best for discussing Christianity?
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>>17976165
It used to be /lit/ but now they're all a bunch of contrarian patricians ie pretentious pseudo intellects.
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>>17976165
/pol/ obviously
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>>17976165
/b/
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I want my resume to look really professional, but every time I print it off, the gray boxes come out with lines and do not look solid. It makes it look amateur.
Any ideas on how to fix this?
>pic related, my resume
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A 'professional' resume doesn't rely on gimmicky fonts to serve its purpose.
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>>17976139
Wait, its all in Times New Roman. If you're referring to the font used in the gray boxes its TNR too, the boxes are to freshen it up and make it easy on the eyes
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>>17976139
Im talking about the line in picture, by the way. The solid gray rectangle. Its not coming out solid and looks patchy with lines in it. If you look closely youll see what I mean.
I was just wondering if there was a way to fix this
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I'm really quiet and i usually just like keeping to myself. but this makes people go fucking NUTS! people can't just freakin relax man.
wtf is going on? I've had people lash out at me just for this. I've had people be mean to me. I've had people talk behind my back. wtf is wrong with people? why do they need me to talk?
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>>17976123
Tell me about it dude.
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You probably come off as a creepy weirdo, and you probably are
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>>17976202
This. Sorry.
I never speak a word and i never interact with anybody.
Nobody gives me any shit about it.
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>been dating my gf for 4 years
>recently start a security job
>they're dicking me around with my paycheque, but I'm starting a new, much better job in a few days
>my girlfriend has been losing her shit, demanding that I tell this security company to fuck off, and to file formal complaints with whoever will listen because I was referred to this job from a government agency
>this is because they were 5 days late paying me my first cheque, which was semi-monthly, so these hours are from before christmas
>I tell her today that I actually received my cheque, and that I've filed formal complaints with various government agency
>now she just wants me to skip work entirely on principle
>I think this is patently ridiculous, tell her I'm going to my shift
>now we're in a giant fight over arbitrary bullshit that has no impact on her life, particularly since we both have money, and my parents have been helping me out while this job is dicking me around
What do I do about this bullshit?
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Tell her knock off her bullshit and let man handel his business. You don't need mommy
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>>17976091
>gf
>>not wife
this is not her business. how you handle your employment situation is entirely on you. tell her this in a diplomatic manner. if she continues to behave irrationally, this may be (see:is likely) an indicator that she is not suitable for marriage
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>>17976105
Oh I am NOT getting married to her ever. Honestly, things have been going down hill and I think this is close to the tipping point. I was more concerned about dealing with her bullshit than I was getting stabbed by the homeless drug addicts I'm responsible for at 2am.
How do you approach this diplomatically? She's pulling the ol' "don't ever ask for my advice again if you arent going to take it" line, when I asked her for advice once, like two weeks ago, and she hasn't shut up about it ever since.
I'm unsatisfied with our sex life, and the only reason I haven't left is because we share a lot of the same hobbies and we have cats. I have to give that bitch full body massages every day and we bang like once a month, if I'm lucky.
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Hi adv
I am 18 and attending university. I did not get any of my preferred housing options that I choose before applying to uni, and unfortunately got stuck in the smallest dorm on campus with a strange room mate and two /v/ regulars to share a bathroom with. While my room mate is a nice guy, he is very anti-social and very uncomfortable to live with. He is either fapping, playing video games, or in class. He will not speak to me unless spoken to. I was very unhappy
When I thought I'd had enough of my dorm and all of my cringeworthy room mates, my now current girlfriend started to talk to me again. Before uni, we worked the same job and were pretty friendly with each other. We even hooked up after work sometimes. I never saw us being in a relationship though, since she was three years older than I and probably thought I was immature. Plus I don't really enjoy relationships in general.
It turned out that she attends the same university, and has her own nice apartment. She started to invite me over once or twice a week and I actually started to enjoy being with her, and she did as well with me. But I still didn't have a serious relationship in mind. Soon once or twice a week turned into four or five times a week, and spending the night. After a few weeks of this, she confesses she has feelings for me and invited me to stay with her in the apartment for good since she knows I hate my dorm so much.
I avoided the question and told her I would need time to think about it, but I made the mistake of still living in her apartment while I though about it. While I was "thinking" about it she spoiled me and did her best to convince me to stay. We would go out to eat every night and then have great sex afterwards, spend money on me, ect.
I was really happy, happier than I had ever been spending time with a girl, so I agreed to date her and pretty much move in with her. Everything went very smoothly for a couple months, but she started getting too clingy. cont
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I've caught her caught her going through texts on my phone/computer a couple times, and I'm sure she's done it plenty more when I'm not around. Every time I want to leave the apartment: "Where are you going? Who are you going to be with? Who is that?"
Jealousy is a problem for her too. Any time I speak about a girl, no matter what the context or who the girl is, she will turn super defensive or think that I'm somehow more attracted to girl I'm talking about.
I don't have my space anymore and I'm tired of it, but I don't want to live with a bunch of gross betas in a cramped dorm. She's such a sweet girl, and I really care about her, but she's not the same. Seeing her upset tears me up inside. We got in a fight about this last night and I couldn't stand watching her cry. I don't know what to do /adv/, I just want to know what everyone here thinks
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So tldr:
Before uni, hooked up with cute girl from work a bunch, got a shitty dorm and room mates, she invites me to live with her, we date, now she's way too clingy and I can't handle it but have nowhere to go
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You don't have to choose 1 or the other. Why not arrange something like 2 days a week you sleep at your dorm and the rest at hers? You may not like it but that alone time will do you good.
What is it specifically that you don't like about the dorm? Is it the (lack of) hygiene, the noise, being isolated, etc?
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>Friend has a female friend who basically does whatever he wants.
>She is quiet, shy, fat, never makes eye contact.
>Friend isn't abusive toward her, shes just obsessed with him.
>Asks me if I want a blowjob.
>Tells her to give me head, and she looks at me, I say sure
>She pulls my cock out and starts blowing me.
>Everytime I go over to hang out with them, He lets me fuck her.
>He starts dating another girl, basically ditches her.
>Me and her hang out, she starts listening to what I ask her to do.
>Cleans my parent's house, cooks me meals, lets me do whatever I want to her sexually.
>Let's me do every sick fantasy I have.
>Friend breaks up with girlfriend, tries to get fat girl back from me...
>She won't go back to hanging with him.
I don't know if she likes me or something... shes very weird... we talk but she just talks about either nerdy or perverted shit. She doesn't seem to fuck other guys unless told to, and I can text her to come over whenever I want and she just shows up most of the time, unless shes at work or with other friends. Shes always wet as fuck, and will occasionally ask for things, even sick things like for me to hit her or choke her... she even egged me on to choke her hard enough to where she couldn't even moan anymore. I don't understand her, I don't know what her deal is... can anyone shed some insight?
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>>17976026
sounds like you have a good deal
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Why did you have to ruin it by saying she's fat?
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>>17976033
fucking tripfags
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On Sunday evening I'll be having dinner with my girl and her parents. I haven't met her folks yet but they sound great.
It's the dinner part I need help with; I haven't come clean to my girlfriend about the sheer, instant anger I feel when I hear people chewing, lip smacking, mashing and sloshing their food in their mouths and generally eating like fucking pigs. Seriously, fuck you if you do that.
I haven't said this to her because it's obviously as crazy as it sounds and now I'm dreading our dinner on Sunday because if it happens I honestly don't know what I would do.
And yeah I know it's stupid and it probably makes me a drama queen or whatever, but it's a 100% genuine, instant rage and I don't want to have to sit there gritting my teeth, ruining things.
Should I try to explain this to her or is she going to think I'm just some trigger cunt?
I'm 31 and hadn't eaten food with anyone in over twelve years precisely for that reason, but she's quiet and polite and I love eating with her when we meet after work. She's 29 and she has no idea because I'm good at hiding things. I just don't want to ruin the evening because things are going really, really well.
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>>17976024
This is an actual condition called misophonia. Talk to her, tell her you're worried about the event. If she cares about you, she'll understand and figure out some way to help you through it.
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>>17976041
This. Misophonia is a real thing
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You'd hate eating dinner with me then.
I live with my gf (couple of years older, not exactly sure) and have done for a while, but she's quite a polite person
The problem is that I love to chew and eat my food really loudly. Like, extremely loudly, as loud as I can. If you chew your food as loud as you can, imagine that times ten, because that's how loud I chew my food
So anyway we were round at her parents' house last week, who she has a really fragile relationship with, and we're having dinner, and all of a sudden I realise they're all looking at me
I'd forgotten to chew quietly. Had been munching and slopping with my mouth wide open, nostrils flared, saliva dripping, laughing, guttural, deep
So I looked her father and said
"Not the first time I've had my mouth full of white meat today, if you know what I mean"
(we were eating chicken and my girlfriend is albino)
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Guy I like is dating another girl
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I've been talking with a guy I've known for a while over text messages and it's gotten a bit lewd, with selfies and such. He lives in another state (not too far though, 1h plane, 7h drive). I knew he was dating someone before this started but I figured we were just chatting. Then we started getting really into our conversations and each other, asking for gym selfies and such, which ended with lewd shit. Two days later he said it's getting really confusing for him and he doesn't know what to do and is trying to figure out what to do exactly with the other girl, and that we should probably stop flirting.
Basically I really like him a lot and I would like an honest shot at a proper date, not just texting stuff, but that's not going to happen before at least a few weeks due to work schedules (at least 2 months I think). I think if I don't say something along those lines I will regret it but I feel like asking a guy to hold on until we manage to meet two months down the line, on the off chance we hit off spectacularly is a bit silly.
On the other hand other women friends have started saying that "if he doesn't know what he wants you should drop him" which I'm not sure is great advice because I've been very confused about relationships especially when one prospect has a lot of distance involved and the other is there and available.
What do? Is he an asshole or did he do the right thing? Do I ruin everything by asking to wait until we meet? Should I just say I fancy him a bit and leave him to decide if he wants to take a shot in the dark?
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What did you send each other and who initiated it?
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>>17976035
Nothing too bad, me in lingerie, him topless, my abs, his new haircut, feeling lonely going to bed, me staying over when i visited, and then it devolved to him saying I should join him in the shower and naked massages and from there on describing what we'd like to do with each other etc.
As for initiating, I'd say 50/50. I said he's cute, - always thought he was - he asked for a pic because we hadn't seen each other for a while and I had changed hair color, it escalated, I played along. No real initiator in my eyes.
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homewrecker
can you posts the pics you sent him?
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Hi /adv/
I'm writing here because I have personal problems and I'm having a bad moment dealing with it.
I'm 26 year old with really low self esteem. Also I'm really bad socially and I'm not happy with my image, maybe the self esteem problems are related to this.
I lost all my friends and I didn't have been with a girl since I was 19 year old. I feel that I'm not worth. I have a good job but I feel that I'm losing control of my life. I don't feel happiness with almost nothing.
Also, I lost a lot of money seeing escorts trying to fill this part of my life. I need to feel that someone cares about me even if it was fake. Thes only results have been less money and thinking what's happening with me.
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>>17976013
can you take a vacation?
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>>17976053
Now I can't. Also my vacations are always sad, I have more time to think because I spend most of my time alone. Sometimes are a hell.
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>>17976066
>now i can't
why not?
>spend my time alone
>sometimes are a hell
the problem here is you're given a chance to make yourself happy and you refuse to take it. we can't do much if you WANT to be tragic.