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SWIM is thinking about tripping on Benzydamine tonight. Did anyone here experienced with this substance before? What should SWIM expect from it?
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>>18087852

What the fuck is with you and using SWIM? Just say a friend or "it's me"
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>>18087852
Erowid.org
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>>18087852
Just do some real recreational drugs, buddeh. And no need to use the autistic SWIM acronym on the internet. It actually does not protect you in any way what so ever.

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On my Windows XP Acer Laptop (2002) I had a working webcam that wouldn't connect to Omegle. I had a similar issue with another Windows XP Laptop (asus) and somehow managed to fix it after installing drivers.

HOWEVER when I tried installing drivers with this one it made the webcam become completely undetectable. I have tried installing countless drivers but nothing is working.

How do I get back my webcam on my Windows XP Acer Laptop (2002) AND how do I make it work with Omegle like my other one?
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>>18087819
to make this a bit more clear:

>Acer Windows XP Laptop (2002)
-cam was working but not with omegle
-tried fixing drivers, now doesnt work at all

>ASUS Windows XP Laptop (2000)
-cam was working but not with omegle
-fixed drivers allowing omegle to work
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>>18087819

Get a new webcam. They're not super expensive - cheap ones these days for $20 will be 10x better than one you bought ages ago.
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>>18087829
I forgot to mention this one is built in the laptop

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How should I cut (or grow my hair) ? I don't want it too short because it looked bad due to my ears being super close to my head which resulted in me looking like I have no ears
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Trim the back so it's more even. Go for an Elias Ronnenfelt style. Also get your eyebrows done, they're a little bushy.
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Hey thanks No.18087802
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>>18087757
Sup J

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>be me
>girl kind of showed interest in me a few months ago
>yesterday I help move a table into a room and she's in there with a few of her friends
>both say hey
>she mentions that we got matched on some shitty Valentine's day thing that our school does
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>start to leave since I have to go to work soon
>one of her friends says "why don't you ask her for her phone number?"
>out the door, too late
>she says to her friend "why did you have to make it more awkward then it already is?"

Did I miss my chance? I was considering asking her for her number tomorrow, should I do it?
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>>18087745
Get that number my dude, You might find the one
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Yes dude. If she clearly showed interest and her friends mentioned her number then that is definitely a green light. You did not miss your chance. Go for it.

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I need to come up with $2,000 by the end of Friday, I'm guessing that getting a small loan from a bank such as Chase is my best bet? Is there a better option I might not be aware of?

I lost my job recently and unemployment has yet to come in (taking more than a month). I need to cover rent and some additional bills since I need to live my apartment and live with my parents. I will be able to repay a loan once I relocate and start working again.

I am currently maxed out on my credit card with Wells Fargo (this is why not asking them for a loan, but I might try WF if Chase turns me down) and think Chase is my only chance of being able to cover my bills while I wait for unemployment benefit to come in. I am just not sure what to do.
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>>18087710
Shameless self bump.
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>>18087710
Do you have anything of actual value that you could put up as collateral for a loan? I suspect most banks are going to look at you as being a very bad risk.

That you're financially irresponsible and already in debt makes taking a loan a bad idea, as it's likely that the only place that would give you a loan are "payday loans" type operations that have extortionate interest rates.

You're better off asking your parents if you can borrow money from them, or if you have any property worth more than what you need, sell it.

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my gf doesn't want me to look at porn/pictures because she thinks it's weird that I look at another woman when I can have her

however, she's ok with hentai/ecchi, so I got full blown into this degeneracy

what do I do ? I'm starting to play some games from /h/, help
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>>18087680
/vg/ hentai game general is pretty good, they might be able to help you
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>>18087680
porn is ok once in a while but if youre watching it everyday and youre in a relationship or married that isnt a good sign about each other
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>>18087680
>my gf doesn't want me to look at porn/pictures because she thinks it's weird that I look at another woman when I can have her
You are jacking off when you gf is around?

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is there any hope in rebuilding a past relationship where you talk like once every two months but only to hook up?
i broke up with X a couple of times and X got upset a few times but now X doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore. i left out of jealousy and lack of attention.
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>>18087660
cont'd:

also the only reason X would go back to me is that X said if i finish my degree...
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>>18087667
cont'd:
i wasnt even over reacting, who keeps song playlists for the opposite gender and nudes from people X has hooked up with.

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I met a girl off an anon social app for college, where she was saying she'd sell nudes. We get to messaging on snapchat and I get free nudes, it quickly turned out she was just horny because we began sexting one day and phone sexing the next. Not only that but we connect on interests a little. Anyway, because she has a ldr bf, and because she told him she'd only sell nudes, she told me we have to stop.

Obviously I want to meet her and fuck her... To get to the point, we exchanged enough information to know that when I get out of my class. She's next door waiting outside of her class for it to start. I only know what her lips, hair and body look like. She knows what my face looks like. Would it be creepy or stalkerish to go and approach her? My plan is to talk to a friend in that class she's in (a girl, might make a difference, right?) and kind of look and see if I can figure out who she is. Then, approach her and say something like "didn't we have a class together?"

I'm not a complete sperg, I'm fairly good looking and I have charisma and a gf.
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Sorry for the grammar, I'm typing on a phone. And yes you can hate me, I know what I'm doing is wrong and stupid.
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>>18087652
>ldr boyfriend
>implying what youre doing is wrong

If at anything youre doing him a favor by getting her to show her true nature. You watch your back against this crazy bitch as well. Pump and dump

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Me and my friend, we'll call him anon, are both seniors in hs. He has a gf, we'll call her stacey, and she has a friend that hangs out with us at lunch. I'll call her femanon. I like femanon, and I think femanon likes me. I don't know if she's off limits though, being she's stacys friend. I only know femanon bc of anons gf. Stacey is femanons only real friend, and Stacey doesn't really like me to much imao. I don't want to separate femanon and stacey bc I want femanon to be happy, especially since there is a high chance of us breaking up, as femanon would be my first gf. Wat do?
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>>18087628
Really, you should just ask Stacey.
She may say yes. You never know.
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>Stacy doesn't have property rights on femanon.
>Femanon is an autonomous human being with the hability to make her own decisions.
>Stacy isn't even your friend, she's just your friend's gf. No moral obligations of any kind with her
Go for it, don't be retarded.

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How do authors on /adv/ start writing their stories? Do you just start free writing, or do you brainstorm and plan everything out very carefully? I have to write a few short stories within a few months, which I've never done before. Thanks in advance.
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>>18087618
You just need to start somewhere. I was told that I had great writing skills in school already, so writing has always been easy for me.
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>>18087618

for me its a little different every time. sometimes ideas just come rushing out and you HAVE to do it, other times it takes more percalating.

for me it starts with the idea, i have to know exactly what the big hook is, which usually revolves around the ending.

then i step back and think about whats the most important character journey in relation to that. if i know how it ends then i have to think, how does it start?

then i have to think, how many steps does it take to get to that ending? i write those down, but they always grow, shrink or change as more ideas come or old ideas stop seeming to fit.

then i try outlining, i know a lot of people use this beat sheet:
https://timstout.wordpress.com/story-structure/blake-snyders-beat-sheet/

but not every story uses those beats exactly as you see them or at least not in that particular order. its great if you dont know where to start, but if certain details need to be moved around in time, don't be afraid.

once i have an outline i usually shop it around to friends who weigh in, as the outline is often not entirely complete.

for instance im working on a new idea for a mini series, and for the first episode i had most of the episode ready to write and even began drafting, but it was missing a big piece, the set up for the future episodes formula. i shopped it to friends and i actually came up with the missing piece myself, but being able to dialogue with people about it is what filled in the gap. talking to people tends to help even if you're an independent person. but if you dont have anyone to talk to feel free to talk to yourself, just do it out loud, or try writing out summaries.

anyways, once i have a completed outline i break that into acts and start writing one act at a time. sometimes i jump around in time and fill in gaps later but im generally pretty straight forward.
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It depends what you call writing. If you are content with just some concepts, scattered plot points and such, just take note as inspiration arrive and develop as you can.
If you actually want to get through the whole process beginning until the end, you have to study a lot.
Both about writing and about the topic you are writing about. You ought to study style, language, structure, how to captivate, deux ex machina. And then people's behavior to make your characters coherent / believable. Once you have the structure together, the inspiration will eventually come to you and the story will write itself as you observe in your mind how do the characters would go by their daily lives as you add conflicts to guide them in the direction you want.
TL;DR Study and it will come to you

Medfags of /adv/, I need your advice.

I fucked an escort last weekend. Today I started feeling sick and now I feel like I have a mild fever. I've taken immunosuppressants but stopped about 2 weeks ago. How fucked am I?
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>>18087598
arent there free programs that test you for stds? i wouldnt know but ive seen fliers about it.
also if you dont use a condom with a whore youre a complete idiot, sorry.
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You're fuvked

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how do i stop smiling/flirting with my professors? they smile first and then i cant stop smiling for the remainder of the lecture and it's really annoying.
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Whats wrong with smiling? Smiling is good. You see someone smiling and you feel a little better and then maybe you smile. Next thing you know the entire world feels a little less shit.

Also smiling is not flirting.
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>>18087599
some of my professors appreciate me smiling back, some of them feel annoyed/self conscious about it.
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>>18087602
How do you know? have you talked with each of your professors about how you smiling makes them feel or are you just guessing?

Either way if you feel like smiling then keep smiling and that is something they will have to deal with.

Hey /adv. I'm a junior in college and I'm getting my bachelors in psychology. I'm just now taking a databases class, it's interesting, but now we're learning python and I'm really enjoying it. It's strangely relaxing? Should I try to pursue this? I only have a year left til I graduate and I plan on getting my phD in clinical psych (as of now). Maybe I'm not even cut out for CS, but I'm just at such a beginner level that it's fun? Is there anyone out there with experience with programming?
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>>18087585
you don't need a CS specific degree to have a successful career in that field. Just add some electives to your courses and see if you like it, and if you do learn coding on your own and see if you can take it anywhere.
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This is not surprising. As a psychologist, you are probably interested in how to predict human behavior from observed physical states, established habits, previously-known information, and input data, or vice versa. Computer science has the same objective, but for computers. The ultimate goal of computer science is the same as that of psychology: to understand human cognition well enough to create a complete computer model of how we think and behave. Study what pleases you. A true academic does not let the system determine the course of their explorations. If you put together a good portfolio of software, you will find programming or QA work somewhere.

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Hi /adv/, I have this online friend that I know since 7 years now, I met him back when I had little to no real life friends and I obviously grew really attached to him, we talked and played games together everyday for hours, even entire days.
Now here's the problem, when I play games with him and get to face bullshit or tryhards constantly, I tend to lose my chill and start raging. (yeah I realize that's toxic.)
I raged once again 2 days ago and when he was fed up with my shit he decided to ignore me, as if I don't exist.
He obviously reads what I say, when I whisper him in game the message goes through rather than saying "X is ignoring you", not to mention he hasn't kicked me out our 2 men clan.
It has been 2 days since he said something to me, despite I've been talking and trying to initialize a conversation.
I pretty much feel empty now, playing games and talking to him has become part of my life now.
What do I do?
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Cut the gay shit. Admit you got out of hand and that you're cool now, and that you're trying to get down on some games whenever.
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>>18087564
Apologize and tell him you realize you're being toxic/raging hard/whatever, and that you're working on it. (Then try to do that, getting upset at vidya so often probably isn't healthy) Just be honest.
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Tell him you are sorry you got angry and then say you want to take a break from the competitive games and play some fun co-op adventure to unwind.

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Really, is it looks or assertiveness that matters the most?

If you're not up to par in the looks department, most people you meet are going to have a negative attitude towards you.

However, if you're good looking, girls are going to talk about how handsome you are, and in general, everything is going to be easier.

It's less chance that you get shot down if you're attractive.

Can you get away with being an introvert and just being good looking and not have to do any of the asking out and all that "manly" stuff?

Or is it the guy who asks everyone who has the most sex?

Im just trying to figure stuff out. Maybe you have to be both.
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>>18087471
both but if you want to get all calculated about it women taste has a lot to do with it. There is no bare bones number.

Strive to be the best you can a both.
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>>18087481
Why do always suck so much at everything. Gah?
Getting girls is a particularly annoying thing to have problems with.

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