Are there any good colleges in the Boston area that are actually cheap?
>>18082448
Thanks for confirming my suspicions.
>>18082447
UMass Boston is a good college that is cheap at 16k a year. I ended up paying 1k a year after scholarships but no financial aid (parents didnt pay taxes :/). My friends actually got money back and used it to pay for a place they all share.
Others are like Wentworth, if you are doing STEM.
Im an autismo in a lot of social situations, especially with new people mainly.
Im not the best at making conversatation and just seem like some awkward autist. If im with a friend and theres someone new im just moslty silent for the time while thet chat away, while with just new people im awkward and silent.
How do i make decent enough conversation or whatever it is so i dont seem socially retarded? Im sometimes like this with people i already know as well.
I have this problem too
I realized I dont really have much to say in those circumstances. I mean I will say hello and maybe ask their names but I do not see an immediate reward in getting to know anyone, for me at least. I'm totally fine with that.
>>18082282
Basically you need to become more alpha and grow some balls. What I recommend is, if you don't live in a small town, would be that you go out every other day and just randomly start a conversation with people you find yourself nearby. It doesn't matter how it goes, all that matters is that you start talking to them and try to keep the conversation going for as long as you can.
The thing is you are probably too pussy to do this, but if you really want to change and fix your problem you will have to do this.
>btw what's so scary about talking to other people, especially if you don't care about the outcome
If you this regularly, you will become more social than you can imagine.
>>18083392
This is what I did. I practiced with strangers or new people around me. It was fun for me to see how far I could get and there was no backlash to fucking up (unless you insult them and end up in the hospital).
Just talk about literally anything with people and see how far you can drive it. You get better at conversations the more you have.
How do I get the chance to suck my friend off? I'm a guy, just broke up with gf. It really shook me and now I'm so sexually pent up, I kinda want to try a guy for some forbidden fun. We're going camping in the summer to do shrooms, should I come onto him? Has anyone had a "gay moment" with a friend and kinda wanted more or got more? I've kissed him as a joke when out drinking. How do I get his cock in my hands? I really... really want to stroke his cock. We say we love each other like family but I kinda wanna get into him even more personally. We've tripped together and been really close, like cuddling. I want to make out with him then lather his cock with my tongue. How do I go about this? Please, I'm so horny and need to empty my load on his toned stomach. Ugh.
For the love of God not while on shrooms. If you freak him out while ur tripping it will ruin your relationship on the subconscious level. If your gonna do it just go for it sometime when ur both drunk or something. But fuck man. You can't even get a boner while tripping so all it will do is make him hate you forever.
>>18082214
if hes into you it wont be hard you just got to get him any kind of not-sober and then just work your way to that.
while manipulation IS necessary in tihs kind of relationship, try to avoid emotional manipulation. i had a friend cuddle me hardcore last week cuz i was sad, but to try and make a sexual move after that would have been a bad idea.
but really just get not sober, than talk about life, and sex and girls, and then dicks and then boast about how you're pretty sure your dick is bigger, than have a whip em out contest to see, obviously oyu guys need to get hard to REALLY measure.
protip: if you cant convince him to whip it out for a measuring contest hes likely not going to want sex. so its a very simple innocent way to find ou twithout ruining the friendship.
Does professional help actually help? I'm 25, my dick hasn't been working the best lately due to my diet/no exercise. I'm very stressed with college and my depression is at the top of the worst it has been in a long time. I'm thinking about going to a councilor at school or looking to get a therapist so I was wondering if professional help has helped anyone here before.
>>18082203
Yes.
>>18082224
Thank you!
I dont know what happened to me, I was on the right track, I was going to the gym 6 days a week I lost 40 pounds over time and was feeling good, people started to compliment me and notice but then suddenly I just started going less and less until it became never again. I lost my energy to workout like I would go and usually do an hour and a half with a friend then it turned into 30 minutes and I was dead. Idk what happened but I want to get in shape and be happy and all this other stuff but I cant seem to get the energy to do it.
You have to find the motivation. Is it for health? To get hot people to notice you and bed them? To impress people? The real reason you should do it is for your health. You really don't want anything serious down the road. You may need to find out why you self sabotaged yourself. Maybe talk to a therapist. Is there something that doesn't want you to have an awesome bod that you worked hard for? Also try different workouts. Maybe yoga, tennis, running, volleyball, hiking, swimming until you find the right ones for you. The one(s) that make you look forward to working out. Start at just doing it for 10 min then 15 then 20 then 30 then 45 then an hour. An hour a day for 3-5 days should be ok. Also try to eat healthy, that helps with health, motivation, weight, energy and stamina. Good luck anon.
>>18082017
>I would go and usually do an hour and a half with a friend
>do an hour and a half with a friend
>a half with a friend
>with a friend
>tenso
The only way to keep going is if you're going with friends. Every day you're not feeling it, the reason to go is because you're friends are waiting for you and you can't bail on them. Create a social group at the gym, preferentially with the ladies, so there is a primary social requirement to go. It's the only way.
>>18082067
I was looking into boxing and trying that out but I bought a punching bag stand and I think its defective some parts wont screw into each other so I gotta work something out
>>18082089
I can't go with friends because the 3 people I know that go there have partners already and 3's gonna take way too long there. Also I don't have that good of social skils to just find a random person to workout with that I haven't known for a while.
I just moved in with one of my friends into a two bedroom apartment this month. Already, his scumbag, leeching pot smoking friend that I hate has been over 75% of the time in the past 3 weeks. He's done nothing to contribute to living here and has eaten our food, being basically a leech. Before this lease, I had my own apartment but couldn't afford it much anymore, so everything including the TV is mine in this apartment.
Before it even began I told my roommate I'd eventually probably move my TV to my room, and now I feel it would be the best way to keep the leech out of the apartment because it would give him nothing to be entertained with, so he'll leave. But I like my room mate and I don't really care about him using MY Xbox, TV, etc. BUT, my hatred for his friend exceeds my care whether or not my room mate uses my tv and stuff.
Any Ideas on how to approach it? I would really like having my TV in my room again and I would love to tell him to get his own. I don't really stay in the living room when I'm not home and away from work, anyways.
Have you thought about, oh, I don't know, talking your your roommate about this?
Why not just bring up this issue with your friend? If he's truly as good of a friend as you seem to make him out to be, he'll understand and not bring the leech over anymore. If he's not a good friend he'll play your feelings off and keep having the leech come over. Then you have actual friend issues but at least you'd know then! Just talking it out is ten times better than passive aggressive shit with the TV and stuff and hoping it works.
I'm feeling so alone and inadequate. What should I do? I am I such a dark place. I need a shoulder.
>>18081829
if you have any irl friends go to them and ask them to hold you. its gay af but it feels nice, arguably nicer than a girl in these times because they are stronger.
i know it sounds gay and our culture says just sounding gay is bad but honestly my dad had a stroke last week and is paralyzed and i was just freaking out over it and asked a friend to hold me, and i felt amazing, ive been amazing ever since.
>>18081829
I also feel terribly inadequate. I'm slipping in my classes and am a terrible programmer. It especially sucks because engineering is such a competitive, try-hard major that it's full of people who I have to watch easily finish assignments again and again.
When was the last time you cried? Like really fucking cried hard. Making yourself cry is actually a good way to relieve feelings of self-hate and pent-up pain.
I'll be here for you though if you wanna talk.
So basically my parents just told me as a graduation gift for college they'd pay for me to go to Japan, now I'm not going for probably AT LEAST 4-6 months or so because I need to do research and plan the trip. Now first off can ANYONE tell me a good company to use for like host families or international studies? My mother wants me to take at least ONE class while in Japan, and I know there are some companies that handle American students going over to Japan and what not.
My father would like me to stay with a host family, and frankly I can't speak hardly a lick of Japanese but I do know bits and pieces of the country in terms of like culture and history. I was just wondering if anyone has any experience with this, and if they'd be willing to help me out. I really would like a reputable company with some fair prices and what not. As for the purpose of my trip, I'd say it's mostly for leisure but it's kind of a learning experience as well. I don't know if there is a way I could take like ONE CLASS on Japanese business/culture or something at a university. I'm really excited but also nervous because of all the planning I have to do, so I figured I'd ask on here and see if someone could help me out. Like just if anyone has been to Japan before on a leisure trip, or like went over there to study and stayed for anywhere between 2-6 months or so, or if anyone has any experience staying with a host family and could tell me about it, and how it works.
Thanks.
>>18081821
/trv/
Faggot ophee
>>18081827
Alright posted a thread on that board, also this is an advice thread and technically this counts as asking for advice. Asking for advice can be about anything really, so fuck off. I'm posting to multiple boards in hopes of getting more answers, nothing wrong with that.
What should I do tonight?
>watch anime
>write
>play through Pokemon Black
tyvm
Hentai, hardcore.
Watch an actual film or read an actual book instead of filling your head with weebshit 24/7
>>18081784
I only fap to softcore /e/ stuff or specifically related to my fetishes /d/ stuff
>>18081785
What kinograph should I watch then?
As a child I was abused, a lot. I've been in therapy for years, and I'm past the point of being ashamed of my past and past the point of wanting to kill myself, and am out of my bad situation. I'm looking at myself now though, and wonder if it's possible to have normal relationships with people, or if the best I can hope for is to put distance between myself and my past. Is it even possible to be normal, if I've never been it? Is it possible for me to be 'normal', or is it only possible for me to be 'normal for me'?
How can I know when I'm 'eady to have friends? Do I just need more therapy, and some day it'll suddenly become obvious. How about romantic relationships? As someone who has the past that I do, should I try for something like that?
Just stop worrying about it. I stuck my dick in a fleshlight that was connected to a blender when I was younger and you don't see me whining about it. Living alone isn't so bad.
>>18081777
If the best I can hope for is to stay how I am now, forever, then it's time to check out. The only value life has had for me in a long time is that it's possible for it to get better.
When you can cope, then you are fine. If you don't have to repress it to function, and it is not on your mind constantly, then you are fine.
Being fine and being unaffected are not the same. You will never be unaffected. Do not let the knowledge of that fact control your actions and choices.
>new gf
>26
>intimidatingly attractive
>down to the dirty
>"I'm a virgin"
>what.jpg
>asks me to fuck her
>blood everywhere
>not the normal blood, literally pouring out
>she has a phobia of boood
>rush her to emergency
>doctor inspects
>"your boyfriend tore your vagina"
>starts joking about how she's lucky she "got a man with such an impressive size" and to "not let me go"
>"no sex for a month tho"
>gf embarrassed af
>I feel terrible
>she stays the night in silence and just left
On a scale of 1-10 how likely is she to dump me now a quarter century of suspense has been turned into me tearing her open and exposing her to one of her major phobias? It sucks bc this is the first woman I've liked in a loooooong time.
>>18081767
>making a joke about your dick when your gf cooter is literally tore in half
she ought to dump you for being a dick
How big are you? She might've just been too dry and you guys didnt notice.
Also, she'll probably stay with you but will be terrified of sex for awhile.
>>18081772
I think he means the doctor did.
>>18081767
This never happened, you have 0 knowledge of the female anatomy and a doctor would never say that
pavlovs dog and conditioning. last night I had a genius idea of how to condition my gf in a similar fashion to want to give me blow jobs. but, for the life of me, I can't remember my life changing idea. any help anons? yes I know this could be considered a little fucked up. but, oh well, right? we're in 4chan
Stop hitting her when she starts blowing you? She'll start blowing you even before you start hitting her eventually.
Make her feel good after/during, just like you would want your partner to feel during any sexual activity.
Idiot.
>be 25 and spending another saturday night alone infront of my pc like all the saturday nights before
i sometimes question my life choices. My life is okay but damn im lacking social interaction besides university.
What to do?
>>18081653
Crash random parties
Same problem more or less.
How do I go out socializing by myself?
How do I get a job if I have no one to network with?
Socializing seems to be the most important skill of life and I have no grasp of it. I stay at home all day playing g Games and work rather then meet people because of fear/rejection/embarrassment. I don't want to go to a bar just to stand there awkwardly for hours not talking to anyone.
Tinder uh doi
I work with this girl in my biochemistry lab. The entire lab time, she sits to my left and asks me the same fucking question. "What are we doing?. I have no idea what is going on". Thing is, the instructions are right there on the lab manual and it is an easy lab.
What drives me nuts is that i am in the middle of something, and she keeps asking me "What are we doing", and I fucking mess up my measurements. I have anxiety and it confuses / distracts me because she is constantly asking me questions. I tried telling her politely but she keeps pestering me, to a point where I now finish all my labs at the end, far after other people. It makes me look dumb infront of the professor.
Here is where it gets worse. After I tell her exactly what I am doing, she asks me "Are you sure???" "Are you sure this is right". And it annoys the fuck out of me because it is exactly what my father used to do when growing up, he tore into my self esteem.
What the fuck do I do? if I tell my professor he would lose respect for me or think i am an elitist asshole and start taking off points elsewhere.
This woman does not even recognize me in actual lecture like I have aids, but during lab she sits there not doing anything and constantly making me validate myself infront of her.
But it's possible I am thinking too deeply. Maybe women act this way and rely on men during lab times? I have anxiety and I also recently came out of a long period of isolation. Give me some solid advice on how to deal with this place.
If she's really annoying, maybe you should tell her again.
If she still doesn't understand your point of view and if she keeps asking you these questions you should ask her if she's really made for this class and tell her to be honest with herself.
If it still goes on after that, you should totally explain the matter to the professor. But don't overthink this too much, mate, she probably don't mean anything bad and she may need help from the professor
>>18081440
Stop being polite.
Tell her to read the instructions and stop bothering you.
You might also want to think about moving where you sit.
>>18081440
Tell her that she's being annoying and to shut up.
okay guys so i've been experiencing something very fucking weird and can't control it, I'm usually socially ok but recently (like the past 3 years) I've had a weird thing happen to me which is sometimes i become a fucking social animal words come to my mind so fast it feels so good and even tend to bully people some times,and then another day I lose everything without even realizing that i did until it happens so even i get surprised when it happens, like one day someone asked my name and i couldn't answer, my eyes were almost watering and my face went red, my heart beating so fast it's almost like the guy was publicly bullying me and i couldn't answer. (this was one of the extreme cases so it's not always like that) and then i go to sleep and maybe i return to normal or same shit happens.
what really made me crazy is how good that feeling was, when words come to your mind instantly and you feel so confident. how do i relive that again?
you probably lack magnesium or vitamins.
I'm a 11/10 speaker with my magnesium but a 8/10 without
>>18081391
wait for your next manic phase.
>>18081536
That was my view too, op
See a dr
But maybe it's something else idk