Really, is it looks or assertiveness that matters the most?
If you're not up to par in the looks department, most people you meet are going to have a negative attitude towards you.
However, if you're good looking, girls are going to talk about how handsome you are, and in general, everything is going to be easier.
It's less chance that you get shot down if you're attractive.
Can you get away with being an introvert and just being good looking and not have to do any of the asking out and all that "manly" stuff?
Or is it the guy who asks everyone who has the most sex?
Im just trying to figure stuff out. Maybe you have to be both.
>>18087471
both but if you want to get all calculated about it women taste has a lot to do with it. There is no bare bones number.
Strive to be the best you can a both.
>>18087481
Why do always suck so much at everything. Gah?
Getting girls is a particularly annoying thing to have problems with.