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I just finished a good old masturbation,i have a folder with my favorite pics and stuff.But i clicked on a old folder with nice pics of my ex girlfriend,i started masturbating furiously. After that I started to cry a lot. We didn't break up
dispute or something like that,her mother had some inconvenient about me,i am a good guy with a big heart and I loved her more than i love myself. Long story short,after almost 2 years passed and looks like i still suffer,i want this pain to end.
After the fap i mentioned earlier and the cry,i had a strong feeling about suicide,non ironic and not as a joke.It was the first time an urge that bad of suicide took over me.
How do I recover? I tried a lot of metods.I feel incomplete
Sorry for the lack of context and bad typing or anything else about this post,I write this in a hurry.
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>>18081310
find a new gf lol
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Lmao
I wonder if my ex lover does this to my old photos
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>I just finished a good old masturbation,i have a folder with my favorite pics and stuff.But i clicked on a old folder with nice pics of my ex girlfriend,i started masturbating furiously. After that I started to cry a lot
Hahagahahahaha
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Hey /adv/
I'm a pre-med student in a okay-ish college for undergrad now.
I just took the MCAT in January and got my scores back. Turns out, I performed like absolute shit and got a score of 508. I'll take it again in May but not sure if it will go up too much (I'm hoping at least breaking the 510 point).
What are my chances of getting into a mid/low ranked med school (ex. UCI), or a good one (ex. UCSD, UCLA) with a score of 511~513 and GPA of 3.87, Science 3.93?
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>>18081233
You can try to apply to different schools that you are almost making the cut off. I'm from a place that uses a britbong system, where undergrad medicine exists. However, I have heard that if you are really someone that has excellent qualities instead of just a robotic textbook grinder, they may even write off your 1-2 marks off and take you in. You'll never know man. We have this thing here. It's called discretionary application.
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>>18081233
Stay in school for another year and take the mcat again. Also keep in mind your EC's play a big part in your acceptance, work on those too.
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I just had a temp crown put on a few days ago and I still have pressure sensitivity, I feel a sharp pain when I bite down. Is this normal or will I need a root canal?
google had mixed answers
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>>18081225
talk to the fucking dentist
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>>18081242
they're fucking closed
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How can I be happy? I swear I've tried. I've tried so damn hard but nothing just works.
I started working out over a year ago hoping that it would make me feel better and cure my depression.
I started forcing myself to go out and do stuff even to I didn't really want to, hoping that it would eventually make me feel better.
I also started eating healthy, fixed my sleep schedule, made new friends whom I hang out almost daily etc.
It works for a moment but still, every evening when I get home and spend any time by myself, it all crashes down. I feel like shit again, I'm just distracting myself and running away from my own thoughts.
How can I truly be happy? I've been on and off depressed for over two years now and honestly don't think it'll ever be cured.
I'm just so fucking tired of feeling sad all the time.
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Have you tried meditation?
We often want to run away from our thoughts because our brain is hard wired to constantly think about past regrets or worries over the future, that we forget to just sit there and take in the present moment. Meditation may help you with that.
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>>18081070
Persistence.
You've already made efforts towards happiness, which is commendable. Many like you haven't had the strength to do even that. But just keep on doing what you're doing. Depression will make everything seem forced, but try to differentiate between things your sadness is sucking the life out of, and things even a happier version of yourself wouldn't enjoy. Change your habits accordingly, and happiness will come easier.
Addressing the issue and starting to work to solve it is the first and hardest step, and you've already accomplished that, keep going
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>>18081070
When do you think did this current episode of you feeling bad start? How did it start? Was it a slow developement or did it "switch" within a day/week? Did something happen beforehand in your life / did something change?
When was the last time you felt healthy?
Have you felt the way you do know before? When? For how long? Was it like this time, better or worse?
Are you sad? Or do you feel empty/ unable to feel anything at all?
Can you rejoice over anything? Do you have fan when doing hobbies?
Did stuff you did before become harder? Do you feel exhausted?
Do you feel guilt? Do you spend a lot of time brooding without reaching conclusions, are these thoughts repeating?
Are you tired of life? Do you have suicidal thoughts?
Do you have sleep problems? What kind: Falling asleep? Sleeping through? Is it hard to get up? Do you wake up way too early, can you fall aspleep again? Is your general situation more bearable as the houres pass (evening, night)?
How is your appetite? Did you lose weight?
What's your sex drive like, is it reduced?
Do you have other body symptoms?
Do you feel inner restlessness / unsettledness ?
Are you afraid of certain situations or objects?
Are there things you have to do with so much diligence that it gets a burden for you? Are there thoughts obtruding your mind which you percieve as senseless?
Do you sometimes have the feeling there's something wrong or strange with the world or your body? Do you feel like others want to harm you, like they watch you or like your thoughts are being controlled or read?
Was/is someone in your family affected by mental problems? Were there suicides in your family?
Answer above shit, I will give you a corresponding diagnosis and tell you about treatment. Exercise is helpful with mild to moderate depression, but I would suggest further therapy. There is no need to "serve" an episode of depression. It's a "real sickness" like cancer that has a "real" foundation in the body. And there IS treatement!
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I was gonna hang with the boys tonight since its the first time we all had a free schedule in moths but I just got a fever of 100.5 this morning. I have to leave in 3 hours. What can I do to feel better before I have to leave? We were gonna go to the beach and chill in a hotel overnight.
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>>18081021
dunno man, if we could magically make fevers go away it'd be common knowledge.
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>>18081021
Take tylenol and take a hot shower
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Started college career in Fall 2012 so if I graduate this Fall it'll be 5 years. Had to take a break to work to afford University after Community College.
I've done 2 summer internships in that time one with small business in IT and the 2nd in Software as a developer.
Should I focus on Graduating this year or fit another internship in the Summer and graduate next spring?
Would a company care if I took 5 yrs. and a semester to graduate?
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>>18081005
go for the graduation
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if (hasPastInternshitps){
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>gf lives 3 hours away
>thinking about breaking up to save money because she insists on us seeing each other every weekend, and she's obese (although I've gotten her to go to the gym to lose weight, I go with her when I can)
>she gets into a car accident (rear-ends someone) and panics so I decide to be a good boyfriend and support her, I don't tell her about wanting to break up
>less than a week later, she rear-ends someone else again (just now)
>calls me from the ambulance sobbing, pleads with me to leave to come see her right now
>couldn't figure out her exact condition through her tears and pleading for me to see her, she only got off the phone with me to talk to her mom
I guess I pretty much have to go take care of her still, huh?
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>>18080922
you don't have to if you don't want a girlfirend anymore.
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>>18080922
Do you even like her? Just break up with her.
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Just make it your last trip up there. Explain that you came because you were worried/care but that it's also time to talk.
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If you only like them because they like you is that a good enough reason to nope the fuck out of a potential relationship?
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>>18080913
yes. if thats literally the only reason the nyou dont actually like them you just like that you wont be single.
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>>18080918
Don't most girls do this shit anyway?
@OP There's still the real potential that you'll end up liking them.
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>>18080928
no, if girls just dated any guy who liked them they'd all be with uggos.
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Hey /adv/. I need advice on what to do with this. And it would also be great if someone can tell me what this is, or what's wrong with me.
I'm a very straightforward person, usually, while my boyfriend is not. Sometimes he says confusing things, like "I don't mind if you do this," but then he starts saying other things after like, "We could be spending time together" or "I'm just gonna play games alone" so passive-aggressively.
This confuses my head A LOT, and it frustrates me to the point where I have a hard time breathing, I start to cry untrollably, my hands get shaky, and I end up banging my fist on my desk hard enough to bruise them.
What the fuck is wrong with me and how do I control this? I'm scaring my boyfriend away and I feel bad.
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Well, first of all, your boyfriend shouldn't resort to passive aggressive behavior to get you to spend time with him. That shit ain't cool.
Secondly, there definitely isn't anything wrong with saying what you mean.
You sound frustrated, which is justified, but your reaction may be unusually intense? Maybe talk to him about how his actions make you feel? I'm just spitballin' here, anon.
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>>18080854
well first, tell ur bf to stop being a little bitch, stop being passive aggressive, and to tell you what his real feelings are.
if you can't tell him because you would feel bad for doing that, then you need to stop being a little bitch too.
if he's not able to do this, you can at least make yourself become attuned to his passive-aggresive remarks since it seems pretty easy to tell what his real feelings are.
i.e. "I'm just gonna play games alone" - he's resentful that you aren't spending time with him
I don't see how this situation would be confusing, he seems like a fickle person so probably best to accept that he might change his mind on a dime
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Had sex with my friend's bitchy wife 2017-02-25 07:41:07 Post No.18080853
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Had sex with my friend's bitchy wife
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I'm pretty much still baffled days after so I hope this is coherent enough.
I've known my friend since we were kids and I moved here with my family. He went through a pretty rough relationship before settling on his current wife. Someone I never liked from day 1 and I'm sure one of the biggest reasons we stopped being best friends a few years ago (I would always turn down invitations to go over his house because of her).
You know how a person just rubs you the wrong way sometimes. Well take that and multiple it by a thousand and you'll get how I feel about her. I find her ugly, boring, unintelligent and even short conversations drain and exhaust me. She never outright mentioned it but I felt the same from her. I always thought she hated my guts and wanted me out of the picture.
Well, a few days ago, in an unforeseen set of circumstances that involved us having to spend a few hours together, we had sex. And it was the best sex of my life. I mean, it destroyed my concept of good sex. And judging by her reaction I would say she more than enjoyed it as well.
Now comes the obvious question. Do I tell my friend or not? It would probably destroy their marriage (they have a 4yo daughter) and anything left of our friendship but at this point I just want to do what is right for him. And no I don't want to maintain any relationship with this woman whatsoever, what I did was a big mistake.
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Yes.
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Wtf, how exactly did it happen?
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>>18080853
Well now you know why he liked her lol
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>Be in a friends with benefits situation but more intimate than usual for 7 months
>Girl is 9 years older, says the whole time that this makes her uncomfortable
>It becomes long distance for reasons beyond our control
>She begs me to fly out to see her and I went, even though I couldn't really afford it
>She spends christmas with me and my family (this was also massive blow to her bank balance), the day before she leaves I tell her that I think we should try living together when we both live in the same city again
>She breaks down crying because "Everything is against us working out", because of the age difference and the distance
>A month later I tell her that I should be able to move back and that I still felt the same way, she tells me that she'll never want anything serious with me because of the age
>Finally I move back some 6 months later, not because of her
>We start hanging out 3 months after that, flirting like crazy and doing coupley things
>She starts coming to my house for meals/ films once a week, we were occasionally touching each other and flirting like crazy as usual
>I try to subtley make a move, she says "No way" and starts saying that she never had feelings for me and that she didn't enjoy sex with me
>We bump into each other a few times, then last night she texted me at 3am asking why I was being weird towards her and I told her it was because she hurt me
>We end up chatting for 2 hours, she tells me that she feels so relaxed around me and that I'm always making her laugh, and that she didnt mean the things she said the last time she was at my house
>Says she wants to meet in the week to talk
How do I proceed? If she doesn't want a relationship I'm fine with that, how should I go about going back to being friends with benefits/ intimate again? After all, I'm pretty busy and would be happy with just the sex if it was on offer.
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You're an idiot and deserve the bullshit you're sprinting towards. Enjoy your drama because you're thinking with your dick.
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>>18080838
You don't. FWB always last only for a very limited amount of time, and once that's over, its over.
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Sounds like she needs you both as an emotional blanket and drama generator in her life. I would keep her as a FWB at most. Don't even consider dating her, she's nuts.
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What do men and women argue about? 2017-02-25 06:17:50 Post No.18080675
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What do men and women argue about?
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I have never been in a relationship but people tell me men and women argue about a lot of shit.
What are some examples? If I had a girlfriend, I can't imagine I would argue with her. If there was a argument, I would not be the one starting it at least. I am very easy going and flexible.
What the heck do people in relationships argue about?
I feel like women would start most arguments. It seems likevfudrs just want to chill but a lot of women get bored and start picking shit apart?
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>>18080675
What the heck do people in relationships argue about?
go take a look at the /adv/ catalog
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Male here. When I start the argument it is
>hey you did this thing and it bothered me
>excuses
>blames me
>tells me i have no right to be upset
>turns it around on me
>brings up shit I've done
>gets defensive
>i get more frustrated because she wont acknowledge anything I say
>que feedback loop that ends with us both being furious and not talking
Her
>you need to clean up after yourself more
>you need to stop having feelings because i can't handle that (not her words, but the gist of it) every time I tried to tell her I was upset she accused me of manipulation and psychopathy
Needless to say we arent together anymore.
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>>18080675
Bf and I never really argue about the small stuff. And our arguments aren't really like getting mad at each other and yelling. Our arguments basically are like:
>i felt weird in that situation, what do you think about it
>bf then proceeds to tell me I am either over thinking, or he agrees but doesn't know how to address it
>if i dont think im overthinking I give my evidence that supports why I feel the way I do
>bf and I reach solution
We typically have disagreements over friend stuff, family stuff, money etc. Even then, we may argue like 2 times a year. We've been together for going on 7 years. In the first two years, a lot of arguments were about insecurities. Not just on my part, on both parts. I'd get suspect about the way some of his female acquaintances treated me, later found out I was right and they really don't like me. Bf expressed insecurity over my exs, and tried to start a self-defeating argument that I thought my ex was more attractive than him.
Now that the insecurities of the relationship have died down, there are way less arguments. And as I said, they are less about trivial things and insecurities, more about money, family, and siding with our friends on certain subjects (which may be seen more as gossiping desu)
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>mfw my father thinks I have Asperger's
I've been seeing psychiatrists for 8 years (I have OCD) and they never suggested that.
After my dad told me that I asked my current psychiatrist and she said she kinda wondered that given I don't really talk about friends etc., but being assburger is much more than that and it's probably just some features of my personality.
What do? How to figure out if I'm an autistic retard or neurotypical scum?
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>>18080648
I was diagnosed with """OCD""" after reading the symptoms online when I was 14, then paranoid schizophrenia at 16.
Now, for some reason (maybe me coping with the symptoms of schizophrenia rather well), I got diagnosed with assburgers instead, and I'm 21 now.
But wheew, reality is like dreaming. Just below my skin, I'm screaming.
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>>18081257
fugging assburger :DDD
I'm pretty certain I have OCD, however I don't think I've got the burgers
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>>18080648
My parents thought that about me too! But then I went to a psychiatrist, he said, I don't have it and now my parents believe it!
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Need a rewarding existence
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Yesterday I had existential crisis number six or so, and decided I want to do more shit that is fun. I want to see if EMT is closer to rewarding, or disgusting/horrifying, because there could be some bros there etc. There's a school up the road that costs like 36k a year, which is a fucking bitch, but they teach honestly high level vocal performance, and they are known for psychology (I'm interested in being a social worker/counselor).
I was spending the past few months thinking, goddamn I am poor. I haven't even done a few months of career training...just been wandering around looking for a reasonable place for a young person to live for years. We po' as shit now, goddamn.
So I started getting my shit together really quick-like, but all that didn't prevent me from becoming numb and lonely, even when tons of people were around.
I think I need to lighten up and make sure that my existence is rewarding and fun as well as practical. I mean, my grandfather is still very alive, but beginning to take his leave...There's no time to waste being overly practical. We're all going to die in an amount of time that passes mostly without notice.
Don't you agree? Being so numbers-oriented, serious...about business. It can be stupid. Feedback/advice appreciated.
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Get a job. Any job you can get. Ask friends/relatives for help if you can't get one.
Save up as much as you can then figure out your next step.
You're looking for magic bullets right now. Accept that you aren't going anywhere any time soon.
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>>18080571
no idea what you're talking about man
am gonna get a job though. I was thinking about EMT over mcdonalds or something, you know? there's medical/billing coding too, but I'm feeling that the most practical choices are driving me insane and not making me any friends.
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>>18080606
I mean like
>not going anywhere anytime soon
you know that people my age are supposed to invest in college to further their adult lives with a career, right? to me that is going somewhere.
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>be me 24 year old klv
>buff
>white
>tall
>employed
>social expert
>rated 7/10 by random women on the internet
>never had a gf
>walk into favourite breakfast place
>jam packed with young couples my age
>whyamInotwithagf.jpeg
>remember attempting dating sites with no success
>remember sms code doesn't work so cant do tinder
>remember joining meetups on meetup for them not to respond
>remember going to bars to be filled with only old men
>remember joining clubs for it to only have men and senior women
>remember I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere
>remember women I've met online are essentially "open slut" (no offense, just not what I want)
seriously, what the fuck do I do?
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projecting my situation on to yours here, but...are you fun? do you have fun? people are irrational, meaning they'll date (not always marry) a guy who is a fucking mess so long as he knows how to make them happy. That cruel advice, "If you're really ugly, just be funny." Maybe you're good looking and relatively successful, but not funny.
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>>18080546
have you tried talking to girls?
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>>18080558
Ive made women online laugh (certain it was with me, not at) so I assume I am. they say I am really easy to talk to and enjoy that, but these are women who are only dtf and don;t want a relationship
I feel meeting women is the main issue rather than I am not suitable for one. I just cant seem to find a women who is single let alone find women in the first place