So I've been so stressed out lately and I need help
>Be me
>Friend that you like wants to kill her self
>Only one who notices it
>talks her down multiple times
>She's depressed
>she had a hard life
>a family member of mine is cheating
>Be have no gf
>girl keeps on
What to do 4chan
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OP here, she's also anerexic
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>>18098762
Stop trying to get in her pants and just help her you fuck, you're not helping anyone by trying to get into something jesus you sound like your 15
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talk to her
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So I basically have little to no friends right now besides my girlfriend. On New Years I threw a party at my parents house (housitting) and caught my best friend of 15 years balls deep in his gf in my parents car in the garage. I cussed him out and kicked him from the party. We basically cut things off and now I never hang with people from my friend group. A couple days ago I made plans to hang with one of my friends from the group, and I've been pretty much stood up at the bar. Drinking alone trying not to feel like shit. Adv/ how do I make new friends? My girlfriend is great but we live together and get enough time in. I need some real buds to go and drink/do activities with
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>caught my best friend of 15 years balls deep in his gf in my parents car in the garage. I cussed him out and kicked him from the party.
why?
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sounds like a stupid reason to abandon a friend of 15 years desu
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>>18098776
He had come up to us beforehand and asked for a bedroom to pass out. We told him to be upfront if he's going to one his gf. Told him we weren't comfortable with him hooking up in my little sister or dad's bed. Told him to just keep it in his pants for one night or just go out to his car. When I confronted him later he wasn't sorry, just told me "I would have done it for one of my friends". To me, not dicking down my gf one time wouldn't be that bad. It's disrespectful to me, told him that, and he didn't care
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Honest opinion, how nasty is a woman with facial hair?
I'm genetically Armenian but live in the USA, and am crazy hairy. I wax my face it often, and shave it between waxings when it is thin. I've been considering more long term stuff like laser treatment, but it's expensive and I don't have a ton of money. How gross do guys really think facial hair is on a woman? Is it worth the money to laser it?
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>>18098721
Buy the no-no laser hair remover. I saw the advert looked ok. I'm a dude and I guess it can be sort of off-putting if it's bad but hair anywhere else is fine if trimmed.
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>>18098721
It's proper fugly.
Pay for the laser or tell people you're Turkish
Your choice
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If you look closely on any woman you'll find they have facial hair, and almost universally some peach fuzz on the lip.
So, as long as you're letting it grow out to actual stubble, it doesnt matter.
Because that shit is gross so just make sure to shave it like you would a unibrow.
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I want to move to Fargo ND (I'm 18). I don't know anybody there. What are the chances I make friends and a girlfriend? Where I live all the women are skanks.
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What are the chances that someone reads your post, lives in Fargo ND, has actually strived for friendships and romance, and comes to /adv/
Go and find out, fuckboy.
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>>18098684
what makes you think the women there will be better?
why not go to a real city where there will be jobs and enough women that you can find what you're looking for
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>wanting to move to a strange place where you don't know anyone because of a TV Show
this board is 18+ OP
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Hey anon, I want to start being more productive and live life in a more fulfilling way. What is some advice you guys could give me? What kind of stuff do you do? im a 20yr, living w spouse, no car, just recently got a 5-2 job. I'm also pretty low on ideas that can keep me busy
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Suck a dick 3 times a day and wash behind my ears.
t. lt. dan
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Volunteer
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Have fun with your spouse and save up for a house so your money goes into housing equity instead of you losing it.
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I used to cum and easily stay hard with no problems during sex, only going soft after the second nut. Starting about two weeks ago I couldn't get it up after the first one anymore. How do I regain this ability?
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its all part of the natural aging process, soon you wont be able to get it up at all
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Sounds like you are watching porn or fapping too often and now you're starting to face the consequences.
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>>18098608
The first time you can't do it the second time isn't as painful as the second time you can't do it the first time.
I don't know if this chick is into me, man... Or maybe I'm just fucking blind. Some of her behaviors include, but are not limited to:
>consistently sending messages around the time I wake up
>sends gifs or meme pictures
>shares what shes been fapping to
>confides deep, personal information of her life.
>shows me what shes cooked
The girl doesn't stop me from going over to her place and she certainly doesn't ignore my texts. The caveat here is that she already has a boyfriend, who I know and she claims to be happy with him.
I'm considering the possibility that she may be attracted to me, but I'm well aware that she may just be an attention whore. Would like some third party opinions here
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>>18098593
What if she does like you? Does that change anything?
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>>18098611
I really can't say right now. If I had the knowledge then I'd have a better idea of how to approach the situation.
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>>18098593
Greets you at about the time you wake up
Tries to make you laugh (albeit like a child)
Tries to arouse your sexual interest (reveals sexual interests)
Tries to make you care about her (opening up about her life)
Tries to impress you with her cooking skills
If you want to fuck her, then ask if maybe some time you could come over for dinner so you could taste what she's been cookin' (ay innuendo)
Is it legal for a judge presiding over a criminal case to revoke bond for contempt of court? One of my friends is facing felony charges, and during the initial hearing, the judge had a very arrogant attitude, and was speaking to him as if he were a young child. My friend spat onto the floor, and the judge immediately revoked his bond with no warning or due process of any sort.
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>>18098525
Yes. Don't fuck with judges.
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Depends where you live but it sounds about right.
You're a fucking retard for having a friend like that, probably even more retarded than your dumbfuck friend who spat on the floor like a retard.
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I AM THE LAW
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I got invited to Phi Beta Kappa, should I pay the 90 dollars and join? I feel like I would be too much of a robot to go to any networking events.
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What's Phi Beta Kappa? Some sort of water spirit?
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>>18098505
You definitely should. I'm a big sperg and I joined Beta Alpha Psi (accounting honors society) this semester and I don't regret it.
I was really worried that I'd go /r9k/ at all the networking events. And I did initially. Practice makes perfect and now I feel more of a normie...For fucking once I have friends, a professional network, and a bunch of job interviews lined up.
I wish I've done it sooner.
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>>18098738
Basically this.
If you want to feel like an normie. There are charity things you need to do. College festivity things you need to do like build a soapbox car or something. Mixers and Parties. Something to put on the resume at the very least.
My group at college was very close, and one kid went and joined our frat. We always made fun of him. "Oh, you're off to see your real friends, cool cya".
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Bored/Depressed when at home.
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I'm 20 years old, in my first year at community college, and currently aspire to become a nurse. My grades are great despite dropping out of highschool in my first year and getting my GED, I'm currently unemployed, but looking for a part time job, and I have lost over 100 pounds over the last few years. (300 to 190ish) So whats not going great, right?
Until enrolling in school last semester I pretty much exclusively played video games as my hobby/past time. Because of this 99% of my social circle was who I was involved with online through WoW. I even met a woman through a group of friends in a previous WoW guild and quickly developed feelings for her. We "dated" online/long distance for about a year and a half before breaking up in November. Between the mix of already losing interest in video games and then breaking up with the person I spent the majority of my online time with, I've lost almost completely all interest in them.
I've picked up skateboarding as a new hobby recently which has been the most enjoyable thing I've done in years, but when it gets dark or the weather is bad I am once again stuck in my room. I find myself eating way more than I should be (Trying not to regain what i lost), and going to sleep extremely early at night. Because of how early I end up going to bed, I also end up sleeping for absurd amounts of time to fill more time before I can head off to school and work on homework in the library or one of the tutoring rooms.
I don't miss video games or my ex throughout the day. I very much enjoy going to class, interacting/socializing with people from school, and doing more things outside, but I'm still feeling this extreme drowsy feeling when I'm at home. I try to spend as little time at home as possible because of how depressing it feels. I wake up and go to school 2-3 hours before I have classes just to be away from the computer.
What can I do to fill my time while I'm stuck at home to potentially relieve the feeling of depression?
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there is many things you can do. I also have depression. I read books also listen to Pandora. music helps a lot with my depression. if it gets so bad i Write it Down bout how I feel an it also helps. also look up on the internet an see if there is anything on there that can help you also.
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>>18098503
Anon, I know how you feel. You're not getting any enjoyment from anything anymore, and you're looking for something new to do. Try learning how to play an instrument, or get into a hobby, like martial arts or firearms or coding. There's lots of things you can do.
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>>18098503
Read. Real books.
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So i posted some acid blotters on facebook as a goof and someone asked me if i had it... idk why i thought it would be a good idea to be like "yeaaaaaa i have that.. send me 40 dollars and your address" so he sends me 40 dollars on facebook and i withdraw it. now he is threatening to go to the police or whatever saying he has screen shots and everything... would facebook or the police really give a fuck when he is on the completely opposite side of the country? especially when he was basically trying to buy drugs on facebook?
picture unrelated
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>>18098443
>So i posted some acid blotters on facebook as a goof
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>>18098443
Yeah he's a dumbass if he goes to the police considering his own screenshots would be throwing himself under the bus. But uh just delete your Facebook, I mean if you actually fear this guy.
Alternatively: tell him this is a sting operation and that the authorities will be contacting him. Bad idea, actually don't do that, but it's still an option.
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I'm not scared of the guy. i'm scared of the consequences lololol
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the eighth graders at my school (6th - 12th grade) won't stop making fun of, patronizing and yelling at this one nice autistic kid at my school. for instance, he yells "rock and roll!" or air guitars/pencil drums all the time because rock and metal are his favorite things in the world. these fuckin kids make fun of him behind his back and in front of him all the time, and if they're not doing that they're yelling at him to go away (he compliments/"hits on" specific eighth grade/ninth grade girls) or patronizing him on instagram (he posts videos or photos having to do with rock and roll or his own music and they throw out these fake ass "you're so good! you're the best! wow, anon!" comments when they yell at him at school. yes, i and many others in my year stick up for the kid, and so do some in the eighth grade, but we shouldn't have to-- i just want him to go to school without the constant confusion and hate.
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>>18098395
Kids are idiots and will do anything to fit in with each other. Anything outside the norm is talked about. Don't think there is anything that can be done really.
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>>18098395
Let the autismo suck your cock. That'll set him straight.
Nah but honestly, getting bullied is what's best for him. If he's smart, he'll adapt. Otherwise, he'll likely get beaten to death in his senior year by the A-team football starters.
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Is it silly to turn to something like Tinder for dates if you're young (just turned 20)?
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>>18098346
Nobody actually dates on there, it's for attention seekers looking for the the satisfaction of seeing the messages roll in while occasionally doing one or two for a quick fuck
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>>18098346
Yes, it's silly.
Unless it's your cup of tea, Tinder and similar dating sites nowadays are full of attention-seekers, picky yet desperate people looking to trap partner into commitment, people looking for easy hook-up, catfish.
There are people who look for long-term commitment and partner in there, but they're drowned in sea of people I mentioned above. Making it a better idea to just go be active in offline communities and pickup your date from there especially if you're still in your 20s
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I'm sorry,
You meant everything to me, but I fucked it all up. I didn't hurt you, I didn't hurt your friends, I just hurt myself. But you were involved in all of this in the process, which I can't apologize enough for. If it could've any one else in the world, I wish it would've been. You are perfection to me, I was so afraid to lose you, and in the process I ironically did so. You probably don't even care about me anymore. I'm just a passing glance, or a background character walking by. But I didn't forget you. I didn't forget the feeling I got when I'd look at you smile and wave at me. Like I actually had hope. It was the happiest I ever felt. God, I wish I could forget that feeling. I love the feeling itself, but knowing that my present reality is far from that is what keeps me from enjoying the feeling. I honestly a truly miss our short-lived friendship. I miss it because it was short, but felt like years. Like I was actually on top for once. For so long I've been trying to forget you, but I can't
You're happy now. That's all that should matter, right? Your happiness is all I should care about, fuck how I feel. I genuinely wish it worked like that. But alas, here I am wallowing in my own sorrow over a simple mistake. I wish I could redo it all. That phrase is recycled to hell, but I mean it. I want it all to happen again. I've been trying to recreate that feeling with other people, trying to talk to girls who might create that happiness our small talk made. To this day, I've never felt that feeling again. It's history. I'm history. I can't keep fucking up like this, I'm wearing away with every one. No one's there for me anymore, and I can't stop feeling sadness whenever I see you. I honestly wish I didn't care as much a you did. I wish we just knew each other's names and that's about it. I wish I never had the confidence to think you'd talk to me.
If you're this far, thank you for reading because I'm sure as hell she wouldn't
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I know that feeling. *hug*
Now stop being a fag.
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>>18098307
We're not your dairy, dicklips.
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>>18098307
Whats your story op?
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>be skelly with no social skills
>can barely even talk
>go to pic related with group of friends of brother
>girls mire and comment on ripped shirtless guys (people dress up a lot in fantasies)
>hottest in the group(which btw has almost 20k followers on insta) gets approached literally every minute even by ripped taller guys
>doesn't want anything
>2 minutes later I try to pick her up and succeed
>she never talked to me or made eye contact prior or after it
it's been like 5 days and I still can't figure it out
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>>18098291
Just go with it bro try and become her friend and don't rush shit maybe she likes you because you're different and is tired of getting hit on by all the jocks
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I don't understand anything you said either.
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>>18098291
She does not have good intentions for you anon, bail.