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Yeah it's fucking mind blowing to believe that someone might actually only want one loyal partner, absolutely bonkers m8

>>18115526
>Is she just not being honest because she worries that I'm testing her loyalty? Do girls really feel this way about their partners?

I'd dump my boyfriend if he proposed to open our relationship.
I love him and him only, I don't want him to fuck anyone else and would feel insulted if he'd be fine with sharing me sexually with other men.
Disgusting.

>>18115541
I feel like it's against human nature.

>>18115482
20cm is pornstar size, mate

>>18115492
Ye never had the issue before and then she dropped it, so im kinda scared now.. most chick would even say my cock is pretty long, but idk now.. lol

>>18115498

It's big. The person who said it was small was being a cunt. Get some fucking confidence for christ sake.

Move out

>>18115453
I had this exact same problem when I was younger. My 8th grade principal even pulled me aside one day and asked if I was smoking because I always smelled so heavily of smoke. I didn't have any idea because my parents had always chain smoked around me.

After that happened, I asked them not to smoke around me and would leave wherever they were when they started smoking. The only thing you can do is ask and get more forceful if they refuse

Maybe you could keep some clothes aside in your wardrobe that you put in protectors for when you go out and just immediately change into your smokey clothes when you get home.

>>18115413
Why?
She didn't cheat on you. She didn't even fuck this dude. Sexting like that is just a more interactive alternative to porn.

On a side note - my boyfriend told me he's so grateful that I like older men because he isn't going to get any younger and I basically just want to do him more as he ages.

>>18115419
The age difference bothers me

>>18115421
Why? Some girls just like older dudes, it's nothing so weird. Almost all men love youthful looking girls, when you'll be 50 probably you'll still fap to 18 year old girls.

>>18115398

I suggest you build up to this over time. Discuss the lack if sex in you lives and make it clear you are not happy with it. Who knows, he may suggest it himself.

>>18115398
Well, first of all I don't understand your terminology at all.

Secondly, your relationship needs major help. If he is really impotent he needs to be seeing a psychiatrist or an internist to get help for that. Part of a monogamous relationship is sex. If he isn't able to fulfill that and he won't get help then he should let you have sex with other people.


But your relationship honestly makes no sense.

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>>18115398
You should probably consider suicide at the fact that you have a stable 8 year relationship who loves you unconditionally and you want to jeopardize that in order to get your dick wet, but the thought of you dying would probably ruin your BF's life forever so I would suggest just smashing your head through a glass table and hope that your BF leaves your ass once he realizes how much of a mutilated disgusting fuck you are.
There are people here who would kill to be in the position you're in, yet here you are being a degenerate.

>guy makes you uncomfortable
>you tell him he makes you uncomfortable
>as a result he avoids you
You essentially told him he was bothering you, and he responded by making an effort to not bother you. Why are you confused by this? See a doctor.

I feel deja vu

>>18115369
Why do guys avoid me after I straight up told them they bother me? I don't get it, they should try their hardest to win over my vagina even if I turned them down!

nah, just use this off-time to think about what you guys have already talked about, and try to make some of the things he said to you that helped a little bit more helpful by picking them apart a bit.

>>18115338

Don't take it personally. The insurance could be lying to avoid giving you more sessions. Maybe they hope you won't push it.

I'd ask the therapist what happened once. If things don't work out from there then yeah, start looking for a new one.

>>18115338
I can't imagine ever going to a therapist. Telling all that to someone you don't know. Does it really help?

>>18115311

Cry. Cry your heart out. You have the right to feel bad, so let it all out.

Then, stop checking her twitter dumbass.

>>18115311
Get over it? It's your ex and you're letting them run your life. There's too many people and too little time to give a fuck about someone who hurt you.

>>18115324
how do i get over it? i dont know........
i thought i was over it, then i had to find that stupid twitter account and go trough it AAAAAARGH
In my mind she was too depressed to have a relationship, and i thought maybe she really liked me but didnt want to drag me down with her, that was the main explanation...
but then i see on twitter that she apparently had feelings for someone AAAAAAA
i cant stand this i wanna die

>>18115287
This planet is over populated.

Do as you wish.

>>18115287
What's wrong?

>>18115287
Don't do it. There are more positive things ahead.

>>18115284
It looks like snoo.

>>18115329
This is not the answer I needed but tge one I deserved

Fungal infection

"I wanted to join the armed forces, and now I want to go back to school"

>>18115263
Professor writing here.

Just tell them you've grown up. You just weren't ready for university at 18, but you are more mature and more focused now. You know what you want to study, and why, and are confident your old record doesn't indicate the new you.

Believe it or not, universities get dozens of people like you every year, and we generally welcome them with open arms, because we know that not all 18 year olds are ready for the experience and that's not their fault.

>>18115218
Here's what it comes down to, OP...

You're not gonna take on 3 people in a library, in a college with no repercussions. You're either going to get kicked out for it, get the shit kicked out of you, or both.

There is a point where you need to realize that sometimes, a confrontation isn't really worth it, and backing out of getting the shit beaten out of you or otherwise fucked over isn't exactly "beta". If people bother you, tell them to fuck off. If they don't and you actually can't do anything about it, just get up and go study somewhere else. Yes, it sucks to have to be the one to budge when others are being pricks, but sometimes, you do have to, and for your own sake.

>>18115218
You probably could have worded it nicer or maybe phrased things differently than "leave" considering they had to ask "why" after. I feel like you're not telling the whole truth and that you're kind of secretly a cunt.

Next time, instead of telling people to fucking leave the place, just say something like, "Hey, can you guys turn down the music? I can't focus."

>>18115218
Is this highschool?
Anyways you handled the situation well, it's just that those guys were major assholes. Most people are much more respectful. If I were in your situation I'd ask them once to be quiet and if they don't stop, I'd go find a different room. Also do not skip stuff because of bad social interactions.

>I've tried retraining myself to be introverted, but I haven't really had much success.

You can't just become an introvert. You are who you are. You can act differently but you will always be going against your nature.

Your outlook on humanity however is something that you can change. You say that you find people to be lousy and uninteresting. How are you any different? What have you done to help anyone? Do you just expect others to be better than you without any effort on your behalf?

Go volunteer your time to help people. You will not only be a better person yourself and contribute to humanity but you will meet some good selfless people.

Oh don't me wrong. I think I'm lousy and uninteresting too. I'm funny and ironically know how to carry on a good conversation, but it's all for show.

I'm a teacher for a living, which most people would considering helping people. Objectively, I do help quite a lot of people. I've brought several dozen people from the brink of poverty to successful high paying careers... but I feel so empty about it. It's like over half of these people are terrible, I helped terrible people economically, and that leaves a bad taste in mouth.

As an experiment I tried giving a homeless person $20 bucks once, treated them to dinner, and interviewed them about the life. The more I got to know about them the less sympathy I had and the more I regretted it.

In fact this is a pretty general pattern. I have a strong desire to help people, but afterwards regret it when I remember how shitty most people are.

You sound cool. I'm an inversion of you , a natural introvert who loves people so I force myself to go out. Sometimes I find people a little abstract but ultimately the thing that never fails to delight is how unpredictable people are. Other forms of media are so tiresomely predictable. People are genuinely random and it's charming.

Just shave your head instead of trying to save what little you have, you will look better

>>18115330
I have a badly shaped skull and I look very tired with bad skin. If I shave my head I'll look from a 28 y.o. guy to 40 y.o. cancer patient. And I don't have super little yet, You can see that I'm balding just a tiny bit yet when my hair is clean and dry.

>>18115356
Post a pic, my dude.

It take a lot to get a comic book shop established. And, even then, the profit margin is extremely low. Meanwhile, you've got a good thing going already that involved communicable skills.

It really depends on where you think you'd be happier.

>>18115204
>solid investment
Comics are dying man, the industry gets its profits from movies now. Keep the job you have unless you want to financially struggle all your life