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To start off, just really how appealing is a good singing voice? Does it offer any real benefits to you? How would you turn a singing talent into a potential career?
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Does anyone know any websites where I can stream movies I was using go movies .to but it doesn't work anymore please and thank you
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Xuka.tv?
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>>18447384
Yeah that didn't work thanks though
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http://www.watchfree.to/

peace be with you mein brother.

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Am I the only one who's here because they are really morbid and love drama
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I'm here because seeing how pathetic most of the people here are makes me feel great. It's the same principle as this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hv6m2cG7k80
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>>18447362
Nah. Plus, you can antagonize it all up in here.
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I like to check this board every morning because every once and a while, you get a really good thread that you really hope isn't bait.

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Do likable people find it easy to be likable?

As a generally unliked person, I know I'm accountable for my behavior. I use my insecurities and the like as an excuse to attention whore, be confrontational, and do all sorts of things that people generally find annoying but often keep to themselves about.

Here's the thing, if I know these are my flaws, why do I do them? Well, it's extremely challenging. I am a very undisciplined person, as if I have ADHD or some shit, I find trying to be well-mannered and behaved while also not being a tryhard extremely difficult. Generally, I find myself criticizing my actions after I've done them, or after it's too late. In addition to that, I tend to feel compelled to be the center of attention. I troll waaaaaaay too often in social circles, usually because I decide to put my focus on the shit that barely matters and will make me seem right instead of actually trying to understand what the other person is saying. Despite knowing that still, it's a challenge to humble myself and let my ego down.

Now, this might make me sound like I'm making excuses, but I genuinely have to ask:

Do likable and respectable people have a hard time with this? Does their discipline and their ability to charm others come naturally? Am I just unlucky and I've been rolled a really shit build where I have to put more effort into things that others can do easily, or am I and other people equally challenged with this, and I'm just a shitty person who gave up?
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It comes from experience and understanding of how society works. I'm good at making people laugh, but I'm bad at talking to girls. Some people are born with these abilities, others need to work for them.

Don't give up.
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Short answer: No, it has not been easy. It took a lot of mistakes and failures and reality checks. It might look easy but that's only because you're seeing the end product of years of solid effort someone has put into their life.
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>>18447322
>why do I do them? Well, it's extremely challenging. I am a very undisciplined person, as if I have ADHD or some shit, I find trying to be well-mannered and behaved while also not being a tryhard extremely difficult.
Telling yourself you are like this and that and that doing this is hard makes it much harder.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PJSxDv4XrY4

>I decide to put my focus on the shit that barely matters and will make me seem right instead of actually trying to understand what the other person is saying.
This sounds like actual autism no joke.

>Now, this might make me sound like I'm making excuses, but I genuinely have to ask:
>Do likable and respectable people have a hard time with this? Does their discipline and their ability to charm others come naturally? Am I just unlucky and I've been rolled a really shit build where I have to put more effort into things that others can do easily, or am I and other people equally challenged with this, and I'm just a shitty person who gave up?
What does it matter? You are trying to fix yourself. It shouldn't matter how easy or hard it comes to others unless you are making excuses.

First realize changing yourself will take time. Accept that you will be unlikable sometimes even after you set out to change yourself. Give yourself the permission to fail.

Then be more specific. Set out to change one thing now. Like you could decide to argue less with people.

Tomorrow I'm going to go look at an old car for sale. I'm trying to buy a cheap car to scoot around in and carry new furniture to my apartment with.

Anyway, there's one for sale at a good price but the owner never got the title for it from the last seller. I was wondering if anyone knows how difficult/expensive it is to get one drawn up for the thing. I live in Colorado if that helps

Thank you for any advice! Pic unrelated
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Given that they literally cost less than $10 to replace, this sounds sketch as fuck.

www.dmv.org/co-colorado/replacing-a-lost-title.php

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Hey guys I just smashed this girl and I never came so quick in my life. So I haven't came in a few days I try no fapping every now and then. I usually last for an hour until I make my self cum. I was fucking this girl then I pulled out and came. I am super upset. She is best friends with my best friends girl friend. How fucked am I?
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>>18447122
Did she seem disappointed? I have the opposite effect, well idk yet cuz only ug girls give me head and i trick them bitches so much that i cummed. Lool
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>how fucked am i
How old are you?

15yo? Then you're pretty fucked as word will spread rapidly and you will be made the laughing stock of your peers, if for no other reason than to make them feel better about themselves and hide the fact that it happens to them too.

32yo? Not at all. There will be some chat amongst those who already hate you, but by that age, everyone understands that that shit happens to all boners at one time or another.

Repeated performances may be an issue, though.
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>>18447122
Just say that pussy was the best you've ever felt so tight and wet

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>have to do 6 months of internship to graduate college
>boss goes into my/his Mac to send a file that he asked me to do
>he sees a whatsapp web conversation of me and my buddy about me looking for weed
>next week he asks me how much time do i have left to end the internship, Tell him 3 weeks
>he then fires me but tells me he was going to sign the internship papers in 3 weeks
>Tell him that i just cant stop going because of my mom asking me why i am there and not at work
>he tells me he was going to talk to his associate about it and tell me
>the day where he was supposed to tell me comes
>he doesnt Tell me, i ask him
>he answers the next day
>tells me she was arriving that day and he was going to see her later
>wait for his answer, he tells me nothing
>ask him today, no answer
>call him two times and he cancelled the call twice

Dunno what to do please help me
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contact him by email tomorrow and see.
be polite, apologise, (don't admit to any crime in writing though, just say you know what you did was wrong etc.)

[wtf is wrong with you, you fucking n00b?]

tell your mom you got off due to contract ending earlier or there's not much work to be done, project's finished etc. cook up some b/s.

now fuck off and try and enjoy what's left of your shit holidays in a non-drug-addled way, you degenerate.
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>>18447108
I swear some kids are SO STUPID it hurts. Now imagine yourself employed and your boss deciding to do random drugs test.

Certain drugs are ILLEGAL. If you want stability in your life (like not going to jail or fired), you need to drop that shit. Sorry, your teen era of life eneded. If you desperately need to destroy your brain cells or get hooked on poison, try cigarrets or alcohol.

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I'm in a relationship, basically, i have cheated on this girl i've been with for 4.5 yrs. I'd love some advice as i am very confused and upset at the moment. any honesty is appreciated.

>with gf for 4.5 yrs
>go hunting with sister, 2 of my friends and my sisters friend
>get drunk later on in the night and everyone goes to bed except the girl - my sisters friend ( we'll call her M)
>M and I have history together, have slept together 6 years ago.
>M wanders out into the rocky field, i follow
>she talks about how i still felt about her after the past 6 years (i'd been in
a 9 month relationship where she had told me during; that she had loved me)
>I say i had always felt connection between me and her.
>she goes on to say that she has BPD (borderline personality disorder) and that its hard for her to have any lasting relationships - shows me stitched cuts on arms.
>we chat and joke some more about random shit, i lean in to kiss her but she resists a little and reminds me i have a gf.
>accept that i'm being stupid, talk more and go to the car i'll be sleeping in the car that night( its 2 degrees outside)
>M approaches the car, joins me in the back and says its cold as fuck.
>one thing leads to another and we're fucking in the back of the car.
>dont say anything to each other in the morning

Basically i call her a few fays later asking what is gonna happen past me obviously breaking up with my gf.
M said she cant have a relationship or FWB with me since she wants to complete a course for BPD that ends next year and cant really get attached (since that happens easy with BPD sufferers) otherwise she'll be unhappy the rest of her life. says we can still be friends.

I feel alot of love for M now, though im unsure if i should still try talking or leave her alone( i see her occasionally anyway) This shit hurta guys, some say its better to have love and lost than not loved at all but im beginning to not believe that.
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avoid the BPD, she's actually talking sense for once in her insane life. leave her alone to get better.

not gonna judge you for the other stuff, but you have to figure out of you come clean to gf, or just forget about it. that's up to you.

but don't go stickin the d in cray-zee.

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I'm taking a girl to Atlanta tomorrow for an evening thing and need cheap/free things to do during the day. If anyone here is familiar with visiting Atlanta, can you recommend some neat stuff for us to do?
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Lots of foodie type places have sprung up in the last 5 years.

There's the Aquarium, a decent zoo, fernbank...
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>>18447014
I'm from metro Atlanta so I could give you a couple of basic options though I'm not sure just how cheap you're talking here. Also, are you talking about just downtown Atlanta or the surrounding area? Atlanta's fairly huge in terms of area.

Anyways here's just a list I guess (including the suggestions of >>18447038:
Georgia Aquarium (largest in the world)
Piedmont/Centennial Park
Atlanta Zoo
The SkyView (literally a giant ferris wheel)
The Atlanta Botanical Garden
The Body Exhibit in Atlantic Station
Atlantic Station in general is a pretty cool shopping place to hang out
Stone Mountain
Underground Atlanta (kind of sketch now)
World of Coke (I liked it as a kid lol)
Ponce Market (a huge refurbished factory turned into a hipster shopping place- they have alcoholic popsicles there)
Bicycling on the Atlanta Beltline
Food Truck Park (super small, maybe like 4 actual food trucks, it's meh)
The Varsity is an icon although the food is meh.
Little Five points is kind of cool during the daytime. Super sketch at night. It's a super hipster area near the Botanical Gardens. If you go there, you should check out the Vortex. Awesome burgers.
Lenox Square Mall is extremely nice. I think they have that cupcake vending machine there.


That's about it as far as I can think of off the top of my head. The cheapest are obviously the parks and areas where you can just walk around like Atlantic Station or Little Five Points. The Botanical Garden is pretty nice and not too bad if I remember. The aquarium is like $20 bucks but I suggest the Body Exhibit. It's just cool as shit. Maybe she'd appreciate that type of stuff.

Oh and the High Museum is pretty neat. They have an Andy Warhol exhibition going on right now. Hope that helped anon.

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>Be me
>Had a crush on a girl for a while
>She's smart, funny, she plays vidya and D&D and shit
>Have a few times where I think she might have been hinting she had feelings for me, but all seem like I might be reading into things
>Remain hopeful

Skip to yesterday

>Volunteering at a local community garden to try to be a good person and because crush volunteers there
>Farmers market day
>Only me and one girl show up
>I'd been acquaintances with her until then but never really talked much
>Running the stand with her
>She teases me the whole time and plays stupid games like hangman and tic tac toe when no one is buying
>She also keeps dropping the ice cubes we were using to chill vegetables down my shirt
>Breaks the touch barrier multiple times
>It seems like she might be flirting with me but she's friendly all the time

So I started feeling really comfortable around her and flirted back. I started thinking that maybe it was time to give up on anything more than friendship with girl A. I've been having conflicting feelings about girl A and girl B since then. I don't think I have much of a chance with either, but girl B seems like a better shot. So what should I do? Keep trying with girl A and risk wasting my time and having my heart broken or go for this new girl and see what happens? Pic unrelated but one of my favorites from my autistic menagerie.
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>>18446722
You have two options. You could man up and set something up with girl A or set something up with girl B. Either way you have to ask one of them out on a date if your interested. I am in a similar situation like you are with Girl A. The only way I am going to know if she is interested is if I ask her. Don't think she will tell you.
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>>18446722
A: that ship has sailed into the friendzone.
B: You're onto something. Even as a friend, this one sounds like a bag of laughs.

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well I met this girl a while back. nice, eccentric, cute. she invited me to a party and we ended up hooking up and cuddling (lol) the entire night

im 19, and she's 22 (going on 23 in sept, i turn 20 in dec). this bothers her because she said she didn't want to feel like a "cradle robber." i made it clear that if she didn't want to take things any further, that i would be okay with it completely, but i obviously wanted to know from the get-go so i don't develop any real feelings for her

well fastforward 3-4 weeks, and we haven't seen each other since then. i feel like im willing to book off work, change around plans, and go out of my way to make time to see her and get to know her. but her? if i don't fit into her schedule it's "shit, sorry. next week i got you though!"

i work full time, she works part time and isn't in school atm. she sees her other friends and goes out with her room mates regularly... so idk. something tells me she's purposely avoiding me or something bc of my age

im not too keen on confronting her about it bc i don't want to seem like im too clingy or emotional or whatever bc that isn't the case, i just need a straight answer!

what do i do, /adv/? tell her how i feel? drop her and let it go? am i being too insecure/immature?
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You're too insecure/immature. If she wanted to be with you she would make effort to do so. Stop giving her attention. You probably shouldn't have mentioned your feelings.
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two can play that game

ignore her and flirt with her friends...
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>>18447085
yeah, unironically this.

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Hey /adv/, how do you make friends?
I already know that I don't have any common interest with other people, but I want to make friends and pretend to be interested in their lifes.
How do you do that?
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Well since you want to make friends doesn't that mean you would legitimately be interested in their life?
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>>18446688
Making friends can't be forced. Join a local group or gym for the group classes. You know the answers but you're just being lazy, I was going to do the former but I just don't give a damn. I'm quite comfy being alone, my friends have gone home for the summer.

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I want to go nuts.
Anxiety, sadness, and dissatisfaction are all consequences of rational thought. To elimate the former you must eliminate the latter.
I want to live in blissful ignorance. I want a white padded cell so I can bust a gut laughing at nothing all day.
I want my only care in the world to be the terrorists in the ceiling tiles.

I'm told the best way to do this is loads of psychadelics all at once.
But i've got no drug connections. I'd struggle to obtain a barely-illegal drug like marajuana, though I probably could.
Where do I find the real stuff?
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>>18446316
I hear you can get og shit from afghanistan, just ask the locals Mr FBI
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Silkroad
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>>18446316
There are other ways to stop the overthinking. Try meditation.

Also this:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?list=PLFfM65xLnO-GGdbO5yYuQvaKOhG6j1Ih7&v=Bsyplaii9p4

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Hi, recently i found the need to download some videos from some websites. I tried using mozilla, some weir programs that download, websites that download if you give them url but nothing works. I try to get the video url but doesn`t work, try to work out google chrome options but nothing seems to work.

The question is: How can i download a video the is encrypted or can`t be downloaded so easily?

Thanks in advance
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>>18446047
Have you tried with a video downloader addon?
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>>18446047
Try jDownloader if you haven`t already. Works for me.
http://jdownloader.org/download/index
UI is a bit shitty but you should have figured out the most part after 15-30 min of trial and error.
Alternatively I`m gonna write you a little tutorial on how you can do download videos with only your vanilla-browser and vlc-player but only if you say pretty please.

(No seriously, I need you to bump the thread a bit so I can write it - should take about 10-15 mins)
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>>18447595
There you go.
It doesn`t always work but sometimes it can do the trick.

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I feel talentless, like I'm no good at anything. All my friends have something they're interested in, be it musical instruments, drawing, coding, historical knowledge or whatever. I spend alot of time gaming and I'm not even good at that, while I have friends that are crazy good at certain FPS or RTS games. Obviously they have spent time honing their skills at their particular interest, but my problem is that even if I'm interested in something, say I want to get better at drawing so I can create whatever my imagination comes up with, I lack the motivation and persistence to stick at a single subject. E.g. I game more than my friends do but I play too many different games because I get bored easily (being a jack of all trades really sucks when it comes to gaming). So I guess the TL:DR is; any advice on how to improve my motivation and focus.
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Well what do you want and why?
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>>18494218
Something to strive and work towards, so I can be proud about the fruits of my labor. If you mean something more specific, I'd like to improve my drawing or coding skills. I guess I'm just interested in tricks others use to help motivate themselves
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>>18494182
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/9190758

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