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Ok lads.
So there's this girl I met on my course. Friend of a friend thing. At first she was just another random person. Soon, my gut starts telling me I should talk to her (usually my gut is right). She's my type, and there's not many other people from my area in this uni, so she's fun to talk to, so i reach out and make a connection.
Few months later, we've talked for a while now and been out to the movies twice. Once alone and the 2nd time with two of her friends who left once the movie was over. When i'm with her things are pretty chill, and I feel some feels. When we're not near each other though, I get very unsure about the relationship. She's really shy and doesn't have many friends in the uni so I end up feeling like I'm carrying the conversation, which my socially inept ass hates doing. Text convos are usually shallow and boring. Last time we talked, she was upset about something she wouldn't tell me, and I misread the entire situation. My friends know I'm into her already, and I'm quickly becoming the only one in my main friend group who's never had a relationship. I've been back home for a week and she should be back soon too. We're supposed to meet up since we live nearby, but I don't want to start another convo (i always seem to start them). Do I do the dumb thing and wait for her to reach out this time? Am I crazy to think that anything can even come from this?
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I'm a teacher and i want to ask out one of my students (she's 29 and i'm 28)
How can i go about it so it's not awkward later? I still have about 2 months of class left with the group she is in
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Don't until after she's no longer your student obviously.
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Some more info
I teach an english class, she's in a group with 5 other people. We're both pretty young.
I tend not to go for students because i think it might cause problems for me later, but damn... i can't resist
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Wait till school is over. Don't jeapordize your job.
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So there's this guy at the reception desk of my university (mid-late 40's) who I always greet when I pass by him. Today I actually stopped to have a chat and he's super friendly and nice. It seemed we'd get along and we ended up talking for over an hour. He was also slightly suggestive but I just took it as good fun.
Fast forward a bit, he ended up giving me his number. I said why the heck not so I gave him mine in return. The problem is...HE KEEPS TEXTING ME. And he has gone from "slightly suggestive" to "quite suggestive". What the fuck do I do? How do I protect my asshole, /adv/?
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Just tell him you're not gay? If he continues after that just go to the board of the school about it.
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Talk to him about it over dinner at your place
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Hey /adv/
So I've been really desperate for a job for the past 3 months. I've been applying everywhere, with no responses.
Well in the past week I got an interview for a really good job that uses my degree and pays 18.50/hr. I passed the first interview that was more like a quiz on my knowledge. Now they want a second interview.
Now at the same time I got an interview for a really shitty entry position, 12/hr, not in my field. Had the interview yesterday and they called and said they're ready to hire me soon.
So I go in for my second interview for the great job today. How should I handle this situation, because the shittier job is on track to getting me sooner than this job.
Also there is a conflict of interest for the better job, they require I can't work at this other company within 6 months of being hired.
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Obviously hold out for the better paying job? Idk what the issue is here. The fact they want a second interview after you took their test means you passed and you are considered qualified. Now they want to have an actual interview to make sure you arnt some autist axe murderer freak. Assuming you can present yourself fine, youre in. They wouldnt have you come in twice to tell you they arnt interested. Consider yourself hired already - youre just still in the hiring phase.
For your own protection, tell the other company that you cant accept the job at the moment due to life circumstances (make an excuse, or just be vague, doesnt matter as long as you make it clear you cant work for them yet) and that while you cant work now, you are very much interested in the near future. That way you arnt burning your bridge with them and have them as a backup.
But yeah based on what you wrote it sounds like the better job is going to hire you. Gratz. Just went through a similar situation myself for the last 9 weeks and was about to lose my sanity and apply at shithole retail stores just to get by when i finally landed an inteview with a job that pays 19.50/hr. I got the job.
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Btw dont even mention the lower paying job to the better company during the interview. Its not part of the equation. You can just tell the second job that you need more time to handle personal affairs (a white lie). When the first job is garanteed, tell the second one you had a change of circumstances and can no longer work for them. You have no obligation to start work for them. You didnt sign a contract. Its doesnt matter how far in the hiring process you are, you have not worked for them and you shouldnt unless the 1st job tells you to piss off.
Again, i wouldnt even mention the lesser job at the interview. It wont help you, and they dont need to know because you being engaged with talks with the second company doesnt violate their working policy and thus isnt their business.
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>>18449111
Well I have $100 and I absolutely need money soon. Im moving to another apartment and have been eating ramen. I won't survive much longer, and I don't know if the 12/hr will hold out for long for me. I just don't want to hold out too long and not get hired at the 18/hr and end up back at square one and homeless. But I'll go through with what you said.
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College advice thread 2017-06-23 05:01:55 Post No.18449071
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Hi /adv/,
I'm not sure how helpful your going to be, but part of wisdom is learning from the experiences of others right? So here goes.
I'm a 33 year old guy with an associate of science degree from my local community college. I'm one of those people who is smart enough to do nearly anything, but lacks the motivation to actually see shit through.
After years of being ground down by shit job after shit job I've decided to make something of my life. I have a reasonably well paying job that affords me 5-6 hours a day to study and no one will give a shit.
I want to finish out at least a masters in a STEM field due to my lingering naive desire to contribute to the world. However I am painfully aware of the years of time I have wasted.
What is the fastest way to obtain a Masters provided I am willing to bust ass? I will gain any certification, take any test, climb any hurdle.
I'm also aware that higher education isn't quite all it's cracked up to be, but most of the alternatives I've seen are either risky as fuck or flat out scams.
Also general major/college advice thread I suppose.
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What does it mean when I'm getting a reply to a post but not a (you) notification?
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small error probably. OPs dont usually get a (you) if im not mistaken. sometimes you might shift from one IP to another if your IP is dynamic, and therefore 4chan does not recognize your posts as yours anymore.
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Now I know that masturbation isn't really an important thing in life, but it frustrates me immensely that I can't be able to relieve myself. For some back ground context I never masturbated during puberty because I was disgusted by it and my urges in general. I figured that girls just didn't masturbate and that it was bad and wrong and just sat there in angry preteen horniness. Now that I find it acceptable and healthy, I truly desire a release. I read somewhere that girls will probs never find pleasure or the ability to orgasm in sex if they can't orgasm in the bedroom, so I've tried a number of things. I've posted them in a blog like fashion. I'm sharing my expedites because I'm hoping some of you can help which is dumb since most of you are male, but I don't trust female masturbation sites.
Day 1
I put 1 finger in my vagina. It doesn't really feel good. Just feels like there's something inside of me, like I had just put a finger in my mouth or something. I move my finger in and out in a rythmic fashion. Still nothing it just feels weird not really enjoyable. My arousal immediately leaves me so I just stop.
Day 2
I find out that most women don't feel arousal from the vagina and the most important thing is the clitoris which houses 8000 sensitive nerves, double of whats on a penis. Okay. Cool. It takes me forever to find mine as its small and mine is completely covered by the clitoral hood. I try rubbing it. Feels bad man. I decide I should get lube so I find that aloe vera is a natural lube so I get some and put a lot on the area, and start rubbing. Feels rather uncomfortable. Like what is all this sticky stuff doing here. I rub too hard on my clitoris it hurts. I rub not enough and I just feel nothing. There is no in between. I suppose I'll just die sexually frustrated, since there is no relief.
Day 3.
Okay lets start over. I start by watching something arousing while trying to touch myself. This does nothing.
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Day 4.
Okay apparently placing a shower head down there or having running water down there will be pleasurable. Got it. I place shower down in that area. Oh God. It tickles. I start giggling uncontrollably. I stop. Okay, I move all my folds away so that the water will hit my clitoris. Okay the waters hitting it but it feels hard and it hurts. I move it away slightly it hurts a little. I move it away some more. Don't feel anything really Today is Day 4. Does anyone have any tips to what I'm doing wrong? I'm going to rub an ice cube on my clit because I heard that it works. I'll post about it.
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Back before I could buy vibrators, I'd masturbate by putting my index and ring fingers on either side of my clitoris, and my middle over/in front of it to keep it stable while I basically rubbed the sides. Personally, I don't like when things get too slick down there because it makes my way of doing it more difficult.
But I mean, everyone's different. I never really orgasm during sex without a vibrator- I can't stay focused enough to orgasm from manual stimulation in that situation. Without actual sex, manual masturbation is still much more laborious than using a vibe. IDK how old you are but I'm assuming there is a reason you haven't tried vibration yet? Clearly people were getting off for thousands of years without vibrators, but they do make it easier.
As far as exploring it all manually, there isn't much to do but keep trying. Mostly, take ideas here and there but don't hold yourself to anyone else's way of doing it. You'll have to find out what feels good for you. Honestly sometimes I wonder how the fuck i figured out I could orgasm from masturbation, because honestly, if I didn't already know it could bring me to orgasm, I'd never believe (based on the initial sensation) that it would do anything.
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I am trying to figure that put for my gf as well but more so while in the act of intercourse. Its been tough for us but i also wanna wish you well.
Have you tried toys?
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Kid trying to make me animate some dumb shit 2017-06-23 04:42:57 Post No.18449028
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Kid trying to make me animate some dumb shit
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Ok so I make TF2 shitpost on YouTube, smexuals, where someone makes some chaotic audio, and someone else animates it, high art, I know.
Anyway, some kid has been trying to get me to animate his dumb video four a month or more, spams caps and emoticons, real tard, how can I creatively deal with this?
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by blocking him.
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That's the thing, I block him and it straight up didn't work, plus, a few people have been trying this shit for a while.
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Animate his retarded logic, words, person, etc... make a character out of him and mock him with your own humor using the shit he says. Something to ridicule him while you get rid of the stress, idk, depends if the idea is worth your time.
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Crypto-currencies, where to start ? 2017-06-23 04:28:53 Post No.18448986
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Hello, I'm a total newfag and I want to invest in crypto-currencies.
Where to start ? Any videos/books/websites to recommend me ?
Where do you recommend me to invest for long term run ?
Where do you recommend me to invest right now ? What is this Bitbeaner thing I keep hearing ?
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I've just recently found my old hard drive with 1.7 million bitcoin on it. Post wallet address.
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Ask /biz/ it's literally the cryptocurrency board. I've heard coinbase is a good place to start, buy a chunk of Bitcoin and etherium and then branch out from there.
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Sent ;)
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>>18448986
Rule 1. Stay clear of MLM's
Rule 2. Read rule 1
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How do you accept the way things are, and the way you are?
I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do, but I don't know what to do.
Also, I know of someone who's been very keen on making me miserable for the past 5 years, and I don't know how to get rid of it. I do not think I can think straight until I get it all out. What do? My head is just a mess. I knew who I wanted to be but then this person stole it again and they never disappear.
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Stop trying to accept things and focus on changing them to how you want them.
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>How do you accept the way things are, and the way you are?
By inabiliity to change it. If I can act and change it to what I wanted to be then I will not accept things "the way they are", if it's something no matter what I do can't be changed and avoided, by all means I will accept it like or not.
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>>18448960
Get that toxic person off your life. If you can't just make them leave, then go away yourself and start fresh.
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Hey /adv/, I don't know if you remember me. I was that anon that had trouble with a girl and was unsure how to interact with her, and didn't know when dating becomes a relationship.
Brief overview of what happen over the few weeks.
We snapchat a lot, but that's normal
We do talk and play board games, but again that's normal.
Her B-Day is coming up, and we're celebrating it. That's normal too.
However I'm a feel a little distant. I don't know if it's insecurity, trauma from my previous relationship, or that she has a "good buddy" that happens to be my good friend eldest brother.
Do you guys or gals think instead or pursuing her we should just stay friends?
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No, you should not stop pursuing her. I'm certainly not going to encourage you to bitch out. Uncertainty is inherent with romantic relationships. If you never take the risk, you'll never have any chance of getting the payoff.
What would you rather have shape your life: the fear that you'll fail, or the drive to go after what you want?
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Pursue her, man. Break the limit, go past what's normal for both of you.
If anything that uncertainiy is a flag for you to act. Don't miss it. Better to laugh at your failure than to laugh at your regret for not doing it.
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How do i last longer in bed?
>im already doing kegels
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Honestly control you breathing. If you feel you are on the edge slow down and take slower, long controlled breaths. This will help you not blow to soon. After you work on it you will have an easier time choosing to cum or not. Hope this helps.
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>>18448928
Don't sweat it just keep fucking. You should be able to bust 3 nuts in an hour. Enjoy yourself don't make it about you think about the person you are with.
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I'm planning on completely cutting off my internet access (need to focus on shit and too much of a weakling to just stop shitposting on /b/), and I don't know how to go about it.
Basically, I need a way to either be able to get on a web browser ICE, but still keep the internet, or just cut off my internet altogether, same thing applying.
Is there any way to create a convoluted system of accessing internet/web browser so I do it only for emergencies? Any other suggestions on dealing with this?
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Yes, it is called will of steel.
You browse /b/ because you treat yourself as a slave who has to do something. Wrong mindset. Lay back and think: do i have to do this? No. But i want to. Once you realize you have free will, you should be able to do it without wasting time on /b.
Also consider leaving /b forever. It is kinda bad place.
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Agreed. Leave it forever like I did. Don't look back.
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>>18449066
>Wrong mindset. Lay back and think: do i have to do this? No. But i want to.
This
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>Me 6/10
>with girl 8/10
>been going steady for a couple of days
>had sex 4 times
>been together for 2 weeks
>thinks she is the one
>on are 4th time of having sex
>she says she wants to try something new
>I naturally agreed
>she wants to rp
>I agree
>she goes to bath room to prep
>I wait on bed wondering what she has in mind
>starting to get worried
>she walks out of bathroom in pink lingerie
>looking hot af
>she wants to do it doggystyle
>things are going great
>"call me forest"
>"what"
>"i want you to **** me Jenny"
>confused but went with it
>played a pretty good jenny for her
>"shoot it up my buttocks Jenny"
>then the deed was done
>Ignoring her calls for a day now
Should I see her again? Does this make me gay now?
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hahahaha oh my god... forrest gump sexy role play
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>>18448920
Cut off your nuts just to be sure.
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So /adv, my life is at a huge turning point. 32, always thought i would have done a lot with my life, launched and failed numerous projects and i’ve done some real cool stuff but I always stopped after the first, or the second, or the third difficulties.
Long story short, I’ve always tried to keep myself busy but i think I’ve never really learned to live by myself, despite the endless experiences done, I always lived in relation to what the others would have thought of myself, feeling like shit when it didn’t match my own expectations to the point of fucking things up for that guilt. This endless feeling of guilt occasionally would have turned me into depression but i always managed to pull myself up from it.
Few years ago a parent died and for some reason my own way of dealing with my own bullshit got much worse and lately depression phases got much worse. I started years ago to go into therapy, which gave me more understanding of my own issues but didn’t really help, I keep falling hard everytime i pick myself up. 4 years ago i found a great girl, we bought a house together, made plans for the future but eventually she dumped for yet another depression phase. Can’t blame her.
Now, I understand that i need to change something profound about myself but everytime i fall I risk more, thoughts of suicide get more serious and depression phases become more self-harmful. At the moment I am once again in between jobs but the idea of starting a new experience freaks me out as I really am afraid that I will drop out and disappoint myself and everyone else once again.
I’m thinking to maybe find a place to literally rebuilt myself, even the military, to destroy and re-teach myself how to be into the world. I even thought of the foreign legion, or some sort of rehab centre somewhere in the world, or a fucking monastery. I feel I need rules, structure and impositions for a long time to built myself up.
Does this make any sense?
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