well I met this girl a while back. nice, eccentric, cute. she invited me to a party and we ended up hooking up and cuddling (lol) the entire night
im 19, and she's 22 (going on 23 in sept, i turn 20 in dec). this bothers her because she said she didn't want to feel like a "cradle robber." i made it clear that if she didn't want to take things any further, that i would be okay with it completely, but i obviously wanted to know from the get-go so i don't develop any real feelings for her
well fastforward 3-4 weeks, and we haven't seen each other since then. i feel like im willing to book off work, change around plans, and go out of my way to make time to see her and get to know her. but her? if i don't fit into her schedule it's "shit, sorry. next week i got you though!"
i work full time, she works part time and isn't in school atm. she sees her other friends and goes out with her room mates regularly... so idk. something tells me she's purposely avoiding me or something bc of my age
im not too keen on confronting her about it bc i don't want to seem like im too clingy or emotional or whatever bc that isn't the case, i just need a straight answer!
what do i do, /adv/? tell her how i feel? drop her and let it go? am i being too insecure/immature?
You're too insecure/immature. If she wanted to be with you she would make effort to do so. Stop giving her attention. You probably shouldn't have mentioned your feelings.
two can play that game
ignore her and flirt with her friends...
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yeah, unironically this.