I'm a guy and I'm getting more and more intense dysphoria everyday. The problem is my parents are very religious and conservative and I'm afraid they'd hate me for transitioning. They seem to respect trans people as in not outright hate them but I'm not sure they'd like it for their child. So I came up with two plans:
A
>Get whatever career I want
>Get my own home
>Start transition
>Never contact them again
B
>Get a high prestige career like aeronautic engineering because I'm autistic enough to do it
>Explain myself thoroughly to them, say they should respect my individual rights and all that shit
>Possibly my professional achievements help them accept my transition because they're like that
>Maybe switch to another career
First one is riskless but I really don't want to lose contact with them. With the second one I could either maintain contact or get into a bunch of shit for nothing and lose contact the same way. Yes, they're assholes but I love them.
Which one is a better choice? If you have any other ideas please tell me.
Become a beautiful passin woman so that they have no choice but to realize you're serious and accept u
Religious and conservative =/= transphobic in all cases, you said yourself that they seem to respect them. Just come out about it and tell them that it's important to you, I'm sure they care more about your well-being. No need to work yourself to death while already fucked up from dysphoria just to make your case better.
>>7020491
Do you expect your parents to disown you or anything?
>Straight my whole life
>Get totally shitfaced at party last week
>Girl invites me back to her place, it's all a blur but I know we fucked, anal
>Girl was actually femboi
A-am still straight, r-right
Does sober you want a pretty boy with breasts that you can fuck?
>>7020434
Straight guy here, I wish this would happen to me.
>>7020456
The boy i don't think you're straight
Which is more prevalent -- AAP or AGP?
>>7020250
whats an aap
>>7020250
Hard to be sure since we only have 4chan as a way to gather data and that's not really a secure source but here it's mostly AGP.
If we considered places like tumblr and so on, AAP would be more significant and maybe even beat the 4chan AGP numbers since we are quite small compared to their community.
96% of so called transsexuals do not have dysphoria but are broken failed makes with extreme autism and adult baby fetishes and are not transsexuals at all
Being a short man is almost as bad for your mental health as being transgender.
Try being a short transgender man
>>7019900
If you're short and skinny just transition.
Nothin' wrong with a good manlet.
If you could look exactly like a famous person which one would you go for?
Pic related for me, I like the music and I think she's a breddy cool girl.
>>7019771
This but as a boy
>>7019771
hnnng
>>7019791
Caraposter looks like this tbqh
Do femboys have a narcissism problem?
>>7019639
Femboys are the purest of the pure hearts
>>7019639
what comic is this?
>>7020284
First post best post
>looking for a room to rent
>every ad that looks nice and is in my price range usually ends up saying female only
>All the other ones I reply to say I need to be working or in school
Anyone else who gets autism bucks and is trans have a hard time finding a place? Not sure what to do.
Bump for advice
do you pass?
>>7019601
its funny to anyone else that the female only dont expect you to be employed for some reason?
Alright /lgbt, you win. You fucking win already. I'm not straight like I thought I was for the past 19 years of my life. I'm Bi as fuck. I love girls. But good god I really want a boyfriend right now.
I've posted here before, a couple of times in the past just trying to figure out my shit. But I think I know what I want now.
Shit now I just need to figure out how to come out. A couple of people know already... but fuck if I know how to tell everyone else. What do /lgbt?
>falling for the lgbt meme
Haha joke's on you senpai
It was a prank all along bro.
Just a prank.
>>7019413
Depends on what your area/friends and shit are like. If your parents aren't super conservative/religious it might be fine.
I dunno much about coming out as bi though I just know coming out as trans tends to be a bigger clusterfuck
Don't bother to come out if you don't have to. Just get a bf and exchange cummies like you've been fantasizing about, and the rest will fall into place.
Do transgirls have a narcissism problem?
>>7019091
>implying the average trans woman experiences anything like self love
>>7019133
Inb4 masturbation joke
>>7019133
>narcissism
>self love
A lack of self love ironically makes someone even more likely to be a narcissist
How afraid are you of getting STDs?
I'm terrified of STDs. I'm in a committed relationship, though, so it's not so much of a problem anymore. I'm paranoid about possible contact with others bodily fluids, though.
I can almost feel the HIV creeping up my ass cheeks whenever I have to sit down on a public toilet.
Maybe crabs, but must have caught it in time.
How do you legbutts prefer to get over a breakup with someone you loved?
>>7018415
drinking & seeing friends?
>>7018415
Get drunk and/or high and go party hard mode with friends. It won't heal that wound, but at least it will make you feel better. You may even find someone else while doing this. 30% of the time this works all the time.
Spending the rest of my life alone, if such a thing ever happened. My only breakups were with brief flings I could care less about.
Why do "straight" men love femboys and mtfs?
I think they get off on the anxiety it produces... Cuz they always want to go right for the peen
>>7018322
HEY ITZ MEH TEH TOILET GUY
WHY DONT U SIT ON ME & I SEE DICK
WE WILL HAVE FUN TOGETHA
SO MUCH FUN MAN 2 MAN
OH MY
>>7018322
Cause it looks like a woman which is what they're used to
>>7018160
Ugly cis gay man here. I think about suicide daily.
>>7018160
Every fucking day and I'm not even that ugly compared to most dudes my age.
trans'd at 15, 22 now
Used to think of suicide, but no longer do. You are part of a larger human organism, and you ultimately affect its well being. Do what you will.
Why are so many of you legitimately awful people? Like, not in the sense being gay or whatever is bad, but some of you have terrible personalities, why?
>>7018079
People like to run away from themselves I guess. They cover up the pain with sarcasm etc.
>>7018079
well you're on 4chan, hon
what did you expect?
>>7018079
It's funny because chances are you're from /pol/ since they make most of these shitty bait threads all day every day.
So when you're not here you're probably screeching about how you're superior to everyone who's the wrong color or nationality and making excuses that "the CONSPIRACY" is the only reason you're not on top despite your objective superiority and logical perfect morality.
Either that or you're just a retard that judges a whole group based on a handful of anecdotes so a few gay assholes makes "SO MANY gays legitimately AWFUL people" but I'm sure anyone whose awful and part of a group you belong to is just a "rare outlier that doesn't count!"
That is, in movies and stories. I mean, it doesn't really represent the average lesbian, does it. For instance Sei in the picture is a lesbian. She is probably as feminine as a girl gets. I know threads like this should be banned, but even so, I wanted to hear /lgbt/'s opinion.
>>7017793
Going by that logic transwomen would have to be represented by some nasty transvestite, because that's the stereotype.
Here's the thing people on /lgbt/ never get: Your sexuality doesn't dictate your whole life. Being lesbian doesn't inherently entail the appearance of a two legged bull. Why the hell would it, thats just some vulnerable people being gullible and easily influenced.
what the fuck is wrong with normal lesbians? you're attracted to femininity so you try to look like squat ugly men?
Er, well, so should OP be banned?