When do you tell a guy you're trans? If he asks for your number, do you just tell him then and there?
After a third date.
>>7031236
before anything physical or too heavy emotionally. Dates are fine, but if he's bringing you home to family he should know.
>>7031236
>When do you tell a guy you're trans?
First date.
>If he asks for your number, do you just tell him then and there?
Date him at least another time for number.
Also for at least the first few weeks only encounter him in open spaces he may be butthurt at the trans stuff and try to hide it just to hurt you.
A girl did that to me once, fucking snake.
I'm a 20 yr old straight male, well bi but leaning towards straight. I LOVE mtf trans, I've had sex with two different mtf escorts. And honestly it was the best time of my life; sometimes I think about it when I jerk off. Have you guys had any experiences with mtf trans or thought about them?
mental illness
>>7031143
You will soon join the ranks. Good luck with your suicide in a couple years. If you're asking questions and jerking off about it you're fucked already.
>>7031143
so, when are you starting HRT?
What has you experience been with conservative Christians or in conservative Christian circles?
I'm a pastor's kid, and my dad preaches "confess your faults one to another." He's very much against gays to point of aborting gay kids tho perhaps he's different now...
I know not to get too close to anyone in the church because if they find out my secret, I'm fucked.
Anyone here share anything similar?
They dont like gays lol
>>7031041
My parents are big catholics (my mom teaches religion at a catholic school) and that parish had a program to try and be more welcoming to gays. You still can't get married in a catholic church since their marriage is a sacrament, but the Catholic church really reformed with pope john paul 2 and is pretty nice now.
>>7031041
My aunt/uncle/cousins are deeply religious, they've never brought up the gays but have brought up abortion and how you need to accept Jesus into your heart and all that shit. I just try to avoid religion and politics when talking to my extended family in general. I'm pretty lucky, my parents weren't regular church goers, just on the occasional Easter/Christmas (if that).
Though I have yet to come out to my family so I have no idea how they would take it. Most would probably be fine with it but I suspect there's a handful that would be less than thrilled.
Who /borderline/ here
I have borderline personality disorder and am wonderful if queer peeps with BPD are willing to form a skype or discord group, just to have like-minded, queer peeps around to talk to about stuff.
Can this be a thing?
>>7031008
I guess it's a support group I'm proposing?
>>7031008
>MFW femboy/mtf in denial
>mfw estrogen habit aggravates emotional fragility prob
Welp
Time to kill myself?
>>7031023
well, we could talk about it anon, I'm fucking crazy and am over people abandoning me because they don't understand me and find me too intense and crazy, so I figure this will help.
my skype is arbitrarygrill for those who are interested.
Transition goal body thread?
>>7030919
Might be tough, but I'll be rooting for you.
any other trans people feel like no matter what, even if you transition and get srs that you'll still have dysphoria? i'm a trans man and i've researched srs, but none of the surgeries look realistic at all. i feel like i'd still be disgusted with my body even if i had srs because it wouldn't look natural and would just look fake and gross. should i just not transition at all? is it even worth it? i fucking hate being trans, i just wish i were cis and didn't have to deal with this
>>7030824
>but none of the surgeries look realistic at all
bottom surgery is better than the pictures you have seen
t. has seen the results that don't wind up on the public internet
but yeah man i feel you
literally everyone has flaws cis or not
if it's not one thing you're gonna bitch about it's another
deal with it nigga
t. tranny
I will always have dysphoria, no matter what surgeries, therapies, or vocal training I do because of my masculine bone structure. Also, my childhood dream of being a mother (that was crushed when I got my first sex ed at school) will never come true. Sometimes when I'm home alone, I watch Juno or Wolf Children and cry. I know Juno isn't very good, but I still like it because I have awful taste in films and think Ellen Page is pretty.
The struggle vs The fact that we are the true master race?
>>7030691
what????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
only two genders
Pansexuals, do this get you hard?
How do gay men feel about gay FTMs? Why isn't the relationship is as hostile as MTFs and lesbians is?
>Why isn't the relationship is as hostile as MTFs and lesbians is?
Because a relationship doesn't form in the first place, dickless manlet :^)
>>7030513
When men don't give a fuck they do it quietly
Cis lesbians have to announce to the entire planet that they hate trannies
Personally, i'm turned off by it. If I was a top i probably wouldn't mind as much. I wont go on a crusade and ban them from my life or anything. Just not for me
Is it possible to cum through anal stimulation only?
If so, how do you guys do it?
I feel like Im to tight but one time I really went for it and my whole body felt like it was vibrating.
Any tips? I always end up just jerking off
It's possible. I remember somone on here once posted a guide of to train yourself for it. I remember it involved a completely straight dildo and some moderate practicing.
start small with a sharpie in pooper
and then shove ur hopes and dreams up ur ass, faggot
>>7030512
I'm straight and Sharpies still kind of hurt
Any positions I should try too?
>mtf trans
>very pretty cis girl falls in love with me somehow even though I thought I'd be alone forever
>can't believe how lucky I am, we've been together over a year now
>I'm nearly a foot taller than her and standing next to her makes me feel envious and dysphoric
>her perfect, soft, clear, porcelain skin makes me feel envious and dysphoric
>feeling her perfect breasts makes me feel envious and dysphoric
>feel like crying when I eat her out, like she's literally rubbing my face in what I can't have/be (but I fake like everythings ok to get her off)
>constantly feel inadequate and inferior to her
>feel bad if I don't pass and draw attention to us in public
>feel embarassed that she's with someone like me when she could do so much better
>these feelings have grown stronger and stronger over time to the point that I'm extremely weak shy and beta around her at all times
>don't know how much longer I can hide these feels
Thought that no one would love me because I was a gross transbian, but actually having a girlfriend is extremely psychologically painful
Will this ever get better? Will being a tranny ever get better? Why am I so awful
>>7029897
>Why am I so awful
Because you don't communicate your feelings to your partner, and instead let them fester within you, developing into a proper issue, and then whine about it on 4chan.
>>7029906
I know you're right, it's shitty of me to not communicate my true feelings
but how can I tell the person I love that their existence makes me feel bad? That's too much
>>7029897
well, the "problems" are all internalized transphobia and self-hate, so i dont know that you NEED to communicate that stuff exactly. really, you just need to work on yourself.
therapy?
if she loves you, then she loves you, accept her love, and dont run away because you FEEL unworthy. obviously you're worthy of her love, if she's willing to give it to you.
Ask her to help you work on getting srs or whatever surgeries you need so that you can feel less dysphoric about your body
Milo is in talks with Hiroyuki to bye 4chan!
http://www.breitbart.com/milo/2016/10/08/hollywood-reporter-milo-yiannopoulos-eyeing-bid-for-4chan/
How do you feel about this /lgbt/? It's about time someone bans the SJW's.
*buy
Milo is that rich ?
>>7029829
You mean this Milo?
So to those of you with a bf: do you actually sleep together every night in the same bed? Doesn't it get uncomfortable? For example, isn't it to hot in the summer? Or stuff like morning breath, or farting underneath the sheets.
Just sounds like a hassle to do daily.
I'm single but I just wanted to let you know I read your post. Sometimes what I post gets ignored so it's good to have some validation even if it's mild.
>>7029808
My boyfriend only exists in my fantasies, so all those unpleasant things don't happen. It's just comfy and happy and makes me feel loved with his arms around me.
I've been sleeping next to my bf for about a year since we moved in together.
It can get somewhat uncomfortable at times, but it's really not a big deal. As long as the bed is big enough for both of you to roll around in then it's fine. Usually we fall asleep cuddling, and then move away as we drift further into sleep. The heat can be annoying so we cuddle less during the summer. Conversely winter brings about more cuddling. Farts and bad breath are kinda gross but they're a normal part of having a body. After a while I've found those things to be kinda endearing in my partner since we get so comfortable with each other. It feels rather intimate to just be gross around each other and not mind
>>7029603
mike shinoda made me realize I wasn't gay XD
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Fine ill leave you girls alone tbqh...
>>7029407
For sale: a gf
- Good ass and tits
- Makes good food
- Kinky in bed
- Annoying as fuck
- Good for nothing NEET
>>7029415
I'll give you a dollar
I know that this is degenerate.
But ive thought about becoming a male g4p escort. anyone else here do that before.
Ive been called cute by a lot of gay dudes. But im not that muscular. but i am tall dark hair, and been told i have a very cute face. (more of a bottom build i guess)
How do i know if im cute enough.
and how do i get a clientele
>>7029394
you'll get hooked on drugs and get aids, oh and the only gay guys who'll pay for sex are fat old ugly dudes because all the good looking gays have an easy time getting free sex from other good looking guys
>>7029402
Not if i dont do drugs
and they wear protection every time.
i dont know i feel like im not meant to be in a professional setting an adulting is hard.
i just want to make easy money.
>>7029437
One, there's no such thing as easy money.
Two, sex work fucks your life, trust me i've seen what it does to people and I'd rather be flipping burgers at McDonalds.