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Just found out that along time friend is a F to M. 2016-11-12 09:03:42 Post No.7209957
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Okay here the situation as it is. I have had a friend that I have known for over 15 years. He is a very good friend, and I love him as if he was my brother. He was the best man at my wedding, hell he introduced me to my wife. But last week my wife and I had him over for drinks with his girl grind. My wife can't safely (she has a malformed uterus) get pregnant, and we couldn't find a suffragette that we could afford to carry our child. We wanted to ask his girl friend if she would do it for us (we where going to pay all of the medical bills for the work up, the pregnancy, and 1 year out postpartum. But she had a hysterectomy after an accident when she was 24.
We where crushed, but then He said that he would do it. That he still had (as he said put it) "All my lady bits." As you could imagian this came as a huge shock to my wife, and my self for a few resins.
All these years I thought that he was a male from birth, and two that he was willing to do this for us. I guess wht I'm driving at is what would be the best way to come to terms with this? I don't want to think of him as woman, and I certianly don't want to treat him any diferntly that I have for the last 15 years. But at the same tie I don't know if I could ask him to do this. Part of me is scared that he might get hurt, from any part of the entire proses of the work up, the IVF, the pregnancy, and the eventual birth. I'm cool with the fact the he was born a female, and I think that he id one of the bravist men I have ever met in my life, but I just don't know if it would be safe for him, or the baby. I just need some input here. Please any advice woulf help, and he is still, and will always be my brother. I just don't know what to think, or say, or do here.
Pick unrelated. But it is Buck Angle.
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>>7209957
the problem i see with this is that a trans guy who's been living stealth for 15+ years is likely infertile
hell, he probably should've gotten a hysto over a decade ago because they tend to explode into cancer after long term exposure to t
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>>7209962
Of fuck really? You're not messing with me are you? I don't want him to get fucking cancer! Should I bring that up to him? I can't fucking loss my brother! Sorry but that just scares the shit out of me.
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>>7209976
it might be worth bringing up
i don't mean to concern you, it's a very underresearched topic and we're not 100% sure what long term testosterone exposure at male levels does to the female reproductive system
but there are high profile cases of long-term transitioned trans men developing ovarian cancer, and research to suggest reproductive system changes that could portend future cancer
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who /aap/ here?
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I genuinely don't understand this fetish. You're attracted to muscles or what?
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>>7209930
attracted to being a dude
except am a stupid weak girl ;___;
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Bi curious male that hasn't done anything 2016-11-12 06:03:57 Post No.7209305
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Bi curious male that hasn't done anything
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2016-11-12 06:03:57
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The thought of sucking a dick turns me rock hard
I haven't even voice chatted with a guy erotically
I'm engaged with a female
HELP!
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>>7209305
Oh shit you just triggered so many salty crazies.
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how?
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Are you a sexy hot boy?
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List 5 songs that describe you /lgbt/ 2016-11-12 05:05:22 Post No.7209069
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List 5 songs that describe you /lgbt/
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List 5 songs that you feel best describe your personality, your life or you as a person in general. I'll start.
Car Seat Headrest: Beach Life in Death
Arctic Monkeys: A Certain Romance
Modest Mouse: Talking Shit About a Pretty Sunset
DJ Shadow: Midnight in a Perfect World
Bright Eyes: Road to Joy
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I really want this thread to kick off.
>The Who: Behind Blue Eyes
https://youtu.be/fKJDAVvs_JA
>Queen: Under Pressure
https://youtu.be/a01QQZyl-_I
>Lulu Belle & Scotty: I'm No Communist
https://youtu.be/a01QQZyl-_I
>Whitesnake: Here I Go Again
https://youtu.be/i3MXiTeH_Pg
>Jekyll & Hyde: 34. Confrontation
https://youtu.be/oECK1dNbuho
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>>7209810
Under pressure, nice
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Jawbreaker - Accident Prone
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4BlLskdYtg
Lou Reed - Walk on the Wild Side
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oG6fayQBm9w
Modest Mouse - The Cold Part
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BahnzGPQFPE
Björk - Army of Me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LyEJxzQM24Q
The Smiths - Unloveable
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olN4tsBmTHU
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Sorting through sensitivities 2016-11-12 04:57:45 Post No.7209035
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Sorting through sensitivities
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2016-11-12 04:57:45
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Alright so I am a bit flustered, and that may inhibit my capacity to accurately communicate...
But my question is this: why has it been deemed impossible (wholly, by some) or nearly impossible to be sexually attracted to trans women without being a fetishist scumbag peice of shit??!?
Now let me clarify, i know what pool i am swimming in, and I am well aware that upwards of 90% of guys with relatively similar feelings are guys that I would absolutely quantify as fetishist scumbag fuckheads......
I am not arguing against that.
I am focusing more on the fact that NOBODY gets to choose who they are attracted to.
Gayfags didn't choose to be attracted to boypenis.. I certainly didn't choose to be attracted to girlpenis!!!
Why am I automatically an unlovable peice of shit merely because I am a slave to my sexuality?
Most other """""""chasers""""""" don't seem to really give a shit, because they are bi as fuck and will just as gladly go hunt down a fishwrinkle and a boycock.. but there is difficulty in wanting only women, but never wanting fishwrinkle
TL;DR: why am I such a peice of shit, because i think your girlpenis looks adorable on you?
P.s. I can understand the dislike of wanting to get a """"vagina"""" and feeling pressured not to by a supposed lover... but surely someone who has no intention of getting a """"""""vagina"""""""" would not take up such issue?
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>>7209035
Many reasons:
1. Trans people in general are usually at least partially SJWs. SJWs tend to get overly emotional and exaggerate.
2. Mentally transwoman ARE woman. Having someone be attracted to you for a MALE part on your FEMALE body is disappointing and frustrating. Most of them don't even really like to use their penis sexually. They want and need to be treated like WOMAN. That is what they crave. Not some guy trying to get fucked by girl penis.
Really all of this hinges on your approach though. Treat trans girls like girls. Take them out on dates. Don't be embarrassed to show them off to friends and family. If you have sex don't be trying to get her to fuck you or trying to give her a blowjob.
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>>7209539
>Having someone be attracted to you for a MALE part on your FEMALE body is disappointing and frustrating.
I understand that, and am sympathetic to it...
I just don't see how it equates to that someone who is attracted to the male part (frustrating as that is), being a "fetishist"
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Look, people who have something different about them are going to attract people who like that different thing. Redheads attract guys who like redheads. The cold hard truth is that the average straight dude who has always dated chicks and never thought twice about shemales will not be receptive to starting a relationship with one. A penis is not just something guys can gloss over. They have to either be into it already or not be into it. A guy who has regular sex with women with vaginas who meets a cool trans chick and finds out she's trans is probably just gonna be like (in his head) "Too weird for me, I'm out". If he's into pussy and he is able to regularly date girls with pussies, why would he not just go on dating women who were born with pussies? You need to get some realistic expectations. I understand you don't want to be fetishized in a creepy way or have your dick touched, but just be realistic that the average well-adjusted dude who does not have even a slight interest in trans girls is not gonna be down with fucking you.
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Tell us about your oneitis
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mine
>be 18
>in ldr
>think ldrs work and everything is fine
>go to uni
>spy a 10/10 boy
>ohfug
>romantic tension is high because we're 100% into each other
>can't do anything though because I still care about bf
>a year later, can't deal
>break up with ldrbf
>we were together for 2 years, so i can't enter another relationship so easy
>after 6 months of getting over ex, start thinking about oneitis again
>he couldn't wait for me, got a new bf
>i lost everything
>spend the next 6 months trying to get over him too
>can't this time
>find qts online who are similar to him
>none can compare, all I ever do is wish it were him
I deserve it.
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>>7208390
I don't have one since I don't go out often enough. If I did, I would just have to give up on him because no man wants a disgusting, manly-looking tranny.
I should just end it and stop messing around with this idea of becoming a cute girl.
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>>7208401
what if you just try to make the best of it as a handsome man?
it would probably be easier in the long run.
you can always pretend inside that you're a pretty princess while he penetrates your boipucci while maintaining masc4masc emojis on your grindr profile
they're just emojis.
they don't change who you are inside.
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>tfw your parents accidentally see you naked for the first time since starting transitioning over a year ago
>tfw they see your pill-mutated girlboy body
>tfw their disappointed reaction at what has become of their once-perfect son
anybody else know this bad feel? normally I feel pretty okay about how my transition is going but this hit me in the gut
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and the yaoi plot thickens
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how would someone just under the radar "transition" under their parents roof?
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>>7208065
So they did or didn't know you were transitioning before then? If not, have they thought of an explanation? Like you're just a low test genetic failure or something.
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Reasons you told yourself not to transition 2016-11-11 23:24:18 Post No.7207590
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Reasons you told yourself not to transition
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im attracted to women so I'll just be shrinking my dating pool.
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I'm nearly bald already (horse shoe), big jaw bone, and a few others...
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too tall to pass, don't have money
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>>7207611
how tall are we talking, pham?,
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Have you renounced your faggot ways and become straight again now that Mike "Electric Shocks if you suck cocks" Pence is in office?
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If Mike "The Secret Fag" Pence even thinks about touching me I'll shoot him in the balls.
#FagsBashBack
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>>7206358
>implying you wouldn't want Pence to grab you by the boipuci
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>>7206282
> Implying you don't want to be shocked while sucking cocks
Are you people homosexuals or something?
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Would you date a serial killer who's otherwise perfect, your one true love and would never hurt you?
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I hope I never slip something about my past to the guy I'm seeing...
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Sure, why not
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>>7206124
Considering it could've been in self-defense.
Maybe.
>17 years old
>5 muslims attack him
>He kills all of them in self-defense
>Court decides he was too ruthless and charges him with multiple manslaughter
>Gets out a few years later because he was underage
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So what's a good way to meet decent traps/transgender women and the like? I'm having a hard time to find ones that aren't complete sluts going "OMG I'm such a trap teehee". I just want to meet a normalish trap thats not a fucking attention whore. I dislike women and vaginas but I adore a feminine body.
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>>7205968
shitposting on lgbt. jk thats not a good way, bye.
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>>7205968
It's probably easier to just change what you're into than actually finding someone like that.
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>I just want to meet a normalish trap thats not a fucking attention whore.
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>be a genuine, bonafide mtf tranny
>be on the bus home from work
>ill fitting tan work shirt, slacks, vans, basically just looking like a scrub
>obvious butch with shoulder length hair chillin on the bus with her date
>end up talking to them about whatever
>before I'm about to leave, the butch hands me a card with her number and a heart on it
Foolish lesbians. I've trapped you, trapped one of your very own. I've stolen a glimmer of your great golden star. Kyahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!
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>>7205868
>implying she didn't just clock you and wanted some of that sweet girldick
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>>7205935
That's certainly possible. Either way, I've stolen lesbian mana.
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bump for lesbian and straight man tears
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Can trans women split stretch?
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>>7205673
I have met men that can do it better than that.
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>>7205695
What about side stretch?
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>>7205673
I've had shit flexibility since childhood. That said, I'm pretty sure it's due to my sedentary lifestyle, so it can be improved to a degree.
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dealing with different sex drives 2016-11-11 15:55:02 Post No.7205597
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dealing with different sex drives
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my partner and i have been together for several years, and ever since the "honeymood" period ended, we've been having less and less sex. he is always stressed out and tells me that he simply is not interested in sex as much as I am. this has been a problem for him during relationships in the past. he also has troubles staying hard while topping and with cumming prematurely or not being able to cum.
he is not cheating on me, and i know he loves me. but this difference in sexual drive makes me resentful towards him as he does not respond to my advances and he rarely initiates. although anal intercourse is rare between us, we do sometimes jerk off together and do oral. but even this is like once a week, maybe twice.
the result of this is i find myself jerking off when i'm alone and then feeling guilty about it because i'd rather be getting off with my attractive partner. he, on the other hand, just is not interested.
i've considered talking to him about opening up our relationship, but he is a super jealous person. one time we went on chatrandom together and, after finding a guy my bf deemed "beautiful", he came really fast and hard. yet, afterwards he said he felt dirty and didn't want to do that again... let alone involve a third person in real life.
my partner's lack of sexual desire makes me feel unwanted, unattractive, and even like i don't know how to have sex or that my dick is too small. i've also become very passive in our relationship in general because i'm used to HIM deciding when we get to have sex. i have no control over it. i am always getting shot down, so now i don't even try. even when he initiates sometimes i don't respond because i know it won't lead to actual sex.
we've discussed these issues multiple times, but nothing ever changes. i'm convinced that as we get older he'll probably want sex even less.
sorry for the rant. help.
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Sme here
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>>7205597
Sorry you're going through this. Differing libidos have been the end of most of my relationships (slightly different since (a) I'm a lesbian and (b) most of my partners in relationships have been older).
Just some basic questions... how is his health? How is his self-esteem/image? What's his general activity level like? How old are you two? Has he had a physical check-up lately?
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we are both in our mid-twenties. he is active (works at a job where he's on his feet and we go to the gym). his self-esteem/image is not very good... this has a lot to do with him changing jobs a lot over the past two years. i also know his parents were conservative, and i wonder if maybe he was taught that sex was dirty or something.
the thing about him having low self-esteem is this: i want to support him and make him feel better. but the lack of sex makes me pretty depressed as well. he's even mentioned lately how i seem really down about life. i don't know why he can't figure out that some of that has to do with the fact we never have sex.
physically he is fine. he goes to the doctor regularly
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What did he mean by this?
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>>7203916
>plix vot for me :)
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>>7203916
http://www.nomblog.com/41186/
I dono if he will flip them off... this would be government intrusive policy. To ban it back.......
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>>7203916
He means that he saw folks in the audience with a handmade "LGBT for Trump" flag and decided to bring it up on stage and show it off.