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I had to wake up early today and only slept about 3.5 hours. But then I got back home, lied down and literally slept 7 hours more, since 10 am to 5 pm. And I'm already sleepy and tired again. What the fuck? Why do I need so much sleep?
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>>18559183
This is been a reoccurring issue or is it just only for today? If it is only for today don't worry about it because your body is used to going to sleep toward the evening so since it's five that means its getting tired like it had a full day.
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>>18559186
Since I finished uni I mostly go to bed late, maybe 4 am, and sleep to 1-2 pm. 10 hour sleep is the norm for me.

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I don't really like imageboards but I like the 4chan community, do my question is: do you know any board which have a it of the 4chan soul?
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lookism.com
sluthate.com
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>>18559158
>lookism.com
>sluthate.com

Thanks dude

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Hey /adv/ so here is my situation im just a regular 19 yo fag and I've only had sex 4 times(all with the same Chick) with a half nigger slut
She was actualy a pretty cool girl but when it came do doing it i would always get super fucking nervous and dick.exe would stop working and i would go limp or not full hard wich made sex lets say dificult,now recently after one year of hard work i finaly got out of the friend zone of this 8/10 Chick with amazing tits and ass and just and all round great girls and we have only made out ,nothing to sexual and its a pretty causal relationship but i think She Will want the D pretty soon and since 2 weeks my dick simply refuses to get a full boner on command the more i think about it the harder it gets only in the morning can i get my dick 100% hard and even when i force my self to fap i can only get my dick like 85% hard(i can still cum) and im so fucking scared it took me so much work to get out of the friendzone with this girl and this will fuck everything up
What should i do?
>First time posting here
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>>18559127
First of all, you are overthinking this.
Second of all, are you me from the past?
Dude I feel like a lot of, if not most guys feel like that for their first ...-20 times of sex. Just stay chill and maybe talk to the girl about it.
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>>18559127
STOP FAPPING you idiot. Then you'll probably be OK.
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>>18559163
I did for a while then my dick broke so i Started to fap just to check if everything was working

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I've known this one girl for like 7 years now, and I've always thought she was cute. In highschool she always told me I wasnt her type so we just remained friends.

Right after we graduated we celebrated by going out for some food and a late night drive while just talking, and she was telling me the type of guys shes into, and she word for word described me pretty much, but I figured she meant someone else

A few years ago we had a bonfire and after I picked her up she kept going through my phone asking if I was single, was I seeing anyone, etc. I didn't get to make a move cause my buddy was 3rd wheeling it with us. I hadn't spoken to her since then

Then this morning she said she had the night off this Friday and asked if I wanted to go to a movie with her. Is she showing interest, or just being friendly??
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>>18559077
Yes.
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She's clearly interested.
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Maybe this is a territory of women I'm unsure about like OP but girls, at least with each other, get really close and personal with questions and the like so I could see a girl behaving like this to a close friend regardless of gender.

I'd say look for a playful way of bringing it up without using the F word "Oh, you're so funny, I'm so glad to have you around, maybe I'll find a girl just like you who'll go on a date with me."

"But OP, this kinda looks like a date right here ;)"

You're in.

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During the end of the last school year I became good friends with this girl. She ended up moving to Florida. We tried to keep in touch but she eventually stopped responding to my messages. I decided to remove her because I didn't want to bother her anymore. Later that week she messages me on Skype saying she still wants to be friends and wants me to add her back. I add her back and try to message her. She doesn't respond. Is she just playing with my feelings? Should I just cut my ties with her?
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>>18559071
Ya
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Sounds like my behavior when I'm depressed and want to be alone for right now.

Maybe she's going through something too? If she reached out and said she still wants to be friends, she meant it. Just give her time and stop overthinking it.

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How do you speak to a girl you like without making her think you want her to have your babies?
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> when the pic matches 4chan virgins perfectly
Kek

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So I binged online and ordered about 10 movie posters of varying sizes to hang up in my room cause it's been looking bland AF

How should I go about giving them protection/ hanging them up? Framing or laminating come to mind, but there have to be other options

Ideas?
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Definitely lament them. Not only will it make it survive longer, but if you hang it up on your wall, the chances of it tearing are nonexistent. Just be careful when rolling up the posters.

I used to workout a while ago. I would be at the gym with my friend for about 2 hours 7 days a week. I stopped going for a yearish and I started to workout again. I've been having a huge issue with it though. When I workout I always get sick to my stomach and feel really weak and have no energy to workout like 10 minutes into a workout, sometimes less. I start with hype, energy, and desire but after a few sets I am dead and can't even manage to lift light.
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It could be because your blood sugar decreases as you begin working out. Try eating an hour/hour and a half before working out, then you'll certainly have the energy.

It could also be the opposite, that you're eating right before your workout.
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>>18559062
I would sometimes eat before and eat after and its all the same. I think I just need to focus on eating certain things before to get energy I guess.
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>>18559074
Bananas are the go-to food here. I always eat a couple before a workout. They don't fill up your stomach so you feel bloated, and they give you an energy boost for atleast 30-40 min.

I also eat a couple bananas AFTER my workout :^)

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OK.
I don't know why I am here of all the places that I could've gone to, but maybe of all the things that have come and gone in my life, 4chan has remained constant ever since I was 15.(I'm 24 now, almost a decade, phew).
So, this issue runs deep, it's a significant part of who I am.
I cannot stay engaged to anything I do after a certain period of time, ever. I don't think it's ADD/ADHD because I've never had problems at school/college while I am in the class, listening to the teacher/professor. Once I returned home though my focus on studies became limited.
This not just regarding studies though, it pervades every aspect of my life. For instance, I liked to draw and sketch when I was 13. I was pretty good at it too. My mom persuaded me to join an art class for professionals. I joined, went for 2 weeks, and then simply discontinued going. There was a time when I got crazy about solving the rubicks cube. I saw tutorials on youtube, learned to solve it in under a minute and stopped. Haven't touched it since. The only reason I did good in school was because of my mom. She always monitored my grades, made sure I did my homework and yelled her head off at me to get me to study for the exams. So when I lived by myself during college my grades dropped drastically. I merely managed to graduate.
I just started working. Initially it was alright. A few months later, I now spend most of my time browsing the web and just meeting the deadlines.
I have been evaluating my life for the past few days. I realized that this condition extends to everything about my life. I don't bother about relationships (friends or relatives), I have no discernible taste in music, no preference for food, I only imitate the dressing style of those around me and have no hobbies or interests that I can think about. I cannot name anybody who I can call a close friend in whom I can confide in. I merely exist.
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So what's your question ?
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Another thing is I cannot sit still and maintain focus for durations longer than 5 minutes. In the span of typing this out, I have changed my place about 5 times. Although if I am doing something that is highly stimulating, for example solving a good puzzle, watching a great movie or reading an interesting book I can hold my concentration. I think I cannot maintain focus for things that I need to do rather than I want to do.
I tried to change. I tried to consciously discipline my self. I started meditating, forcing myself to stay focused on work, run a few rounds daily. It worked for a whole of a month and then I relapsed. I tried it again a few more times and relapsed again. Everytime I relapse the chaos in my mind increases multifold.
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I now feel that everything is futile. The very thing that controls my body is actively destroying me. What's more frustrating is that I am an ambitious guy. I had planned out everything I wanted to do, a spreadsheet for fucks sake. I just can't get myself to do anything.
Off late I have been having suicidal thoughts. I almost came close to throwing myself off the bridge near my home. Nobody knows what's going on in my mind, not even my parents, or my room mates, or my brother. I don't divulge much. I don't know how much more I can keep this up. I am wasting away.

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My brain feels like it's always mifsfiring. It only haz\ppens after a few hopurs of being awake but it won't stop. I can't remember any specific details after two days have passed and I'm always getting headc hes. I keep losing focuis when I try to concenctrate on a task and it's hitting me today much worse like my mind skips a second trying to keep up with my eyes and I fumble . I tried plugging in my fan nine times before I could see straight it's usaully not this bad after I get up
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>>18558847
Misufiringu syshtemu
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See a doctor asap. This could be any number of things and /adv/ cannot successfully diagnose this. But it sounds serious, so go get help.
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You need to see a doctor.

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I need help /adv/. I'm literally an aspie but I found this girl on tinder and she seems interested. Problem is I have to keep up a conversation over the internet for the next few days and I absolutely suck at internet conversations.

What are some topics that I can discuss with her that will guarantee we don't run out of shit to talk about? Something that'll keep her interested before some other faggot snatches from me.
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Ask her about herself, and let her answers both give you more questions and remind you of things about yourself which you can share if she asks.

>What do you like to do for fun?
>Oh, cool, do you...
>Maybe we should do that sometime
>What else?
>Family?
>You grow up here?
>Like it here?
>Yeah I agree (focus on agreeability where possible but be realistic and honest, don't be a suck up, it's dishonest and very transparent, agreeability generally makes for better conversation too)
>School?

There's plenty of questions, try checking out some youtube videos on this sort of thing, or try people watching and eavesdrop some conversations in public.

Remember to take your time and relax, slow down if you catch yourself talking fast because you're nervous, give yourself time to think.
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cont.

also since it's an internet conversation (I guess taking your time isn't as applicable) find some funny memes or youtube videos to share

>22 years old
>Watching world swimming championship
>20 yrs old 4th place

Realising i'm nothing. :(
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So make something of yourself. Or idk, dont. No one is going to hold your hand and show you the way, seize the moment or keep being passive letting life whittle away day by day.
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>>18558735
Very few people do something extraordinary by definition. You feel bad because only the extraordinary feats get highlighted and it warps your outlook.
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> 28
> Still at Mom's
> Threw away software career for my startup at 21
> Still not self sufficient

I have not lost faith.
I am still making progress everyday.
We're all going to make it.

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Help me /b/
I'm a 20 year old friendless male virgin who's never had a girlfriend, kissed, or dated. Is that bad or fine/okay? It's not by choice. I'm living in a conservative Asian country called Taiwan and I'm half Asian-half white, but I look entirely more Caucasian so I'm regarded as a foreigner.. , if you try to date a certain Taiwanese girl, you will face discrimination if you're not Han Taiwanese. People including the family will want to know what you're doing with her. Heck a girl said she had to ask/bring her father along when I asked her to watch a movie with me. Unless you find a so called "slut"/"bad girl", an open liberal type girl who likes white people, or hire an escort you'll have a tough time getting laid. I've had my motorcycle knocked over and gas cap pulled out. Its that conservative
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>Asian country called Taiwan
I love how you felt the need to introduce your country as if nobody ever heard of it

20 is fine dude. You'll find your liberal one day soon enough. I've had friends who didn't fuck until they were way into their twenties, and most of them turned out excellent

Hi /adv/

I was wondering if you could share your experiences with me on this subject:

I started to hang out with a girl from my work recently. We kinda felt something to each other, started to go for coffee breaks together and all that shit you can do at work to keep company with another work buddy.

We talked a lot and got a couple of similar interests, I asked her out after a while but she was weird about it, she told me she really liked me and she doesn't want to date, she just wants to be friends, I was ok with that. We started to go out, for drinks, to dinner etc. but just as friends. One night she came back to my apartment with me and we had amazing sex.

I thought it's gonna be awkward after that to see her at work ( we did it on sunday, so go figure ), but actually she was really horny after that in our conversations. She asked me to become her fuck friends, cause ''she really liked me and I'm a good at it, also it's fun and great for stress''.

I was fine with it, but instead of casual sex just as fuck buddies and friends we sleep with each other almost every night, we hang out a lot, all she says is that she's affraid that I'm gonna fall in love with her and she warns me, but from my point of view she changed a little, like she starts the conversations, she mentiones sex all the time, she flirts with me, she invites me every night, calls me at night etc.

What should I do? I really like her, she's great, I don't know if she loves me, but if she does that would be great, cause I'm starting to have feelings for her as well. Is it possible for it to stay at this fuck friends level or does it always ends up in a relationship?

Please do tell if you had similar situations.

pic kinda related
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>>18558672
It will probably evolve into feelings eventually.

But for now just enjoy having pussy dude

Why ruin a good thing? It won't be very often a girl will be wanting for your dick
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>>18558672

She doesn't want you to fall in love with her because she wants to enjoy the freedom she currently has with you. She wants to enjoy all the first time butterflies a new relationship is giving her because far too many men maybe had fallen in love with her from the go. She knows that when that happens she will need to break up because they've become too serious.

Eventually if you have been long around enough and she's truly satisfied been with you the feeling will advance even more. Maybe she'll be drawn to you, wanted more then that. At that point, you will start noticing her hints because you'll be long enough with her to know what she's thinking.

TL.DR: Enjoy the moment, don't think so much of it. She just want the fun and the seriousness after. She'll hint you she's in love with you by herself.
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>>18558672
maybe at the same time flirt with other girls in front of her or mention other girlsee how she reacts. she might then be open to actually dating you

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If you are not drinking coca cola or monster energy while listening to music you are doing it wrong. I actually feel my mind is on a hypedrive when I drink these instead of just water. Maybe glucose isn't that bad for the brain after all?:) Don't partake in this sodas are bad bullshit. I felt lethargic eat some honey and I feel instantly better, energetic and able to concentrate and not just sleep.
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>i was merely pretending to be retarded lmfao ur so gullible tricked!!1!
Is the lowest form of trolling. Wow you sure got us

But yeah if youre serious, youre just dumb. Obviously a literal handful of sugar and caffeine and other mild stimulants is going to give you a boost of energy, but only for a short time before you crash. Everything has a cost. "Dont tell me its unhealthy because i like it" have fun being diabetic at age 45 and blowing out your kidneys lol.

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