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What is a great man?
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Same as a great woman, which is to say you can only be a great person and your sex doesn't matter. You know what a great person is by niw, don't you?
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>>18561703
Obviously not.
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the size of a man is defined by the size of the problems that bother him, so it's hard finding a man that is greater than an astronomer or someone studying human idioty.

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I feel so tense, how can I relax?
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get off the internet, have a bath, go for a countryside walk, meditate.

Humans are constantly over-stimulated in this day and age.
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>>18561723
This
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>>18561679
"Doc, sometimes I think I'm a wigwam and sometimes I think I's a tepee."

"Relax, man. You're two tents"

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Wanted to try selling stuff on amazon through FBA. Was wondering if any of you had any experience with this? Had a few product ideas. Found cheap suppliers through Alibaba. I have a little startup money. Did you guys hit any roadblocks? How much Marketing did you have to do for your products?
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Age 14 - Smoked Marijuana 4x a year, 3.8 GPA Student.
Age 15 - Smoked Marijuana 12x a year, 3.8 GPA
Age 16 - Smoked Marijuana every day, tripped on LSD, constant partying, sex, 3.5 GPA, got caught by parents with an Oz of marijuana, changed countries (US to Australia) in the middle of 11th grade.
Age 17 - Continued with marijuana, below 1.00 GPA (equivalent), went to another country for 2 months during my 11th grade to 12th grade transition, Got really high in the country almost got myself killed by a gang, came back to Australia changed houses, changed schools, lied to get into the school, decided to repeat 11th grade cause my below 1.00 GPA (equivalent) was too fucked up from the other school in Australia, administrators found out I lied and my teachers after finding out i lied started to single me out, my older sis was fighting drug withdrawals at the time so she was admitted into a mental hospital for 3 weeks, around that time i had drawn the line of being singled out at school by superiors and witnessing my sisters weird actions during withdrawals so i dropped out. Moved back to original area.
Age 18 - Went into vocational education, no job, no HS diploma, No GPA.
Age 19 - No Job, Got a Diploma, Isolated myself from all social interactions and gatherings. Got accepted into a University, got appendicitis on the first day of University was out of class for almost a month, failed 2 of the 4 units and now my prospects of finishing this degree are enormously screwed.
Age 20 - No job, no life, no income, no friends, no prospects, no experience, no drivers license, no one to vent my frustrations to, no one to talk to, still living with parents.
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Thanks for taking the time to read this, I value your time. ANY sort of advice would be helpful since I don't really talk to anyone.
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All I have to say is don't give up hope. Just because you suffer today does not mean you there's no room for change. It's all a matter of whether or not you want to do it. So just take a look in the mirror, realize what you're going through, and persevere my friend. You may have nothing, but you are definitely something.
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>>18561544
Get your shit together. Big whoop, you smoked pot and could pass the easiest challenge you will ever face from the time you are 14 onward.
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Really you have many problems I agree, so have I.
The best thing you can do it tackle one at a time.

Go round recruitment agencies in your city and take whatever job you can get. It might be shitty but its the best place to start. You can then start saving money.That gets you a job, income, life and goals

Volunteer to walk dogs at weekends, sign up to meetup and attend poker nights, art clubs, book clubs whatever you want. That gets you a life, friends and more.

Perhaps after sometime you can look into qualifications to do with your job or look into another area which will get you prospects. Life aint easy bro and the more you think about how 'perfect' it should be the worse you'll feel. Stay off drugs, stay strong

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Hey anons I'm addicted to /Pol/. It started when I discovered it a few years back. I used to browse through the catalog for a quick laugh and boy didn't it disappoint. My sides were almost always in orbit by the absurdity of the posts. However, I started seeing the reality of some of what those fagots say in my country in Europe and I started leaning right. This is changing my world view and making more aggressive. Is this justified? If I quit /Pol/ am I censoring my self. Am I burying my head in the sand like an ostrich?
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/pol/ is an extreme place and should be taken as entertainment rather than actual political discussions.

Limit how often you go there and remember not to believe everything you read.
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>>18561524
>Is this justified
Depends what you're angry about.
>If I quit /pol/ am I censoring myself?
If you quit cigarettes are you censoring yourself?
>Am I burying my head in the sand like an ostrich.
Depends what you believe. A lot of the shit they are saying is true, but there's also a shit ton of conspiracy theories without a shred of evidence. If you're believing shit like pic related, then yeah, you're burying your head in the sand.
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>>18561524
Yes

/pol/ is right but it just one view of the whole true
the world is change and human ideas about right or wrong is change together

I suggest you be yourself
like jesus say . nothing in this world have wroth enough to compare with yourself

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Advice on abandoning the need/want for love? How do you achieve that and still be a contempt with life person?
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Play video games or join the army.
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>>18561461
You don't. Humans are hardwired to socialize and the impulse to find love is one of the strongest.

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>Be me
>6:00 AM
>About to go to sleep
>Lay down on bed
>Look at the ceiling
>Cat's at my room sleeping on her bed
>Ask my existence and why I'm here
>Start to panic
>Start to feel empty
>Start to scream
>Have a panic attack
>My cat gets really frighten and mad
>Starts to scratch my right leg really hard
>Start to bleed
>Cat hiss at me really scared

This is not the first time I have a panic attack, I've been having them since I was 10. I've anxiety, I only get panic attacks when I ask my existence. This last panic attack I had made my cat really frightened, so I want to know if a cat can get any kind of heart/brain disease because of getting too frightened? I've never seen her hiss at me, she got really frightened. This happened almost a month ago, and since then my cat has been twitching while she sleeps and when she does that and I try to wake her up she takes a time to awake and she feels weightless.
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>>18561460
Do you know what a panic attack actually feels like? If you did, you would know better than to ever let yourself get to the point where you have another one.

It literally feels like a heart attack. Not, "Oh, I'm so scared! You gave me a heart attack!" It's more of a, "Call 911! I'm having a heart attack! I don't want to die!"

If you ever actually had a real panic attack, and not a Tumblr "oh-I'm-so-special-I-get-panic-attacks-give-me-attention!" panic attack, you would be in the hospital within the hour, and speaking to a psychologist within a day, desperate to never feel that again.

Grow the fuck up, and own your fucking shit. Maybe get a fucking job, and keep a decent sleep schedule.
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>>18561487
I know it's not a panic attack, but I don't know what to call it, I guess being a dumb fucking idiot is what I should call it. I don't go to the fucking doctor because the attacks aren't that hard they're just frightening. I don't have panic attacks and I don't wanna have one. I slept really late that day because it was my free day, I usually get two days and I fucking sleep really late jerking off or being a fucking moron in this website. The question here is not my panic attacks, it's my fucking cat, my fucking cat got fucking scared because of me, a useless waste of flesh. I don't want my cat to get a fucking heart disease, a trauma, or psychological damage. I want to know if she has something before getting her to the vet.
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>>18561562
If the cat isn't showing symptoms of something (being scared isn't a symptom, limping or having seizures is a symptom), you don't have to worry about shit.

That said, you should worry about yourself if you consider yourself a dumb fucking idiot, a moron, or a useless waste of flesh.

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So I'm 180 cm 67 kg 22 yrs old male, In high school I was told constantly that I must be gay, my friend's girlfriend told me I'm either gay or virgin, the gym owner frequently tells me "how is it going prince" or "princess". I don't know what is wrong with me, I'm into women that's 100%. What could I do???
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Complain to your princess for the genes that gave you a feminine look.
Try and dress sharper if it annoys you that much.
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>>18561458

Its the way you look or talk.

I used to get it sometimes. Only reason i dont know is because im married. Its not that annoying either so deal.
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>>18561458

shallow prejudice based on appareance should not be ever trusted.

Maybe you are too much self-conscious and well educated, so you attract jokes like "prince", "princess" and "gay".

Try giving a fuck, other people are not annoyed at all if you show independece, it works quite the opposite instead: the more you behave like you don't have to be overly nice, the more they appreciate your presence. You are not going to kill anybody if you take charge of your personal space.

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Hey /adv/
I'll be introducing my gf and her mother to my mother today at a restaurant. We've been together for little over a year now.

Any tips to ensure it goes smoothly?
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Don't talk about the awkward sex you have and it should be okay.
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>>18561455
Make sure to wear your finest cape, brand new Heelys, and to bring a tub of spaghetti with you to the restaurant. Everyone will be impressed with your look and money-saving knowledge, and that you will take good care of your girlfriend.
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Thanks guys for the euphoric advice. I'll be sure to order chicken tendies.

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I want to lose weight and overall feel better. My priority for exercise is:
Confidence > Looks > Strength

I've been doing C25k for a while and I feel great running, it's fun for me because it's barely 30 min, I have a park right next to my home and I can listen to music. Sure I go kinda slow and it gets hard but it's bearable.

I've been looking into weightlifting routines tho, to get into it after I get the handle fo running 5k and it isn't too hard, so I can do a week of 3 cardio days and 3 weightlifting day.

But weightlifting looks so fucking complicated. I'm reading routine guides, lots of concepts I don't understand at all, months ago I tried the compound lifts but my posture was shit and ended up hurting my back, everybody shits every routine and there isn't a consensus in which is the best for beginners...

I don't know if I should do Starting Strength, Strong Lifts 5x5, SkullGrey LP, 5/3/1 for Beginners, GZCLP or what the flying fuck. And anyway I'm scared that I won't be able to fix my technique and just fuck my body immensely again.

Any advice? I'd like to keep it as minimalist as possible...
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Go to /fit/ no one here cares.
Also if you think lifting is hard and want to get abs for the least amount of work possible then you WILL fail. We don't lift to be confident or happy, we lift because we must.
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> weightlifting to lose weight
Why?
Do body weight exercises and calisthenics along with your running routine, and work on overall flexibility. You'll get stronger, leaner, and have better endurance.
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>>18561443
Read Starting Strength, the book.
Since you aren't all that interested in getting stronger, your best plan is to do the SS routine anyway, but once you finish it (4-6 months) move on to a PPL.
For strength you'd move to the Texas Method for a while, and then to a TM-based PPL or UL split, but for you it will be easier to skip the base TM.

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Hey /adv/!

You helped me out a lot in the past, thanks for that and here I am again.

So I suffer from depression and wanted to try to get better without meds. I followed my docs advice, which was working on stuff and be productive a lot, and it actually works for me. It's not like I am cured, but I feel better and I hope I will improve more and more over time. With that being said, here's what I need advice for.

I tried to ignore girls and not fall for one too hard, since I realized that it's not healthy to start relationships in the state I was in, especially after I got used by some girl last year, which told me she loves me, we basically had a relationship without being official (sounds stupid I know), and then she fucked some other dude and made out with multiple dudes at some party. You could say I got "cucked".

So I met another girl a while back. I didn't know her, but she recognized me from my youtube channel (I'm not famous mostly people from around where I live know about my channel) and she walked up to me at a party and told me that she really enjoys my content and my sense of humor, and then had to leave. Weeks later I go through my subs, found her name and messaged her on fb thanking her again but stopped to text her more since I had the concerns stated above.

Now I can't get this girl out of my head for weeks. She always watches my videos and likes the posts I make, which doesn't mean much but I know she acknowledges me.

Here I am, feeling better and better, still thinking about this girl and I wonder if I should message her again and maybe meet up with her some time? Or should I not until I feel 100% good again (if that even happens at some point)

Cont.
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>>18561339

From my experience, relationships helped me a lot through my depression (depending on the person) and of course I don't want to say that I use relationships for emotional support but you get the idea. On the other hand I know how damaging girls can be but she seems like a genuinely nice person.

Basically I'm insecure about being ready to get hurt again. I can't let my love life go down the drain just because of this stupid depression. Should I hit her up or better not?

I talked to friends about it and they all said "You have to decide that for yourself.", but I would really really appreciate some helpful advice.
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Not sure about the love life stuff, perhaps wait until you're much more confident to take that on, but one thing that will help for sure for the depression and keeping it away id the Mindful way Through Depression course, which I've slapped up here: http://www.mediafire.com/file/stl5ctg1ptogszt/MWTD.zip

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Last year I met this guy S that I really hit it off with. We tried being friends with benefits. It was fun and as a friend I helped him with some life problems - so then S wanted more and I had to break it off. I just didn't feel the same way.

A year later - S got over his feelings and was my best friend. I have a few really good friends, but I dislike burdening ppl with my problems so I just keep shit to myself in general. He was the exception.
A few months back we were both single again and at a party. We got drunk and had sex. After that S would try repeatedly to initiate fwb again, but I would always refuse.

Last week I was invited a barbeque party. The next morning S had an appointment near my appartment. So S was just gonna pick me up after the barbeque and then game with me at my place and leave in the morning. But by the time he got to the barbeque, I was already pretty drunk, 'cause a 'friend' kept sneaking alcohol into my drinks. So instead of gaming we stayed. By the time we left - it was dark out, I couldn't walk straight and S was more than a bit tipsy.

On the way back he would try to get me to blow him and I'd say 'no, that's a bad idea - let's just go home'. Back at my place I'd try to sleep, but he'd keep pushing me for a hand job. Being drunk, I just stopped refusing at some point. Then he got up and went for the bj while I just layed there. And he filmed it. At some point I blacked out and woke up again when he came on me. The next the morning he left for his appointment hoping I wouldn't remember.

I texted him that we aren't friends anymore. I know his life is really hard and he doesn't have much going for him atm and that the regret is killing him. Now I'm an emotional mess and can't concentrate on shit. Don't know what to do with him or myself, can't talk to him and don't know who else to talk to.
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>>18561319
Wow, what a worthless slut you are. And what advice are you asking for?
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>>18561319
>We were drunk and had sex
Drunkenness isn't an excuse. You are still responsible for your actions.

>Being drunk, I just stopped refusing at some point. Then he got up and went for the bj while I just layed there. And he filmed it. At some point I blacked out and woke up again when he came on me
See above.

>The next the morning he left for his appointment hoping I wouldn't remember.
Don't pretend to be a mind reader. Unless he told you that (which you didn't state), you don't know.

>Don't know what to do with him or myself, can't talk to him and don't know who else to talk to.
Start taking responsibility for your decisions, and hold others responsible for theirs. You were a piece of shit for getting so drunk you couldn't put up resistance to a sleaze bag, and for befriending a sleaze bag. He's a piece of shit for taking advantage of the situation.

You're both pieces of shit.

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Why do Lay's potatoe chips give me headaches ? Just in general, eating a bit of it or to much.
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>>18561287
nocebo effect reinforcing itself
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>>18561287
That stuff is salty as heck!

To much sodium can cause headaches.

I prefer the lightly salted version myself though
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>>18561302
I'm not addicted to it, it's my first time in years, I just tried them today and oh boy, it made me realize why I avoided them in the first place
>>18561307
I was thinking about that to, then I realized, this is the only product so far I realized that gives me headaches

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Girl I know keeps breaking up with her boyfriend. She seems to break up with him every other month for a week or two. She broke up with him again right when summer started. She added him back the other day then removed him and then added him back today. She seems to be pretty fake and copy memes and other people constantly.says what she thinks people wanna hear etc rather than saying things that she means. Wtf is wrong with her? I've known her on and off for 7 years. She refuses to block me and every now and then if she sees me outside yells at me from a far or stares at me etc. I'm trying to forget about her. She's half my age lol which is why she doesn't want to talk to me.
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>>18561280
Who cares? It's not your problem.

OH NO! ELLO 4CHANS PLZ HELP ME COS I HAV A SISTER CALLD GRACE & SHE IS RLY FAT. SHE IS EATIN DA FURNITURE IN DA HOUSE! WAT IS UR ADVISE?

pic related dats her.
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>>18561226
YO DAWG! YOU MUST SLAP DAT GARL BEFOURE SHE EATS YO FURNITURE MY DUDE!

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