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It's never too late for higher education. You would need a Doctoral degree and acquire a state license before being able to practice though. That includes getting a bachelor's first before accessing the required Uni-level programs.
>How is it as a career?
$80k annual, decent hours.
>Is it like being a doctor?
No.

>>16605592
>it's never too late

Yes it is. Like a retirement account, it can be too late to ever see a return on investment for higher education.

To OP, you waited a long while and you're close to being shut out. If you are going to do anything like that worth your life, you need to start taking purposeful steps as soon as possible.

>>16605592

You don't need a doctorate, but a Masters is the minimum one requires from a person.

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I also have no idea why this saved as a thumbnail

What else do you do that is making you procrastinate?

>>16605571
>How do I stick to a schedule?

Set a timer, do those things within the time allowed, then do a second thing and so on. All a schedule is, is basically timed events or events happening at specified times.

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He was in the wrong.

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It's not Tim's fault honestly. Clover told him she was single and Tim had no reason to believe she was lying.

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Google free e-books?

go over to /lit/

>>16605533
working for less than pajeet and xiang tsung

^^^^^^

pretty much.

>>16605559
A lot of companies don't push much over to thirld worlders anymore because they (the companies) have learnt the importance of maintainability

I think perhaps you should see your doctor. Losing your train of thought halfway through the conversation might be a sign that there's a problem with your memory. It happens to the best of us occasionally, but it shouldn't be happening as often as I assume it is for you.

It might even be an issue with anxiety. Either way, see your doctor.

>>16605541
I dont't think it's related to my memory ( hopefully not). Most likely its anxiety as you said.

But no, 2 days without any contact whatsoever, which I normally wouldn't mind but when he left I felt sort of hungry and was feeling really weak, figured it was due to no food so I eat a slice of plain bread. Instantly regret decision as stomach is in intense pain, making these weird fucking noises. Later on I woke up on the hard tiled kitchen floor, puke all down me, dogs licking the puke off my face, head in so much pain and ears ringing. Eventually sorted myself out, later that night some weird green shit started coming out of my eyes, looked like phlegm, figured it was because of my blocked sinuses, wash it out, go to bed.
Like 2 hours later I wake up feeling like someone has poured acid in my eyes, jump up, try to get bearings, my eyes are fucking sealed shut by some crispy shit and its all over my face, try to pick off, not coming so I run to bathroom and fill sink with warm water, dunk head in expecting sweet relief and get burning eye pain instead, dry them off and fumble around blind knocking into shit before I just rip the stuff off taking some of my eye lashes with it, I now have fucking bald patches on my eyes.

Looking in the mirror my eyes are massive, red, puffy and veiny and don't want to stay open, air, lights and water are burning them intensely. So I send about 20 texts to my dad with the talk thing describing in detail wtf has happened and asking for help/advice and I don't get anything back. I phone him constantly for hours but it keeps going to voicemail, I tried to phone my local doctor but they hung up because I couldn't talk.

>>16605518
So I'm laying on the bathroom floor, blind, unable to talk, can't sleep because my throat is completely blocked along with my nose and it keeps jerking me out of sleep and giving me a heart attack and I have constant coughing fits. I was like this for a day and still no contact from dad, or anyone. Took the plunge eventually and stuck face underwater with eyes open, I was in so much pain I thought my eyes were going to burst, now I can keep them open in the dark but this green shit keeps coming out.

Anyway, finally after 2 days my dad finally phones me, but by this time I'm so angry at him I reject call, tell him I can't talk and not to worry about it, expecting a text back asking if I'm okay, confirming when he'll be home, anything really, especially after the 20 odd texts I,sent him telling how scared and in pain I was, its been 40 mins and fucking nothing. Checked my cousin's fb and apparently the whole family is going to my aunt's house today for a party, which is in the other direction of where he is to my house, so he won't be coming home today or if he does it will be really late and I'm so fucking angry and upset and I don't even know what to do, and I don't even want to tell him all this now because every time we get in a fight he just shouts till I can't be bothered to reply anymore, me not even being able to respond will just make it him shouting at me while I stand there in pain. Plus he's bringing my uncle and cousin over when he does finally get back and I don't want an audience. I know I won't be able to just hide and ignore him however as he'll come and harass me till I respond so I don't even know what to do.

Meanwhile my eyes are still leaking this green burning goo. This motherfucker didn't even text me merry Christmas.

You haven't eaten in over a week, and you haven't thought to get medical attention?

Homeless shelter or 24 hour gym

>>16605494
1. truck stop bathrooms
2. laundromat

you can also do both of these in the sink at a single-person public bathroom, but you can expect to be banned or asked to leave if it's obvious that you're using the bathroom for sponge baths and washing clothes

>>16605499
or this, though I'm not sure a gym membership would be in your budget OP

also I am sorry to hear that times are so hard for you, seems like bad times are hitting everybody more and more. hope things get better for you OP

>>16605465
Go, have fun. It'll get you inna woods for a few days, at the very least. Don't go in with preconceived notions of anything else beyond that; it'll only lead to disappointment if you do. Enjoy the time outdoors and in good company, and if things progress beyond that, hey, added bonus.
Take a little spontaneous risk, son.

>>16605471

I don't expect anything to happen, if you're talking about what I think you are. I'm just thinking about leaving my house like I haven't really done in five years and just being out, you know? I don't want to do something stupid or unexpected and then regret it later, but at the same time I don't want to not do it and regret it later.

I'm also fighting with myself because I am an adult and I should be able to make up my own mind on this, but I can't. I'm like a hobbit, honestly. I like my home and my area, but at the same time I want at least some adventure like I said. Will it matter though if I'm sitting in my chair in front of my computer or in the woods around a small fire? It may not be a difficult decision for other people but I am still indecisive.

>>16605508
>>I don't expect anything to happen, if you're talking about what I think you are.
Can't blame me for assuming, considering 95% of all the fucking posts on this board invariably lead to the same question.
Put the situation into context: it's only a few days, then you get to go back to your comfort zone. This is a call to adventure if there ever was one. If your normal gig is to just fart around your house and local area, then getting outdoors--out into a controlled location, no less, considering it's on private property--is a break from that. You could do well with a change in routine.

>>16605459
Get that shit checked out, that's one of the major signs of an on set heart attack and you're in a prime age group for it.

>>16605468
OP here. Got myself checked, I'm fine. I just wanted to say thanks anyway.

>>16605459

are you sure your arm isn't just dead from sleeping on it/inactivity?

I went through a hypochondriac phase when I was 25 where I got that same feeling when I would wake up at night. But it was obviously from my head resting on it for hours.

Dont act clingy. But show her you cafe (if you do care) and maybe she'll see that you're a decent human who isn't just some thirstyass nigga wanting to fuck her. Its OK to be clingy though. It shows that you care

>>16605381
>>16605381
She knows I am not just trying to sleep with her (btw this girl is out of my league, I am not a bad looking guy but I am fat. She likes big italian looking guys but she is like, the chick every dude is staring at when she walks into the room, huge tits, fat ass, lots of selfies etc. I was shocked she was into me at first.)

She also knows I haven't pursued a relationship in like 10 years because I have been busy pursuing my career and she seemed fine with it. Should I just not text her for a few days and see what happens, or be like "hey look I know I am a retard when it comes to this stuff, if you don't wanna talk its cool but just let me know if I am wasting my time here"

>>16605375
If you live in a predominantly non-Christian country, ignore this post. Otherwise...

I said this in another thread, but I'll say it here too. IT'S FUCKING CHRISTMAS. People are busy doing Christmas things with their family and friends, or staying home and sticking candy canes in their asses while watching the Charlie Brown Christmas special for the 895th time or whatever it is people do on Christmas by themselves. Or they're just enjoying a day off to themselves before they have to go back to their hellhole of a workplace. I don't care how lonely or NEET or desperate or non-Christian you think someone is - if you're not actually their SO or a good friend or close family member, don't expect to hear from them on Christmas or even the day after. Just...relax already.

>>16605334
She has a boyfriend. How does that make you feel. You shouldn't involve yourself in other people's relationships. -source : I have trust issues with my gf. She stays in contact with her ex's.

But don't Abandon her. Thank just make things worse

>>16605422
That's my point though. Her and I were flirting with each other the entire time without telling me she had a boyfriend.
I told her I thought it was inappropriate and that it needed to stop, but I wanted to remain friends. She was the one who go mad and tried to justify us flirting, saying her boyfriend was alright with it (which I'm like 99% sure was her lying in order to keep me around to give her attention)

She was the one who abandoned me and refused to be my friend.

My main concern here is trying to reunite with the group of friends she may or may not have turned against me.
Even if she didn't, I kinda removed all forms of contact between my friends and I because I was just fed up with everything. Now I want to speak with my friends again but I'm afraid I might have burned some bridges by avoiding them for the past two-or-so months.

>>16605306
Stop talking to them and hanging out with them. Make up excuses to not do stuff with them. Try to find other people to hang out with that you actually get along with, preferably in person. But I've found that even internet friends, if I can talk to them and they're not annoying and shit, are better than having IRL friends who are aggravating.

Why dance?

>>16605309
I would like to know this too. But regardless, your best bet is to take some dance classes.

>>16605478
Oh and also, if you haven't taken voice lessons, take some of those too. Even the best natural singer can benefit from formal training.

>>16605290
you're fine man, keep those dylan tunes rolling.

>>16605290
Mildly fucked, but not in any way that isn't fixable. You're just getting a little later start is all. It's true that some of the more lucrative careers are harder to get into and succeed in if you start late, but unless you're trying to be a hotshot stockbroker or research chemist or something, you'll be fine.

As for the bullying stuff, all I can say is keep working on being the person you want to be. The longer you spend blazing your own path in life, the farther away all that past shit becomes. If it seems overwhelming, maybe hit up a therapist or do some journaling or some other kind of catharsis. Understanding and healing comes with time.

One thing though, just from my own experience: If you feel compelled to burn the candle at both ends constantly to make up for lost time in your career or personal life, don't - not unless you are absolutely certain you have the energy for it. There's nothing wrong with working hard and striving for goals, just keep an eye on your stress levels and don't burn yourself out by expecting that you "should have" done this or that by a certain age. There's no set progression of milestones in life .

>>16605301
Haha really though? People that age are managers after being employed for so long after getting the degree
Yes I will Bob Dylan is the man