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A girl contacted me after midnight on New Years Eve to invite me out. We'd only met once before, I was totally shocked.

We talked a bunch and had a good time.

We had a conversation over text today, and at one point I asked if she wanted to meet again sometime. She totally ignored it.
We talked some more and I asked directly if she was free and wanted to meet tomorrow, at which point she paused for a long time, explained she was busy, and then asked when I was free next.

I was convinced she was interested in me romantically, but now I'm not so sure. Am I just overthinking this?

Should I go to war and become an instrument of mass murder, or desperately plead my ex to get with me? I could do either, it's really just down to fucking or fighting. One of the instincts has to win, I don't want it to be both.

Which do I choose?

Hey /adv/

So me and my gf had protected sex but her period is delayed since the 25/12/15. She claims she had periodic cramps that come and go but still not bleeding yet. Will be taking a pregnancy test tmr. If its a positive result, what is the best solution for an egg that have been fertilized for at least a week old ?

>tl;dr gf gets pregnant, wants abortion for less than a week. whats the best solution ?

Because sluts are disgusting and bad for society.

>>16633815
Why?

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>>16633819
Because they create unstable marriages and unstable marriages increase the divorce rate and increased divocre rates increase the number of single mothers and single mothers raise criminals. Sluts are directly responsible for crime.

>>16633124
It's not gonna work out

It's not gonna work out

>>16633124
It's not going to work out, not because of the age difference but because

>but he doesnt have a job and he kind of just sits around at home and he doesnt really know what he wants to do in the future

>>16631853

In most cases, you can get to a 6 or 7 with excellent fitness, skin care, good makeup, etc. Especially by US standards.

>>16631853
Lift until someone loves you.

your are probably someone's 10/10.
and that girl is probably someone's 2/10.

looks are all relative to men.
i know this dude who is pretty handsome ( no homo ) but he married a girl that's way below his level, but he doesn't see it like that at all. he's really happy.

>>16629847
>incredibly intelligent, hard working and stable
>occasionally bad at communicating what's wrong, and locks up instead, or bottles it up until it's a way bigger issue at all once

>>16629847
>smart, funny, nice and pretty much the my personal ideal in terms of looks
>a bit too shy

>>16629847
> sensible, she sees the good in every thing
> she gets bored really fast, and I have to jump around and bring her to new places all the time

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>>16625376
No, pot smokers will defend themselves to the death but in reality its a dirty, smelly, disgusting and degenerate habit

I dont like when girls smoke cigerettes or do hard drugs so there is nothing wrong with it if thats your opinion.

>>16625380
Thank you. Does it really make people smell bad? He's never smoked it before, but he wants to. We planned on going out that night, but there's no fucking way if he smells like shit because of it.

Sigh. Why don't you start with the relevant info.

>How old are each of you
>When and how did you meet
>Where are each of you living right now
>How involved have you been with your daughter, what have you done to care for her?
>Why did she dump you?

Just any help at all would be great. We broke up on the 29th.

Pregnant with another child? Man you guys need to learn family planning. And why did she dump you? Who pays for your daughter's upkeep?

>>16631493
Couldnt stay hard for my last girl friend. But only for PiV. Stayed hard for everything else.
What are the chances that I still have this problem.
Ive cut out porn since.

what the fuck do you say to people when they're depressed and they react extremely negatively (basically bitching and moaning) to every single idea/thought/opportunity/etc.

>>16631523
Moderate. If the problem was jerking off too often I can't imagine how a blowjob or a hand job would be different from PiV.

I am. I get the feeling that some girls actually like me since they laugh at my jokes and random ones will approach me out of nowher and what not but none of them interest me and even if they did. I don't have the balls to ask them.

>>16630229
Same here. But when I do, they just ignore me! Drives me nuts! Which is what they want, I guess. But..but...I can't wrap my mind around it. WHy?

>>16630229
Yeah. People are open to me too, but there's no good way to bridge the gap. Most people already have a fair amount of friends from school or work. Fuck this NEET bullshit.

>>16630234
You make female friends, then you ask them on a date and they refuse?

Yes.

>>16630096
It makes me really wet. I love the sounds he makes.

>>16630096
Yes. I love giving oral sex more than receiving it.

my friend had me and others over at his for a little get together. was going pretty good but most of people left early. being single can be shit too.

>>16629614
hey i had a great time

>>16629614
Because I'm getting old and new years holds less and less importance to me

>>16629108
You did nothing, OP. That chick is a slut and sluts should be burned alive.

>>16629108
Obviously the lesson is to not date sluts.

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>>16629112

Guys, what do you think about women who approach you in social settings? How would you like a woman to initiate conversation with you?

>>16628396

Women approach me all the time or give me cues to talk to them. It's so obvious. I have them buy me a drink. Works almost every time. You don't have to say much. Just look like youre available

>>16628396
"Thanks God she's taking the initiative"!

My ex said to give her time, I wait for a reply every day. I don't want to send anything because I feel like a total loser. I just want to be friends with my best friend again.

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I'm happy for the first time in a few days

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>so horny it hurts
>too depressed and heartbroken to fap

That's some scary shit OP.

yeah i have ptsd and spend time feeling like this

its gonna be ok

go to therapy

Think happy thoughts and avoid looking through telescopes