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My hair usually looks fine, but around 16 hours after I shower it get greasy, and that doesn't look good around 9-10 pm. My forehead is also covered with a patch of acne. How do I fix these problems?
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>>16777303

top of my non doctor head, speaking from experience and anecdotes...

You're probably either particularly greasy and therefore can do absolutely nothing..

Or maybe you wash your hair too much.
Everytime you wash your hair (or your skin for that matter) you're stripping off some protective layers and grease.
Your body will respond by producing more.
Sometimes its good to skips showers, or skip soap and scrubbing.

Or you eat too much bacon.

Or its none of the above.
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I started avoiding fat foods and my acne is less worse than before. Not touching your face helps too.
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>>16777314
I used to shower every other day and these problems would appear. Starting this August I showered every day (with a few exceptions) and my hair is still greasy and I still have acne.

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I am just feeling bad about the world. Im vegan, been so for 5 and change years and I feel shit for living and interacting only with meat eaters. It kills me, because from my perspective they are all acting terribly. Though at the same time i love them. Its like living with a racist who is otherwise a nice guy, except its everyone. and FYI i already hear you guys telling me im a faggot for this. I get that enough already anyway but my friend told me to post something here. btw im 19, in college, and although ive entertained the fantasy i am not going to kill myself, i just am going to feel sad for the rest of my life...
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>>16777252
Can't you just go circlejerk with the rest of the vegans? It's no treat having you around either, so it'd be best if you all could go make one another miserable in the corner somewhere.
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>>16777252
Theres a joke...

>How do you know someone is a vegan
>Oh, don't worry, they'll tell you

Look I'm not picking at you.. this is legit and I am actually trying to get through to you here but..

You're fucking 19... You're a dumbass kid and you're still in that phase of life where you gotta be some unique individual and stand apart from the crowd.

There is some shit you're really ignorant about and have no idea, that one of your friends you love grimmace and hate you for thinking, but even they love you anyway as you said.

Live and let live, your life is yours, theres is theres.

And to explain the joke, Vegans are WELL known across the board for being little special snowflake pricks who cant wait to tell you how advanced and liberal they are, and thats very easily because it isnt about the goddamn animals.. its about your ego and your identity..

Veganism is stupid as all hell.. do you know what consciousness is? Its an extremely complex and high brain function.. without it, you are just a machine with veins for wires and blood for oil. No consciousness, might as well not be alive, because you truly have no feelings.


Guess what?? MOST animals do not have consciousness.. and you better believe dairy cows and chickens are bred to the point of extreme stupidity that they most certainly dont. They have no idea where they are or what they are doing.

>Oh but they try to run away

Yes, they do.. its called self preservation.. thats evolution, it built a machine that avoids shit..

it all started with a few atoms that got good at sucking up energy and making more things that are better at sucking up energy... Part of that program is dont die..

A large majority of animals dont feel pain, because they dont exist...

Keep your veganism, but keep it for you... do not put it on anyone else.. no one wants to hear it and you dont deserve to hate them for it.
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I don't understand your post... what makes you feel pretty shit? You're vegan and you're doing it for a reason, don't let your mind be that weak, I don't think you're a vegan because you want to be unique because you've been like that for 5 years. People are not going to stop eating meat, you have to get used to that but don't change just because others won't change, if you have enough reasons to be vegan just keep being vegan.

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Just curious because my ex was a 10dd and those were pretty nice.

What do you guys think is the best size?
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>>16776431
>10dd
Was your ex a child with implants? Who the fuck has a 10" rib cage?
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'best size'

10 year olds shouldnt really be on 4chan, go do your homework, Jim
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>10DD

Literally not a size

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I've been getting really bad RLS lately. It had usually only been at night, but recently I've been getting it during the week whenever I try to lay down to watch TV or nap. Even if my brain is sleepy the feeling won't go away and it's been so unbearable, I sometimes cry and have panic attacks. I hve a doctors appointment, but due to insurance and my busy schedule it's nearly a month ago. Does anybody know what I can do? I hve tried:
>otc meds. None work
>working out my legs during the day
>massages and hot showers
>avoiding atimulants late in the day
>melatonin and other natural sleep aids
>cutting out antihistamines
>deep breathing and relaxation techniques
>weed- usually helps but not enough for me to fall asleep. So my muscles relax for an hour or two but it's not a permanent fix to help me sleep
>cold or hot compresses
I think the cause may be stress or medication though I've delt with anxiety my whole life as well and taken the meds I take for awhile so I don't know if that's the only or even the cause(s)
Halp?
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>>16775520
Not for nearly a month*
My b
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take hot baths with epsom salt. also take magnesium.
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Get more iron (animal protein, nuts, beans) and go to the fucking doctor because there are prescriptions for that shit

Why is there this big stigma surrounding suicide? Why can't someone like me, someone who is in constant psychological and emotional pain with no end in sight, end their own life on their terms without being labeled a coward, selfish or shortsighted? I've tried everything. Therapy, medication, I've changed my environment. Therapy did absolutely no good because talking about the source of my pain doesn't ease it.
Pharmaceutical drugs did much more harm to my mental state than they did good. I tried marijuana, which actually helped a little, but with the legality issue my choice there is to be somewhat better mentally, but run the risk of losing my job, which would just add on top of everything else.
Over the last 5 years, I've completely changed my environment. I switched to a career that I like much more than when my depression started. I moved back home to my home state. I've distanced myself from the negative people that I used to associate with.
People keep telling me "it gets better". For 7+ years people have been saying this. And over these last 7 years, it has gotten tremendously worse. For every positive thing to happen, it seems like 10 unbearably bad things happens. I get a promotion, my best friend dies in a fire. I meet the girl of my dreams, and somehow get her, only to have my misery drive her away.
I can remember what it was like to be happy, which makes it even worse. I remember seeing these kind of posts and telling OP to get over it. I didn't realize people who suffer from this are trapped in an endless loop of pain.
The ONLY thing keeping me from ending my suffering has been the fear of my friends and family not understanding the reasoning my decision and condemning me for it.
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what advice were you looking for exactly?
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>>16775298
Whether living with the depression is worth avoiding being remembered as a coward. I love the people in my life, but there's nothing they can do to help me. Should I suffer, or drastically change the way they would remember me when I'm gone.
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>>16775309
why do you care how people remember you?

when you're gone you'll be unable to feel anything

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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guys-
if you had a crush on a girl then saw that she had kind of weird boobs, would that be something that would cause you to lose interest in her?
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>>16774245
Not a guy, but I don't think many guys would have problem with 'kind of' weird boobs
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>>16774245
Are you the girl with the differently sized areloas again?

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I have a gf
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I just want to experience that once in my life before I die. Is that so much to ask.
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>>16773860
hire a hooker
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>>16773860
My boyfriend broke up with me and I'm about to go to a pub alone and cry into a non alcoholic beverage

It could be worse

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I'm a 23 year old woman. I've slowly lost my friends over the years because they went to college and stopped talking to me. My family is growing pretty distant. My parents moved far away and act really preoccupied with their respective boyfriends/girlfriends. My sister takes 5 days to text me back, usually.

I'm really lonely and have a hard time talking to people/making friends. I can kind of bullshit my way through work, but I don't think any of those people would want to keep talking to me after I clock out.

I live alone in a studio apartment and what I end up doing (because the silence is driving me fucking crazy) is invite dudes over either for dates or hookups. It's....not going well. I think they can sense how fucked up/depressed I am. They're all saying "Well you're cute and all but I couldn't do anything serious right now." Sometimes I take them up on their offers for casual sex and sometimes I don't. The end result is still feeling lonely.

It seems like people either ignore me or use me just for sex. What do I do to make a genuine human connection with someone? I miss having my best friend around, but she moved to California to be a comedian.
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>>16776913
You're asking 4chan of all places?
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Do you have any wish to get into any hobbies or interests and socially interact with the people who have the same hobbies and interests? Do you have any interest in hanging out at certain parts of the internet, connecting with the people who also hang there and so on?

To begin with, you should consider whether you are OK with the idea of virtual communication and closeness vs having real life contact such as meeting up and socializing.

You say your friends went to college and stopped talking to you - did you not go to college yourself?
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Try meetup.com for finding new people to hang out with. Attitude is everything, if you mentally feel like nobody wants to hang be around you then you tend to exude that. Other people pick up on it. You're going to have to put your self out there more. If there is a sport or activity you enjoy then get out and do it. It will improve the way you feel about yourself and others will pick up on that

Do nice guys finish last or just push overs?
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Nice guys are what some women see as the real assholes.
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>>16776588
I hear the saying women don't like nice guys, but what I found is they don't like submissive guys. I know a good chunk of men that are swell guys and they all got girls that aren't hard on the eyes.

Don't make the mistake of being mean because girls date guys who are shit heads to people. They don't like the shithead part of them, they just like the non push overy part. So being a bitter push over just makes you incredibly unappealing. Best of luck.
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>>16776592
What? Why?

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How do I stop feeling like my body is ruined?

I gained weight so my boobs got bigger, but then I lost the weight and my boobs went back to their normal size but then they went super saggy

Even with lifting weights and moisturising and massage they're ruined

How do I accept my ruined body?
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It's not ruined, you just lost too much weight.

Eat some carbs, work out, gain a bit of healthy weight, and your boobs will return to their former glory.

Coffee grounds can be used in the shower to remove stretch marks.

Just gain a bit of weight until you're comfortable with how your body looks. Some girls are just meant to be a bit curvy. your boobs will look great, trust me.
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>>16775804
I didn't lose too much weight I just went back to my original weight which was not very skinny to begin with

Gaining any more weight would make me overweight

I've been lifting weights for over a year

I don't have stretch marks
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>>16775821

Do you still wear the same bras?

Wearing the perfect bra is essential for well shaped breasts. Go to victorias secret or somewhere and get fitted for your perfect size. Wearing the wrong bra can be damaging to your breast shape.

Just cut my best friend out of my life because he came out of the closet.
I dont regret or feel the decision was wrong, just that theres now a huge hole left that he filled in my life.
Anyone else have experiences losing people who were like a brother to them. How do you fill the hole that is left after you cut them out.
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2/10 bait, you tried
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>>16775437
I hope he breaks into your house and fucks you in the ass at night.

Oh, and if you're actually telling the truth could you describe how you cut him off? I've always wondered how that shit would play out.
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>>16775437
>How do you fill the hole
Put his cock in it.

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Is it gay to open up emotionally to your best friend and cry in his arms?
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>>16775420
No, not at all. It is simply trusting.
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>>16775420
Yes. Id call you a faggot and to man the fuck up.
If you are a woman then no one cares though. Youre expected to open up and cry.
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>>16775426
You must be a great friend to have...

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Hello it's Satan, ask me anything.
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So to put it bluntly, what's wrong with you?
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>>16774753
I sometimes believe something with no evidence at all.
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I heard that doctors used to diagnose people with schizophrenia based on a sniff-test.

This made some people theorise that the only thing wrong with schizophrenics is a pheromonal imbalance, and that people start treating you differently, and as a result you feel different, and because of this you start to behave different, which makes people think you're even weirder, and this just spirals out of control.

My question to you, OP:
Do you have an unusual smell?

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Every time I have sex with my gf I always finish before her and obviously this leaves me feeling pretty shitty afterwards. Are there any ways/tips I can utilise or ways I can train to last longer during sex?
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Plz guize
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Monitoring this shit cuz same problem
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Well do you ever take breaks? You don't have to go go go till one of you finishes. If you think you're going to finish and you don't want to yet make sure you pause and let her know.

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>sister is very overweight
>she started using tinder
>got a date
>only showed guy picture of her face
>never said she was bigger
>her face is actually very slim looking
>guy looks average weight
>she plays games online with him tho
>sister keeps putting off the date because she is crash dieting now.
>she's around 250+ pounds and 5'10
>was down to 160 (her high school weight)
>sister actually has a really chill personality, always had lots of friends

>guy really wants to meet her

What advice do I give her? I hear this "no fatties" shit everywhere. I'm terrified my sister will go on a date and be deeply rejected because of her size. But like, maybe he already knows she's big? This is literally the first date my sister has been on. I feel the need to be protective.
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Yeah, I don't find big girls attractive sorry. Maybe he already knows and doesn't care, but that's the risk you take when you put yourself out there when there is a lot of you to put out.
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>>16773613
Crash diets are dangerous, and there's no way she can have the guy wait around long enough to lose the weight healthily (which would be, like, 2lbs a week, maybe 3lbs if she's super fat).

Either she just has to bite the bullet and hope the guy accepts her, or if she doesn't feel comfortable with that, just don't go through with the date. Anything else is just bullshit and a waste of time.
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Mate it is tinder, people use tinder for casual sex. You won't meet the love of your life there.

As for your sister if she doesn't want to get rejected for being fat then she should have not used the fat girl tactic of using certain photo angles.
You can spot this shit a mile away, if the dude uses tinder often he probably already knows and does not care.

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