So guys, I need a little help here.
I recently just got out of a nine month relationship last Wednesday. The girl dumped me. I'm more upset about the fact that I'd wasted so much of my time on her over being dumped. Her and I were on a once-a-week basis of seeing each other, and didn't see each other all that much.
But anyways, back to the matter at hand. While I was dating this girl, there was another girl from my XC team who I always, and still do, catch looking at me. I think she may be interested in me, but I'm not 100% on it. Should I go after this girl and try to start something? Or should I wait a little bit on trying to talk to this girl?
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You need to catch with the game asap
the more you out the more time it will take to get you in.
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>>16785037
Wait for what, exactly?
how easy is it for a girl to get bored of you? I'm often quiet and don't talk very much, but when I do most girls never seem interested in conversation.
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A couple hours before it's back on the cock carousel
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>>16785108
this.
Women are cheating whores. Date men.
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>>16785027
Become a carpenter. Girls love carpentry, they're always looking for ways to talk to me so I can tell her about my wood.
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not sure if this is the right board but could someone tell me how attractive i am and provide suggestions for improvement?
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Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that the entire purpose of /soc/?
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We will need details and honest responses.
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>>16785016
Do u think u guys could help me?
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How do you know if you love someone /adv/?
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>>16785000
if you will do something for them at great cost to yourself.
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>>16785003
and in particular, things you wouldn't do for other people in your life or other people you've been in relationships with.
dont open with 'id die for her' or 'id do anything for her'. seriously consider what you've done at your own expense and see how it stacks up
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>>16785003
Have you done that before? An example would help I guess...
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is it really that bad to fuck whores every now and then? As long as no one finds out, you're single and you use protection, does it really matter?
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If you requirements stated are ment, no i guess not. Just not much dignity to it. If your a person that doesnt really care about that then its fine too
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Used to be a Pimp. My personal view on the subject is that Pimps are a notch in the food chain above whores, and whores are a notch in the food chain above tricks. But from society's perspective that view is aberrant.
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that's the purpose of a whore
I have an entire bottle of alcoholic egg nog in my closet. I opened it on January 10th and it has since not been refrigerated. I checked it today, and it appears to be just fine and smells the same. Can I drink it? What are the risks other than puking and shitting my brains out, which I am fine with.
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Do it
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My Friend really hates himself 2016-02-09 02:50:21 Post No.16784958
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My Friend really hates himself
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I have this friend who irrationally hates himself
He thinks he deserves some eternal punishment, when in reality the autocracies he has committed are really petty or not even that bad of things.
Like, heres one, he thinks being clingly to his friends and desperately wanting to be their friends after they rejected him for being gay even dough he isn't
He has even resorted to giving strangers
presents to insult him and belittle him
Please, what can i do to help him. However, were only friends over the internet. What ways do you suggest i can help him?
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>were only friends over the internet
>what can i do to help him
literally nothing if pep talks dont work
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Nothing at all? What adivce can I get him to seek?
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>>16784958
suggest a list of his cringes and tell him to order them. then make a change to never do it again. if he's serious and brainstorms, he will peptalk himself
also hes gay
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My dad is going to off himself and I don't know what to do.
Background: He is a veteran of the US army. My mother divorced him a few years ago due to emotional instability, and has gotten a job from the Census Bureau to pay for child support (even though his retirement checks should cover it). He is an alcoholic. But he seemed to be on the up, so I had minimal concerns for him. Turns out he was laid off for the past six months, his apartment kicked him out today, and he spent his remaining check on god-knows what. So he kept ups this facade of stability even though his everything was going down hill.
He sent my mom a text an hour ago saying he's gonna do it and tell me and my brother he loves him. He then ran away from his house after I couldn't do anything, as mom just told me about half an hour ago. She called up a crisis line and they sent some cops after him. He is currently on the run right now. He is armed with a pistol.
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As of right now (I was briefed as i was typing this) he says he will come to our house unarmed (he sold one of his guns to buy my Christmas present and he is going to hand the other to my mother) to sleep the night away to clear up his head. How do I minimize the risk of harm to us and him? He agreed to dead drop his remaining gun on the porch and let us lock it up. I have a bad feeling about this.
Wat do?
I'll update in an hour at most if a significant event doesn't happen, if not don't assume the worst. (by the way if you doubt this thread, I am dead fucking serious but I understand if you think this is a troll)
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Hes five mins away,lets hope this goes smoothly
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Call the crisis line and ask. This will most likely end up with him incarcerated in the mental facility. But at least he'll be safe, for tonight, anyways.
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gun has been locked up
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Recent ex-NEET here struggling to stay ex-NEET. Can anyone recommend me some motivating self-help books? Over the last few weeks, I've felt soul-crushing insecurity and loneliness and I think I just need to toughen the fuck up. Any books that are extremely empowering that can help keep me on my path would be great.
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bump for help
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How to deal with asshole college classmates
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College, in my US history class
Teacher wants us to sit in the same seat for a few weeks to take roll/learn our names/etc...
>3rd week in
>get to class 2-3 minutes late
>kid sitting in my assigned seat
>"... you're sitting in my
>"no
>"The teacher assigned us seats"
>"There's other seats over there"
>"I'm not trying to be an asshole, the teacher wants us to sit in the same seat"
>"OK"
>Kid obviously didn't give any fucks
I took some other seat, how am I supposed to approach something like this? This guy wasn't anything intimidating, super skinny guy with unshaven patchy hair. Fighting over a seat seems retarded, especially since it can get me expelled, but I don't want to come off as a push over either.
I don't even care about the seat
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>>16784942
Shouldve took your childish instincts and said
>THE INSTRUCTOR SAID SO
>MRS ANON
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>>16784951
I don't want to be some snitch either
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>that's my seat, the teacher told us not to change seats
>faggot says he doesn't want to move
>Alright then
>teacher asks you why you arent sat in your seat
>say you told fag he shouldn't be sat there but he didn't move
Pretty simple op, if the teacher doesn't comment then who cares?
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This woman wants to pretend to be my mom and then fuck me. Should I do it?
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No, that's fucking wierd.
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Do it
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This is an sfw board
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>Be me, a hs senior that just got dual enrolled at my nearest community college
>Basically I sit in the same room with the same people all day, get spoonfed basic college courses and get some college credit
>Still virgin and closest experience to getting laid in hs was getting drunk at female friend's house and getting kicked out for making some unwanted advances.
>So my class only has one girl; beautiful hippy-ish girl who has fat tities, smokes a lot of pot, and is weird in the whimsical way (pic related looks a lot like her)
>Icing on the cake is that she really wants to fuck a virgin
>signmeup.jpeg
>Last week tryed to get close to her by getting high with her after school with while a friend was visiting
>Found out 2 days later that after that she fucked my friend when they went home
>She's really obsessed with my friend now and is constantly trying to hook up with him, and she really dosent seem interested in me at all
>mfw I pretty much got cucked
Part of me want's to just let her be since were still friends and just accept my current beta status at the moment until next semester where I'll be around more girls on the regular. The other part is really upset I have to wait like another 7 months just to attempt to get pussy and still wants her badly.
What do /adv/?
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middle ground. dont go for her, but look for other ways to supplement your dating and sex life. get a fake ID and go to bars. go to clubs that are for 18 and over. try chatting up random hotties. get (but dont solely rely on) tinder. etc.
give up on her tho. when girls like that talk about virgins they mean qts. if i had to guess, you're not a qt.
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Boyfriend is now too nervous to have sex
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I have a big problem and I need your help.
First up, we were both virgins before, this is a 4 year relationship.
So, I have a sensitive vulva, not all of it just a little place in the labia so when im penetrated in the wrong angle it hurts and might get ripped and bleed a bit, hurts one day and then i'm ok.
He knew about this and I told him i'd tell him the best positions and we could work it out some time ago.
The other day he was horny af and we had the chance to fuck all day, so we are going to have sex and I try to tell him how to put it in the best angle so "it doesn't hurt that much"
Turns out after trying some positions he went all soft and there was nothing I could do.
Because I was trying to teach him now he's afraid he will hurt me and he can't get hard thinking about that.
I don't know what to do, he's nervous about other things too, but I know this is an issue with me. I'm getting an appointment to a gyno and some lube, but I don't know what else to do to calm him down.
Do I wait? Do I not start sex unless he asks me to? Do I just try for blowjobs now? (He gets hard with blowjobs but if we are trying sex again he stops getting hard again)
tl;dr: boyfriend with anxiety issues in sex, wat do
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Do you talk to him about it?
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>>16784935
Yes I talked with him about it, unfortunately he just said he had so much stress and didn't want to hurt me. Other than that it's for me to find out, I just want to know how to get over this or fix it besides waiting which might not work (and he might feel more pressured now)
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Get him worked up with a blow job, when he's hard switch quickly to sex. If it hurts, bite your lip and pretend it doesn't. He will probably ask, just encourage him to come and act like you're loving it. You'll probably have to do this a few times.
He's not anxious, he's conditioned to lose his erection when it's in your pussy now (look up Pavlov). You'll have to reverse the conditioning.
Sucks, but it's the best way to do it, shy of just not having sex again. You should consult a doctor or sex therapist about oversensitivity in your vaginal wall, and how to mitigate it.
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I currently work for a health insurance company as an underwriter, but I don't really like my job.
When I was in college, I wanted to be an engineer working in green technology, I had a passion for changing the world through renewable energy. But after I failed out of Mechanical engineering, I switched to Mathematics, with the hopes of getting any old decent job to pay my student loans and eventually returning to school for another technical degree of sorts. The problem is I dont know what technical degrees I should be looking into if I want to work in the renewable energy industry.
I had to take computer programming classes for my math degree, and I felt at home working on code projects, and the classes were very hands on as opposed to the types of classes in mechanical engineering and math. I felt like it fit my learning style, more of applied learning rather than studying for the exams.
Now I am 2 years out of undergrad, and time is flying by so I have to make a decision on continuing education asap. I'm trying to decide on which path I should take. I know I'm probably not gonna get accepted into a mechanical engineering masters, or a computer programming masters, and I actually don't think either of those degrees will directly apply to a job in green technologies.
I'd have to start with undergrad all over again if I want to be a renewable energy engineer. I'm most fascinated by solar energy, so maybe I should look into electrical engineering. I also understand that solar energy is more than just electronics, so does that mean I should be looking into systems engineering? I want to make sure I get back on the right path, but the thought of starting another rigorous engineering program makes me afraid of failure.
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Carpentry, my friend
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Don't have any advice for you, but as a current math major who actually loves his coursework but isn't smart enough to be an actuary, how is underwriting as a career? Is the salary nice enough to pay off student loans? Also what was your GPA and did you do any internships?
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Underwriting is a pretty good job, with a clear career path and a very marketable set of skills. The salary at entry level is around 40k-50k depending on where you live. If I stick with underwriting I could be making over 100k within 10 years. My GPA was pretty bad because I wasn't motivated after failing out of mech-e... it was 2.6. I had one internship in accounts receivable, which is just corporate term for the collection department. Typical operations support role. I have come to realize that I really hate corporate office jobs. It's so boring sitting there at your desk all day.
I've recently started a new full time job about 6 weeks ago and I'm really enjoying it. It's an office job and the pay is good and my coworkers and I have already become close. My problem is ever since I started this job ive felt very distant from my girlfriend. I'm still in love with her but I've felt a distance between us. I playfully flirt with co workers but nothing more. I want to stay with my girlfriend but I feel like we're growing apart. She's supportive and kind but I just feel distant. It's not like I don't have other friends either but since this new job I don't know what to do? How to I rekindle my feelings with my girlfriend?
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You sound very young. One day you'll learn how to separate work from home and realize these colleagues will drop you quicker than you can expect.
Alternatively you can include her in work outings or invite said colleagues over while both of you hosting together...as a team.