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I'm going to this new school. So far, I've only started an optional summer school and there was only a boy, a year or two above me in the class and he's really nice. Starting this Monday I'll get new classmates and I'm really panicking, and I feel horrible. I'm so afraid, since I've changed schools so many times and I didn't get any sleep. How do I put myself at ease? Thanks.

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I hate nightclubs.
I like drunk girls.
How to enjoy clubbing and/or find drunk girls away from clubs.

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Lurker here.
I'm entering my last year of high school, and have absolutely no idea what to do once I graduate. My grades are average and I'm not a complete brainlet. I am completely capable of getting accepted and attending a decent four year public university near me. My father owns a small construction company that has been mildly successful over the years. I have worked for him during breaks for school and enjoy the work but I don't want to do it for the rest of my life. Recently I have considered joining the Navy and there is a reputable Senior military college in my state that I could attend and go in the Navy as an officer. Should I just go to a typical engineering college and get ass raped by student loans? Or stay in my area and work a blue collar job until my dad retires and take his place? Or go into the Navy as enlisted, or attend an academy and go in as an officer?

tl;dr: Should I go into the military, college, or workforce?

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I was recently fired from my shitty retail job for not putting products on shelves fast enough (they expect too much for a minimum wage job imo). That was the only reason for my termination and there were no hard feelings, drama or illegal antics involved. I now need to find another job. Is it okay to omit this job from my application? I worked there part-time for a little over a year. I'm only 20, so will I be cut slack if it looks like a big unemployment gap?

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>Get back in contact with qt celibate girl I haven't spoken to in a while, we're only acquaintances but she seemed interested in me back when we worked together
>She answer back, seem interested and actually happy I'm talking to her
>Ask her if she wanna do something during the weekend, cinema or anything
>Say she'd be interested in some 420 and that her boyfriend willing to join

Wait did I just got cucked?

What should I do? She a chill gal but I've got literally no idea who her boyfriend his (she had one when we worked together but not too long before I leave I've had heard they had separated) and I've pretty much learned of his existence a few min ago from her last answer. I feel like if I go forward with it I'll be humiliated (I'll admit I was too upfront about it, should have talked a little as to learn she had a bf but the deeds done, can't change shit now.) as he openly flaunt his closeness with her during the time I'm there.

I feel like I've fucked up before things even started.

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So, in the past few months my sister and mother have been ganging up when i have a fight with one of them but not with the other.

Im 18 but probably not leaving soon because of money. Im a pretty calm kind of guy unless you really get on my nerves. Im almost all the time at peace in my room and when they need something I help.

Its unbearable when we fight over such stupid bullshit and they wont listen to me. It completely ruins my day because they over exaggerate little things and ruin full weekends, like this one. I get over these fights fast but they dont, and thats why I then get like this.


What to do?

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Are white collar jobs supposed to suck up your mental and emotional health?

What the fuck do I do

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What should you do when you know that someone is lying to you?
I've never had this feeling before, I have my entire trust in this person but I discovered some lies about him, I faced him discreetly asking literally if he had done the thing I found out, but he answer was: No.
And so I was there, just listening how he lied and lied, pretending I dont know a thing.
I shouldn't have found those lies so I cannot Admit I know he lies
He hadn't done anything yet but now I knowt there is a probability that he could, maybe he will, maybe he wont. Who knows.
He is not a bad guy, he's been one of the best persons I've ever know, but that made me kind of think that there is absolute no person that you can entirely trust in.
How do I overcome this? I could just keep on with him pretending I dont know a thing, we would still laugh, going out, have fun etc. But all this knowing that he had lied me in a way that I thought would never happen again...
Maybe he is the best person I will ever know and that one detail will be the only one, I don't know.
I'm confused.

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Posted on /pol/ but nothing, thought their boner for conspiracies might get their interest but nada, so here I am. Please help.

After following an at first seemingly harmless train of thought, I’ve uncovered repressed memories that lead me to suspect there is a dark past to my Christian former school.

I suspect a number of former and current teachers are paedophiles that may or have acted upon it. A principal that smacked my bare arse, pulled up my pants for me and made me sit on his lap to pray, who left the school not long afterwards. A head of primary, who would have a mental episode weekly, and covered up complaints about teachers physically abusing students. She left quickly after she arrived, and the rumours were that her husband raped a girl at the beach, and she ended up in the insane asylum.

I have investigated these people as best I could via google and old newspapers but I haven’t found a thing on any of them. As it is, a current teacher who remains since before I even started pre-primary (who for just one example, would often ‘drop’ something at girls’ feet so he could cop a look, but do it in such an obvious way that you were too startled to say anything), is now working as a travelling chaplain to rural schools. There are other teachers, two others with similar stories that I won’t go into. They have no online presence either.

The point of my post is, I need advice. I’m out of ideas on how to investigate further, keeping in mind that I don’t want them to know that I am investigating them, so asking someone who has anything to do with the school is too risky.

>tl;dr a bunch of teachers at my old school are/were pedos how do I bring them down

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I'm planning on going out on a second date with a girl tonight lads. Problem is that im not sure what to do. For our first date I took her out to froyo and then we went to do one of those escape room games afterwards. Nothing really happened between us I just dropped her off afterwards. It was a lot of fun and I think she had fun too or else I wouldn't be getting a second date.

I'm fucking socially retarded and haven't dated a girl since high school (21 years old now in college) and she's 20 years old and the same boat as me relationships-wise. I was thinking of taking her out to a movie and then maybe ice cream after. Is this a thing that people still do now? Can't take her out to a bar yet because 20. How do I even act in a movie on the second date as an adult and not a high schooler? arm around? try to make a move? I'm really not sure. Also is taking her out to a movie even a good idea for a second date?

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How do I stop fap. The reason can't be ethics, morals or girls.
All I do aside from fapping is studying and following my interests, but my interests being all related to studying require focus. If I fap everyday I can't concentrate very well and I typically do it three times a day or more.

Same problem with sex when I had a girlfriend.

Therefore I need something that is for me, I tried to get more involved in a hobby that is more time wasting like cult cinema or to bike watching stuff, but sports make me ten times hornier.

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Hey /adv/ I am an 18 year old and i recently graduated from high school. I have no college plans because I don't have money and i didn't do great in high school and i don't have the emotional/mental capacity to do college. As of right now i work a shitty minimum wage job because it's close and i don't drive yet. i don't have friends except online friends and i don't do anything all day except work a 4 or 7 hour shift and then i go home and go on the computer. i do nothing everyday and i don't know how to change it. i feel so lonely because my high school friends all abandoned me right as we all graduated. i have an online bf of 3 (almost 4) years now that i am planning on moving in with in january but as of right now i have nothing to do in life except wait for that. i don't have enough money to do anything either and the highlight of my day is working or maybe getting takeout food. what can i do for now? i feel like im wasting away. my bf has friends he hangs out with and i feel jealous. even my old online friends who were social outcasts now have friends and they post about it on snapchat and i just feel jealous. i want a life i want people to make memories with and i want to have old pictures to reflect on and laugh about. i don't want to be so alone anymore but making friends is so hard. i'm even posting this because i just don't feel like i have anyone to talk to about this who cares. what can i do

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I met a girl month ago. Since last week, we have been trying to have a sex. Trying is a good word, because on 4 attemps - 2 were kind of success. She is my third sex partner and I'm her second one - and I belive her, because she has lack of skills in kissing and during sex - she only lies and does virtually nothing with me. This is not a problem, because I'm not a sex animal so I don't blame here about it, but the problem is that it is almost impossible to get her wet - she knows it and she uses gel to get her pussy wet, but I still have trouble to put my dick in her vagina. It's like I just can't go inside. Because of her lack of doing stuff to me I also can't get hard enough. Attempt to put my dick in her pussy ends in that my dick is in pain and goes soft. I don't want to dump her, becuase I like her very much, but I'm thinking about solutions. Any tips?

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i never find speaking to girls stimulating as speaking to guys, and on top of that they're fickle and annoying

i have a oneitis who i can talk to very easily but i want to get over her but i can't find any other girls to talk to because they're so difficult to connect with.

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>sit at home
>Feel like I'm wasting my life and want to go outside
>Go outside
>Tire really quick, can't go on
What do I mean by this? Would it be better if I had a car or would I be annoyed and exhausted by staying in traffic jams?