I'm in debt because I suck at money handeling, I need help
The pic is all the money I have (CAN$)
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Help how?
How much debt do you have, what is your income?
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I was robbed recently and I have no clue what to do. I have no family or friends to turn to and no insurance for this. They took my t.v.,money, and lots of things. Not to mention trashed the place. I'm not asking for much but If you could help me out it would mean the world to me.
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That pic is from a house party
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Need help with glass frames 2017-08-04 08:09:35 Post No.18589836
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Need help with glass frames
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I picked new glasses without paying much attention and I only noticed they look terrible after buying them. Is there anything I can do to get new glass frames other than buying them again?
Pic related.
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bumping because god help you
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>>18589836
return them and buy online. not only are the lens about 5 times cheaper but the frames are half price too.
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Unless they're faulty, no.
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Do the mood swings associated with menstruation ever get less dramatic until menopause?
I have a gf in her 20s who gets extremely upset every month when on her period and does not work or date in this time. It's difficult for me to comfort her and she sometimes even says she's dumping me and then wants me back 2 days later. The rest of the month she's a stable and kind person.
What's /adv/'s experience with this taboo topic?
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The only ones who would say this is a taboo topic are men. PMS can be really bad for some women and really mild for others, it's not some big hush-hush topic.
My PMS has gotten worse as I've gotten older. That's really the most I can say on that.
But if she's doing that manipulative bullshit, you need to have a serious conversation with her. It's normal to be bitchy when PMSing, but skipping work and being a total cunt just makes her sound like a lazy bitch.
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Agree with the other poster. Just like some women have terrible cramps and other experience zero discomfort, it is individual just how hard it hits. I have never known a woman remotely as extreme as you describe, personally. I also think she's taking it way too far. I also feel worse (less energetic, more sullen, more down on myself) during my period but that's no one's fault. And if I can not take it out on others if I feel bad after being doused in rain or whatever, I can deal with not being too bitchy when menstruating.
Telling you she wants to break up during this period is absolutely unacceptable and I would try to talk about it with her. Is she on hormonal birth control? Sometimes that can make a difference. Either way some things cross a line and threatening to dump you is one of those. If you get her to agree with this once "stable", gently remind her when on her period. If she's self-aware about this issue I would also recommend agreeing on not discussing serious topics in this time frame and having her tell herself that if she still feels the same way in a week, you can always revisit it then.
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I have IBS, specifically the kind that likes to give me painful cramping. Sometimes, it feels so uncomfortable that I start to get patches of aggressively blushing skin on my arms and chest, goosebumps, and chills.
I'm telling you this because when I'm on my period, it's so bad that I can't tell if it's period cramps or if I'm going to spew brown lava in 5 seconds.
Every person is different. Shit, every month is different. I can have one month where it's smooth sailing and another month where I cry from watching a video of marine predators eating a school of sardines. That being said, she shouldn't say she's dumping you like that. That makes you feel insecure in the safety of the relationship and is pretty good at killing emotional connection since you don't know what she's gonna do.
Have you talked to her about this? Preferably during a time when she's not being assaulted by hormones and cramps?
tl;dr should I reconnect with a girl just to fuck her when she is emotionally unstable? answer seems obvious but just tell me to keep it in my pants anyway
I met an alternative girl last summer and we hit it off immediately, it seemed like she genuinely liked me. I was 17, high school senior, and had never had a relationship before but she was my first kiss and I really liked her body at the very least. But as it turns out she has a long history of depression, suicide attempts, cutting, even rape and lied about her age, she was 14 and just finished 8th grade.
Warily I still talked to her in June and she mentioned that "if you ever feel lonely just come to me" but we stopped talking altogether for a while. Around this time I learned she does go from guy to guy and seems to attract really destructive, r9k types that have not helped her. We talked a bit this February and she said she missed talking to me but we have not spoken since then. On her instagram she mentioned that guys just seem like they want to fuck her and leave but she still keeps coming back to them.
So now I want to ask, as an 18 year old going into his second year of uni this fall, should I try and reconnect to her? The id part of me sees her as an easy fuck so I can finally get laid and also feel like a bit of a savior to her or should I just let the whole thing go and try to find someone new. I have a feeling (probably from my dick though, ngl) that she would still want to talk to me and maybe settle down a bit for her, we may both have something to offer each other. Is this a good idea?
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>>18589831
Pump and dump anon, just another wreck of emotional pain your don't want to bring on your back
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>>18589831
I know is unfortunate but your going to have to learn how to completely cut toxic people out of your life. This girl will use you as an emotional crutch. Get the fuck away from her completely.
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Run.
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I think I fucked up my body.
I went on a bit of a diet and lost around 70 pounds in about 6 months
That's all well and good but now I've got all these vague health problems
>I can't shit but every few days
>A playful sock in the arm actually hurts for a bit
>Feel tired all the time
>get sick WAY more often
>Sifter erections
Think iv'e aged about a decade
What should I do lads
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Did I ruin everything? 2017-08-04 07:55:07 Post No.18589793
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So I'm good friends with this girl in my class. We've spent tens of hours talking over the past few days alone and we laugh together often. We seem to share many opinions and have similar interests. At one point, we were skipping days' worth of class time to hang out. I like her quite a bit and I think that she feels (or perhaps, God forbid, felt) something as well. A teacher with whom we both are well acquainted told me that she clearly likes me a lot. I trust this teacher and I happen to know that she has been through hell in her relationships, so thought that her advice would be valuable. Being a natural introvert and somewhat shy especially when women are involved (read: "social autist"), I spent most of the year wondering if there could ever be anything between us.
I didn't ask her out because she was already in a relationship. I've heard on several occasions that this guy was manipulative and unfaithful. Some have gone as far as describing him as a psychopath. She broke up with him some time ago and didn't seem emotional about the situation. I took this as a good sign.
I have no experience with dating, and asked this teacher of ours if it'd be weird if I asked her to a movie or something of the sort. She said that she thought the girl has been waiting for me to ask her for months. I decided that I'd at least give it a shot. I planned on asking her out (which would probably have been uncomfortable even under ideal circumstances), but didn't want to put our friendship at risk.
I asked the girl if she'd be interested in going out next week. We were alone, packing up and talking, and when the big question came up, somebody barged into the room and we paused with prolonged eye contact. This happened three consecutive times and I almost feel physical pain at the thought of the situation. She said that, yes, "we could" do something and that she "could" make time. It was incredibly uncomfortable. We said goodbye and (tbc)
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Just ask her out again when you're comfortable with it. Don't stress and over think it
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(OP) she left for home. On the way out, she shot a strange glance in my direction. Later, I imagined overhearing some girls talking about how she said yes (may have been paranoia - I'm pretty exhausted).
Did I fuck this up? Are these situations usually this awkward? What should I say or do?
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You are way overthinking it, and it's going to fuck you over.
When you think of something that seems cool to do, do it. Obviously don't rape her the moment you get a boner, but find a reason to sit closer and talk while being closer to her (Hey! I wanna show you something on my phone), in a way that your shoulders are touching. If she responds positively.
Don't try to figure out all possible angles - you'll confuse yourself and lose your nerve.
When it comes to asking her out, have a solid plan as well - don't get stuck in the loop where you're just trying to please her so you're always asking "Well what do you want to do?"
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How do you recover and keep a permanent friend base from never really having friends at all?
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>>18589778
if you've never had friends at all there's a reason. or reasonS rather. you start by finding out about that through introspection, therapy and research.
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>>18589796
Sounds good. I think it's mostly because I'm nervous of judgement from anyone. Plus I've moved around a lot when I was a kid so having a stable group was pretty much impossible.
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If two people of different races are attracted to each other, is it immediately a fetish? If not, what's the difference that makes a fetish discernible?
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>is this particular race the only thing that you like in the other person? like you feel it's an accomplishment having a *particular race* SO or that you could substitute that person with any other of her race and it'd be the same?
it's a fetish
>do you like him/her for the person he is and personality other than race?
not a fetish
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>>18589768
This. I like white women and Latin women. White women I have yet to sleep with so I see them as a milestone and thus a fetish
Latin pussy is stupid easy to get and it's the next race up from my own. Making it a preference and not a fetish
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Just a public service announcement to everyone here:
Glory holes are never run by women and they're always just dudes behind the hole
Glory hole advice thread I guess
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>>18589717
God bless you sir
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>>18589732
Hey I'm just taking one for the team bro
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>>18589717
You probably have never even been to a glory hole. Its pretty obvious that its a dude behind it because they are always just a hole between two stalls in the mens room. Do you really think chicks are coming in the mens room to give glory hole blow jobs?
The real tip is that if you find a craigslist post about a chick that will give free head it will usually be a dude looking for desperate guys or a robbery.
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I'm going to study abroad in a few weeks.
I'm in a few dating websites and I've already got some numbers from local girls there.
What do I do? Text them so they save me, should I try to chit-chat with them from time to time before I arrive to their country, or should I text them once I get there and am ready to meet? I don't want them to straight up forget about my existence.
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>>18589712
Yes, maybe it's easier to chat with them before you move. But honestly I have not moved all alone to a different country. If I where you, I'd chat them up now and not expect them to be your next fuck-buddy, but just someone you chat with for now, so you don't feel so lonely. You can even ask them about the city, like good places to go etc.
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>>18589792
Thanks for your concern but it's a country and city I actually have previous experience in (I don't need tinder girls to show me around and I already got friends that live there), so I'm strictly looking at them as possible fuckbuddies/relationships (and a few of them look like they want the same)
I'll try to chat lightly every few days, I'm scared I'll look 'desperate' or whatever, but I just don't want them to forget about me and lose interest.
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>>18589827
Still, I'm open to advice fron more experienced guys that have done the same beforr traveling
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Who do I listen to if I want slow ballade-like Kpop songs with plenty of key changes? example:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6rj3h-cEqgg
I'd prefer male singers if possible
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Plan B made me a lesbian 2017-08-04 07:07:05 Post No.18589683
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One day I was going to see my girlfriend but forgot to buy our typical ribbed trojan condoms, and instead used an ultra thin one. Long story short it ripped and we had a huge pregnancy scare. Throughout the 3 week long scare, I didn't masturbate once because I was just never in the mood (used to do it daily). We also didn't have sex. After she got her late period we had sex..... but I came REALLY fast. I used to last a solid 15 minutes but now I only last 3! Her pussy feels 45 percent tighter and everything feels better now outta nowhere. But I still have the issue that I can't last as long as I used to. The lesbian part is a joke because now that I don't last as long I eat her out for like 30 minutes to compensate, and now my girlfriend calls me a lesbian
What should I do?
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>>18589683
Only women are supposed to take plan b.
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My ex-gf wrote me again and now my emotions are really distorted. I have bipolar disorder and try to live single at the moment, but now I'm kinda acting against my common sense and it's really scaring me. I feel how the depression is coming back and I'm getting emotional unstable. Should I just cut it off with her?
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>>18589564
It's probably better for you if you do. I would, if I were you.
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>>18589573
okay thanks
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>>18589564
Don't let her get the best of you man.
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>Background: short, gay, black, chubby chaser, body/height dysphoria
>See a cute guy a couple of times at Starbucks
>Work up the courage to ask for his number, ask first if he's not straight ("yes") and he's taken ("open")
>Chat by phone a lot, seem to hit it off
>Hoping to meet up
>At one point he says he's glad I'm not judgmental
>Wait
>"Open"
>I thought he meant he was open to a relationship
>He meant he's poly and engaged
Oh. Well. After only ever getting attention from guys who are already taken and looking for some fun, I guess it was too good to be true. I've been depressed for a few days now because this seems to have crystallized my suspicions that I'll never be man enough to attract an SO but that I'm perfectly suited for some alpha's harem. I dunno if I want to give in to my nature and meet up with him or reject it and stay unhappy and alone.
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