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I'm paranoid and needy, and I'd be really grateful if you guys could give me some assurance.
Dating this girl for a few weeks. Known her for months and we've been each other's closest person for just as long, but we only recently found the time to actually go out regularly. So we did, and we talked about making it serious, but she wasn't sure and wanted to give it more time to sort out her feelings and clear her mind (shit happened to her just before)
She got pretty distant around the time that shit happened. Kind of depressed, started responding less often and completely ignoring questions of mine. Kept telling me her phone's acting up and not showing notifications. In person it's become a lot harder to make her laugh at all.
Anyway, shortly after she went on vacation to a faraway place with her family. She started responding even less, which is somewhat understandable when she's off enjoying her vacation. Somewhat less understandable when the responses I do get avoid my questions (things like how she's doing, what fun things she's seen) and shows no interest in what I'm up to myself (not a single word about shit I bring up)
She tells me (I didn't even ask) that the connection out there is awful at times, and she's not receiving my messages. Calling her up doesn't seem like a good idea at all, as much as I'd like to hear her voice that idea is either expensive or unreachable, if she has time/desire to do so at all.
At first we were planning on picking things back up when she got back, but I'm feeling more and more reluctant+rejected by the day. Sometimes we have a long conversation about something that came up over there, but all I ask myself during one is how long this time will last before she suddenly drops out. Not sure whether I should suck it up or cease all effort. I want to be there for her, but I just don't know how to feel strongly enough that she's there for me.
Any help?
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It seems like she is ghosting you a little bit. I wouldn't write whole lot anymore. A healthy relationship is qlishe sounding about giving and taking. All the "good" guys give way to much attention and recieve not nearly enough. If she really was into you, she would not behave this way so i guess you should keep quiet and wait and see if she actually gives a single fuck about you.
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My mom's cat is an outdoor cat. Apparently he usually will go out in the morning, come in at night, sleep, and then go back out. Anyways, yesterday he came in acting really strange. He's just been doing nothing but sleeping since yesterday. He's only moved once from a box, down into her basement. He also has discharge and redness in both eyes, with his third eyelids showing. He really struggles to open them, though I haven't seen him try much because he just sleeps. I've been applying warm compress with a wash cloth every hour and wiping away any goo I can. He's still acting very lethargic and not eating much either. I've only been able to get him to eat a few bites of tuna, which I had to add a bunch of water to so he doesn't get dehydrated
Any idea what it could be? She's a very worst case scenario person, and thinks someone poisoned him or he got hit by a car. I can pretty much rule out the latter because he hasn't shown any signs of pain or limping, seemed to walk just fine. I thought it was just eye infections, but him being so lethargic has me worried. I plan to take him to the vet myself tomorrow, but I'm curious if there's anything else I can do until then.
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>>18593305
First of no cat is an "outdoor cat" and they should be kept inside for the sake of the local wildlife to begin with.
It's probably sick so take it to the vet.
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Is the cat vaccinated? That's really important, even for indoor cats, as some feline diseases are so resilient that you can bring them home on your shoes for the cat to catch them.
Even if he was, once he gets better, you should vaccinate him again, as it's possible the vaccine effects have just worn off.
As for the symptoms, it looks like FHV-1 virus.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feline_viral_rhinotracheitis
Of course take him to the vet, until then perhaps it's most important to keep his eyes clean.
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>>18593310
fuck off with that shit, nobody cares about the local wildlife and the pests that cats cull.
>>18593305
there are lots of plants that are toxic to cats, he might have gotten into one of them. just make him as comfortable as you can until the vet visit.
So I like this girl and she liked me too a few weeks ago. I know she liked me because we nearly kissed three times. Then a story came out that she was going out with another guy. she said it was all a big joke but at the time I was uncertain what to believe. I haven't talked to her since and it turned it was all a big joke. I still really like her but I feel like we've drifted apart. Help me please. What should I do. Pic kinda related because she sent it as a meme back when we were flirting and together we do some pretty cancerous shit like quote leafy is here.
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>it turned it was all a big joke
How do you know? Sometimes these "jokes" are trial balloons to see what the other guy will do because the girl really likes him. He rejects and then she says it was a big joke.
Anyway its only been a few weeks so try again.
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I called some guy for a job I saw online, he said
>leave me a text summary
I made a mini resume text (really well I might add). I don't think he's the boss, probably just a higher up who's handling the new hires. Its for a machine shop. The next day he called me back, but I got really sick and couldn't get out of bed and finally noticed the missed call at night [this was Friday] now its Saturday...Should I call him or respect his weekend? or text? should I wait until Monday? What if he wanted a interview? He said
>We'll call back who we want for interviews.
What do I do?
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How is this even a question? Call them back and say you are sorry you missed the call but you where ill.
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>>18593299
What if he doesn't answer? Should I just keep calling?
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>>18593382
Then leave a message
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Is anyone here in the Canadian Armed Forces? I want to join and have a few questions.
>what do you know now that you wish you knew before you signed up
>what's Canada's most prestigious regiment?
>which branch is the best in your opinion?
>any tips for BMQ?
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How do you know when it's time to break up?
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Been dating a girl for a few yeas now and we seem to have changed into completely different people as we've grown up throughout the relationship.
She's hot and smart and cute but we sorta don't share the same interests and don't do the same things. We never argue or fight and for the most part our relationship is really great.
I'm just so fucking bored.
I've been meeting new people at work/college/playing sports and feel like I want to be single now even though I know I'll probably regret ending such a good relationship
Why the fuck am I so self destructive and how can I stop getting bored with every girl I meet?
Why is it when you get the "i think i wanna be single" thought in your head it never fucking goes away?
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My girlfriend admitted that she used to cam with men and women when she was a teen and would fuck her ass for them on camera, before we met.
Is she a whore? Should I dump her? She said she had tons of problems
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not a whore, just a normal woman, they do that, theyre lousy people. enjoy the free drama.
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>>18593225
Normal women don't do this.
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>>18593218
>She said she had tons of problems
And that doesn't raise any concern for you? I just don't understand your acceptance of so much risk. There are plenty of women that haven't tried to solve their problems by ass fucking themselves on camera for public consumption.
Hey /adv/, don't know any other board to post this on so i'll post here.
The last week or so i've been having some strange headaches, it's usually short term (not longer than 10 minutes), not ultra intense but annoying. first it was behind my eye, now it moved more to my forehead. My GP told me to use nosespray to clear up my noseways so there's more air coming through.
Anything that might cause this? I have no idea.
PS: I've been changing my sleepschedule to wake up later and sleep later since there's a big Dota2 event going on.
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>>18593187
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKGtv84aSjo
Works for me
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How the fuck do I be independent?
Ever since highschool Ive noticed people are fake as hell, so I tried doing my own thing and forming "quality" friendships and relationships
Now im in College and foreveralone, all my friends are doing their own thing and my gf cheated on me with a Tyrone
Meanwhile all the Chads and Stacies formed long lasting circlejerk friendships and are probably already garaunteed a job at some big corporation
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Im a 35 yo. Recently i did some dumb shit and almost lost my gf. That had me extremely distressed, felt like shit for days. On the other hand, i knew yesterday that my mother has a tumor in her spine, pretty bad shit, she might not last until this years end. Im very mildly sad about it, almost unmoved id say.
Now, why? Am i a faggot for caring much more about not being loved by a woman than the fact that my mother might die within months? Is there something wrong with me?
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Idk about your gf but when my grandpa was diagnosed with cancer three years back, it took weeks for me to realize it fully, same goes for his death. It's natural from what I heard.
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How do I get over my masturbation addiction, /adv/?
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stop watching cuck porn.
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>>18593159
Go to psychiatrist and start taking some SSRIs. Boom, libido dead.
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>>18593159
Also curious, can't apply the "just stay away from it" rule
>quit drinking
>quit weeding
>quit smoking
>cutting down on caffeine
>muh dick is always there every second
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So I woke up today and I have these marks on the top part of my foot, below the ankle, it's weird because if I press down on any part inside the line I get a tingly sensation like when you're foot falls asleep, nowhere other then in that line. Wtf is this? I had that sensation for the past 2 days, but today the lines showed up.
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>>18593145
im sorry but this reminds me a lot of jesus and the stakes through his feet.... A sign?
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>>18593145
do your feet hang off the mattress? are you wearing socks to sleep? have you checked your shoes/sandals/slipper for anything sharp or uncomfortable in that spot?
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>>18593294
A sign I'm royally fucked.
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My feet dangle sometimes, but no the only thing I can think of is the tongue of my shoe is a little hard, maybe it pokes in. I've lately been stretching my feet when I sit on the ground at work to fold (retail). Someone told me it's diabetes which I don't have (last I checked) and it doesn't run in my family. Plus the line is just too straight, well to me anyways when I look down and put my feet side by side.
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Any advice for getting gf's parents to not hate me? They seemed nice when I met them but apparently after I left they spotted the hickies I left on her neck and don't really want her to see me anymore.
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Are you, by any chance, both 12 years old? Fuck em, literally or not, you're going out with their girl not with them; they'll have to just roll with it.
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How do I go to a bar or club on my own and make friends?
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I'm stealing this image for /nap/, thanks
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A nightclub/bar isn't really a place to make friends, a village pub might work. Unless you go as a random organised nightout. Meetup.com might have some random hobby groups that will meet in the very slow bars at night.
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>>18593110
By being a girl you have to do nothing.
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Girlfriend realized she's become too emotionally dependent on me over the last 2 years and wants to be able to handle her own shot by herself for the most part so she decided she wanted us to split up. I recognized that she had that problem and respect and support that she wants to grow as a person, she says she's not seeking anybody else because that'd be counter intuitive to her goals. We still love each other so this separation is hard on both of us but I support what she's trying to do. I miss her terribly and want to know how I should go about maneuvering this time apart.
I'm already frequenting the gym, already reflecting on myself and ironing out personal issues through therapy, what else should be doing? How else should I go about managing the feelings of loss and sadness in a healthy way?
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sounds like you handled it well. Just give it time and the feelings of loss will fade. with time she may come back to you. just hope she doesn't fuck anyone else in the meantime regardless of what she says. good luck
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>>18593133
Yeah I hope that doesn't happen,time is all there is to it huh?