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Been going out with this girl for about a month and a half. We've made out after she asked to come over once, and last time I saw her I kissed her goodnight. But she also acts bored and rude to me sometimes which makes me a little wary.

I've always initiated the convo over text which she's never done. It's been a week since I've texted her and I've gotten nothing. Is it over boys? Was I just being strung along?

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>met a girl in college,was kind-looking
>talked to her for a few weeks became good friends
>learned that she was having stress due to college
>help her out by going out and stuff
>she became happy
>tells her if she wants to go on a romantic date
>rejected
>accepts the rejection and decides to stay friends
>days later being treated like a piece of shit
>no longer friends
>then she fell in love with some random,didnt do anything to her
>all alone again
Being in love seriously is the worst when the person you like leaves.

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>be 23
>girl is 17
>Be cuddling, nothing sexual. Just cuddling while naked
>Girl wakes up to tell me her dad saw us spooning
>Still amazed that I'm still alive and nothing has happened yet

So how long am I going to jail for /adv/? If the Dad chose to snap pictures and shit?

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alright so im "sensitive" i guess when it comes to that, like i can get hard of a hug
whats the quickest way to kill a boner or how do i prevent it?
does masturbation have something to do with it?

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I fucked up the other night. I have a very close friend of mine who is not okay. I've known her since sophomore year of high school. Recently I found out about her horrible past. She's been raped, used, abused, you name it. She opened up to me recently because her best friend, the only person she somewhat trusts, told me some secrets of hers. I'm the second person she trusts the most, even though she trusts me very little. She has severe trust issues because of this. The other night I pulled an all nighter talking to her over text and in my caffeine fueled stupidity, told her how much I cared about her, and that I want to help mend her scars and be able to trust other people. She kept saying that it's not solvable, and to drop it, and to never mention it again and she'll be happy. I told her I can promise that but I still want to help her live life to the fullest. She hasn't responded and its been about 2 days. What should I do from here? I didn't make any romantic moves on her, just told her I cared as a friend.

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Foreveralone in need of help, /adv/

>reconnect with girl I used to hang out with when I was younger
>used to have a major crush on me, I was blissfully unaware until years later
>incidentally I ended up forever alone as fuck, never had a girlfriend.
>reach out and reconnect via facebook
>chat a couple times
>ask her out
>"Sure, it'll be nice to see an old friend"

Did I just get friendzoned or is this normal/fixable bros?

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I'm taking a girl on a date tonight its the second time im meeting her and i want a little advice as to what i had planned

I was planning on spending £40 on some fireworks grabbing a case of beers or some red wine getting some blankets and taking her up to a pretty spot near where i live. would any femanons here enjoy this? plus i think im 100% giving her the d tonight.

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Can anyone give me some assistance please? I am addicted to logging onto chat rooms and sexting anonymous women, my GF doesn't know about it, and even though I never give any identifying details or pictures when we chat on kik or anything I have recently become beset with paranoia and hysterical with fear. I wake up terrified they will track me down and ruin anything.
Does anyone else have this experience? How do you beat this addictive behavior?

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Hey /adv/,
I have a problem, hope you guys could point me in the right direction. I seem to lose motivation very fast, what can I do to hold on to motivation? Sometimes I feel like i'm lazy a lot of the time, and I'm not sure how to get my head into the "Come on, time to get shit done and work hard" kind of mode?

I seem to be pointing my finger to "It's not me, I must just have depression or anxiety", The problem is that I don't know if I still am suffering from my previous anxiety attacks and depressions i've had previously, I use to be suicidal, that's how serious it was.(I don't have suicidal thoughts now.)

I just want to figure out what the fuck is wrong with me because I want to achieve and be so successful, and I feel like this is a roadblock I am at. A very difficult one if you ask me, I recently graduated High School, and not sure of what I want to do in life.

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Living in Japan as a married guy but honestly I just want to be friends with more Japanese girls, preferably cute ones

Japanese/Asian guys feel boring to be around

Is it just me?

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what do you do when you have a friend who almost exclusively talks about stupid shit you can't even pretend to care about to the point where you don't even want to interact with them anymore, and you can't just hop to someone else

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Just broke up with my gf and I wanted to know what my chances to get her back are from a honest point of view.

First of all, I'm not here like a depressed mess or anything like that, that's not the case here, I can easily move on and I am aware I can get a better woman, so if people say I should just move on, it's okay for me. I just really loved her and I still do and wanted to know my what my chances are from people.

>4 year old distance relationship
>Very strong sexual attraction for each other (we sent nudes, did cam for each other)
>We already broke up once some months ago but we got back in like 10 days
>She still cares, worries and gets upset about me
>Hasn't blocked me anywhere
>I can still talk to her whenever I want
>Answers calls
>I have hundreds of her nudes and videos (maybe she doesn't want me to get mad and share all of that)
>She's very insecure about her body, she's not ugly at all though and doesn't do it for attention she's emotionally unstable
>I'm 8 inches, very thick cock

And that's all the info I can give from my situation, what do you think? Can I still get her back if I want to?

Inb4 pictures, I can't give pictures because I don't wanna give anything that could reveal my identity or hers.

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My brain doesn't tick right. Can't think right with all this internal bullshit that comes up and confuses me. Happens when I've nothing to do or have to a repetitive task. Makes it very hard to just be with my thoughts

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I can't go poo unless I go pee first

Help !

What is this ? ?

Additionally, whenever I go pee I automatically need to go poo

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I've always been a really big doormat.
I was horribly abused by my mother physically and emotionally growing up (had my head slammed against things, been hit, been threatened with a knife, been told I was hopeless, been called a stupid bitch and a fucking idiot as a very young child etc etc) and now as a 19 year old I need counselling to deal with the trauma.
I never had a good relationship with my older brother either. He used to hit me and say horrible things to me when we were younger (called me fat, said he couldn't wait until I die, drew pictures of me decapitated, etc.). But he started being my friend after he became unpopular in school.
These days it's still the same thing with my mom. The only difference is that she can't physically hurt me anymore because I'm older and a lot stronger than her now. My brother and I still have fights. He always talks about himself and doesn't really give a rats ass about me, but I've never said anything until we had a massive fight the other day.
I've also had big fights with my mom too recently and she's just treated me like complete shit while sucking up to my brother. She's only ever nice to me if she needs money. But she doesn't ask properly, she treats it like it's her money and not mine.
I've spent the last few days feeling isolated, depressed, and anxious because of the way they treated me.
I've started to treat them really coldly for the first time because I'm angry and now they're being really nice to me and it's starting to make me feel really bad for being cold.
Like I said, I've always been a really big doormat. And I don't know whether I'm genuinely in the wrong for acting cold or whether this is just me not standing up for myself again.
What should I do?
Please help.