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Hey. Senior in high school. Theres this girl that I talk to over skype, shes quite nice to me. Laughs at my joke. Catch her staring at me occasionally. Hadn't talked to her in person, but recently we were doing a project together and started talking more. We hit it off pretty good. At that point I thought "ayy she might actually be interested in me." Then I sorta started observing and she didn't act too differently around me than she did with other guys. Other than the staring at me I'm not sure if shes interested. Im gonna ask her out soon, but I just need some assurance.
So how can you tell if someone is interested? Im in the group with her and I have the chance to talk to her. So what things can I say to maybe reveal something. So Indications of Attraction and such.
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Staring seems pretty assuring, go for it c:
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I'm getting married in a year and a half, already set the date and we are working the details.
The thing is I'm getting stationed in Washington state and I'm leaving out tomorrow. Any tips I can use for being a good husband for the future and introducing her into the military lifestyle?
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How's the relationship? Is she high maintenance?
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>>16862812
No not really now I'm not gonna lie she is spoiled and her family is pretty well off. Father is a Nam vet. However they have had some lows and she is very humble.
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Recently been flirting with a female coworker of mine and she seems interested in me, one day she takes off her long sleeved shirt and I see a fuck ton wrist cuts.
some look well healed or dated, others still have scabs. I was talking to another coworker about her and it seems she's had issues with rejection before and hasn't ever had a BF
I'm at the point where I'm confident she'd say yes if I asked her out.
But I've got a few questions before going into this.
>Will her past set our relationship back?
>How and when should I talk about the cuts?
>any anon's with experience dating emotionally unstable grills before? if so how'd it play out
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>>16862727
>yes
>dont
>its awful and she will probably cheat on you once the honeymoon phase is over
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>>16862727
don't bring up the cuts. she knows you can see them, let her navigate the subject on her own
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1. In this instance, yes
2. Don't. Depending on person she will spill her guts or never speak about it
3. Do not and I repeat DO NOT form any sort of relationship outside of fucking. These type of women always end up bad.
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So I'm most likely going to move to a university dorm next year - the kind where everyone on the floor has their own separate room, but shares a kitchen.
While there, I want to leave a good impression about myself and not be an outcast. How can I do that, if I have diagnosed autism?
What I was thinking of was organizing cooking events and such (where I would do almost everything) and cook delicious quality food like pizza, cakes, and shit with others.
Is this a retarded idea? What could I do to compensate for my lack of social skills?
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>>16862726
socialization won't have to be forced when you're in a living situation like that. odds are you're going to interact plenty. get acquainted with your dormmates and don't do anything to be a dick and you should be fine.
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in my mind it seems like you could just be chill and make a ton of good food for yourself, but if people want some give them some
it's casual, it makes people like you, and it doesn't interfere with comfort zones
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You just gotta do you, Anon. I'm a freshman in college this year. Honestly I'm not a very social person, at least I wasn't until college. In high school, I had a few friends. Come senior year I started dating this girl from another school and I basically only hung out with her and a select few others. By the time college rolled around I hardly had any close friends. Some of my coworkers that I was friends with for a few years ended up going to the same college that I did. So i hung out with them since I was no longer with my GF. Through them, I met their roommates, and now we are a solid solid group of friends. We hang out almost daily. I have met a lot of other people that I also hang out with on occasion too. We'll go to punk shows and stuff since my main group of friends isn't really into that. I also have a new gf now who I hang out with all the time. She practically lives in my dorm with my roommate and I (who is gay and doesn't mind). While I mainly hang out with my gf, I still make time for my other friends.
Honestly though, before college I never thought that I'd ever be this social. But that's kind of what going to college is about (besides furthering your education). It allows you to open yourself up to meeting tons of new people. And I guarantee that you'll find some friends despite your social issues. Just be yourself, be nice, and push yourself a bit to socialize with people.
Don't worry Anon, you'll do great.
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should i move out when getting paid 10-13$/hr? 2016-02-29 23:48:07 Post No.16862577
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should i move out when getting paid 10-13$/hr?
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I'm a 24 male college drop out.
Have an interview this week for a full time position.
Where i live i can get by somewhat okay with 18k a year and also i live somewhat low key so i dont really need too much.
Anyways, ive been living somewhat of a neet life style.
Never had a period where i wasnt working but its always been a dead end part time job. I oay my own car insurance and phone bills but rest have been my parents.
Part of me (or is it years of my korean parents mindset) thinks its not a good idea to move out if i dont have a career or at least a career that im working towards. I honestly dont know what i want to be doing - coding (so meme right guys) has been in my mind since i want to be flexible with the hours i work and stuff but i stopped after html/css. Although this possible position will give me benefits and rrsp matching and possibility of promotion.
But i also think that i need to move out and put this hard work in as im already late in that regard and by doing this ill be more forced to find and work on something in my free time.
Honestly i want to move out since i want to experience having more freedom and privacy and being able to have girls over and stuff like that. Fyi - average socially and i gym consistently.
I think i need to do this and am just scared to make this 40 hr week step.
I feel like if i dont move out ill try to find my ways to say im working towards something to my parents and just smoke weed and live almost like a neet.
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Udacity.com front-end Web developer. $200 a month. Takes 6 to 9 months
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40 hours a week is completely possible. And seeing as you dont have any other mandatory time sinks u can still do alot with your time. Money will be tight but you can afford a couple classes a semester and still have some leftover cash to club or bar a couple times a month. Recomend just moving out, trying it with just work till fall smester and then trying a couple classes. The large amiunt of time at work is great for the social life, and coworkers (especially the chicks) will think your awesome for doing school. Social life will slow down during school semester due to time constraints but it just makes the time you spend with people on your free time more special. Just do it, you will be happy you did.
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i can speak relatively fine when i'm at ease, or even with a bit of pressure on me. but today i had a presentation that i thought i was gonna do totally fine in, but ended up being the shittiest presenter in class. i'll admit that i was unprepared and banking on my ability to improvise. however this still totally caught be off guard, and although nobody really seemed to mind, it was internally embarrassing. shouldn't a great speaker be able to perform well in any situation?
so, any tips on how to improve my overall speaking ability? i don't mean just for speeches, but also for conversations. my issue seems to be that i sometimes can't get my sentences to come together fast enough. my voice projection is fine. at least i've somewhat learnt to replace the 'um's and the 'uh's with silent pauses.
i was thinking perhaps i could practice speaking in front of the mirror for about an aggregate of 30 mins per day, about any random subject
(btw i speak english as a 2nd language, but i have the same problem in my native language as well, so it's probably an issue with my overall speech processing ability)
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Bumping for interest
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shouldve probably added a nice title to attract posters
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Start arguments with your friends about something dumb like star wars. It'll get the communication flowing through your mind. Just as long as you guys can laugh it off afterwards.
Obviously there won't be hecklers but you want to get to the mental state that if there were, you could verbally take them on. Idk it's kinda hard to explain
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Why I'm so afraid that one of my family members dies by cancer or so? My father smokes a lot. What are the chances of die young if you don't smoke or drink lots of alkohol like my bro?
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Depends on your habits but the chance is literally a flip of a coin.
You died or lived. It's random. Look at Zyzz. Healthy guy, still dies from some freak heart attack. I know people who are alive at 70 and have smoked daily for more than half a decade.
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>>16862528
Zyzz took fucking steroids, get fucked.
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>>16862505
There's a website somewhere that asks you questions like smoking and drinking and then predicts your life expectancy. Google-hunt for it.
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Hey /adv/ anon here, what are signs that a girl is losing interest over like text etc? Like, she has times where she's really talkative but sometimes it's just dead, i've been lied to a lot in past relationships or just been lied to by girls instead of them telling me they're not interested. So am i just overthinking things? Should I stop worrying and care less?
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Give us some examples because its hard to judge the situation. It could be that you are overthinking things or it could be something else.
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Mainly the fact that we used to talk all day everyday, now it's more sparse during the day. It happened since we went on a date on friday. So maybe we've just chilled out a bit now cause i know its exciting talking to someone new and stuff. Probably just me. I get the underlying feeling that im trying to be let down gently.
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Is low semen count a sign of infertility?
I don't think i've had a proper ejaculation in my life, it's never been more than a few drops, i used to think it would get better when I got older, but i'm creeping on 20
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drink more fluids and stop jerking off so much
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Not really. I mean, it can cause fertility problems, but it's usually treatable. What you do mean by a few drops? Are you sure it's actually that unusual, or are you comparing it to the huge ejaculations you sometimes see in porn? What's your typical hydration levels like and how often do you masturbate?
If it turns out to actually be a problem, then do see a doctor, it's likely treatable.
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It's that unusual
Imagine it just dribbling out, a little stream that dosen't go halfway past the head
Help /adv/ pls
I went on a few dates with a girl who looks a little like the picture. Things got awkward and now she really hates me. We ocasionally make eye contact but she looks away right after.
Whats the best thing to do? Tryna be alpha as fuck here.
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>Things got awkward and now she really hates me.
Why?
>Whats the best thing to do?
Nothing. I don't really see a problem desu.
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>>16862463
What'd you do?
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>>16862463
beta bro you r not alpha.
ditch this girl. You fucked up some how. It happens. Move on. Worrying about this one girl isn't alpha. Also, she probably doesn't hate you lol. You probably just creeped her out some how. Forget about her. Find a new girl. Find new girls. Learn and grow
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dear adv, this has been on my mind quite a while and I decided to finally post this.
I have noticed that I have this really strong attraction to innocent, cute, shy and submissive boys. Not children though, the youngest I'd date is maybe 15? If they are around my age and still so innocent, that really gets me. I love the idea of them being so defenceless, needing protection. Again, nothing with children. I do not want children myself. I'm not interested in those SM child and mom roleplays. I want him to be my boyfriend but I want to be the one who is protective and he is the innocent one.
A friend of mine jokingly said that I'm a pedo, even though we laughed, it has been kinda bothering me. Could my feelings be some form of weird pedophlic
desires?
I'm an 18 y.o female. Obviously never had a boyfriend.
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I think this is perfectly fine, OP. Considering that you draw your limit at 15, and you're only 18 is a fine perameter. I am 18M myself, and I am attracted to anyone from 16-20, and I prefer to be submissive myself. You have nothing to worry about.
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You may be marginally pedo or sociopathic. Since they tend to want more naïve lovers, they are more easily controlled. Maybe you don't feel control of your life
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you're young and are (justifiably) threatened by more "mature" men. There's a reason so many teenage girls are into yaoi/"boys' love"/shota etc. Men can be fucking dangerous so you're not wrong to feel this way imo, but you'll likely find as you get older that your tastes will change naturally. tl;dr don't worry about it too much; you're not a pedo
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after how many messages should i ask a girl out on tinder?
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No fewer than 273.
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Why the fuck are women so bothered by spelling and grammar, yet it's fine for them to write like complete spastics and 13 year old school students, shortening things like "to be honest" into "desu" and shit.
What the fuck is wrong with you, women? Although I have no problem with my spelling and grammar really, this double standard makes me want to literally punch you all in the face.
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I'm a male. I don't consider myself a grammar nazi.
If I'm chatting to someone over a form of social media and I see ANY kind of shit like tqh senpai ikhyf, I instantly have a lower opinion of them and view them as someone have a childlike level of intelligence.
You're a fucking adult, speak like one, even in the written form of communication. If you meet a girl that ditches because you type like a retard, then good for her.
I still have no idea what that retarded word desu means as well.
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Because you're talking about several different individuals of the female sex.
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>>16862394
it's a weeb thing, don't worry about it
Extremely good looking girl in my school,seems to like me(says hi to me every time even tough we dont know eachother and she knew my name before i even knew who she was so it seems to me she has some sort of interest) but when i hit up her facebook she responded as if she didnt give a single shit like took her 10 mins for a response and didnt even try to keep the conversation going,wtf does this mean why is this happening
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>>16862379
Talk to her in person.
You basically show her you have no balls by only chatting her on fb.
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>>16862401
This.
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>she said hi
nigga no
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>girl inviting me to everything she's going to
>because she asked for some advice on something I did a year ago and I sent her literally an essay
>said 'goodnight x' at the end of it because I'm just lonely and still recovering from previous breakup
>she is at best 5/10
>ex was easily a 9/10
Does she like me?
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Ignorant question.
Yes.
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