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It just occurred to me that I don't actually know of a good place online to ask a doctor about a medical question. Is there such a place? I don't mind opening my wallet if it's legit.
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For starters you can consult webmd.com
is there ever a good time to blatantly state your interest in a girl? Let me give you some context:
There's a girl that live in the same metro area (different suburbs) that is the only person I knew (other than my family) before I moved a few states away to my current area.
I think she has a crush on me (judging this based off of her saying I have a celebrity doppelganger, and then seeing on social media her basically post the celebrity as her man crush monday), but she's a shy girl, which I think is mainly because English isn't her first language (she's colombian). I hadn't even heard her speak before I hung out with her one day in the city.
But anyways, I've hung out with her twice since moving, and the first time there really wasn't much flirting at all, at least in terms of physical contact etc. I blame myself, since I was thrown off by her still being so shy so I didn't want to encroach on her blah blah, but before the second time last week I told myself to at least greet her with a hug, but I'm not sure how the day went.
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There were instances of flirting where I had my arms around her, I had my hand on her leg etc and she seemed to at least tolerate it, but I think my hand grazed her ass and she kind of jumped, along with one of the flirty moments she was all like "personal space" but I honestly can't tell, with her accent and such, if she was being flirty/sarcastic, serious, or what. Just in general since she's naturally kind of a cautious/shy/nervous etc girl she wasn't giving me either obviously positive/receptive feedback with flirting, which I'm used to and work with a lot better, or obviously uninterested signals.
So since then I've texted/snapchatted etc a few times and have really gotten no response, but that's not entirely uncommon with her...it's not like obvious she's not into me etc, especially since she's so shy and I could totally believe she's too shy to really show obvious interest.
She also is quite the liberal and has tweeted/shared pics showing mansplaining and other feminist stuff, so that's why I think maybe being like "hey sorry if I was too forward, or if I made you uncomfortable" etc might be a good thing since a lot of those kinds of feminists are all about how you're supposed to ask permission to hold hands etc, which i think is unrealistic.
I figure since I really don't have any real hopes of actually dating since we kind of live away from each other (though I guess I'd be open to it if she was) I would be ok if such a conversation backfired so I see it as a "it can only help/put it out in the open there's something between us" etc.
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How to deal with SJW mom...
I was raised in a sex positive peer group. Sex is fine, sex is normal, its something people have a desire for, and something that's okay to fulfill. Kinda like europe or any large U.S. city.
I was raised in a small town. The SJW dovetails perfectly into the way my small town's older groups are highly religious and think sex is gross and wrong unless two people love each other.
My mom just had a rant about not eating at Carls Jr because they objectify women in their ads, so I pushed her, and she said she was personally offended. I asked her if I should be offended because they sell products with muscular, attractive guys with no clothing, and she asks if they have to have their dick half showing like women's tits.
How do you cope with the messages that say sex is good, and even okay to be sexual and look for it if you're interested in that lifestyle, vs SJW and religious kinds of "everything is objectifying and degrading to women" nonsense?
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>>16863417
I guess the secondary question is, do any of you believe in the sexualizing objectifying stuff? How can a person explore and satisfy their sexuality without being objectifying?
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Nigga you sound 16
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>>16863428
That's fine "nigga". Do you actually want to answer advice threads?
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Hello /adv/,
I was dating a girl for 7 months and we broke up last May. She gave me some BS excuse – she needed to make a big decision in her life and she didn’t want to get me involved in her problems and make me sad. We sorta have the same mutual friends, but since then we haven’t talked and I’ve only seen her a handful of times.
However, on Saturday during a group dinner with friends we were both at that she was pregnant and gave birth in December, which puts the conception date sometime around late March – about two months before we broke up. Looking back, I think that “Big decision” was about was leaving me to raise her child with the guy she cheated on me with. If she learned she was pregnant and she decided to break up with me with a shitty vague excuse then get back together with her ex, then she should be certain he is the father. But I can’t help but wonder if this baby is mine and give this situation the benefit of the doubt. I mean, we were talking in April and she mentioned to me “I’m not the kind of girl that would cheat”. Can somebody really just lie like that when they probably conceived a child with somebody around two weeks earlier?
I’m starting to stress out about this. We didn’t have sex too often – and I don’t think we did when she should have conceived, but we weren’t too good on using protection either. Obviously, I don’t want the baby to be mine. I’m thinking she’s certain I’m not the father but I might need to hear that from her so I’m sure as well. Should I ask her straight up if she’s certain? Or at the very least use it as a chance to get mad at her and call her a cunt for cheating and not telling me she got fucking pregnant while we were dating for “closure”, since I never had the chance too? I’m scared where this may lead if she’s unsure, but I suppose it’s best to take responsibility if she’s my daughter even though I’m not really in the position to be a father.
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>>16863406
>can somebody really just lie
go ask if the baby is yours. you have a right to. you'll get the full story there. if you want to go ahead and demand a paternity test to be safe.
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Yeah, I think I'll ask her tomorrow. I'm already think ing of all the BS she is going to say to justify her cheating.
One of the things that's pissing me off the most right now is after we all had dinner of Saturday, she texted me and told me she feel weird hanging out together with our friends and asked if me and her are "okay". I told her we probably aren't but I'll figure it out without her but the more I think about it and piece it all together in my head, the more pissed I get. Does she legit think she did nothing wrong or I'd be "okay" after learning she cheated on me and had a baby? It's that attitude that has me thinking I'm wrong somehow and this is just a giant misunderstanding because I can't image her being so stupid and heartless.
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>>16863406
She cheated, she's a lying slut, call her to laugh at her for fucking up here life
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How to Stop Thinking About Her
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I'm sitting here trying to study for an exam that, if I pass, could feasibly launch an extremely lucrative career for me. I say trying, because I can't stop thinking about her, and I find myself having to reread the same information over and over again because of these intrusive thoughts.
I don't get it. I've been working out, putting time into my hobbies, going out with friends, and talking to other girls. I've run the entire “get over her” playbook, and I still can't seem to make it happen. So now I'm sitting here on 4chan out of...desperation? It's never taken me this long to get over a girl before, and this is honestly shocking to me.
What do I do now? I really need to pass this exam and get on with my life, but I can't get my head out of my ass. What do I do?
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I am in the same boat I am trying to forget but every time I see her in college I start thinking about her for the whole day it's starting to affect my life
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Meditate
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Adderal and cigarettes
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My grandma got diagnosed with cancer, but I didn't really care. I'm taking a week-long vacation to New Orleans soon. I don't care. I have no enthusiasm. I would kill myself, but I don't have the courage. I constantly contemplate my existence, and every session tells me life isn't worth it. I have no fucking clue what to do.
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a sliver of you believes life is worth it. otherwise courage wouldnt be an issue.
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>>16863391
It's a small fraction of me. I'm very much leaning towards killing myself, but I've never been able to make a decision.
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>>16863409
>its so small
>like my cock
>tiniest fraciton
>leaning towards killing myself
>but lul i dont for some reason
uh huh. that sounds real.
to see a therapist then
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Hey /adv/
I've got a bit of an average question.
I'm the emotional equivalent of a 3 year old, but actually 21. I have a hard time being around people because I feel the need to be grandiose too, because I look at others achievements and don't see my own as anything of worth. So due to this, I turn on myself pretty easily. Obviously, I don't think of myself as being worth anything. Education really helped fuel this, though I hate to blame it. Everyone else in any class got an A and did well, even though they all bragged about being lazy and non-compliant, so when I did it, I was relatively scrutinized by both my teachers and my classmates. Mix in some generic malcontempt for my parents and you've got me.
So /adv/, my question is, why do I feel like I don't equal up to most (most should read successful) people in my age group (I make 50 grand USD a year with benefits with a union regulated job, so no, college isn't the reason why).
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Well gee. thanks /adv/ I'm glad I got some response from you all.
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Time to do some soul searching dude, only you can answer these questions for yourself. Go see a therapist and they will guide you to those answers.
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The therapist brought me to this point. Honestly, I give him tons of props for getting me to a mindset that something is wrong with me rather than me being the problem. I'd like to get further, but he doesn't get passed the point of "you need to fix yourself" which is the problem I have the most. I can barely play a goddamn vidja without looking up references, how am I supposed to roadmap my life if I can't get through half an hour of FFXIII [I used the most linear one because that's how I look at people who aren't me, they've got their lives laid out.) without needing a walk through.
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I'm married. My wife and I are poor and living temporarily with parents until we can find a new place. When we are gone to work, my parents go into our room and intrude in our personal space. They go on my computer and mess with things.. like cancelled my Fallout 4 download, they try to clean our room.. in the process throwing away important documents and personal items. Then, when my wife is gone and i'm at home.. they talk shit about my wife constantly! Pisses me off... At this point i'd rather be homeless than deal with their crap.. I need some advice about my parents intruding in on our privacy and talking shit about my wife.. and yes, we are moving out within the next couple months.
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I totally feel for you dude, my parents are crazy, too. Just be glad that you are moving out soon. I wouldn't rock the boat too much until then, but you should at least tell them not to clean and throw shit away. That's just weird...
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Now that you are married, it is not only acceptable to white-knight your wife, it's outright expected under most circumstances. Obviously there are things you don't want to say to your own parents if you can avoid it, but the next time they start talking shit about her in front of you, flat-out defend her. Their attempts to undermine your marriage are Not OK.
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>>16863377
What do they say about her anyway?!
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Christians of /adv/, if there are any, I've been a lapsed Catholic/atheist for about a decade or so, and have been through some very difficult times in the last few years.
Religion wasn't important to me at all, in that I wasn't a zealot either way, and slid towards agnosticism.
Lately, however, I've been feeling a bit more drawn to Christianity again, and last night I prayed for the first time in so long. I can already feel it giving me a little bit more strength, but I'm still struggling with having faith.
Basically, can anyone advise me on how you completely surrender yourself to belief?
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>>16863371
by not surrendering yourself to what people tell you to believe.
whether or not something exist or not, you cannot deny your feelings. you have feelings, religious ones. you pray. it gives you strength. even after years of agnosticism. compare this to every other experience of the world, and its still its own thing. people in your position feel nothing. people in different positions in different religions feel the same thing.
so what is there? whatever you felt is real. follow that feeling. continue to pray. kneel. meditate. spirit walk. whatever you need to do to feel connected. surrender yourself to that feeling and where it leads you.
but that doesnt mean you have to believe every word in the book. most christians dont actually believe like 90% of the bible, or are even aware of what it says. most christians are actually comfortable with religion. some will simply rationalize that 'a day to a god could be a billion years in our time'. some will simply rationalize that like all things, they are the accounts of humans, but the idea behind faith is in there somewhere. others will say its only abotu the faith, and the bible is just a tool to help your develop your personal relationship with god.
whatever you believe, this is a modern world. believe what you want to, and adhere to that. everyone else does, even when its only convenient to them. so why not?
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Why would you want to surrender yourself with any belief including religion? Are you asking us how you can deprogram your mind into rejecting any other belief other than Christianity?
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Read Kierkegaard's Fear and Trembling and Sickness unto Death. They're what brought me from a "spiritual but not religious" pseudo-Catholic to the devout practicing Catholic I am now.
If you're big into reading I'd also suggest The Brothers Karamazov. Great book that's very strongly based in the author's orthodox faith.
Another thing that really helped to bring me back to it was going to a Byzantine Catholic/Eastern Rite church instead of the Roman Catholic ones that I'd gone to as a kid. The difference between the two environments helped to separate the general distaste for organized religion I'd developed as a teenager from the actual core beliefs of the subject.
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After much stalling I finally asked this girl out on a date. The date was the day before Valentine's Day and I think it went pretty well. But attempts at a follow-up have not gone anywhere.
The next weekend I asked her if she wanted to see a movie, she said she couldn't because she was swamped with work.
Next weekend I was preoccupied but I asked if she wanted to do something this week. Again she said she was caught up with a project and midterms.
She might just be that busy, she is a double-major and both majors are cumbersome and it is midterms this week. But on the other hand she is becoming less responsive over texts.
So is she losing interest or am I being paranoid?
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I should also mention that next week is Spring Break so should I just cut my losses and wait till then? (Like talk to her over break and then ask to do something when we both get back).
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Sorry bro, sounds like she lost interest to me
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>>16863374
Agreed. If she offered alternative times or said "once I get through with this project" then there's hope.
I'm afraid there's no home. She done everything except say she'll be spending the semester rearranging her sock drawer. Sad but move on.
Consider a game in which there is a prize worth $30. There are three contestants, A, B, and C. Each can buy a ticket worth $15 or $30 or not buy a ticket at all. They make these choices simultaneously and independently. Then, knowing the ticket-purchase decisions, the game organizer awards the prize. If no one has bought a ticket, the prize is not awarded. Otherwise, the prize is awarded to the buyer of the highest-cost ticket if there is only one such player or is split equally between two or three if there are ties among the highest-cost ticket buyers.
Am i right or wrong?
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What's the question, you just need to break down the possible results?
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Consider a game in which there is a prize worth $30. There are three contestants, A, B, and C. Each can buy a ticket worth $15 or $30 or not buy a ticket at all. They make these choices simultaneously and independently. Then, knowing the ticket-purchase decisions, the game organizer awards the prize. If no one has bought a ticket, the prize is not awarded. Otherwise, the prize is awarded to the buyer of the highest-cost ticket if there is only one such player or is split equally between two or three if there are ties among the highest-cost ticket buyers.
The question is there but I have no ideas to solve it
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1. Show this game in matrix form.
2. What are three playersíbest responses?
3. Find all pure-strategy Nash equilibria.
Sorry Here are the questions
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i have all these weird fetishes that nobody is into and it makes me sad
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>>16863347
Such as?
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>>16863347
Elaborate. I'm into some weird shit too, like hentai, bondage, painal, etc.
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Some dude on /v/ was into tiles, surely you can't beat that
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Is wanting friends who are interested in doing stuff other than getting drunk too much to ask for?
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Bump. I think it's really annoying when all my friends ever want to do is drink. Sometimes, I wonder if we'd have anything to do without alcohol. It's a sad thought.
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Do a sport, sport. Or get involved in a hobby and meet some kindred spirits!
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>>16863334
its not that hard. im on accutane so cant drink. my friends and i play board games together. sometimes video games. laser tag. etc.
Been having unprotected sex with my girlfriend for a year now.
Last night, the soldier was itching a bit, so I unsheathed the uncut warrior to find my glans covered in tiny red bumps.
No symptoms other than that and my foreskin is red.
So, is this the clap, HIV? How long do I have to live?
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>>16863304
regardless of what we say you are goign to have to see a doctor, so why not just do that?
that being siad, i had a similar issue. was sure i had herpes. the doctor was sure i had herpes. then the tests came back negative. no herpes for me
what was it? HPV. an entirely harmless strand of genital warts. the bumps itched only when i felt them being 'created' and rising to the surface. once there i felt fine.
they gave me a liquid to put on it that burns them off in 3 days (not painful at all, just a term) and ive been fine. it stays in your system for two years than gets filtered out. its recommended that all women get vaccinated for HPV. gay men too. but theres no reason straight man cant.
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>>16863331
Thanks for some peace of mind. I am going to the clinic after work today. Just wondering what I should be prepared for.
Damn penis.
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>>16863348
it sucks to suck, but hopefully not herpes. if it is, you at least have your gf and can deal with that together as she likely has it too (though you might have had it in hiding and she may be safe).
it certainly makes casual sex a LOT harder, but from what I've heard from herpes community (re: not online) it hasnt effected DATING. by the time they tell their partner they are too invested. women tend to think once they have feeligns, tahts it they have to see it through.
but you know, no casual sexi n the meantime.
but if it doesnt itch constantly, congrats u likely just got hpv. good luck
Are there any parents on here? If so I have a question for you; what is the most non creepy way for a young guy to who is a complete stranger to play with your kids at the playground of park?
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There is no way. Why do you want to play with strangers kids? Are you an honest to goodness-- literally mentally handicapped--retard? If not then the assumption is you are a pedophile.
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>>16863314
What if I hide my boner and say children just warm my heart ( which they actually do ).
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>>16863302
>Are there any parents on here? If so I have a question for you; what is the most non creepy way for a young guy to who is a complete stranger to play with your kids at the playground of park?
Dad with two grown children here.
"most non creepy way" would be not at all, especially if a complete stranger. It might depend on the ages of your kids. I'm assuming that if your kids are very young, you're there with them. And by "young guy" what kind of age are you talking about ? Can you elaborate ?