>NCEA grades not quite sufficient to get into PHYS 114
>automatically put into PHYS 131 as an alternative prerequisite, extending my degree by a year
>a senior lecturer basically says that he doesn't want students to think they don't need the requirements to get into the course and so he refuses to let me into PHYS 114 even on a trial basis, despite a couple weeks of negotiations
>university starts
>PHYS 131 turns out to be even more basic physics than I thought, I've already learned everything in the course plan
What do you do in this situation?
By the way, I should point out that this is New Zealand and not the US, which makes things even worse because New Zealanders are extremely passive. So only someone who actually has a duty to help me will do so.
>>16866236
At least its not a gender studies class.
>>16866236
Sounds like you need to hit the books, my friend. If you think you're going to manipulate your way into a higher level class, well, stop.
>>16866245
>tfw ex-classmate is taking gender studies and
>>16866255
He actually gave an offer for me to take a 200-level course without taking the PHYS 114 prerequisite if I wanted to save that year that was added on. So clearly, he allows worming into higher level classes. Just not straight from high school.
Also, what can I hit the books for if there's nothing to learn? Did you actually read properly?
I'm afraid that my boyfriend is gonna fall in love with my best friend once they meet. How do I stop being such a little bitch?
Your boyfriend only cares about you for your looks and loyalty. It literally doesn't matter how insecure you are.
>>16865885
rate yourself, your friend and your boyfriend, if she is an huge upgrade compared to you that's a problem, people are weak and they normally dump their current partners once they see the chance to upgrade.
>>16865941
I'm generally favoured more by guys than my best friend since she's very shy. We're both very similar in terms of personality though once you get to know us. She has the cutest, softest voice ever. In terms of appearance we're about the same. My boyfriend is pretty qt though he's a little larger. He's pretty confident and is charismatic which makes up for the extra weight, his past girlfriends were all very pretty and /fit/.
How do I come to terms with the fact that I was circumcised against my will as a newborn?
Sue your parents. It's about time someone does it.
>>16865814
i like this idea, OP should go for it!
>>16865810
Let me tell you its probably far easier and far less painfull than getting circumcised at 20 - as i was.
>>16865810
You just get over it. Seriously, I'm cut and I've never thought once I am negatively impacted. Beside. no smegma bro!
Hey its the autist from yesterday who asked for advice on talking to girls.
Ive taken all the stuff you guys have told me and I'm just about ready to start my new daily routine of approaching 20 women.
Now before I start I just have a few questions.
Where are good places to do this? So far I can only think of my school but I'm afraid that if a girl really doesn't like me I'll get charged or suspended for "sexual harassment", "attempted rape", or something ridiculous.
Should I try going to clubs? Ive never been to one so if anyone has important tips or knows of things I should be aware of please let me know.
I'm 19, if it helps.
For all those who've helped out, thanks!
lol no replies?
Nobody has any experience on this?
>>16865916
IDK if you live somewhere where this is a thing, but there's this idea of 'singles meetups', arranged online, where a bunch of single people congregate in a given place at a given time and just sort of hang out. It's generally understood that hitting on people under these circumstances is OK/non-creepy, and also if you embarrass yourself you can just ditch that group and find a new one.
Alternatively, there's the low-tech/old-fashioned concept of singles' bars. You might want to ask your friends which bars are the ones that got Schelling'd into being the ones that single people go to in order to meet other single people.
>>16865805
Dude, just talk to the girls who you run into. Ask the checkout girl at the grocery store how her day is. Tell the girl walking by you that you like her hair. Etc. Once you stop viewing every interaction as a possible date or something that needs to happen and be forced you'll stop reeking of desperation. Girls can smell desperation like a shark smells blood. Not to be all SJW, but girls are people too and once you start treating them like you would anyone else getting to the next level will be natural. Seriously, just relax.
ive always been the weird kid , and ive always hated my life to some extent
ill be leaving highschool soon, so that could give me the opprotunity to reinvent myself
besides working out, i plan to try and become a completely different person. So i need help on what hobbies i should do.
What are some normal, conventional hobbies that aren't considered nerdy?
>>16865579
shut it down.
>>16865579
you will regret it. trust me. "normal" people are boring as fuck and most dont really do anything. they are normal because they are uncultured plebs. you can still be social and confident while having obscure hobbies. you just need to find a balance, add the odd few normal interests into your life but dont complete convert. some normal hobbies are going the gym, watching tv, going on Facebook and talking shit about people and drinking. they dont do much else. being the weird kid isn't really due to your hobbies, its because you lack social skills. i have pretty obscure hobbies but i am confident and get on well with most people.
doing AND watching sports
go out and drink/do drugs and dance
How thin do you have to be in order to get a boyfriend? I'm aiming for 160lbs, 5'7, or do I need to go lower?
>>16865492
lol. you need to be proportionate, and even that's just a bonus.
I assume you have a vagina? If you're not a landwhale and are fairly proportionate you can have a boyfriend in a moment's notice. Even if you are a landwhale and built like a refrigerator, you can have a boyfriend, just maybe not the one you want.
130 is more realistic at that height, but there are men into fatties as well so you could always choose from them.
>>16865492
if you can diet down to a certain weight and then maintain that weight, its not any more complicated to just diet a little longer and then maintain instead of stopping your diet early
shoot for your ideal body weight which is around 140 more or less depending on your build
A friend of mine killed herself
What do I do /adv/?
Accept it. And visit a psychotherapist
Well, what can you do?
And what exactly are you trying to do? You obviously can't bring her back.
>>16865381
Follow suit.
As a black girl how can I acquire a cutw Korean bf?
be cute
talk to cute korean guys
>>16865352
no self respecting korean will date black, they will be disowned
>>16865352
Just go hit up Tyrone for that good dick you know you want
how does a white person stop hating white people. or at least fix them or kill them off or something. first off all lets get some shit straight.
>be of north european origin
>no white guilty here, just basing this off stuff i observe
>slavs, celts, mediterraneans, are NOT white in this context
celts are retarded subhumans and germanics are borderline robots. what do
pic is an art that i like by a german who somehow the exception to my rule
>>16865329
Stop assuming everyone conforms to stereotypes
>>16865329
Go hangout in Compton, Afghanistan and China lol you'll love white people again.
>>16865329
>no white guilt
lol
I'm already old and getting back into school. Want to make money and have a job I don't hate.
Help.
How are we supposed to know what you don't hate if you don't even know? You haven't even given us anything to work with.
...
>>16865085
Fuck school, get into Carpentry and I guarantee you won't hate it.
>>16865114
This.
Union labor is wide open and you'll learn to love it, at least for the benefits. The whole college bubble burst about twenty five years ago so if you have to ask strangers what to do it's not worth your time or money. Is what it is.
/adv/,
I'm trying to find cute panties for a girl, but all the websites I've looked at only have traditional 'women' panties. I'm talking about panties with little figures, cute characters etc. Would any of you kind gents or gentees give me any pointers on websites/places to look?
>>16865077
which characters? what happened when you tried googling "(name of character) panties"?
>for a girl
sure anon.
>>16865083
Why yes, I did try things like 'character' panties but did not always find anything. I'll try that though. Was thinking more of a general store where I could browse designs though.
>>16865101
Hard to believe but troo mane.
>Neckbeard
>Gone +1 year no human contact
I started college yesterday, small tute group, how do I project myself to be likable and confident?
There is a qt3.14 in the class
smile and dont stare u fat fuck
also epic meemes
>>16865103
How do I make people think good about me?
>>16865138
dont be a sperg and be positive. no 1 likes someone who talks shit or says how sad they are
i swear to god im tired and i dont know what to do
please help me
my life is hell and i wish i could just kill myself
in our house i live with my mother and father and grandma and uncle
my uncle is sick and his mind has something wrong with it and he keeps harassing me and touching me in sexual places
whenever i tell my mom she yells at me and says that i just want to bring shame to my family and embaress my father in front of everybody
i have tried to hint it to my father twice before and he hit me and told me that it was all my fault and that my uncle cannot move elsewhere because of his condition and im so scared that my uncle will go further in me and my family has no solution for me
and im scared that my father gets even angrier at me and disowns me or worse
i dont know what to do
im sick of it all
please someone help me get out of my misery
>>16865069
call the police. if you are worried that you will become homeless, tell the police this and ask them to put you in touch with whatever social services agencies exist in your area.
what country do you live in OP?
>>16865069
how old are you? can you get a job and move out?
>>16865073
i cant leave my parent's house
it's social suicide
even if i managed to do all of this succesfully i know i will never be married because nobody would want to marry a girl like this ..
and i don't even know if they have such things where i live
i live in jordan by the way
>>16865084
im 19
im still studying
how do i stop procrastinating? it feels like a week ago i was focused and goal oriented, but now i seem to be lost in my thoughts and imagination.
I have papers to work on.
Tell your papers to go fuck themselves. You have dreams to chase
>>16865063
not sure if this is good legit advice
>be 24 years old engineering student
>lost a shitload of time trying to study various things without an once of motivation because nothing better to do
>still living with my mom since I have 0 income
>she's unbearable, I've been wanting to gtfo for years but no money for that and she wont put a cent for it either
Now I concretely have 2 options:
- Continue with this shit, try not to kill myself and obtain a stable and well paid yet boring job in like 3 years if everything goes well
>will have fun once a week getting drunk and shit on weekends
Or
- Do something i like with the obvious risks to get financially rekt
>maybe one day I'll be both financially independent and doing stuff i consider fun
>maybe I'll just end up on the streets
Need help for this, I feel like I'm fucked in both options
The second option would be related to craft beer since its the thing i do for fun that is most likely to get me some money.
I already do for me & my friends and it's pretty appreciated, I'd "just" have to produce <9000 times more and sell it
bumping for mercy
Stay where you are until your mother gets sick of you and kicks you out.