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Need some advice
So, I 'flirted' with a girl in class last friday. She wears normal clothes didn't dress up at all since the course started.
Next day after I 'flirted' she came into class she was dressed up, looked like she did her hair, sat in front of me. She could have sat further away
Bell went and 90% sure she was kinda pacing herself leaving the room to match mine, I was busy so I took off anyway.
then the second lesson she sat further away, but still in front of me so if I were looking straight I couldn't not notice her, but she could have sat next to me.
My family thinks I have autism and I do have trouble noticing things so I wanted to get some anons opinion.
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>>16927110
Make a move OP, flirt more. The only time you need to worry about flirting is either if you're a) drunk or b) if it sounds like you're overstaying your welcome. Just don't overthink it, flirting is fun, treat it as such and not like some fucking hurdle.
Also, don't place any investment in it. If you start worrying or it doesn't go well, who gives a fuck? Be the flirty, dirty dog you want to be.
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>>16927132
Just wondering if she's trying to communicate something.
I don't know her at all so I'm cool with not doing anything.
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Just do it , nice taste in attachmentes
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is it completely unreasonable to leave someone when nothing is particularly wrong in the relationship? i've been thinking about this so long that i can't even tell if i'm being irrational.
my bf's really suportive of me, he's a good person and friend. takes all my crap. knows be better than anyone. so it certainly would be painful to lose him but....
i'm just not feeling it anymore. and i can't see us together for life (mainly because i dont get along with his family very well, and he's a uni dropout neet without any perpective in life at least as of now...) so leaving him feels like an inevitable thing i'll have to do sometime anyway.
we've been together for five years (since i was 15 - he's three years older), so i'll have to admit that i also feel like i am missing out on life a bit. i don't have any experience being alone/single or with anyone else. selfish, but that's how i feel.
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>>16927091
You're heading for a break up eventually, there's no other way around it. Do it before you make a mistake like get pregnant then you're stuck with him
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You should break up with him because you don't deserve him. You have a terminal case of greener grass and will ruin the relationship in a few years, if not sooner.
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This is what girls do. Then they regret it, and come running back. So do it, piss off the person who loves you the most, I don't think you know how hard it would be to start over with someone new. No one will know you as good as him. You practically grew up with him. The connection you cut with him you won't find anywhere else. The only thing that gets me is that he is a dropout. So, maybe a breakup is required. Maybe you should tell him to either get his liife together or you are leaving.
fuck you though
Is hiring an escort a good way to forget your ex?
I can't seem to forget her. I'm thinking of hiring an escort and it's fine by me since I have a lot of money. The money I saved up is supposed to be for a ring I'm planning to her and for our marriage. But she broke up with me.
Pic is what I wanted to hire.
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>>16927049
yes it's guaranteed to make you forget about your ex or any straight relationship after you fucked a tranny.
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Yes. Yes it is.
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i wouldnt say so
escorrts dont offer the affection or connection that you're probably actually looking for, if youre trying to forget an ex
save some $$$ and wait it out like most other people and save yourslef AIDS while youre at it
How the fuck am I supposed to work with the most inconsiderate parents in the literal world?
>dad stays up till 4 am
>he snores grunts sneezes coughs and everything loud as fuck
>he has an autistic obsession with our pellet stove
>every day as soon as he wakes up I hear him fuck with it and it's the loudest thing in the world
>he sleeps in the room under me and literally snores moans and grunts in his sleep all night
>my mom wakes up at 6
>for the next hour she will walk up and down the stairs 10 times, slam doors, crinkle shit and do other loud shit
>mom will randomly stand in the hallway making noise
>they are in the kitchen constantly slamming the microwave door and fridge and shit
>they constantly spray febreeze and other cheap shit and leave their door wide open so it's all I can smell
>wake up every day to the smell of nasty burning eggs and cigarette smoke
>both of them go up and down the stairs non stop
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Sleep with good quality ear plugs. They take a bit of getting used to but are great in the end
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If you are a neet they are trying to let you know that you are useless piece of garbage and you should move
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>>16926993
I'm job searching but I told them a ton of times that the hardest part of all of it is that I can't sleep
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So I live In Nevada, which is considered a dumb state. I've been trying to see where the educated people go and it seems like the Northeast is the place to be. Is anyone from Massachusetts, or any Northeast State? I have almost zero knowledge about this region. What comes to mind is presidents and the late 1700's. Is this a place to live for someone in their early 20? I also LOVE the cold/ rain and don't like heat.
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Educated people go to companies that hire educated people, then talk with the other educated people, which leads them to meet with more educated people.
What you really want is people who bought into a lot of the misinformation you were probably taught in college, since your political views will line up more. So go ahead and move to Massachusetts, just don't be surprised if it turns out the way you used to do anything is fucking illegal and everyone has their head up their ass and none of the women will do anything more than break your heart.
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>>16926964
I live in rural New England and can tell you it's literal hell like Satan himself is here
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>>16926971
I don't really do anything illegal, don't smoke or gamble. Are you OK though? It seems like a girl messed with your heart.
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Whats gives the best interest rate for a small amount of money(like 1k)?
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College student here. I'm not working at the moment. I have about 2.5k. I don't want to keep all my money in cash. I need your help on how to decide whats best way to get interest for about 1k?
Bonds? Term deposit bank accounts? Or something else? And why?
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>>16926923
stock market numb nuts, bonds and CD's will net you 3-5% and you can't easily convert those to cash. the stock market returns 16% on average, and you can just buy into a mutual or index fund if you don't wanna pick them yourself
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>>16926956
> the stock market returns 16% on average
Heh
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>>16926956
30 dollars is not much
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I am a college student, a junior, and I am very lazy. I study economics, a relatively difficult subject, and I never study at all. I never talk to my professors, and I never do well on problem sets or presentations, but I absolutely excel at essays (a few times even being pulled aside and praised for them), and I usually get A's on all of my exams.
Like I said, I never study; I cram the entire term worth of content in 12 hours leading up to the exam and somehow far surpass most of my peers (often times setting the curve). What is telling about this is that most of my peers study excessively and go to office hours and the like.
I am making this thread because today I just did what I assumed to be impossible. Knowing practically nothing about any of my 3 classes this term, I woke up at midnight yesterday and crammed for all 3 classes... because my exams were all back to back from noon to 6pm. Somehow, I aced every single one.
Perhaps I am being narcissistic, but I am starting to realize this might be an exceptional quality of mine and I am wondering if anyone can help me identify exactly what this quality implies.
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>I study economics, a relatively difficult subject
Kek
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>>16926879
Mathematical Economics. It's not engineering, no, but it's only a few steps down in difficulty when in comparison to most majors.
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You just happen to test well? I'm a Japanese/Psychology double major and I do the same thing for every test/essay. It's not really that special.
So I know my boyfriend has Paraphilic infantilism. Look it up for a more detailed explanation. Here's where I want advice. Instead of him being put in diapers and what not, he actually wants to be the one taking care of ME. Wants me to "mess" myself, wear diapers, suck on my own thumb (or his), call him daddy, and generally let him control me by being the dominant one. He has also referred to his penis as my pacifier cock. I'm totally on board and have no issue with it. I just want to hear from others who actually have this syndrome, have experience with it, whatever. Especially since he wants me to be the baby. I can't find anything like that anywhere. Psychologically, what does this tell me about him? If anything. I like being controlled so there's my end of it. But what would make someone actually want to be the one taking care of the baby..? Many explanations online about what it means to BE the baby.
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your bf doesnt have anything
you on the other hand are seriously retarded
>playing along with a pedo
thats gona work great with kids
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I'm actually the "little" in my relationship, but I can tell you what I know about the motivations from the other side:
1. Doesn't want judgment/scrutiny, wants to shower attention on someone without focus on their needs or failures
2. Likes to look at/have sex with cute things
3. Finds it sexy or simply more convenient to be the decision-maker in some or all domains
I don't get it either; it's not my thing. If I get to play around and be told what to do that's fine by me, though.
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>pacifier cock
Kek. I just showed my wife this post. Her comment was "yeah, right, this girls got serious issues and so's he"
Question for anyone else here with PTSD.
Do you feel dead? Anywhere from "dead inside" like hollow/empty/devoid of meaning as a human to you seriously feel like you died in some event a while back and just kind of got up and went on living. Is this...normal after some seriously fucked-up shit happens to you?
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>>16926747
Yes, this is what I have been through. It was like I was in some void or limbo between two absolute places.
Between death and the living world. And I sooo wanted to connect with death, becaus ai couldn't connect with the living.
It's normal and.. You have to give it time and find something constructive to make that time pass. Whatever you've been through needs its own space to unravel.
Happy to answer any other questions. I know talking and finding someone who understands can be helpful.
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>>16926763
Okay, first, pardon my probably lack of coherence. I'm on drugs lol >_>
Is it harmful?
Like I go through life being semi-convinced I died in one incident or another. That my ex accidentally choked me to death or concussed me one of the worse times. That I succeeded in killing myself one of the worse times. I feel like a ghost who doesn't know when to quit, or that my soul vacated but my mind and body continued. I can't tell if this is protecting me somehow or hindering me. How do you define "constructive"?
>i couldn't connect with the living.
I feel this a lot too, but I don't let it show. Mostly I feel resentful that so many people didn't help even though I begged for it
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>>16926796
concussed me as in i died of some brain injury or something
i was concussed lol
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Do women have a bigger potential to be manipulative? 2016-03-17 08:39:58 Post No.16926694
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(im a guy) In my experience with women they seem to "tend" to be more manipulative and insecure than men can be. Sure, men can be that way but its mostly when something is going wrong and not just out of the blue. And men can also be heavily manipulated by a girl and I've seen it happen a ton.
As an example my mom has overreacted so heavily to me smoking weed when it was not a big deal. Another my brothers ex wife was so manipulative that it scarred me and sent me to the hospital for a mental breakdown (was living with my brother). Another time I complemented a girl on her looks which is completely fine but she freaked out and said it was weird and being insecure. She only talked to me if I talked to her too, she went through like a year of never attempting to contact me by phone but only responding or answering a call if I tried to contact her.
And today at my Job a girl tried to fuck me up and my reputation and complain to the moving company I work for. She easily knew I didn't know what I was doing (being new to the job) so she took advantage of that and gave me looks as if I'm not doing a good job and I'm taking too long which put me under pressure. She called my boss to complain im standing around, (being told to wait) Afterwards, she told her husband I'm standing around and everyone who was working there on their own terms so she could charge me and my coworker $345 for every hour we make them wait. When I was going towards my van to pick up shit she stopped as if not to let me cross while I'm needing to know if she is backing up or going forward so i can cross the street, then when I just went for it she gave me a look as if to say I'm shit.
Basically, several women I have encountered have been more controlling than men can be since they naturally don't look intimidating. And of course, it depends on the girl, but would you agree with me?
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To a certain extent. This is more cultural than anything else, however: girls are taught to manipulate in much the same way boys are taught to fight, and in both cases, this winds up being to the detriment of both.
In your specific case, however, I'm not seeing much manipulation. Your mother is reacting appropriately to finding out that you're enslaving yourself to a chemical for a few minutes of fake happiness a pop. Two women have turned you town, and you've continued to pursue them: the basic definition of creepiness. I don't know what happened with your brother's ex-wife, but out of the entire list you've given, this sounds like the only case that even might be a case of manipulation, and the track record you've established does not inspire confidence. You sound to me like just another fucking redpiller.
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>>16926694
well I do know they have a bigger potential to give birth
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I think it's just biological. Some evidence points to women being naturally more empathetic on average than men. In good people, this is great and allows them to be nurturing, caring, and charismatic. In bad people, this is horrible as it allows them to be very manipulative.
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Hey I'm interested in seeing how many days apart couples regularly go on here. I've noticed my girlfriend of 3 years has been seeing her friends a lot more than ever before, meaning after she is finished with her studies/work she will go see her friends several days in a row over me and cancelling coming to see me. I'm not used to this so I'm having some insecurities about this, she asked me to hang out tomorrow after 2 straight days of cancelling on me and instead of taking her up on it i told her nicely that i already made plans for tomorrow with my friends (which i didnt) and she seemed perfectly happy about it.
I know lying to her was wrong, i just didnt want her thinking she can just pick and choose like that, and honestly part of me was hoping she would care at least a little that it will be over 3 days since the last time we even saw each other.
I know 3 days is practically nothing, but its out of the ordinary for us so it feels a lot longer.
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>girlfriend asks you to hang out, which is what you want
>you decide to shittest her
What the fuck did you hope to gain from this?
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>>16926708
I get this completely but remember that the last two days she has asked the very same thing and both times only hours before we organized to see each other she has cancelled and seen friends instead. There is no guarantee she wouldnt do the same thing tomorrow and I guess I didnt want to be turned down a third time.
I'm not saying what I did was the best course of action but as far as she knows Im perfectly happy and I feel like I should just get over this.
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>3year relationship
>worried about eing apart for 3days
She has a life outside of just you andher leave herbe
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I just moved with my gf into a apartment (with our friend). Now the friend will never be a concern, but our relationship is an open.
She is Poly, but I am a mono.
I never really dealt with this kind of situation before, and I told her I would try this and give this relationship a chance. But there are times where it is more harm than good.
What are your guys' advice or experience on poly people, or open relationships in general
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If one partner wants to be poly and one wants to be monogamous, it will not work out. Ever. It doesn't matter how "open-minded" you try to be, it's a fundamental difference that will just end in hurt feelings.
You moved in with someone you can't even agree with basic life principles on.
Godspeed.
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>>16926679
yeah, I never really knew much about poly relationships before i met her, and she wants me to try and see if i can get someone, to get experience, and to try and be with another person. I just haven't yet, and so i don't know if I can be poly or not. not yet anyways
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It's not going to work out.
I'm a poly who dated monos, it was miserable for everyone.
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Hey /adv/ I'm joining the Air Force and I have a couple of questions. See, how does the pay thing work? Do I get a check, does the military set me up a bank account?
If so, I owe a bank money from when I was 16, about 5 years ago. Because of that I can't open a bank account anywhere. So what happens for someone like me?
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when the military finds out your enlistment will stop
sorry
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>>16926332
Sorry anon.
But think about it this way - You shitty decisions when you were a minor (somehow) are keeping you from 4 years of absolute suck.
You're not missing anything and are FAR better off going to college.
You don't get laid in the AF, you don't get any of the things they say you'll get except a uniform that feels a lot like county orange.
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>>16926344
>you don't get any of the things they say you'll get except a uniform
and even then...
Help me adv, I have a crush on another girl. My girlfriend is incredibly jealous, and for good reason. I've always really liked female attention, and she knows it and I've been with her for almost 3 years. So to fight my urges to be flirtatious and thus respect the sanctity of me relationship(I'm no cheater and I truly love my gal) I always just stop talking to the girls who would give me this attention, or the girls I found myself crushing on.
Now, listen. I'm not rob Lowe so it's not like this happens to me all the time, but every semester of school I find there's a girl in infatuated with and who seems to be flirting with me, but I make sure to talk about my gf and never get their phone number and to generally not flirt.
But God dammit, I like this girl in one of my classes, a lot and I'm so ashamed to admit it. I know she flirts with me and it just feels so good to have this attention, wtf is wrong with me? It's even gotten to the point where I'm thinking about ending things with my current girl, but that seems so stupid and like that road goes nowhere good. Hell, I don't really know how to be single anymore or how to play the game. I doubt I would get very far.
But every time I talk to her she's quite warm, laughs at my jokes and makes physical contact with me as she does it - and I just eat that shit up. How to I stop myself from being such a shit? I haven't gotten to know her that well(since I generally try to avoid her for feeling this way) so she doesn't know I have a girl, cause I don't know how to just casually bring that up. But I talk about my gf to my friends in class a lot, so maybe she does?
I'm quite sorry for this long post, I'm just wracking my brain about this and I can't sleep. I've been infatuated with girls and it's no problem but I'm fully in a crush right here. I got butterflies and shit, and I want it to end and to stop being such a slut for girls' attention.
I'm 20 years old and in college if that helps
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Grow up.
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>>16926278
can't argue with that , hope i'll get there some day. this whole situation does make me feel incredibly childish, but such is life for a dumb 20 year old, eh?
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>>16926304
Yes. I'm glad you understand I'm not being an asshole, its seriously the best advice anyone could give you at this point in your life.
Despite what every person has ever told you, youve decided to settle down in your prime, and stick to one person for the past 3 years. This type of commitment is realistically too big for people your age. Youre at an age where you should be out fucking every one of those girls you're infatuated with, and your body knows it. Such is human instinct.
But you love your gf, shes good to you and you habe no serious reason to break it off. After all, anything you could use as an excuse seems very small in comparison to the last 3 years of your life.
If you love her, and cant live without her, and are confident she's who you want for the next 67 years, then grow up and be the man she needs you to be.
If youre not any or all of those things, cut her off before you waste another 3 years of your life with something you know isnt gonna work forever. Leading her on for 10yrs and deciding youre sick of her then is the worst thing you can do here, and simultaneously the most likely thing to happen. You need to do it sooner rather than later, and explain to them that you just dont see yourselves moving forward together. This also requires growing up and being man enough to do so.
If you continue down your current path, you'll effectively be miserably regretful throughout most of your life. But you'll deal with it because its the bed you made for yourself.
Tl;dr: >>16926278
Somebody know what is this ???
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>>16926215
The smallest penis I've ever seen. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Don't know what that is, but you should probably get it checked by a real doc. Just sayin...
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>>16926215
A really bad ingrown hair?