I finally got my girlfriend over here to Canada as a visitor. Now I want her to go through the legal process to stay here permanently with me.
She says she wants to go back because that's where all her friends are.
If a girl truly loved you would she choose you over her friends?
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This will totally end well
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There's a lot of shit to consider here. How long have you been dating? How often have you met in person? What are your jobs like? What will she be able to do for a job? There's all kinds of stuff you need to talk about. You can't expect someone to just drop everything and leave with you.
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>>17254134
>If a girl truly loved you would she choose you over her friends?
Maybe. Maybe not. But you're definitely a total douche and completely, 100% in the wrong if you force her in to that situation or try to guilt her for either decision.
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I'm a huge sperg, despite having passable face aesthetics, a good body and average confidence. I sperg out a lot. There isn't a day that I don't sperg out, so obviously everyone is limited to being my buddy/friend. Basically no chance for a gf, since my spergouts cause women to see me just as a good guy to have a laugh with, nothing romantic at all.
That being said, somehow I've got a thing going on with 2 women. It's nothing serious at this point, but we're flirting a lot.
Here's the problem, though - one is a 6/10 (7/10 if I squint) and is super nice to me, talks a lot about tradition, family, etc. And she's fairly religious; the other is a 8/10, her ass is like the Garden of Eden (it's basically "I'd eat her farts with a smile" tier), but she's kind of a slut, seems shallow and doesn't seem ambitious (but is also family-oriented and likes kids, she babysitted her 2 younger brothers with me for half a day a few times and knows her way around).
Pumping and dumping the second one and going for the first one isn't an option, since she'd cry about it on social media.
If it's of any importance - I'm 22, living on a campus, Eastern Slav studying medicine in an Eastern Slavic country.
Give me /adv/ice, help me choode.
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>>17254120
idk man
what are you looking for? just sex or an actual relationship? if you the answer to this question you already know who to pick
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Mold the 6/10 into an 8. Ass is relatively easy to fix with squats.
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>>17254129
I'm on the fence.
I'm not really ready to have a steady relationship to which I would have to commit 100% just yet, but I know I want to see myself in one in 10 years.
For me sex isn't really a #1 priority. It's important, but not that important.
If I knew the answer, I wouldn't be here.
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Do you really think Ched Evans deserved a 5 year prison sentence for having consentual sex with a woman who intoxicated herself?
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>>17254146
>>>/tumblr/
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>>17254118
the whole point is that she said it wasnt consensual wasnt it?
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Is there an age gap that is too much?
currently I'm talking to a middle aged woman, but I'm 18. She is old enough to be my mother, in fact she has kids, much older than me
If it doesn't bother me, does it matter?
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>>17254111
You lil shit.. stay away from men eating cougars
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As long as both are adults it's fine. I'm 38 and my gf is 23.
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there's a formula for this op
half your age plus 7
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Concept of "seduction" 2016-06-14 08:55:47 Post No.17254101
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I don't understand the concept of seducing a woman.
Yeah, I get that you want to get the woman to be interested in you, but what do you do to achieve that?
Do guys have to impress them? By talking? Body language? Or is it something completely different?
I don't understand the slightest bit of that mechanism. If anyone (especially females) could kinda enlighten me on that subject I would be very grateful.
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>>17254101
Also, I'm not a virgin, I've had meaningful relationships in the past, it's just that I've never really 'seduced' a girl - they mostly seduced me. So I just kinda played along and, after several awkward situations, everything kinda went okay.
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>>17254101
Also, please don't give me references to PUA webpages/books, unless you have a really good reason. I've read most of that stuff, and it's mostly oriented on a method of seducing as many girls as possible - it mostly doesn't say a word of how to actually do it.
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ur an fagit
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How to talk to a "nice girl" 2016-06-14 08:42:58 Post No.17254084
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How to talk to a "nice girl"
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Guy in mid 20's trying to get back in the game after a looong hiatus. I look healthy, can be funny around friends, and like to play sports casually.
I've been playing a pickup sport with this girl once every week. I find her very attractive but I can't tell how she sees me at all because she's so "nice" to everyone. She often laughs at my jokes but she's always smiling and positive that I can't make any meaningful deduction out of it. We hardly get to talk during our game since everyone's intensely running around and when the game is over she usually hurries back to her grad school studies unless we go get something to drink as a group. That's pretty much my only chance to talk to her, although we are friends on fb.
This is where I need your help. She seems like a reserved/quiet type and while I'm decent at making fun of myself to make people laugh, I've never quite figured out how to talk to a girl to signal that I'm interested, especially if the girl is as reserved as she is.
How should I break down the barrier and start signalling to her that i'm interested? Any tips on carrying the momentum of a conversation when the girl is not an active talker?
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Don't know senpai but giving you a bump because I've got the same question
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>>17254084
Its a lost art dont know how to communicate with them either and the girl i liked was a qt as fuck latina, you ever find out let me know
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Just ask her if she wants to do something outside the of sport. Worst case she says no.
I just did it and it went terrible (she said yes) but yeah, so this week's game will be interesting but whatever. I'm glad I did it.
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How can i deal with being a manlet?
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Step 1: leave /r9k/ and don't set foot there again.
Step 2: stop giving a fuck.
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>>17254108
>Step 1: leave /r9k/ and don't set foot there again.
also /fit/
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Like every other shortcoming in life. Own it. Embrace it. Make fun of it publically. Dont give a fuck. I make fun of my small dick all the time and ppl love that shit.
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I think he molested my little cousin 2016-06-14 08:34:40 Post No.17254071
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I think he molested my little cousin
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I was babysitting my 12 year old cousin recently and we had both fallen asleep. When I woke, she was nowhere to be so I checked the basement. My now ex bf was in the basement with my little cousin was crying and I noticed that her clothes were all messed up. She wouldn't tell me why she was crying and when I asked my ex when he got there and why he didn't wake me up, he kept insisting that my little cousin let him in. Between that and a few other things we argued and broke up that night
Next thing I know, I see a post on reddit with him talking about what sex is like with someone younger. I'm not sure what to do. Idk if you all can see the post, its by psyhanh. Idk what to do
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Call the police, tell them what you know and let them handle it from there.
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I called but there is no proof and my cousin refuses to tell me if anything happened. Idk why she was crying when I got there....
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You could consider telling her parents. But knowing parents they might make it worse. I mean, rape can be pretty bad but the shaming and guilt tripping done by society after the act is pretty bad as well.
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>yesterday told myself I'd start working hard today and doing all the learning I want to do
>it's today
>I'm telling myself I'll start tomorrow
How do I start working really fucking hard? I have shitloads of free time and waste it all on internet browsing, watching sports, and eating junk food (the gym keeps me from being fat).
Picrelated summarises what I think I'd look like after having the epiphany that gives me motivation.
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Simple, you need to get outside your comfort zone.
The most scientific explanation of what a comfort zone is relates it to anxiety levels. Your comfort zone is any type of behavior that keeps you at a steadily low anxiety level. Imagine something you do all the time, like watching sports or internet browsing. Everyday activities that you’re used to won’t make you feel anxious and uneasy, so they’re part of your comfort zone.
Bring your laptop to any public places, turn off wifi, and soon enough you'll start doing all the learning you want to do.
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>>17254061
I'll tell you tomorrow.
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>>17254061
pour hot butter on your face
worked for me
Is it wrong to dismiss a relationship with a girl because she is disabled? This girl (24) who I always felt was a cousin to me hung out one night. One thing led to another and we had sex (25). Never saw her sexually before that but she is disabled. Just her legs, not her head. But still a turn-off for me. Is it wrong to not want a relationship with her just because she is disabled? I was her first time she says so I don't want to make her feel like I used her. We are friends, what should I say.
My group of male friends are basically saying "Ignoring her disability for a moment. What are your feelings then? Are you dismissing this potential relationship because she's disabled?". But that doesn't change that fact she is disabled.
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>rejecting Emi
I don't even know where to start with you.
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>>17254056
You asshole why get into this shitty situation. Be with her for sometime& act normal otherwise you will soon be responsible for her suicide.
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>>17254056
it's not wrong and you are obviously not ready for this relationship it's a turn-off for you, just say no and move on
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So a while ago I posted a thread about wanting to become a criminal, and someone called me out and gave me a really good idea on how to make a lot of money easily without crime, but I cant be fucking damned to start
Im scared to fail, and he only left me extremely small tidbits, its like a fucking game
I know I can do it, but I just cant start. How do you guys get the extra push to get going?
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fucking quit or shut up, man. no one here can make YOU motivated. sounds harsh, but it's on you. ask for help all the time, not motivation.
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>>17254044
Im asking for help on how you guys get motivated
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do you have any particular thing that you want or an image of what you think would make your life worth chasing
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Try to sell me life /adv/ 2016-06-14 07:34:48 Post No.17254009
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Try to sell me life /adv/
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it's actually pretty boring desu
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>>17254009
It's not worth buying, but if you have one, you might as well hold onto it.
I hear they are hard to come by.
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You can create a legacy that lives on farther than you ever will
Generations upon generations will remember you and base their lives on you.
Also skee ball
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I talk like a fag and my shit is all retarded.
Are there any good resources online for learning to talk without an accent, or at least with a clear and respectable one?
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Please help /adv/, I do not know where else to ask.
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Post vocaroo
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>>17254086
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0PaA8ZrmERJ
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I can't stop cheating in college
I primarily do this by having foreigners do my papers on the cheap, and it sucks spending the money, but the real reason I hate it is because I'm terrified of being expected to know things when I start a new job. Nothing on my resume is a lie, and I have zero interest in accounting (math is by far my worst subject), but these are the main classes I cheat in. I absolutely loathe finance and bookkeeping and I have no interest in starting my own business. With that said, you never know when you'll need this info and I know it'll come in handy.
I think I'm still debating with myself about it. What does /adv/ think? Give me your thoughts. Convince me to stop. I know I need to.
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... what the fuck are you even studying, you don't give a shit about it.
you don't seem to like it, go re-do your life from the beginning
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You don't need to. What's the big deal? No one remembers all their courses from school. Just make sure you understand the shit directly related to your career.
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>>17253993
I could've explained myself better. I only cheat in courses I give no fucks about. Finance essentially. I took finance accounting and quantitative analysis, then started cheating in managerial accounting. If I had a job as a long-term bookkeeper, I think I'd kill myself. Bus Systems Analysis and Design, Business Law, Principles of Management, Introduction to Info Tech are all courses I had fun with and did well. It's when we start talking about profits and efficiency percentages that my eyes glaze over.
>>17253994
Maybe you're right. I'll think more on it.
What's the best way in storing millions of dollars without putting it in a bank or risk easy access for thieves (personal safe)?
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A briefcase?
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>>17253992
I'm pretty sure that's easier to get to than a safe.
I just want to know the best way to store large amounts of money with the least amount of risk in losing all of it.
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>>17253980
Build a fake wall in your house. Just don't hire anyone, do it yourself.