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Be me
Have gf
Good sex and get hard around her easily
Had been in a shitty spot previously and made friends with gay guy
He insists I'm bi or gay and pressures me into sex
Do it two times but rly drunk
I'm happy with my gf and she supports whatever or whoever I am as we've talked about this and she's bisexual.
What could this mean about me? I don't fantasize about men but could that side be so deeply suppressed?
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Oh and the guy said since we were hanging out often that we were dating and I went along with it
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see where it takes you. see if you're attracted to the guy. you never know, he might just be an ice breaker, or not your type.
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That's the thing is I'm afraid of that because I'm really happy I found my girlfriend and don't wanna lose her :/
I feel as if life is coming to a quick close. I am 26 and I just don't feel happy about much of anything anymore. The world seems void of color and interest.
I remember when I was 17-18. Come home from school and just play video games. Now, my parents are dead. I am unfit to have a relationship. My mental health is in the shitter
How do I become enthralled by life.
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>How do I become enthralled by life.
You don't. Welcome to adulthood.
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Get laid and live just like in a videogame, explore and make things just for fun. If nothing makes you happy then go for drugs
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>>17288866
I am against drug use. Even caffeine. Caffeine is just diluted heroin.
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should you try to get practice low tier girlfriends before going for a real deal? 2016-06-24 15:58:48 Post No.17288829
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should you try to get practice low tier girlfriends before going for a real deal?
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First of all I think I'm bisexual but I'm not going after guys because I don't feel like facing the social homophobic pressure. I have gender issues (like pretty much fucking everyone these days) but I don't want to make this the daily transgender thread. Only my parents and a therapist know these two things about me.
Anyway, my therapist and some normie sort of friend guys told me I should broaden my possibilities when it comes to women. I personally only rarely go after some girl romantically and only if I find her really really special and interesting. This is like once every one or two years. I've never had an actual relationship. I'm not sure if I do mind or not, I mean I would only want to be with someone I really like and that's pretty rare.
Is it worth it to go after people I don't like that much? To me it sounds like it's lowering my aim, and like just trying to get a practice gf that won't make me happy, and it's not worth the effort but they always say the typical "you never know maybe you fall in love with that person in the end". And they say that I can't expect to meet someone who's "perfect".
When I find someone I really like I do feel a bit desperate but I'm not desperate for relationships in general, who I would be with is more important than having a relationship in general to me.
What do you recommend? By the way I do have a bunch of friends, most of them are girls for some reason, I'm covered in that area.
Thanks!
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>>17288829
No, you really shouldn't.
First of all, why? What would you get out of this? Having to lower your aim is bad.
Moreover, these "low tier girlfriends" are human too. Doesn't it seem like a dick move to practice on them?
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>>17288829
>Is it worth it to go after people I don't like that much?
How the fuck would anyone know that?! Haha.
Hm, I mean... You should do what you think is best for you.
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>these "low tier girlfriends" are human too
Exactly, that's why the advice from these normies surprised me. Unless I was missing something about it which is why I'm making this thread.
But again, they say that "it may not be practice you may meet the one by aiming lower" though they don't refer to it as aiming lower, they say I expect too much from someone to consider her a potential partner and that I should look for less qualities in a person.
For example I noticed all the girls I've been this attracted to are brunettes, had my same-ish sense of humour, liked music a lot or at least were into art, were very skinny and sort of flat, and had a personality I find likeable.
I don't know if I'm being too demanding but I don't know why I haven't really felt attracted to a girl without those features.
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I have a wide foot, my shoes have to be 4E or else they dont fit so my shoe choices are very very limited. I want to wear boat shoes but I can't find a good normal style for 4E, I might be able to slip in a 3E if possible but regardless the choices suck. Does anyone know where I can find good stylish boat shoes that are 3E-4E width wise?
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kill yourself for wanting to wear boat shoes.
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Those typically brown kind of slipper like fuckers with limited lace/no real lace?
Khols had those in up to 4E, but I dunno if they still do it's been ages since I worked there. Big 5 buys shoes in bulk orders, so the get two or three of those sizes but they always went quick.
What stores of course depends on your a area. Where you at? It might seem like a dumb question, but do you ask the sales person or just browes shelves? Because we never displayed any of 13+ sizes or and rarely anything past 2E, since we had so few pairs of each of those. I'd often have to approach sad looking fat people and ask them if they needed a diffrent size, that we only kept sizes 7-12 on the floor.
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I just checked the shelves, I got a new pair of shoes recently but I want boat shoes, I didnt think they had any more in the back honestly.
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1am drunk text? How Should I Respond? 2016-06-24 15:52:32 Post No.17288819
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So I woke up this morning and I had a text from a couple of female co-workers who went out together for drinks last night. It was simple, but has me scratching my head a bit. It was a selfie of the two of them and then the heart emoji and the word "you" (love you).
Let me give some background. One of the girls I am very close with, though nothing ever sexual. It's normal for her to send me stuff like this as we have an open way of communicating with one another. The text came from girl 2 though.
This girl has been more of a professional mutual admiration. We have no problem saying we are each other's work favorites (she works for a partner company), and the occasional light flirting but nothing more than that. One, I avoid dating women at work and two, my reputation is more important to me than taking a chance on a piece of ass. There's always been subversive back and forth between us but the sudden display of blunt affection surprised me.
Initially, I thought girl one got her phone and sent. After texting girl one though, she said she did not do this and that the selfie and message were all the second girl's idea after they were talking about missing me (I live a few hours away).
At this point I am not sure if I chalk it up to two drunk chicks having harmless fun or if it meant more. How would /adv/ interpret this and how would you respond?
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She probably likes you a little, but, as you said, always keep it professional.
On a side note, "work husbands/wives" are fucking awesome. Closeness and reliability without the sexuality. Try to preserve that.
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Smash them both
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>>17288819
Easy, ignore it for now. See how it plays out. Just look at how things will go at work with girl 2. If the flirting escelates to something more then there's your answer. It's just a waiting game bro.
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I haven't had a boyfriend in 4 years, I'm a 28 year old woman/girl, and I think I want to be voluntarily single forever. I had a boyfriend for 5 years, was in love but secretly thought he was annoying and an idiot. I love being alone, but so I really want to miss out on love for the rest of my life? Maybe I can change? Men annoy me. All people annoy me, but at least women will be friends with me. I know that if I want to date a man I need to learn to accept them how they are, but I hate everyone. People are so goddam stupid...but I know some people make it work anyway.
btw I have a 2d husbando, been with him for 4 years, dunno if he had something to do with this, just...yeah.
tl;dr Is it even worth it to have a boyfriend/girlfriend if you don't really need one?
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>Is it OK to not date anyone if I don't want to?
Sure. Why not.
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>>17288796
Some people would never fall in love at all, had they not heard such a thing existed.
>La Rochfecauld
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No it's not and if you feel like it is the rational choice for you to be single that's ok.
Just ensure yourself you're rational and then carry the weight of your decision though you do sound somewhat weird I suppose.
People shouldn't annoy you by default, they can be annoying but by saying that they annoy you make their problem yours. Let people be people and just live your own life on your own terms.
>semantics
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>inb4 get tested
planning to. Already did an uroculture - clean.
TL;DR: Retarded virgin let the escort put on the condom. It got ripped.
So, I few months back I was starting\trying to get my life together. Had some extra income and figured - hey, let's get laid, that'll help.
Went to a nearby "high profile" whorehouse. She was 19, I think, pretty young. She noticed it got ripped a few minutes in - freaked out a little; went home shortly after.
Guess I'm mostly looking for people who being throught the same thing. I know the only way to know for sure is getting a test, but I'm dead scared of the AIDS, you guys.
AI: Pulled out and changed condoms pretty much immediately. Then went home to take a shower. They're given a condom each every session and don't do raw as far as I know. Went to the Urologist to get routine test - clean, not even an infection.
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How soon after did you get tested? Some shit takes a few weeks or so before it starts showing up on tests.
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Your odds of catching AIDS are really low, unless you had an open cut on your dick or something.
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I doubt you have much to worry about if you were in a whorehouse, after all STDs are bad for business.
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I found a prepaid visa debit card and it doesn't have any contact information. I was wondering how I can use this card/check the balance without it being traced to me?
Can I buy video game currency?
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You can't use it without where you used it at being recorded on the account. Using it on a website tied to an account you own with personal infornation makes you trackable. Chances are it is empty anyway.
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Chances are yeah.
But what if I bring a laptop to a place with wifi, make a new account with fake info, buy game currency, and then bounce.
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>>17288783
they usually have a website on them where you can go check the balance
as far as using it, it's not likely that it's attached to anyones account if it's one of those prepaid visa gift cards
there's no one who's looking probably
I wouldnt really be worried about using it desu unless it had a lot of money on it
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How can I tell if I have a legitimate porn addiction or not?
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gahahaha what a great pic
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Are your habits affecting your life in a negative way? Are you ignoring friends or family and watching porn instead? Are you still able to get off with a significant other? If everything is normal in those departments you're probably fine. You can always go to a sex therapist if you need more advice, they can help couples and single people.
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do you think of porn as art?
Help me out /adv/. I'm a 23 year old virgin. About two months ago, I met a chick who apparently really wants to fuck me. At first I thought she was a little clingy, but she really was just happy to meet a guy who wasn't like all the other guys she meets who just send her dick pics and do the whole "you're so special to me". No, we just talk about anime, video games, and food. Great right?
I have no idea what to do though. I'm not sure if I want to date, or if I'm just apprehensive about the whole thing. We talk, and last night she sent me a snap of her tits and puss, and she really wants me to fuck, but I'm finding every excuse not to in the world. She's 18, I'm 23. She's been with plenty of other guys that she wasn't afraid to tell me about, I'm a virgin. And I don't know if I'm bitching out because I don't really want to be in a relationship, or because I still have that v card.
Friends tell me to just do it, guys on a forum say she sounds clingy and is too young and I should meet people my own age, but is 5 difference really that bad?
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No, fucking go for it
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>you're not like the other guys
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>>17289129
Not my words- last night she was telling me about some dude who sent her a dick pic saying "you're so special can I see your boobs?" I haven't even flirted with her! Cause I really am not looking for anything serious.
Personally, I only want to bone cause she's insisting on it like crazy. I really would rather eat her cooking cause she's a competition level chef. She said when I spend the night she's gonna make me blueberry muffins the morning after and I'm more excited for that than fucking. But she's the one sending me pics of her vag on snap.
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23 and healthy.
I've even got quite a sexual history under my belt.
And, it seems about 75% of the time I can't keep an erection going. Sometimes I'm really feeling it, and ol' girl stays tip top, but it's a rare showcase.
I've been with about 20 different women give or take, and the only time I can sustain a hardon is when I'm getting a blowjob. And, even then it feels like it's not 100%.
Lately it's been even worse, and I have to choose between not finishing and going soft for no reason and the girl think it's her fault, or I finish too soon because I know I can't sustain the erection any longer, and it's almost less embarrassing to ejaculate earlier than have whisky dick.
I'm too nervous to buy pills in person, and I'm always scared if I did a self checkout they'd need a clerk to come by and approve my age for the product.
What're some of the best ways to combat this problem? I don't have a porn addiction, or masturbation problem. I do masturbate a few times a week, and even sometimes it isn't as hard then as I know it has been.
I do have a slightly above average penis size, but lately it sure doesn't feel like it.
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Do you smoke?
Exercise regularly. Oh and visit a doctor.
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>>17288691
I don't smoke
I don't really exercise either, but I do stay active so it's not a big concern for me.
I'm seeing my doctor again next month, he said I was depressed my last visit but the pills he gave me for that didn't help my problem.
I'd really like to keep this issue under the table, so I only mentioned my sexual woes to him in a less direct method.
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I suffer from pretty much the same thing, OP.
I went to see a urologist, told i could get it up but it never felt 100% and he told me that we can't really know if i have a problem until i actually get laid. Told me to cut back on the wanking, gave me some pills and sent me home.
Nothings really changed since.
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How end a long term relationship as less painful as possible? I've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years, and we were like 8 hours together each day. We work together, sleep together most times, but now its getting unbearable. I can't stand it anymore. We argue about anything, fight almost everyday and I feel trapped in our relationship. Sexual life is also non-existent (like having sex once per 3-4 months). I also cheated on her. Sometimes I feel like a 60 years old married man. It's getting so depressing that I feel like suicide is an option. I just can't stand it anymore. It clearly dosen't work, and it makes both of us sad.
Dipsite all the bad things, I still love her, and care for her, and I know that she still loves me, and maybe she loves me more than herself. I don't want to completely fuck her up for the rest of her life, and I would still want to be friend with her, and keep her in my life, but not as a partner. Whats the less painful way to end this?
I even thought about suicide, but this will not just fuck up her, but my whole family too.
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There is no painless way to break up. Someone is going to be hurt.
Time to bite the bullet, op
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http://www.professional-counselling.com/ending-a-long-term-relationship.html
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James?
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Looking for a software that blocks certains websites
found one but don't work, maybe i'm dumb, maybe it's a crappy one
and i dont want to try every softwares available
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which purpose exactly? child proofing,lack of your own willpower or work?
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>>17288649
lack of willpower
funny enough, using the hosts file don't work for a lot of them
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Just add a filter to an ad-block add-on, like U-Block Origin.
It's simple and effective.
My girlfriend of 3 years left me yesterday, I need her back, we were so happy and it was so sudden, she's got a lot going on with her parents and she's moving house so naturally she's stressed, but we were so perfect. Can any anon help?
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If it helps with context, we're both 18
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You'll be fine. Similar thing happened to me. Move on with it. You've learned a lot about what you want in a relationship and how you act, you'll find someone who is all that and everything you didn't know you needed.
Take this time to build who you are. If it was truly meant to be then y'all will get back together
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>>17288610
you two still talk or she decided not to speak with you again?
Even if she said you shoulnt talk to her, you should keep an eye on her, anxiety can cause many emotional problems. She might need you.
If she is moving out to go live alone, maybe she wants to experience life and doesnt have the "balls" to tell you the truth... and sorry to tell you but that includes new boyfriends.. :/ Try to get back together, and if she doesnt want to, let it go after a while, trust me , it wont help you to be stuck in that dark place forever, it will only make it worse.
P.S. Many girls keep their emotions inside cause they think they can make a relationship work, even if you dont talk about your problems... Maybe she seemed happy, while she actually wasn't. I talk from experience . Stay strong , talk with friends, wait for her, but not to long, or you risk falling down the rabbit hole.. like i did.
Mathmatical physics or an engineering major?
Help me out /adv/
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Engineering
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Yup
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Why?