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>in california

Hey I've posted on here before about my brother.
He verbally abuses me for asking him to pick up his things, physically assaults my dad and I, destroys property, refuses to leave the house, and has killed at least two of our cats to name a few of the things he's done. Basical he's an abusive prick and he knows he can get away with these things.

I've tried to keep my tail between my legs but it's gotten to the point where I can't stand to be around him anymore. I know it might sound harsh, but I just want him in jail. What kind of evidence do I need to get a conviction? My sister and I have recorded several things from past instances. Like holes in doors and walls, and a pair of broken glasses. I've recorded audio of fights between the parents and him where he started banging on the walls out of anger. Plus eyewitness accounts from every family member.

Also in order to call the cops do I have to wait until he attacks me again? It's just he's getting more ballzy with his attacks, and I'm afraid of what might happen.

Thanks.
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>>17290635
>i've tried to keep my tail between my leg

Are you a furry? pls respond
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>>17290635
>verbally abuses me for asking him to pick up his things
>tried to keep my tail between my legs
You're obviously not keeping your tail between your legs, but doing something you know will set him off to get a reaction, this first example doesn't even seem like abuse but a person angry at a control freak.

How did he allegedly kill the cats?
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>>17290635
instead of calling the police visit the police station and talk to them about it, they'll be able to offer much better advice.

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Girls

If you had a guy friend, who was very special too you. I guess more than a friend sense. And you both shared a moment together and kissed before he left your country. knowing it could be years before you see him again. Is that something you'd cherish and remember?

I'm going to be visiting said girl. this might be the last time I ever see her again (I hope not), but We just don't know what the future will bring. We are both realists, and understand how life can be shitty. She means so much to me, I want to share at least a moment like described with her, sex would be incredible, but if not, it would just mean so much to me to share a kiss with her. I think she would feel the same. I just hope it's special enough that I'll hold a place in her memory.
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Chances are, if I had a guy friend that special, I would be very very very happy if he kissed me.

In your situation, couldn't you just use technology to stay in touch with her though? Like numbers or Whatsapp if you two are gonna be in different countries. I guess if she's so close to you that you know she'll miss you anyway, it wouldn't hurt to kiss her.
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>>17290632

I remember when we met last year, when we walked somewhere, she would have her hand on my arm. Constantly. She was always like, grabbing a part of me. and when it was time for us to say goodbye to catch the train. We hugged, and I nervously gave her a quick kiss on the cheek. She looked at me, gave me a shy, but happy smile, and gave me a nice, extended (3-4 seconds long) kiss on my right cheek. Then shyly waved at me as she left. I wish I would have given her a real kiss. But I was really nervous at that time.

>why don't you use technology?

Oh we do, we talk on Whatsapp, and skype when we can. I just meant, like actually being able to spend time together, in real life. I'll be traveling in her country in a few months, and we plan to meet again. But after this trip, it could be quite some time before she comes to my country to visit, but who knows what will happen. Things change. So it's important to me that this meet is special for us both.
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>>17290626
Be yourself, bro.
Look into her eyes, smile at her, cuddle her face with your hand, make her closer to you.
You can start to be shy, but after a while you can start playing with her, go in a park with not so many persons and start cuddling each other. Tell her she is beautiful, tell her you care about her, ask her if she is okay, be sure of yourself and show her you are grown since last time you met.
Keep looking into her eyes, and if there is something real, after that kind of eye contact first or after will come a kiss.
Good luck bro and hopefully it will go fine. I believe in you! :)

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I'm kinda autistic so I don't know how to thank someone without being creepy.
The person who I want to thank is a girl who baked me some cookies. As far as I know I was the only one she gave them to.
HOWEVER, she has a boyfriend and a 2 year old child so this is not something flirtatious.
How do i repay her kindness in this situation?
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>>17290591
She's trying to sucker you.

She wants to get rid of her boyfriend but has to secure a new guy first.

It's called 'monkey branching'.
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>>17290591
If you want to thank someone non-autistically do it right after you've been given the thing, don't even bother thanking her at this point (or return a present like a functional human)

Don't listen to the robot sheep above me, he really has no idea of your situation and is spitting out his opinion on women.
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>>17290591
Try repaying her with a gift like sweets or a gift for her child

I (22) met a girl (27) at my track and field club around 2 years ago. She was always nice and playful with me but we were never more than partners (she was getting married at the time).

She invited me to an after party, only me, her bf and another couple to get drunk together (former cheerleader captain). She was getting awfully flirty with me but I knew she was just fooling around.

And then she stopped going to the gym and thus stopped talking until today where I graduated from school and won a prestigious award. She wrote on my post "Congrats! We should really go out and celebrate someday".

Keep in mind she is like an alpha female and is hard to read (once she mentioned she likes virgins which I still am). I am no longer attracted to her at all but I don't like being manipulated and seen as weak.

What should be the proper response?
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>>17290584
>She invited me to an after party, only me, her bf

C U C K
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What is the problem? There's no reason to suspect she's manipulating you.
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>>17290586
And a friend with his girlfriend. We went to a karaoke and she paid the drinks and ate at her place. Not that cuck really

>>17290587
I just find it strange that out of nowhere she invites me to drink, especially since she is married

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Hey guys question, how do I stop thinking about suicide tonight. Need something to distract me
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They never leave you alone no matter how hard you try
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>>17290576
Weed and Booze usually help. Unfortunately I'm out of both
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diep.io

or

agar.io

or

chopcoin.io

put on some of your favorite up beat music and just play

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Hey niggas, I want some advice from some fit ass mothafuckas about losing specifically body fat. I'm in the latter part of my optimal bmi range and I specifically have a lot of flab on my stomach wheras my chest is at the point where i can see my ribs. I've been running on a machine twice a day for a good few months and I'm afraid that the rest of me might become too skinny while I still have too much excess fat on my belly that I can't get rid of. What are some different approaches and more efficient workouts to get the job done?
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You're making me cringe. Fat people are so embarrassing
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>>17290567
Can't spot reduce. Bad genetics. Do some planking.

Go read the /fit/ sticky
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>>17290567
you cannot get rid of fat from one area

http://www.liamrosen.com/fitness.html

Is it friends with benefits? Or something more?

So, long story short, my I've slept with my coworker 3 times now, in a course of about a month. I think I'm developing feelings for her. We don't go out much because we're both introverts. Often times it literally is Netflix and chill type hang outs. She is super cool and I would like a relationship, but I have no clue where it stands. If it helps, we cuddle hold hands, and kiss and all but only when we're together in private. She really isn't open about her feelings either and we don't talk about ourselves much.
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Only person who can tell you is her.
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>>17290566
If she's single, then it's mutual. Friends with benefits is horse shit. Either you guys have feelings for each other, or the only reason she doesn't want feelings with you is because she's already with someone else.
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>>17291026
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>start using tinder
>always match with dumb girls who put "adventure, outdoors, adventurous, bullshit, etc." in their bio
>never able to hold a conversation with any of these idiots
>recently match with a girl who seems really intelligent and ambitious, generally just an interesting person
>don't want to fuck it up

What are some good ways to keep a conversation going? I haven't had any troubles yet, I just want to have some topics ready in case the conversation fizzles out..

Yes I am autistic.

pic unrelated
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>>17290557
If texting, never say anything like "whats up". Hundreds of other guys are saying that. Instead, be creative and come up with something like "what if we went to France". You'll become an outlier by doing this, which is a good thing.

And this is important: NEVER just text to talk (unless it's the first time texting someone). Texting should be reserved for planning a date or something. And when you plan your date, make it seem like you'll be going to wherever the date is whether or not she comes with you.

ex: "Hey I'm going to the mall today, wanna come with?" instead of "wanna go to the mall with me on x day?"
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>>17290569
This
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>>17290569
>>17290577
Ignore this cringefest.

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Who should I call? It's not an emergency so 911 won't get called, but I feel so bad for this kid. I live in an apartment and this kids screams for hours on end. I press my ear up against the wall and the baby is alone in a room. I heard the door open, and the mom simply says "stop crying" and walks back out of the room. That is completely negligent. Who the hell do I call for this shit.
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CPS? Even if it doesn't solve anything, hopefully it's a wakeup call to the parents
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Even if not them, you could call the non-emergency line for your local police. You can get the phone number by googling it for your city
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>>17290507
>>17290509
Can I do a double report. Neighbors on both sides of me do this. They're both mexicans and have like 5 families alternating through a 2 bedroom townhouse. Always take up more than their fait share of parking spots. They have people with license plates from Texas, Florida, Georgia, Mississippi, Tennessee it's getting to be too much.

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tl;dr my mom is moving and she can only take one cat with her and she's going to put down the other but no one wants that. what do?

my mother is moving in with her mother for around a year until she gets her own place, and her mother is only allowing her to keep one of the two cats, and she's going to put the other down. my siblings and i are very attached to this particular cat and none of us want to see it go. my dad won't take it in because of dumb reasons and i can't convince him to take it in. my mother says she doesn't want to put it in the shelter and see it suffer. her mom says the only way she'd take in two cats is if i also moved in but i don't want to be a burden and i wouldn't be able to until late december anyway. none of my close friends can take it in and it's too late to ask any other friends because both cats are 400 miles away from home. i am too and i'm going back tomorrow morning so i only have a small window of time to save this cat.

what do i do about this?
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Take the car in yourself you cunt. Your whole family sounds terrible.
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>>17290497
i don't have my own place at the moment, otherwise i would.
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Ur fuct

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I have been trying to find out for a few hours already but to no avail. This just happened today but out of nowhere it feels as if something is swollen on my bottom right jaw. I have rubbed both sides and they feel different with the side in question feeling like a ball.I' felt great this morning but while I was at work it just all of a sudden starting hurting and the skin on the top part of it started getting itchy. The itch has gone away but its still sort of red and the pain in the jaw isn't an unbearable pain and only hurts when I touch it. Any idea of what it could be?
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>>17290450
Do you grind your teeth?
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>>17290454
ive looked into bruxism, but is grinding teeth moving the teeth back kinda like a cheese grater and forth or clamping down teeth? cause i occasionally clamp down teeth without realizing it.
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swollen lymph nodes. you're sick. go to bed!

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what the fuck should i do all summer besides browsing /pol/
im wasting my life
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Gb2 pol
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>>17290448
theyre all fapping over brexit still
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Get a fucn job!

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Once a week where i work for 2 hours every morning theres an older woman who does the cleaning.

She short. Skinny. Blue eyes long brown hair amazing body. Wears short shorts when the weathers nice and yoga/workout pants when its colder.

Now im not sure on her age but id guess im a good 15 years iror more younger.

We talk a little and shes always very friendly. Im 90% sure shes attracted to me.

>plays with hair when we chat.
>touches me when i make jokes(usually bicep)
>stares at me from a distance and when i catch her smiles and goes back to work.

Now is she interested in something more than just playful flirting or is she just having fun?

I wouldnt be interested in dating her. But if shes down for some fun thats different. Or even if she just wants to hang outside of work.

Tl;dr milf cleaner appears to be interested. How do i find out if she wants to fuck or iis just being a flirt.
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>>17290429
How about you ask her you tard? While you're at it find out if she's married (no ring /= not married)
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Women, especially older women a lot of times simply want to feel desired. She probably doesn't wanna seriously fuck you, she just likes the attention. But there is some chance that she might wanna take your dick, get an excuse to have her over to your place. Or just ask her to go for drinks outright.
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Don't date a woman who's 15 years older than you idiot

I fucked up in the past but for over a year now I have done absolutely everything right. I have apologized, I've tried to establish contact again, I've taken care of myself, I learned new skills.
And what's the end result? Nothing. I'm still a miserable piece of shit and nothing is going right. You can only control your inputs, you can just try to do everything as correctly as possible, but you simply don't have control over the end result. Lost friends don't come back, your health doesn't improve, you're still miserable and not in control of your own happiness.
Why even bother? Why try your best when it's all just going to shit anyway?
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I'm in the same spot, I think.
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>Why try your best when it's all just going to shit anyway?

its called life, you fight or you die thats it, it gets shitty but dont loose hope, maybe one day it will turn out better
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>>17290456
>its called life, you fight or you die
Wrong. For some people no matter what you do, you just vegetate as a useless part of society. I won't starve, I won't be attacked, I won't die of any disease. I can do nothing and still survive without any issues. And whether I struggle or not, nothing is improving. So why even bother?

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I'd like to know if my attempt to kill myself using either regular exyra strength headache medicine or antihistamines like allegra would be futile. Note that I've had 10 beers in the last 4 hours and am halfway through a 40oz. I don't want my Mom to find a mess and I don't want my neighbors to find me hanging somewhere, but I don't have access to prescription drugs.
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Death will give you no chance to feel bad about your mother finding your corpse. So why is it you, despite knowing this fact, still want to end your life in an anonymous sense?

ITS BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO KILL YOURSELF YOU FUCKING RETARD YOU ARE JUST FISHING FOR SYMPATHY

FUCK YOU
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>>17290405
I haven't even insinuated that I am In a position to receive sympathy, nor that I would receive it were there any for me. The internet is the last place I would go if I were looking for someone to provide any type of therapy. I'm simply asking will I be wasting my time if i try and use what I have access to, because I'd rather not wake up tomorrow with liver problems, and I am still alive so I care about how my mother finds me.
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>>17290396
No, it won't work. It will just destroy your liver. Your mom would probably end up finding you passed out, take you to the hospital, after doing a bunch of shit you'll probably be forced to go to a psyche ward. For the rest of your life your liver will be in unbearable pain.

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