Haircut suggestions thread?
Need to see the shape of your face and body type, champ.
That's the weirdest penis I have ever seen and trust me I've seen my fair share of penises in my lifetime.
>>17286335
Comb it when your hair is wet. Use a product to help your hair stay looking curly and not grizzly.
You can also shave around the head and keep the top of it intact.
I've come here for advice on the off chance that someone here knows how to help with my problem. Well essentially i make music that sounds like this https://soundcloud.com/lordgaijin/sith-lord-prod-relevant-beats and im not quite sure how to properly promote that and gain a fan base. As you can see most of the people that follow me are either dead accounts or followed me back because i followed them. I just dont quite understand how to build a proper fanbase and get people to listen to my music without coming off as a desperate spammy ass face.
>>17286158
promotion takes a lot of effort, so if you really want to take your chances, prepare to put in a big amount of time.
first, it's best if you already have something like an album or at least an ep - a single track or loose soundcloud portfolio is often not enough to pique public interest.
you will need to do a lot of research and make a list of blogs/magazines/music critics/whatever and send them your stuff. only send it to those who have a similar target audience as your music. tell them that in the mail and keep it short and respectful; ask them to give your ep/album a listen and maybe if they like it, put it on their blog/review it/whatever.
that's really the only way if you don't want to invest money.
>>17286175
Thanks man, i mean im also cool with investing money into this too cause i mean you put in what you get out. Well I see your point too about having an EP or an Album i was just thinking about that yesterday.
>>17286158
DM your favorite artists on Twitter or fagbook and ask them how they got started.
how do i end an application letter/e mail? i'm not a native speaker. is "thank you for your consideration" over the top? i want something that's friendly but not too stiff
That's quite fine.
>>17286156
As a recipient of many such letters, that's fine. Short and polite.
I usually end my e-mails with:
Best regards
Namy McNameface
Senior Titleholder
Aperture Science
(Phone number and business address goes here)
>>17286156
That's fine. An alternative might be "I look forward to hearing from you"
Just got a job as a busboy with my hours being Monday-Thursday 4pm-12am and Friday-Sunday 5pm-5am with Tuesday being my day off how do I deal with these hours while attempt to juggle a social life with college classes?
Put some social life things on hold for a bit until you get used to working nights (did 5 years from midnight to 11am). Arrange socializing around morning (right after you get off work) and lunch (right before you go to work). Learn to take naps (so go to bed at 6, wake up at 8, meet friends at 830). The hardest part isn't missing out on socializing but missing out on sleep, so if you have enough of that then the rest is isn't so bad.
>trying to work a 60 hour a week job in addition to going to college
I'm sorry but that's not going to work
>>17286113
Those are a lot of hours for a student. Colleges usually recommend no more than 20 with a full course load. Something is going to suffer, and it's most likely your schoolwork.
I have a huge ass cyst on the top of my head and it's bothering me a lot.
It may not seems so but it's really noticeable.
I need to get it removed but healthcare doesn't cover the procedure,
and I've been trying to contct a surgeon for a couple of weeks now but the asshole won't be bothered setting an appoinment.
Can I just grab a knife and cut it?
Look up how to do it at home and be exceedingly careful. You don't want to infect the area around your skull, it has the potential to infect blood that goes into your brain.
>>17285968
dermatologist, dude
are you sure you aren't a hairy woman and this ins't your breast?
>friend tells me to apply to work at some place he works at
>its a shuffleboard club (whatever the fuck that is)
>call their phone number
>always a taped recording
>their website has an e-mail specifically labeled "jobs"
I should e-mail them, but what do I say exactly? Do I include my resume right off the bat?
Are they even taking applications now or did your friend just want you to apply out of the blue?
Can you not just open up any messanger and ask your friend right now?
>>17285952
he got robbed recently, no phone
messaged him on fb, no response
How can I get over completely irrational anxiety, especially online?
I got myself invited to a raid activity in a video game, and as soon as we start I got scared and couldn't fathom telling them I hadn't done it before. I ended up abandoning them in the middle of it because I freaked out. If I wasn't too nervous to use a mic either, the entire situation could have been circumvented.
Oh for fucks sake, Anon. Are you fucking serious right now? We fucking needed you back there, man, and you fucking bail on us? Jesus christ. What, because you were afraid of saying it was your first time? What the fuck?
Everybody was fucking online and good to go, and you screwed it up. Thanks a lot, man. God damn it.
>>17285932
Ahahah. I've been there. I still have some anxiety but honestly, all you have to do is just laugh at yourself a bit. Say "sorry guys I'm kind of a noob" in the most honest, humble way possible to get it out of the way. That way people will hold your hand a bit and not rage at you entirely because you've self-depreciated yourself from the get go. After you get used to it, you'll warm up.
Does this help?
>21
>Junior Year of college
>Early Education Major
>go in for 2 interviews
>first interview doesn't call back
>second interview offers to hire me on the spot
>2 days later first interview offers me a position
So now I don't know what to do
>Job 1: Less hours, walking distance, independently owned, $9.50/hr
>Job 2: More hours, further, franchise, $10 and she gave me room to haggle.
What do? Thanks /adv/
>>17285713
Depends on your workload during college and how much you need the money. It's also worth considering which job will give you the best connections for whatever you want to do once you graduate.
I think they both have positives. Job 1 will work better with college and, because it's independent, give you more freedom as an educator. Job 2 may give you more structure which can be helpful if you're completely new to the field and will give you more work experience.
I don't think either will be a bad choice, so choose whichever fits your career goals and life better.
>>17285713
id haggle up, but like the other anon said it depends entirely on the rest of your life. the pros and cons balance out evenly so its a matter of what you want and what you need (or need MORE as the case may be)
>>17285751
I do need the money.Thank you for laying out the situation.
>>17285765
The thing is i'm not sure how appropriate haggling is as an entry position with education.
I'm 20, almost close to getting my first gf, gonna move out to live in an apartment with 2 friends next course, and somehow I have a shitton of anxiety, doubt and "sadness" because of it.
Whats happening?
shameless bump
It's a big change in your life. It's completely normal to have the jitters. Youll get over it with time.
Change is scary. This is normal. Every time something good happens to me, I have at least one night where I get weirdly depressed. Then I wake up the next morning and get back to my shit, and it's fine. As long as you're still waking up and getting back to your shit, you're fine too. You're just stressed out because suddenly you have a lot to lose
Does this girl like me? We've been talking like like all hours of the day for like a week. We are going to a drive in movie tomorrow and I'm not really sure what to expect. I'm fine with us just being friends if that's where it goes though.
kek at that convo. but yes, she's into you
>>17285594
Yes she's into you. However that conversation is gay as fuck.
>>17285605
She seems really cool, and sometimes I think she might like me, but a couple of days ago she told me she "was hoping to get some dick" (she was hanging out with a guy friend and got a little drunk). They didn't end up doing anything due to lack of protection though. Sometimes I feel like she's just being really open with me. If it doesn't pan out to anything I don't really mind because she's a good friend so far. I also feel like she knows I'm very straight edge (she smokes weed all the time and is very into the party scene) which might cause her to be a little hesitant.
>>17285626
I know, and she's probably the only person I know of that has my sense of humor.
I've been home all summer
I just graduated highschool with no friends.. I haven't had contact with ANY of them since junior year because I went through a depression and we just drifted apart. However I do have a boyfriend, and I met him the same year. He helped me go through a lot without even realizing it.
I've only seen him twice since summer started, his family is going to go on vacation soon and I'm going with them. We have more plans, but we have to wait for him to get his license
I feel so scared and my anxiety has gotten much worse in the past few months. I haven't been the same and I think he notices. A week ago he was telling me how important I was to him and how much he loved me. I honestly think its because I'm the only person he's seen in the past few weeks too.
I'm EXTREMELY terrified of us moving onto college because I'm insecure about him meeting someone better than me. This fear has led me to believe I should ask him to marry me so that were tied in some way and he won't drift from me.
Should I tell him about my anxiety? Its making me become an entirely different person.
Bump :(
>>17285565
Yes
I'm posting here in hopes someone has knowledge/experience with Phenibut. I recognize it is a dangerous drug in terms of dependence, I have decided to be irresponsible with it just one time and I worry about any permanent lasting effects it would have on my brain.
For the past 4 days I have been experiencing what I believe is the "rebound anxiety" of Phenibut. I have felt significantly less mood and a little less desire to do things. Talking to people is a little bit harder than usual.
I'm fairly new to Phenibut and I've only done it twice. The first time was around 1.5g and I felt amazing for several days afterwards. This was about a week ago. 2 days after I decided to try 2.5g and had quite a few drinks. I did not experience any extra drunkenness like people described, so I kept drinking. I would say I had around 2 beers and maybe 3-4 shots of vodka. Never felt really that drunk at all the entire night. I was perfectly functional still.
I realize now that Phenibut and alcohol was probably a bad idea, because I have not felt the same since the day after Phenibut the second time. I've been a worried mess. Could I have permanently damaged my GABA receptors or something? Or could this just be me overreacting to rebound anxiety?
Man I don't know shit about phenibut, but if you've only done it twice I doubt you got any major damage. Chill out,possibly replace e it with a different drug to hepatitis out with the rebound do shit.
>>17285561
>replace e it with a different drug to hepatitis out with the rebound do shit
Honestly OP, you should think carefully about taking advice that might alter your entire life from a man who types like this.
Well god damn Im more fucked up than i thought
Should i lie in my CV to get this shitty job for the summer?
Niggas won't hire me because muh college student
If you have any friends then just say you worked as an independent contractor for their business. Spend a few hours making a fake website and get them to vouch for you.
Just don't get caught eh.
>>17285327
I wouldn't hire you because you're racist and illiterate.
>>17285356
Nigga it's 2016.
Nigga literally means people nowadays for us black people.
Anyways it's gonna be some shitty job behind the kitchen so it's irrelevant.
I ain't getting hired because these guys want someone permanent full time when i only plan to work until the end of September and ditch. If i say I'm currently a student in the CV they'll reject me so I'm wondering if I should lie about that and say I'm a drop out.
Just got my group photo in the mail. (college)
I feel like suiciding right now.
There's something wrong with one of my eyebrows wich makes one stand higher than the other.
Whole class, school, can see it as clear as day. Me sitting in first row. A freak.
I'm 21 so this makes it even worse to me.
Everything was going great in my life until i saw the photos.
I consider doing surgery.
These deformities can only be seen with a straight camera shot from the front.
Share your experience if you also have some asymmetry.
Nobody gives a fuck. It's all in your head.
>>17285276
Make some jokes about it, own it man, just love yourself and take good care of yourself, laugh and enjoy life. Don't worry about surgery, just take good care of yourself and work on becoming the best person you can be. If you have a good personality anyone worth the effort will love you for it. Post a pic. Oh wait did you seriously say that it is only visable in pictures from certain angles? you have bad pictures and they want to make you kill yourself? Post the pic probably not even bad.
Most people won't notice it unless you mention it and they take a good hard look to see if your right, that and almost all people have assymetrical faces.
So just don't mention it
Hey guys I'm a 20 year old virgin and I think it has everything to do with my weight, I'm not obese but I'm chubby. I'm also 6'3 so I don't think it's that bad, but can I get a cute gf or should I settle for a solid 4/10 or something
The worst thing you can do is to be worrying all the time. Imho you should try to be yourself and to keep trying - date some girls, if 1st one won't work - the 101st one will. Try, observe, compare, get conclusions. From my own experience - the right girl will appear when you'll stop looking for her.
>>17285267
Weight is fixable. Lift it and lose it.
>>17285267
Average age for male loss of virginity is 18, so you're not all that far behind the curve. Relax.
(Oh, and you do realize that all your friends lie about their sex lives, don't you?)