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>>17287068
dude she is with you now - that is something - she isnt playing some sick game with your feelings and sticking around to hurt you

at least you realize your thoughts are irrational - excellent start. if she cries i would say thats a pretty good sign she really cares, unless she is some truly evil heartbreaker - doubtful

i say you ARE worthy of being loved, since its already happening in reality

>>17287068
That's pretty normal. You should slowly try to let her know about your worries. Not all at once and it can be subtly and it can be as you grow to trust and love her more. Hopefully that will bring you closer and you will get some more concrete proof to counteract the thoughts you have.

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>>17287122
Thank you, that's really helpful. I appreciate it.

>>17287035
You don't, you fucking dumb nigger, fight for it.
Fight till you die.
Because at the end dying is better than being no one.
A discarded flyer in the gutter.
An abortion.
A nobody.
If you accept being "no one you might as well kill yourself.
But you mustn't.
If you're gonna go out you might as well have fun while you're at it.
Go out, have fun, talk to people, do whatever.
I was there once laddy.
You have nothing to lose, so you might as well have at it.
Talk to a random girl in a random bar
If she rejects you well then whatever, plenty o fish in the sea.
Don't give up you dumb cunt.

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>>17287065
This is the most normieshit post I've ever seen

DUDE BARS AND WOMEN LMAO

>>17287035

> be a lonelyfag for the rest of their life?

Listen man, either you change your behaviour or you kill yourself.

You don't want to get lonely? Go pick up a hobby or visit events where you can meet new people. And by that I mean not going to fucking bars and pick up girls like many normans suggesting here on /adv/ to people like you. You first need control in your life and get settled with just meeting a new person...

What's the main reason that you're lonely or becoming one?

I'd probably think you only owned two nice shirts if I were her.

>>17287022
yeah women do notice that kind of stuff - but maybe she wont care if she likes you

>>17287026
Shit, that's what I thought. Thanks for the advice, I'm gonna buy something before I pick her up.

Smoke more than a bowl then. Or take a tolerance break.

>getting high twice a day

Im not an experienced toker, but doesnt a high last for up to 4 hours?

>>17287042
yeah it can depending on how much you smoked (i doubt i'd feel it for 4 hours if i smoked less than 3 bowls and probably not even that) but a light fading buzz can't compare to the feeling of a fresh high

It doesn't matter what you do, it'll probably be a disaster whatever happens.

>>17286992
for potential

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>>17286995
This. Just enjoy yourself and dont worry about her having a good time, bc it will ruin yours

>>17286971
Not a date. Bring up funny story from ex, if she comments that she's surprised the ex is a girl she thinks ur gay, if she isn't she probably likes you.

Either bisexual or lesbian, probably. Why do you have to place a label on it at this stage anyway? Why not just go along and have a good time and get to know her? The worst that could happen is that you end up with a friend.

>>17286971
To be honest she sounds like a fag hag.
She's definately dtf but be careful, they have issues.

By sage'ing

>>17286963
well that's fucking rude

>>17286936
That never happened.

>>17286918
If you haven't started looking for a new job yet, then start looking. Nothing worse than working for a business with a shitty manager, and whatever this guy told you about relying you or whatever is bullshit. There's probably a reason for the very high turnover: manager's an asshole and obviously doesn't give a fuck about the employees.

Next time this guy gets belligerent like that and touches you or someone else, call the police and have him arrested for assault (or battery, depending on the definitions in your legal jurisdiction).

>>17286918
dude thats not cool man

if you are truly worried, like your coworkers are as well, get together and go to the manager together, and threaten to call the cops

this way, he will be forced to deal with it, and you will have all of the employees on your side against the crazy dude, and not really call the cops and start some big ass thing

also he can get fired by the boss for whatever reason, and he wont relate all of that shit to you guys

you never know, he might be trying for a lawsuit, like provoke the big guy, and claim to be assaulted on the premises, and sue the dealership

>>17286939
Oh I am definitely calling the fuzz, even going to have my camera ready on my phone to record his BS. In the meantime I got an extra week of vacation coming up at the end of this month so I think I may blow all of it to take like 9 paid days off once I find another job, then I can just quit that place.

As for my manager, IDK man he gave me a nice raise and even bumped over what I requested when he told me that, but maybe it was all lies. I guess I will see soon. In the meantime all I can do atm is just ignore his jerk ass.

BTW-thanks for letting me vent this 4chan. I knew /adv/ was good for something!

>>17286828
Sounds like massive daddy issues. If you're a chick, you're going to be dating lots of bad dudes who will take advantage of you. if you're a dude, just man up and take charge of your life. Who cares about the past.

>>17286862
>if you're a dude, just man up and take charge of your life

I'm a god damn male. The thing is everything I've been doing has just been to cover up this problem. I'm 23 and I'm still a god damn boy

>>17286885
My dad died when I was 4,and at 20 years old I still feel like a boy,not a man.Perhaps this is why and I never made the connection

Garbage, also change your name

>>17286811
I will listen ASAP, young yams.

>>17286811
Kick, hat and piano samples sound too muddy. Are you using FL Studio with ASIO4ALL drivers?

If so, stop immediately and use Primary Sound Driver. If the lag is overwhelming, get yourself a proper sound card.

If not, oh well, then just get better samples.

Also, the track is way too mellow to be considered trap. Be a little more brutal.

>>17286778
It's not the drug that makes you happy. It's the people you do the drugs with that makes it worthwhile. I've done drugs alone, just felt like going to sleep. You need stimuli from another person to make drugs worthwhile.

Unless you're doing cocaine, drugs won't "make you happy". If you're doing cocaine, you won't be happy for very long.
Why don't you focus on fixing your boredom instead? Go outside, get a hobby

>>17286798
Don't listen to this guy, drugs can make you perfectly happy when you're alone

Weed is fun with friends, but it's better when you're alone imo

It's worth a shot OP, whenever I get high it makes me feel much better, but there are other problems in the long run

Unpredictable commedy, word games for example

>>17286571
There's no way the book of mormon is canon. It's an unofficial sequel at best.

Depends on the audience. Low class people will laugh over people or sex. Mid class people will laugh about situations. High class people will laugh about social faux pas.

>>17286537
>How do I learn to kind of just tell people to fuck off, and not be worried about them getting upset?
Just punch them in the face, they'll get the idea. (this should not be taken seriously )

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How does the DEA get away with using toxins to subtract virility from an otherwise sane individual?

>>17286537
>I'm starting to get sick of people not taking the hint when I don't want to do something
Then stop dropping hints and be direct instead, you fuckwit. You don't have to be rude about it, but you do need to be clear. A simple "No, thank you," followed by moving on to the next topic or task is enough.

Why does it have to be tonight and not a day that is more convenient where you have time to talk things out?

its going to be messy no matter what. prolly really shocking and awful for her. time heals these things tho... just do it, obviously be prepared for a lengthly conversation and be respectful... then see how shes doing in a few days and keep in touch.

Why do you want to leave her?
If you've straight up made up your mind, there's no easy way to do it.
Just be honest with them and move on with your life.

Usually these kinds of threads get more attention. Odd.

>>17287482
Have been here for 5 minutes or so, I missed it.

Common hobby pool aside (vidya, reading, exercising, watching tv shows [...]), I really like stand-up comedy.

I've never done open-mic in public myself, but I did some brief gigs at friends' places.

I've watched (and enjoyed) Louis CK, George Carlin, Ricky Gervais, Russel Peters, Trevor Noah and Bill Maher so far. I don't care much for Chris Rock or Jerry Seinfeld.

>>17286424
depends on how much extra $$$ you have to spend on your free time

maybe a sports league, or golf, or archery, or trapshooting, biking, running, swimming, volunteer with meals on wheels and visit lonely old people, guitar/insturment, different language

if you have $$$ then skydiving, skiing/waterskiing, learn to fly an airplane, motorcycles