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I've been in a relationship for about 5.5 years with my boyfriend.
I've gone through periods of insecurity in the relationship. Generally around the beginning. Just because relationship was new and trust wasn't secured.
We've had a really great few years. No arguments, lots of passion and affection.
I realized over the past couple of months, I've gotten insecure again. There are a few catalysts to this.
1. I took on a new job for more hours and more money
2. Boyfriend hangs out with his coworkers more often. He fills me in on all their drama (how they all fuck people at work, cheat on their SOs)
3. Sex life is lowering. We're both tired from work. We still have sex like 4 times a week, but it's still less.
4. Boyfriend guards his snapchat like it's the holy grail. If I walk in on him on his phone, he gets flustered and quickly exits apps and clicks facebook really fast.
Any time I attempt to talk about it, just to get that reassurance I'm looking for, he just says "we're fine" and moves on. Which, I guess isn't something new. That's how he handles most things. I still get some aching feeling that something isn't right.
I don't know if it's just me. What do I have to do? I've been feeling kind of down on myself lately. I guess,not dressing how I used to or taking care of myself how I used to. I bought some new clothes and want to doll myself up more (because that somehow makes me feel better), but lately bf doesn't want to go out anymore. Nowhere I can wear a dress and feel pretty and attractive to him.
I don't know what to do. Sorry for my rambled post. This is just weighing down on me. wat do
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>>17304751
After 5.5 years and still sex 4 times a week? Thats still a fucking lot. I see no problems here.
Snapchat is weird; maybe he is getting inappropriate msg but that doesn't mean he'll act on them. Snapchats are for attention whores, both males and females.
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So how should I settle my insecurities?
I suddenly feel like I'm lacking so much self confidence and relationship confidence. I feel like I'm wearing it smack on my face.
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>>17304751
Sounds normal for that length of time... Besides the snap chat. Tell him you don't want to look through his shut, but you're not an idiot and think it's really weird and just want to know why.. Maybe he has female friends on there sending selfies and shit and thinks you'll be jealous. I've clocked out of my phone really fast when my boyfriend came in because I don't want him to see me on 4chan and Reddit and make fun of me lol
How to combat BO? I'll take a shower and scrub the fuck out of every inch of my body, yet still smell horrible 1-2 hours later. Tried different antiperspirants, cleaned up my diet, etc. nothing is working.
I literally gag myself out, I can't imagine how other people feel around me.
22, f, 5'9" 105lbs. No health issues I'm aware of. What do.
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Where more breathable clothing if possible.
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>>17304754
I don't own many clothes, but most of them are 100% cotton and baggy.
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>>17304748
>No health issues I'm aware of
Are you a doctor? If not, i'd probably see one or two and do it when you think you smell. Probably won't help but maybe they'll figure something out or tell you it isn't too bad.
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where is the best place to live 2016-06-29 01:56:41 Post No.17304742
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where is the best place to live
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My slut wife just divorced me and now I can move anywhere in the continental United States. Where should I move?
Requirements:
- state must have very few if any gun laws
- must be a medium to large city
- must be predominantly white with a decent dating scene
- must not be hot and humid. (hot and dry is okay)
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Orlando. I hear great things about the dating scene there.
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Texas sounds like an ideal city. Low taxes. No income tax. Cities like Dallas or san Antonio. Yeah, muh Mexicans surround you. But it isn't horrible.
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>>17304750
Go to beaumont where you go in a walmart and see maybe 1 other white person where everyone else is black
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do you think objectifying or sexualizing women in the media is a big deal
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It's basically the reason so much is so fucking fucked. This board would mostly be questions about how to maintain vegetable gardens, written by people in healthy relationships, if it wasn't for sportscar magazines with hot girls on the cover.
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>This board would mostly be questions about how to maintain vegetable gardens, written by people in healthy relationships
There are plenty of places on the Internet where you can find that. You can always look up home and garden forums if that's more your speed.
Think about where you are and the demographics for a moment.
>Here's hoping you were being sarcastic, and I couldn't tell
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Probably since most people are outrageously easy to influence so 99.99999999% of women are insecure about how they look and 99.99999999% of men are insecure about getting laid.
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Cat is literally insufferable help 2016-06-29 01:24:55 Post No.17304673
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Cat is literally insufferable help
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Hi /adv/
My family cat is this dainty little 14 year old thing. My family has had her forever. She started off as really quiet, remained really quiet but got bitchy, then got friendly again.
About a year ago, my other cat got killed by a coyote. We had rationed their time out a lot before that because he had gotten attacked, but when he died, we decided to keep her in for her safety.
Recently (like four months ago), she picked up this habit where she just SCREAMS. It's the most heart wrenching noises ever.
She's not unhappy, because she'll start purring and bouncing around playfully if you approach her. And she's not in pain because we took her to the vet and she's in super amazing shape.
She just SUPER wants to go outside and get murdered by the thousands of coyotes and foxes lining up in my backyard. (it's gotten WAY worse, and I can't shoot them. My two dogs protect the yard, but not the neighborhood or the woods)
What should I do? It's taking a huge toll on my psyche. How do I make this thing stop without letting it turn itself into lunch?
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Your cat spayed or neutered?
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Try /an/, they're better about these things.
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Let this be a lesson to keep any future cats inside from the beginning.
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good/bad idea to message a girl from highschool on facebook for a date?
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How long ago was high school? Is this a situation where she may have forgotten you, or would she have fond memories?
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10 years. she sat next to me in a class
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Reach out to her first and see if you hit it off in anyway before you ask her out
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Pic unrelated. Making coffee.
My ex and I broke up officially three weeks ago after she was in depression for four months. She wouldn't talk to me and she said it wasn't for any reason.
I've tried everything to help her feel better everything from talking to her to giving her space. The last thing I suggested before the breakup is that I would fly over, if only for two days. To help her. To fix us. She said it is a bad idea.
I tried to get over her, I really did but I still love her and when we broke up she still loved me. Every time I see something that makes me smile all I think about is send it to her which I can't.
Every part of me scream to talk to her but at this point I feel like it would be pathetic. It has to come from her...
I just have no idea what to do about it anymore, I wish there was something to do to fix it...
It really really would be a bad idea to message her right ?
Augh
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Also I've been trying to avoid her but we are I'm the same skype groups and mutuals friends tag us on stuff. And no they don't know we were a thing.
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Why are you making coffee on a pocket rocket?
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Lel wat
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Introverted males will never be Alphas 2016-06-29 00:51:37 Post No.17304582
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Introverted males will never be Alphas
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Hi everyone, a few days ago I realized I'm an introverted person.
I hang around other people with no need to engage in a conversation or whatsoever. Some extroverts get me talking or touching easly with whom I follow they lead and correspond. Other extrov simply ignore my precense. Either way, I couldn't care less. Being introverted, and trying to hit on other introverted girls feels like hitting on a sister. Weird af.
The main point of all this is for the dating/getting laid game. I'm working on some alpha skills, but I'm getting concerned that being an introverted person could never get me there. Do you agree?
Wish you all a great day and thank you for your time, I do really appreciate.
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>genuinely worried about being "alpha"
>Taking the introversion/extroversion meme this seriously
Being introverted isn't your biggest problem I'll tell you that.
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Yeah, OP. A quiet, stoic man would never, ever be considered an alpha
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You're pathetic bud.
I'm the quietest, shyest, anti-social lonewolf i know. Been in mma 6 years, also served in the marines. So yes, fuck off pussy.
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I'm going to a job interview in a couple of hours.
How do I answer the question, "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?" or things like that?
I honestly have not thought about that and don't know how to answer that.
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Why not take this opportunity to think about it?
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>>17304567
What if I put off the manager with my answer?
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>>17304563
Search online for potential questions and practice what you'd say if you were asked them, but don't freak out if they ask you a question you weren't prepared for.
What kind of job is it?
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Multiple orgasms a real thing? 2016-06-29 00:19:42 Post No.17304451
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Hey, /adv/(girls) I was wondering if multiple orgasms are a thing for most girls if girls at all? How does it feel? I'm unsure if that's something I have experienced or not. Is it where you are really close to an orgasm but the feeling goes away for a few seconds then have the same sensation over and over, or is it full on orgasms? How do I know if that happens to me?
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Personally, I don't. I'm not sure if it's a thing as I've never looked into it. Once I hit my O then I'm beyond sensitive and don't want to be touched down there anymore for a while.
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I was with a girl who had multiple orgasms regularly. It is a real thing.
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I assure you, yes.
My partner of 6 years had her first with me bout a year after our first time together. Now she's up in seven full body orgasms in a 90 minute session. Her whole body is uncontrollably shaking, screaming her lungs out and dropping off the bed if I dont grap a hold of her. It's hilarious.
Protip: look into tantric yoga.
>be me
>25 year old kv
>girl at work shows interest in me
>she becomes my ''gf''
>am worried that she's flirting with other guys
This is the first girl that has ever shown any interest in me, and i don't want to leave her. Thanks to her im not a kv anymore, but i can't get rid of the constant feeling that she's flirting with other guys. Am i just being paranoid, or should i break up with her? (she always seeks out these other guys, engages rally enthousiastically with them and generally gives comes across as if she likes them)
Yes im aware that this is a real rookie question
Also, my time on r9k has made me very wary of women, but i dont want to be too paranoid
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Shit like this is why girls don't like dating KLVs
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You went from King Virgin to insecure peasant? What did you gain? Insecurity? Was it worth your crown?
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i guess the moment i've spend with her were worth it. It felt really good having a girl care for you, hugging her and kissing her.
Though i don't know if i can handle this insecurity. Im starting to believe its better for incharismatic and unfunny guys like me to not have gf's
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has anyone else had previous experience hiring a girl to sleep with from craigslist? how'd that go? how much did you pay? was anal and oral included?
need help/tips/cheats i'm tired of being a virgin thanks in advance
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>bumping my own thread before it gets deleted
lame i know but i need help y'all
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if you're under 27 dont do it.
That said I havent used CL or backpage for that
the price should depend on where you live though...
50-300 max for a hottie
Have you tried soc?
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I want to but Im scared of getting stds
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How do I become a secure beta male? I mean secure in my beta status.
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>>17304402 that's pretty vague, my man.
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>>17304402
You can't. If you were secure in your status, you wouldn't be beta, pretty much by definition.
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>>17304966
not really. alphas are the leaders of the world. betas are not. they are the sidekicks, at best.
you can be beta and be secure. not in the new age 4chan only definition of 'WOW WHAT A FUCKING BETA' which implies you are pathetic.
but in the traditional sense of what an alpha and beta are, sure.
the world isnt divided between chads and virgins after all.
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OP, if you want to be secure in it, all you have to do is make your life comfortable and enjoyable. if you like your sex partner, you like your job, and do the things you like, what does being an 'alpha' really matter?
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My muscles shake/twitch.
When i move a body part up or down, depends of the part, i cannot complete the movement without some muscle shaking.
It's more obvious in my arm; if i move it down my biceps shakes a lot. Same thing moving my head down or 'folding' a leg, but it's almost imperceptible.
Is this something normal? I'm worried, honestly.
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It's normal for me.
My shaking is perceptible though.
I overworked my nervous system a lot in my youth, though.
When I hold my hand up with my fingers out, my fingers twitch and wiggle independently.
I don't shake if I completely relax though.
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What do you mean by "relax"?
State of mind or body position?
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>>17304435
Body position.
Mental relaxation has no effect on my issue.
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So I'm on accutane right now. I take 10mg in the morning and 20mg at night. I know the pills possibly damage your liver but is it still okay to drink alcohol? Or take other drugs like LSD? Regarding the health of my liver I mean
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So there's this thing called a pharmacist...
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I wouldn't risk it. But ask your fucking Doctor. They hear weird questions all day.
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>Acutane
My mom tried to get me on tbis fucking poison lmao. Probably the first time I really stood up to her