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Check out Duck tape .. Small bit on the wart. Wait months and it withers/falls off on it's own.

>>17306008
>wait months
I'd rather not. The right treatment should be able to have it gone in days or weeks

>>17306008

The duct tape tape trick has worked for me in the past

>>17305859
what do you plan to do with this couple of weeks? sit in your room alone and veg out? if you continue to flake on your friends they'll just stop hitting you up, and before you know it you're not sitting alone in your room because you want to, but because you have no one to hang out with and talk to

and then you'll be one of the 22-23 year olds on this board whining about no friends no social life b-b-but I used to be so good at it

time alone is important, but theres a balance that has to be struck

Just decline invitations for a couple weeks. If they're actual friends they'll still hit you up later. Careful, this is the fastest way to lose friends

>>17305859
Fuck you OP. I would kill to be in your situation. I literally have no one call me ever and have to basically pull teeth to have people hang out with me

Yes, but only if it's mutual and you make solid plans to meet, and follow up with something more permanent.

>>17305832
I'm talking about just chatting and video calling, and nothing else other than that. No real like meet ups or anything.

>>17305827
It can be, but it's not common. And like all love, it is very hard to distinguish from jnfaguation of obsession until the honeymoon period ends.

As another anon stated above, it is imperative that you make some kind of plan to close this distance once and for all. If you cannot set a date, then at the very least you need to know exactly what needs to happen before you can set one, and both of you need to work toward that in whatever ways you are able.

>>17305824
>>17305829
This is a slower board than /pol/ or /v/. Ten minutes before a reply is not unusual. Chill the fuck out.

>>17305839
>Chill the fuck out.
I usually get a reply within a minute or so. So fuck off and don't tell me that again. Thanks.

>>17305848
Chill the fuck out.

>>17305793
>suggest a place for the first date
Coffee is standard. Starbucks, for example, if you have one near you.

>ideas for stuff to talk about
Talk about her and her interests. Ask questions. You're curious about her I'm sure, you'll think of things to ask.
Just don't ask anything too personal or painful until it goes further.

Her, ask her about her. Restaurant you can afford and ask about her. If you already know about her then talk about her, what she likes things ect. This leads to her asking about you. Then just answer boom! You are both talking. Later on if you really like her and get feelings tell her those feelings like; I think you're beautiful, I'd really like to do this again, feel free to call me anytime. Hug goodnight.

>>17305793

goddamn how old are you? 15? because that was my age when girls started texting me

now, for the question. i personally think it's a bit suspicious, i've been called out before for suspecting of people but even so.. well, do this: copy&paste your chats with her here, you may remove her name to be safe, and yours too by the way. That way we might tell you if she's "really obvious" about liking you

>>17305746
>I'm a pile pf garbage, who can't even go to university and sleeps all day long
Time to take responsibility for your life, being grateful and changing yourself.
If she likes you, she will be happy if you get your shit together and live a happy life. Start working on it. If you need help, you have her.

>>17305755
The problem is that she always says she makes enough money for both of us, so I would never have to work. I spent like 4 months at her place after my father breaked my right arm and I did nothing during that timeframe, she even supported me to be piece of shit. I fear that it would be the final step of being a neet and I will become unable to do anything.

>>17305803
Were those arguments for anything? Move in with her and get a fucking job asap.

>>17305710
Eat a bullet.

>>17305710
It hurts

>>17305715
No access to guns

Adblock.

>>17305704
One of many bugs in 4chan.

Try leaving 4chan and coming back.

Its Adblock. Only happens on certain boards including adv. It blocks the quick reply function on here for some reason.

I feel awful guys, please

>>17305703
My advice is stop being 15.

Sorry dude, gave it a quick search, and I couldn't come back with anything.

>>17305691
What are you paranoid about? Something like this happening again?

Appendicitis can be a frightening experience at best. An emergency appendectomy can make it all the worse

This panic you're having may be the result of surgery, but it's not a common result of surgery. Go back to your doctor and explain what's been going on. Sounds like an acute stress reaction to me, that usually passes in 1-2 weeks. But don't let this brew over into something more like PTSD

Oh, and stop driving in the meantime. You don't want to knock a kid over because you're having a panic attack

And if that won't put you off driving, at a minimum, make sure you can do an emergency stop without the seatbelt causing you to hesitate as it puts pressure on your wounds

>medfag

>>17305732
It feels like I'm doing something wrong or something's about to happen. I'm worried I'm drinking too much water, or eating too much/not enough.

It was an emergency surgery, however my appendix hadn't burst yet so they got it out at right time. My boss is making me go to work this week, and I have half a mind to tell him to fuck himself since I work a somewhat physically demanding job, but I digress.

>>17305749
I wouldn't worry about that. Easier said than done... But if you're happy to believe I'm a qualified medfag, that try to take comfort in me telling you not to worry about drinking too much water (but for sure don't start chugging down litres and litres in one sitting), and the same for eating

Recommendations for work usually focus on going back when you feel comfortable. Ask for less physically demanding roles for a week or two (if your boss is likely to refuse that, a doctor can request that for you in the form of an advisory note, at least in the UK)

> how do sexual dreams feel
> mang they feel sexual? its not going to be any better than real life, unless your dreaming up circumstances that are... well your dream. and then it will only really change the arouse side of things and not the actual feel.
anyway if your lucid dreaming, just make it feel better. how? you say. simple just increase the feeling, your lucid dreaming everything is as you will it to be

The few that I've had were a bit odd. Sort of incorrect sensations, or missing sensations. It's not really like some virtual world you're just the god of. You can influence what you dream about to an extent, but you can't really just do whatever you want. Even subconscious thoughts factor into what happens.

I dunno. Not worth pursing for me.

>>17305740
then your not truly lucid dreaming my friend...

You're not going to lose your virginity with that attitude. You reek of desperation. That's enough to turn off any girl.

>>17305687
Have drugs and willing to share or go with a buddy so you aren't some loner/creeper.
Join a group before the festival. Look online for the event, join the discussion, ect.

>>17305713
Not really desperate, just never cared because im a shut in. Just thought id give it a shot

You clearly said it. She's not interested in you. Move on.

>>17305850
I don't think i can.
We're supposed to meet again soon enoug and spend more time togheter, she also spent the night after we met talking with me online and she was opening up.

I tried to be as detached as i could when i met her because i needed to make some decision about her involvment with us, and i think that kinda drove her off.

Ok, so she might be leading you on. Even if she breaks up with her bf to be with you, doesn't that speak too much about her? She could be doing the same to you with another guy in a few months.

That is utter bullshit. As long as you both love each other and remain honest it honestly doesn't matter.

>>17305676
It's one way of thinking that may work for some and not for others. The thing about humans in general, is that we all don't fit one rule. If we did, life wouldnt be so hard to figure out.

>>17305676
If you have to think about it this much, you're already failing

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Bump.

Most guys don't decorate their rooms. I know my ex bought my muslim friend a cool light-up crescent moon that was on a timer to only turn on when you can eat during ramadan. It's 7 years later, and it's still in his room.

>>17305669
You treat him like he's a normal person and treat him like he's not defined by his religion?