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Am I being overly worried?
A girl I know had a nervous breakdown. Her home situation contributed, so she moved 3 hours away to be with a friend.
Since then, we've spoken on the phone nearly everyday. However, this has suddenly stopped. I call but no answer. I've text and emailed too, but still nothing.
It could be her new meds have made her extremely lethargic. It could be she's had to be committed to hospital. It could be she has had an accident. It could be she doesn't want to talk to me.
I honestly don't know what it is. My only options are:
1) Write a letter to her and friend asking for a call
2) drive down there at the weekend and see if I can find out what's happened
Help?
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>>17325590
Drive?
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>>17325591
It's a long way to go though if there's a reason. I'd prefer to know sooner than the weekend anyway.
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>>17325644
Do people respond to snail mail that fast these days?
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I know no one really knows my situation or will have the answer to all my problems, but just being able to voice them out and hearing what people have to say helps somewhat.
I had a situation last year where I was interested in a girl, and she was kinda interested in me, but ultimately ended with her saying she wasn't interested in a relationship for now.
Then I was out of town for a while. When I came back I couldn't talk to her. I thought she was avoiding me but if I'm honest I was probably doing more of the avoiding - I have a very shy and anxious personality.
It took me a while, but eventually organised to sit down and talk with her. We talked over what had happened and what was going on. She said she wasn't avoiding me or anything, but was just preoccupied. After that I thought everything was better now and we could at least continue being friends again. There was a few things I ran out of time to say, and she likes letters so I wrote her one to say them.
Now that was a bit more than a month ago. We've been around each other but not talked at all pretty much. And I just don't understand why. Indeed I'm incredibly frustrated with myself that I can't just go up to her and say "hi", she's acknowledged me but I don't know why she doesn't say anything to me either.
A few days ago I tried calling her to talk things over and express my own frustration. She didn't answer but later sent me a message saying she was busy. I messaged back saying why I called, and then nothing. Haven't heard from her and I don't know what to do.
She is a genuinely nice person, and don't imagine she would play with me or ignore me without good reason. I don't know if I should try call her again or send her another message or talk to one of her friends or what. I need to do something though, I know it's small in the grand scheme of things, but it is taking it's toll on me emotionally, and I am depressive
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points to whoever actually reads this
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I read it anon and you know what, I have the same problems, Im 21 and I am a kissless handheldless virgin, and I have been in situations where a girl may showed interest in me and I have been ignored by text and calls before for no good reason. I try and not let it get me down but sometimes the loneliness hits hard and realize how great it is to be single with no obligations. Other times I just feel so alone I think about suicide but there is so much more to life than sex or other people, this is YOUR journey and feeling down only makes it worse. Accept your situation an move on is the best I can tell you, I am tired sorry if this is written poorly but man, if you DECIDE to look at life in a different light then things will change, if you EXPLORE unexpected thing will HAPPEN. How old are you anon?
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>>17325589
Same anon as before, let the message sit. Wait for her to get back to you, but if you around her sometime, JUST SAY HI. SMILE. If she isn't ready for anything, act as friends but male friends are overrated. Get with someone who LIKES being around you that will SAY HI TO YOU FIRST. Id love to have a nice cuddly happy bubbly gf too, but good things come to those who wait.
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Everyone needs to do their part
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Help keep this world clean.
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>>17325584
I was so moved by this post that I printed out 50 copies and left them outside where people can pick them up.
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>>17325584
>>/pol/
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>>17326375
I love you. kek
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I have a fucking weird body. I'm not fat, i'm not skinny, i'm not muscular. How do i fix this? Do you think girls are ok with that?
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>>17325569
In other words: you're normal.
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I'm a girl, and I'm okay with it. If your really worried you'll find the motivation and willpower to work out and change yourself.
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>>17325581
No i'm not
My upper torso is skinny, you can even see the ribs, my arms are muscular and my belly is fat
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i have an ear infection (swimmers ear) and it is the most painful thing i have ever felt in my life
ive been to the doctor and she gave me ear drops that make it hurt even more when i put them in but i think thats normal
how can i make it stop hurting till the drops kick in?
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Take a couple ibuprofen.
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>>17325578
ive taken some but its doing nothing and i can only take so many before that becomes its own issue
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It's probably a witchcraft attack, try reflecting it back to the sender. (not joking)
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I had an argument with my boyfriend on Saturday. It's kinda the first since we got back together in May. Anyway, I had said something stupid, I told him I meant nothing by it and was just overthinking. He dug into it and indirectly accused me of being dishonest and closed. This is kinda a big deal in our relationship, so it really hurt because not once have I been neither of those things. We left things on a bad note that night and he said we'd talk about it the day after, aka yesterday. He messaged me in the morning and we small-talked. He had been ill since Saturday, but said he'd go to work if he felt better in the afternoon. He usually works til 17 (5 p.m) and messages me. I didn't hear from him from 12 to 17 where he left some 3 weird nonsense. And from then on I didn't hear from him until 22, where I had gone to bed.
He said the app had crashed and he hadn't noticed the notifications.
I had left a lengthy message once again explaining my side. To which he just replied "ok, sorry I guess I overreacted but in my defense I was sick" and then continued making small-talk.
We were supposed to talk, which is something we hadn't done since God knows and the past few days, when I've waited for him, he'd message me asking if I was up to something, then not reply for 1-3 hours.
Wtf is going on here? At this point, I don't want him to come here, which he's supposed to this month. I'm so confused....
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Can we get actual messages to analyze? Exactly what did you say? Details can be important in how someone reacts.
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>>17325547
Inb4 people saying that I'm needy. See it like this, you make an arrangement but the person doesn't show nor picks up their phone or reply to text messages. Then calls you 3 hours later asking if you're still there...
It's pretty darn annoying.
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Is it a strictly internet only, never met in real life "long distance relationship"? If so, it will not work. Might as well save yourself the trouble and end it now.
Any pro-choice suicide friendly forums? I recently tried to visit ASM on narkive but it's... Gone?
Help much appreciated folks.
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Sort of difficult to scavenge through google at my age.
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Abortionconfessions.tumblr.com
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>>17325570
Shit, I should have clarified, in this context pro-choice refers to a pro-choice attitude toward suicide exclusively, be it motivated due to factors relating to an abortion or not.
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why do i suck at texting/calling back so much?
i should be happy there are people out there taht care about me enough to try to reach out to me. but i can't seem to bring myself to just suck it up and pick up the phone/text back. i know it doesn't take long and i should just suck it up. i want to know why it takes me so much in the first place. help me not be socially retarded, /adv/
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It's bevause you don't really care about the person, either that or you're shy/scared. So just go ahead and text back, you never know what might happen dude.
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>>17325683
It's with everyone. Family and friends. Not that i'm shy or scared of them at all. I just feel pressured when i receive a call/text. I know that's idiotic, but that's the truth...
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>>17325691
Well, I understand that but do your best to power through it because the other person may tell you something important
There's a cute dadbod barista I always see at my local Starbucks. How do I get his number or interact with him in a level other than customer/barista? If it makes any difference I'm 4'10 and look approximately 12 (I'm actually legal).
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>>17325521
>I'm 4'10 and look approximately 12 (I'm actually legal).
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When I'm at work and a girl shows she might be interested in me, the best thing she can do is make abundantly clear. A lot of customers are "nice" or "friendly" while checking out with you or whatnot and then they snap back to their normal personality. Even if a girl is super flirty and seems into me, it's hard to tell. Some people are just that way when they're nice.
Basically, make it abundantly clear that you're into him. Ask really leading questions. Ask him when he's going on break and if he wants to talk for a bit, etc. etc.
Everyone feels uncomfortable trying to ask someone out at work, especially when you work there so just keep that in mind.
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Just pass him your phone number next time. Like the above anon said, it's really hard to tell when people are being flirty while you're working and it's also fairly awkward to flirt with a customer when other people are around.
Is this considered a sport and can I make money off of it? Like 6 figures??
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Don't think so. However, you can eat on a Youtube/Twitch, do mukbangs. Get koreans to enjoy you stuffing your face. Have fun and enjoy your heart attack.
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>>17325498
No I was wondering if there was a league for it that had a regular season, playoff and championship?
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>>17325500
I don't think there's a league, per se. But there is, at the absolute least, a community around it, with its own relatively-famous figures. I'm not sure whether any of them make enough money from competitive eating to quit their day jobs, though.
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when I was young a lot of girls I liked were banging old dudes, now I'm old so how do I bang the young chicks?
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The age gap between the two in this pic is too much.
I mean, I'm into an older man but I would not date someone that much older - the 20 year mark is just pushing it, and I wouldn't feel any attraction, personally
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how old are you?
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>>17325485
37. I'm not talking about people younger than like 25.
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Can anyone help me? I've been with a few girls now but I honestly don't know how to read them. I don't know how to close. I can get matches on tinder and get responses too but they stop replying once I try and close
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>>17325416
Practice makes you better
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>>17325447
True but I feel like I'm making slow progress
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>>17325470
Then practice more
How do I show more dick without being an asshole when I'm talking to girls? If you know what I mean
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I don't, and I'm so fucking grateful for it.
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>>17325408
Talk to them about something important and grab their hands. Slowly eventually move up to the shoulder to comfort them. Move to the face. Implant kiss.
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>>17325423
Lol that probably sounded a lot better in your head bro
What do you do when you fucking hate everybody?
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You use your hate as a fuel. You use that fuel to amount as much money as possible. Use money to buy land in the country side. Retire. Enjoy the fact that your done with those cunts.
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>>17325433
shot man
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>>17325406
Then you realize that you hate yourself.
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So my wisdom tooth hurts, last I say the dentist like, 5-8 months he said it's not impacted and I have room for it so Ii can keep it. I'm gonna make an appointment to see him again but I wanted the opinion of others who might have had this.
It feels like it's trying to come out of the gum. The neighboring tooth hurts a little (I think) but most of it is coming from the gum. The gum over it is swollen, I can see one part of it were it's broken and I see the white of the tooth coming. Its not red, bleeding or spewing pus so I don't think it's infected. Oh. And the pain gives me a headache. I will be seeing the dentist, but have any of you kept your wisdom teeth and experienced days of pain as it came in?
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>>17325394
Wisdom teeth are literally assholes just sitting in your mouth. I need mine removed (crowding) but can't afford the operation right now, but it's normal for the gum to become swollen and inflamed when the wisdom tooth is pushing against it.
And people wonder why babies cry when their teeth come in. Poor bastards.
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From someone who has some experience working with dentists but no expert
Sounds like gum is infected. Pericoronitis is very common with wisdom teeth. They are a bitch to clean and keep clean when they erupt from the gum. Get some chlorhexidine mouthwash (warning, over use/ prolonged use can stain teeth which can be cleaned off by hygienist) and keep clean with brushing and flossing. See a dentist.
You may also be grinding from the stress/ pain if you are getting headaches (bruxisum, another common complaint) . Lessen stress in your life, do some jaw exercises and eat soft foods for a few days. May need a night-guard.
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>>17326087
Thanks, it really doesn't look infected to me but I'm gonna see my dentist anyway. I have hydrogen peroxide that I usually wash my mouth with when I do have an infection, would that help?