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I didn't know we had fighter planes posting here.

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>>17325276
F-4 comin through, although i have been decommissioned for quite some time, i still find the joys of retirement as highly as when i first go out

>>17325282
*got
its hard to type with these wings and wheels.

>>17325208
I had an ex who got off on rubbing it into her chest and skin after I was done.

Kinda odd but was never a problem. Some girls really get off on it.

Sex is pretty dirty at the end of the day. If you're worrying in the middle of it about 'objectifying' the other person, you're going in with the wrong idea.

BC for a month should be fine if she's taking it properly, it usually is fully reliable after just a couple weeks.

>>17325208
First off, if your gf has been taking her birth control as directed for one month then you should be okay to ejaculate inside her.

Second, some girls like it when a man finishes on them and some don't. If she asked that you do it on her, then its most likely fine, she consented to it. Always ask before doing it, no matter how long you've been with the girl, in my experience, it depends on mood.

>>17325202
That's why people aim for jobs that make a lot of money. You do have to invest your time upfront, but assuming you don't die before you graduate, you'll eventually have more time to do the things you want AND you'll have money. Or you could get lucky and find a job you love.

>>17325202
There are only two reasons for doing anything.

1. Because it gives you pleasure/satisfaction.
2. Because it is the price you pay for pleasure/satisfaction elsewhere.

If a job doesn't do #1, think of it as #2 - the investment you make to get the time/money/opportunity to get your fun elsewhere.

But I don't mind my job and I like what I study.

>>17325196

Doing things for others doesn't make you likeable, it just makes you prey for someone opportunistic. Personality matters more.

>>17325207
This, also most people do good, just that bad people are broadcasted more since they are people that should be called out on their shit. No one owes you anything. If you want people to like you, become someone that you want to like.

The world is full a cunts, don't waste you time trying to understand why people are like this.

Just find people that are like yourself and fuck the haters.

You can catch up on reading or any other hobby really.
You have hobbies, right?

watch it with him; wrestling is super fun; and there is just as much fun for women involved too!

It's all theatrical, everyone knows its fake- but its like going to see a band with fun themes. Its great to just get caught up in the goofy stories.

>>17325166
Sometimes I watch a wee bit but it doesn't interest me that much and this is dumb but I find the violence kinda disturbing

>>17325165
I don't really read...and yeah I do have hobbies but because he likes to watch from like 9-12 at night I can't really go out and do them so I just sit around being bored

Jesus dude this is way to complicated with said coworker and shit being used over and over. You should revise this summary with use of fake names to help clear things out.

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>>17325157

>Talking to a co-worker about this thing that happened with a friend of my friend's who was attracted(was told "she wanted to ride your face".) to me. Said co-worker says that some other co-worker felt the same way. Find out it was someone who I also thought was attractive. Said co-worker told the other co-worker, & with the other co-worker saying, "oh that's going to make things funny next time we see each other," from Said co-worker.

I have no fucking clue what you're talking about.

But I do see myself in the same situation with someone I've known for a couple of years now, she also just got a boyfriend or the closest thing to it.

>>17325100

I don't know if I can properly answer this question as I do the exact same thing. Aside from maybe 2-3 people in my life, I don't really emotionally invest in others. But my childhood never really had stability. I moved around a lot, was a little weird (somewhat of a social outcast because I was a tomboy), had two close friends ditch me, and had to cut off family members because of abuse. In my case, I definitely would say it's a defense mechanism. It's something I'm working on though, and I'm trying to learn how to give people the benefit of the doubt if something goes wrong. Another big thing is that I don't really "let people in." I'm always the person others turn to for advice, because I had to grow up so quickly and I've made it through a long string of bad situations. But I never vent to others. I never talk about my own problems because they seem way out there, and more severe, than the problems of others. Not that talking about it would help anyway, I tend to solve stuff on my own after reflecting. But when you don't allow yourself to be vulnerable, you have a permanent wall around you. You're guarded. People can find that intimidating and most aren't interested in breaking it down.

>>17325100
You're not in tune with your emotions or you're completely disconnected from them. If you take an MMPI test I bet you're most likely a really strong T(hinking) type personality. Do you have any empathy at all towards them or are you just indifferent?

Completely cutting someone off that has emotionally invested in you, with little to no warning, is a cruel thing to do. If you were close with them then the least you can do is communicate with them.

How do you know that you just suck and the people only pretended to be you're friend and we're relieved when you never talked to them again?

Tweet actually interesting stuff and follow people you know irl.

>>17325096
None of my freinds are active on social media and I'm pretty sure I would get more RTs/likes if I got more exposure

That's the problem with the younger generation. You have no real goals. Everyone young person wants to be some famous personality because they see these people getting attention or money from their opinion. The thing is, these people wouldn't have a decent perspective on things if they only sat around twiddling on their cell phones all day like millenials. You have to go out and explore the world and fucking do something. Then when the world has chiseled and reshaped you're sheltered mind into something useful, will you have an opinion that people give a shit about.

its up to you if shes worth her past brah

like if you keep bringing it up shell find 5 more guys who wont judge" her

>>17325027
Dude, I didn't judge her in the beginning because I didn't really care. I just wanted a girlfriend to have frequent sex with. Then I caught feels for her. That's when I started caring because I fucking hate it that other guys have had flings with her and shit even though I would do the same thing with other girls if I had the chance.

She liked me in the beginning because I didn't judge her past. Then when it became clear that I did judge her past, she didn't mind. She's puts up with my bullshit like no other girl and I love that.

>>17325034
She can do a million times better than you

>>17325011
Prolonged usage of imageboards will turn you into a completely different person.

All you can do is apologize and go on from there. Or you can remove everyone from your past life and move on.

The choice is yours.

>>17325011
>bumfuck nowhere
>150mbps internet

lol what?

anyway, if you wanna share, we'll read it.

as with any fuckup, it'll always help to direct your focus towards improving the situation rather than mourning your loss.

>>17325032
I've been apologizing. I realize that I'm at a crossroads in my life in which I must decide that I take a more positive path or a far more negative one. The only reason I didn't leave the fucking state was because of my girlfriend and how much I love her.

>>17325033
>anyway, if you wanna share, we'll read it.
I don't want to share too many details but I basically went out and pissed a very large group of people in the heart of my city. Said large group of people took pictures of me and my girlfriend and spread them on facebook for a time. It's all stopped now but her family, my family and my workplace caught wind of it and reacted very negatively.

I didn't do anything illegal mind you.
I just expressed a very unpopular opinion.
In a very nasty way.

I've just been apoligizing left and right. I'm not sure what else to do besides work on changing myself as well.

u did the right thing if you care about your girlfriend so fuck your feelings.

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>>17325006

Go fuck your girl, that'll make you remember why you refused the other one.

>>17325006

I had something vaguely similar happen and didn't get involved either. We made the right choice but it's hard, especially if the girl who's keen on you is really cool.

stop judging things negatively.

>>17325004
Bump, i feel the same

ok first of all because you post on /adv/ I know you inherently don't want to except advice but listen up for once in your GOD DAMN LIFE.

You don't hate social situations you are just unfamiliar with them. You have been alone for a while. You know what it feels like. The slow pang of isolation is a yearning to socialize. Every part of loneliness has been explored but you are so comfortable with it you decide to stick with it.

But I get anxiety when I am around people! Yes, just like everyone else but this is a tiny hurdle. Maybe you have more severe anxiety, but it can be worked through, people have done it before; You're not special.

But other people are annoying/assholes/uninteresting! No fuck you, there are 7 billion people just hanging around. If you don't like some one you don't have to socialize with them.

Once you start to get a handle on just being around people, not only will you enjoy socializing, but you will also enjoy being alone and introspective.

also stop fucking frog posting you autistic retard

Women prefer money

>>17324978

this isn't about women. I want my brother to stop acting like he's better than me when he lives in a fucking trailer with his girlfriend. meanwhile I have a 3 bedroom house and a lexus.

>>17324983
owning a lexus isnt cool anymore. everybody has moved on to the toyota 86/subaru brz dude.
your brother will not envy you no matter how much money you got. he knows he dont need money to be happy. sure you are crying in your mansion, but he is happy as a pig in shit in his squaller and thats something you cant buy and he knows it.

You have autism and need a therapist to help you cope

are you good at guitar and singing? would people pay to hear you? If you answered yes to both those questions then a career in music might be right for you.

>>17325002
I think I do have some mild autism, yes.
>>17325007
They already do pay me to play but I don't feel good enough

It's almost as if I feel like I'm lying to everyone about how good I am and they're going to find out one day so I need to be actually good before that happens.

What do you think, get it over with

>>17324923
Why did you vanish?

talk to her but tell her you just want closure and that you don't want to rekindle your relationship.