Okay this is a Part 2 from a post I made about asking how to spot manipulation.
I'm usually very honest and blunt about what I'm thinking because I don't like to waste time. A new-ish friend of mine and I have been getting to know each other better but she seems to want more from me. She can be chill but recently she's been trying to pry things from me by accusing me of acting suspicious. It's very unwarranted and I'm getting agitated because I wouldn't do that to her.
I fucked up by not telling her to stop, and she hadn't done it until yesterday evening. We were talking on the phone and I asked her "What do you want most in life?", just to make conversation. She mentioned something about her family and I asked her to elaborate, she got defensive and I told her to just drop it.
I don't know what the fuck to do about her. She was cool until this shit happened. Any ideas?
She isn't manipulative. She likes you as more than a friend and wants to get closer to you. She might be clingy though.
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Huh. When you say it like that, it does make sense but how can I be sure? Plus, she has a boyfriend.
Update: I asked her about it today and she said "Well Anon, my boyfriend and I keep it casual and since he has a life, I come bother you since you're the most available."
Am I crazy or is this a perfectly normal situation?