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So I'm about to move in to the dorm the 19th of August, but as I get closer I have no desire to be in the amount of debt that I'm going to be in I just rushed it because parents are cunts and are pushing me to leave. I've been thinking about going to the airforce recruiter and just going through school this way and disappearing from family/friends and start fresh but I know it may take longer to get my degree this way (CS). would it be worth it?
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>>18559482
as long as you meet the qualifications to join the military it's a fantastic choice! Even if it takes you longer to get to your degree the journey will be great. Air force is a great choice as well as the navy for anything computer science related.
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How do I stop being so judgmental? 2017-07-26 08:21:11 Post No.18559449
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How do I stop being so judgmental?
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I'm a very judgmental person. Every time I see or meet people I start presuming things about them. The bad thing is that I usually judge them by comparing to myself, especially the things that I have or do better. I never point them out though. I feel the need to be superior all the time. This has led me to the point where I have no real friends and can't develop deep relationships with anyone. I feel like it's one of the reasons of my shitty social life.
Is there anything I can do to stop being such a prick? How should I approach the judgement thing as it's impossible not to make assumptions about other people?
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Yeah, get over your ego man. Every day look in the mirror and remind yourself of your flats and your strengths. Seriously, you are no where near as great as you think you are. Once you conquer your ego you can connect with people better.
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I'm just like you and idgaf. I just enjoy their company for the comedy of it.
I am, superior. That's just how it is.
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>>18559449
Mature and stop comparing yourself to other people. Realize that you don't matter, and think of how many times you falsely judged another person. You can develop deep relationships but you know inside that you have even less to offer, inside you're probably afraid of being criticized for your ideas, making shallow judgments based on others without getting to know is your way of denying your lack of understanding of life. Anyone can nit pick and make shallow judgments. If you cast judgments based on someone's public persona you'll only have a superficial understanding of how people function and remain ignorant. Some people will be exactly as they appear. Don't call yourself a prick as a scapegoat to make you look tough instead of socially inarticulate. Even the people who are as predictable as they appear to be upon first impression have something they can teach you.
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To the anon who was asking for advice on /b/ if you are here I didn't want to type for nothing.
You put too much in others, those friends are what we call "good weather" friends, they are around when it's fun and disappear when it's not. It's actually good they left as they are dead weight on your person. look for long lasting friends, they will leave one day as well as the others but their memories will last you longer.
As for trying to help others by putting them on track, you can lead a horse to water, but that motherfucker ain't gonna drink the third time you try just like the first time you tried.
You help, but if they don't accept leave it be until they seek you out, Newtons law of resistance is applicable here, more you pressurize a canister the worse the resistance on the cap builds until it's gone.
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I'm to move out of my parent's house in less than 2 weeks, to live on my own and become a man. Everything else is settled about where I'm going and such, the only thing is I'm nervous to hell about leaving. I feel like I've got a massive gaping hole of fear and depression in my chest. I know I can handle everything about living alone, but as moving day comes closer It gets harder to stomach the fact I'll be leaving. Call me a mommy's boy, but how did you guys get over leaving your parent's house in the end?
My family is going to be out of town on business when I leave. I won't be able to wave them goodbye.
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What's the most successful way to offer a foot massage to a woman I've never met?
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May have gotten my gf prego with precum but I'm really unhealthy and we had unwrapped sex like twice . You fags got any advice?
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She on birth control? How long ago was the unprotected sex? PlanB could still work if less than 48 hours I think. Obviously talk about abortion if neither of you want a child, or go through the pregnancy and put the child up for adoption.
As a final note get your bitch on birth control or always use a condom. Simple fix.
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Hope you have plan B... and a plan C
Plan C:be like tyrone's father(leave)
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>>18559340
You have three options in my mind
1.) Invest in some Plan B
2.) Have a serious conversation with her about possibly raising a child/having an abortion
3.) Cross your fingers and hope she'll eventually be on the ragu
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is it wrong to be attracted to anime characters? my attraction to Kale is only surpassed by my aspieness
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Unless you have a pussy, Kale wouldn't return your love
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What are people's actual intentions when they approach someone on a night out? 2017-07-26 07:35:26 Post No.18559305
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What are people's actual intentions when they approach someone on a night out?
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Do they simply want to have a one night stand with someone they'll never see again, or are they looking for someone to, at the very least, date?
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Everyone is different. I don't like one night stands. Too messy for everyone. But certain places are less conducive to dating than others, like clubs.
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Mainly to add them to my collection.
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>>18559305
I'm trying to get pussy, which is the most obvious yet the most offensive reason to approaching women in their eyes.
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A couple days ago for some reason to do some catfishing on kik. I asked a lady friend if I could use a picture of hers and chose a random name. The goal of this was to get nudes from lesbians because another friend of mine did the same thing, but when is started doing it all the people talking to be were guys. I enjoyed being someone else for a change and deserving lonely betas so I kept at it. Eventually I started to enjoy it a lot, they started flirting and showing me there dicks, I'm not gay and didn't like receiving them but something about pretending to be a young girl made it really enjoyable. Later they ended up conniving me to do dirty talk to get them of. I agreed because I wouldn't send them any nudes and thought this was a good compromise. Now I've realised how much I enjoy this weird shit. What's wrong with me? Should I stop or keep going?
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> I'm not gay
> I just like acting like a women
Your gay anon you are probably one of those secret cross dressers who fuck dudes then claim their not gay
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I suggest stopping before you become a full blown autogynephile
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Have side chicks, trying to fight away the guilt 2017-07-26 07:24:20 Post No.18559272
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Have side chicks, trying to fight away the guilt
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I'm currently seeing this one girl for about 8 months, were both mid 20s, and she's starting to develop feels for me. We go on dates and watch movies together, she's introduced me to all her friends etc. but we haven't talked about being exclusive. She's a great girl and I'm trying to hold back feels for her because all women are like that.jpg and she's also moving away in like two months, and long distance relationships are for naive cucks.
To combat the oneitis, I've been going on a rampage of fucking girls behind her back and initially I gave 0 fucks about it. We "technically" weren't together so I've tried to use the woman logic of "it doesn't count" to beat her at her own game.
But as we've gotten closer I'm having second thoughts about these other girls, but I know that this main girl is literally moving out of my life in the short future.
The girl said she wants to keep in touch and talk when she moves away, but I know its going to fizzle out and I'll never see her again.
How do I become a true benevolent Chad and keep fucking sloops while not caring about this girl? She's been nothing but good and sweet to me but I'm not trying to fall into the beta orbiting trap.
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You should have been more faithful to her imo. You're not the orbiter, she is in this situation. How would you feel if she did the same to you? If you want to keep fucking side chicks, at least be honest about it to her.
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Ehh what you gonna do.
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>How would you feel if she did the same to you?
I have virtually no way of knowing if she is or isn't so that question is kind of moot
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So, I really hate vegetables and fruits (the only one I like is potato), but since I don't eat them in a long time I'm feeling weak and sick. What can I eat (other than vegetables and fruits) to obtain those vitamins and stuff I'm lacking?
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Eat meat. You don't really need a lot of fruit. As for veggies, try making busy salads with good dressing to cover the taste OR even better, try roasting! Roasted carrots and Brussels sprouts covered in balsamic and olive oil with good spices can turn even the worst veggie hater into a fan.
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>>18559253
Grow the fuck up. You have to eat vegetables to be healthy, period.
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>>18559253
vitamins. you can also just drench your veggies in cheese and oils and cook them in various ways if calories are not an issue.
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Scammed by local seller on Offer Up. HELP! 2017-07-26 07:16:04 Post No.18559247
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Scammed by local seller on Offer Up. HELP!
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I recently started using the OfferUp app to buy shoes (newfound hobby). I just found out the shoes I bought from a local individual about a week ago are fake. When I met up with the kid, I didn't even really want them, but bought them because he said he needed the money (even needed his mom's permission to sell them according to him).
I have tried contacting the seller via text, phone calls, and the OfferUP app with no success (won't return/answer).
I have the seller's phone number, and I know the apartment complex he lives in (suspect the actual apartment), but don't know much else for sure. Is there anything 4chan can do to help me locate this scammer? I just want my money back.
Located in Indianapolis, IN.
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Holy fuck how do I stop stressing I'm always stressing so much about love and life and what people think about me I can't stop
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understand that none of this actually matters
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First of all, recogniZe these thoughts as self obsessed. Is that something you want to be?
Secondly, recognize that you can't control others, only yourself.
Edit your behaviors, change the ones that hurt you or you don't like. Negative thought loops and the like, hygiene, fitness.
Ask yourself why you are so concerned with other people's thoughts even though you'll never know them
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>>18559242
Go back to /pol/
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>For the first time I trained.
>I can not lift my arms anymore.
Did I do something wrong?
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It is called doms.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_onset_muscle_soreness
And it means you did everything right. Now have 1 rest day and then go back and do it again.
http://www.aworkoutroutine.com/training-each-muscle-group-3-times-per-week/
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>>18559214
I'm afraid you need surgery to fix your arms.
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>>18559214
I call it T-Rex arms
It just happens the first time you work out in a while
Goes away for a week or two and doesn't come back as long as you keep working out
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How do I move to a big city
I deserve this
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>have a bunch of money to burn
>be prepared to pay three to five times what you're used to for anything and everything, including rent, water, and food.
>enjoy the unnatural and unhealthy density of human habitation there
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>>18559187
Depends on which city.
protip: it DOES matter
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>>18559184
Parachute