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How do I stop being so judgmental?

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I'm a very judgmental person. Every time I see or meet people I start presuming things about them. The bad thing is that I usually judge them by comparing to myself, especially the things that I have or do better. I never point them out though. I feel the need to be superior all the time. This has led me to the point where I have no real friends and can't develop deep relationships with anyone. I feel like it's one of the reasons of my shitty social life.

Is there anything I can do to stop being such a prick? How should I approach the judgement thing as it's impossible not to make assumptions about other people?
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>>18559449
Yeah, get over your ego man. Every day look in the mirror and remind yourself of your flats and your strengths. Seriously, you are no where near as great as you think you are. Once you conquer your ego you can connect with people better.
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I'm just like you and idgaf. I just enjoy their company for the comedy of it.

I am, superior. That's just how it is.
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>>18559449
Mature and stop comparing yourself to other people. Realize that you don't matter, and think of how many times you falsely judged another person. You can develop deep relationships but you know inside that you have even less to offer, inside you're probably afraid of being criticized for your ideas, making shallow judgments based on others without getting to know is your way of denying your lack of understanding of life. Anyone can nit pick and make shallow judgments. If you cast judgments based on someone's public persona you'll only have a superficial understanding of how people function and remain ignorant. Some people will be exactly as they appear. Don't call yourself a prick as a scapegoat to make you look tough instead of socially inarticulate. Even the people who are as predictable as they appear to be upon first impression have something they can teach you.
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