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Wrestling or martial arts. Channel your social frustration into physical strength. And you rely only on yourself, which means that you don't have to worry about a group of people hating you.

What do you hope to get out of sports? Physical fitness? Socialization? Sense of belonging?

I like running and biking. You can do it when ever the fuck you want. Alone or with others. Push yourself as hard as you want. Go as slow as you want. Go for as long or as short as you want.

Running sucks a lot at first. It sucks a little less every time you do it but you gotta do it consistently.

I love biking. When I'm on my bike I feel free.

I also enjoy hiking but that kinda depends on where you live.

>>18602758
Swimming because its calming and youre underwater. When you sweat it just goes inside the water.

>>18602738

Kinda hard to fall in love with someone who seems to be completely devoid of emotion, and their every thought seems to be perpetual sadness and loneliness.

"I feel like I will never" is a great way to paint yourself into a corner you'll never leave.

You're probably still young. There are lots of people out there. Maybe learn about things other than cars, and that will be a small ice breaker? Or perhaps find other people who are really into vehicles?

>>18602738
You're just depressed mate. You have to get yourself out of this rut before you can find someone to share feelings with.

Relationships aren't get out of jail free cards.

>>18602747
I wasn't always like this

>>18602706

Start by giving more details than "how do I do a vague thing?"

Indirect experience. Observe other people's conversations. Talk to yourself to reestablish neural patterns so you don't slur your words. Start with small talking inconsequential people in your life, like harassing people waiting in line at a store, or annoying the cashier.

>>18602706
Get a bigger jacket

But rly tho I'm in the same position. It's comfy not talking to anybody but it's also kinda sad letting so much time get in between the people I enjoy.

>>18602682

>wah my life is hard

>>18602682
Pills are a horrible way to kill yourself. Usually you just throw it all up and get to be hospitalized for very painful organ damage.

Don't kill yourself

>>18602690
Aight, any options that aren't pill based?

>>18602673
She likely met him while you guys were together. So in fairness she had a head start. In time you'll find someone, don't worry.

>>18602677
No she met him two months after we broke up. Doesn't matter I'm just constantly questioning my worth as a man since girls act so disgusted around me

>>18602686
Females can smell desperation. Don't be so needy and it will come faster for you. In the meantime focus on other things.

Don't allow other people to define your worth.

Yeah. All you have to do is activate them online.

Yeah just connect it through PayPal though

>>18602676
Witch card do i get and where in order to activate it online?

>>18602632
To say I love you and to mean I love you are two different things. You have to know someone before you can truly love them.

>>18602632

Depends on the relationship is destined to be more than a casual fling or not.
Depends on how compatible you two feel you are for each other.
Depends on how many poor relationships you two have had prior to this one.

Lots of circumstantial kind of stuff. It's kind of whenever you feel ready. I'd at least wait a while. A month? Maybe two? But if you feel you two are really clicking and they voice the same, sooner isn't bad.

Honestly it should come naturally. That's how I view it.

Stick it up your ass or I heard dogs can't smell it if it's between raw meat

>>18602619
I know of a way. I'm not going to tell you though. I don't agree with being a dummy.

>>18602619
individually bag them up and stick them in a lubricated condom, tie the condom off and then either leave some hanging out of your butt or tie a pencil around it and hotdog the pencil with your ass cheeks, or tie it off with a long length of fishing string and leave that hanging out.

>>18602612

You have no other prospects so you go back to the same one.

Boredom.

>>18602612
Your cock is hungry for action and is taking over your mind.

>>18602576

just get over it idk

Not sure what you mean by "expose" her daughter. But it doesn't actually matter.

Immanuel Kant said, "act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of any other, never merely as a means to an end, but always at the same time as an end."

Basically, if you have a problem with your teacher, deal with it directly with your teacher. Bringing her daughter into your personal problem is a) a shitty thing to do and b) not going to work the way you want it to.

If her daughter has any social standing everyone will just look at you as a tattle-tale/snitch/bitch.

kill urself

Pick who you want to be with. Sever ties with the other. Boom.

Does online girl know you have a girlfriend? She might change her tone towards you if she finds out you've been juggling girls.

>>18602572

>I don't understand what I'm feeling right now, and it's ripping my mind apart.
It all started 6 months ago. I was playing CSGO matchmaking by myself and I met this girl in-game.

>so I stopped reading right there and realized this would be an idiot child wanting to meet some girl who lives across the world instead of being with someone he knows who is right next to him

Do whatever the fuck you want, kid. It's not like you'll listen to what we say anyway.

quit or don't quit for fuck sake, you're an adult, no one should make these decisions for you.

What's there to know? You either put them down and don't buy more or subconsciously admit you have no willpower when you cave in.

>>18602559
Got to the nearest CVS and give the 4mg nicotine gum a shot.

>>18602509
I think he may be torn apart between you and his gf, even if he doesn't make it seem that way i doubt that's what he truly thinks is ideal.
I don't think he is terrified of the idea of losing either yet but he might be inlove with both of you.

If you truly want to back out of this then you stop being such a hopeless idiot and deny anything that even goes in the sexual direction or distance yourself.
Talk to friends on the internet about it, so they are really neutral about it.

>>18602533
Thanks anon. I highly doubt he's in love with me tho. His gf almost broke up wi t him recently and he broke down like it was the end of the world. Although now he isn't allowed to talk or see me, he still does and tries to be nice after how much he fucked me over. I appreciate your advice. I truly want to get over him but want to remain his friend

>>18602509
>Anyone go through something similar?
Nah. I've had a gf for 4 years and in that time I met some women that made me go wow. I had a vibe with them, had some chemistry and sexual tension but I've never taken it anywhere since I couldn't have taken the guilt of having romance going while having a gf. I even felt guilty for even knowing that I could have these other girls if I wanted.

I don't know how you can sleep with a guy and then look his gf in the eyes. Get some self respect, then tell the guy to get some self respect and either break up and be with you or stay and be loyal to his girl. I know this situation hurts you since you're his side chick.

>>18602476
what kind of degree are you going for? do you have any weak areas that you can improve through a job like socialization?

Oh hey look, someone making a thread on /adv/ who isn't miserable!

I can't recommend anything in a storage or logistic environment, when i had a student job there i was being paid minimum for hard work.
You should look for a job at your university, preferably in the field you are in.

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>>18602486
I'm going in for a Comp Sci degree. I just recently earned an associate of arts degree which is a fancy name for a general studies degree. The theater job helped with socialization and with dealing with customers and rude people. It has made me a better person. Thought my biggest fear is learning a new workplace environment. The theater had a very relaxed environment and everybody knew each other. If there was a problem, we all talked about it. I have Asperger's so I guess my weak spot is motor skills. I'm a pretty active person but I can tell I'm more physically awkward than some other people.

>>18602494
I could but I think most of it is for people looking to earn money to put towards their tuition. Mine is paid for and I'm just looking to make a personal amount of money.

>>18602446
Only you know what your heart wants anon

>>18602446

1 sounds like she knows what she's doing.

2 sounds like a mess. And not a good, just had sex and the bed is rumpled and covered in your mixed fluids mess, the kind where it's a garbage heap and there isn't even room to walk through to get anywhere.

Stick with 1.

>>18602446
2 seems to have serious trouble dealing with her emotions. Go with 1, the less drama-filled option.