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I've been working at a warehouse for 2 months, full time. I haven't been great at it. Often, I feel overwhelmed by my co-workers judging my work, that I end up fucking up on something (ex, forgetting my scanner gun all the way across the warehouse because I was to panic strciken). I get anxious to the point of not being able to finish an order in time, because my mind is all over the place. I even get anxious when interacting with my supervisor. Worst part, my coworkers can tell when I am nervous. I really don't know what to do.

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I want to keep snuffing tobacco and I don't want to smoke instead but I have a deviated septum and after snuffing for a few days I struggle to breathe through my nose, ruining my facial aesthetics. What do?

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Are there some BL/yaoi light novels that aren't trash? where do I find them

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Hey /adv/, my mother just fell down in the ally cause her foot got twisted in a dip. Now she can hardly move her left foot. She saying het ankles been hurting for a while now, & now she hurt her foot. Says everything from the ankle down hurts her. Golf ball swelling on the foot.

What the fuck do I do? She's laying on the couch with het foot elevated on an ice pack wrapped around a hand towel. Sister just left to get some bandages (the wrap or whatever when you break a bone)

Any advice on what to do??

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I was in an accident last Wednesday, rear ended but unluckily I forgot to renew my 6 month insurance so I was uninsured. The party at fault is still required to pay the damages/towing but no pain and suffering. It has been a week and I haven't heard anything from said guys insurance. The, I suppose, issue with this is that the truck isn't in my name, my dad passed a couple years ago and I took the truck but due to financial issues, my mom was never able to transfer everything over to her/my name yet. Since its not in my name and I was uninsured, will I still receive money to fix my rear end, and should I contact the guys insurance company tomorrow?

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Why is it so difficult to reach out to people without coming off creepy?

You usually have to limit your attempts to two at most (or three if you want to push it) in order to avoid coming on too strong; and after that, the lack of responses become quite telling. You also can't be too blunt about reaching out, otherwise you end up scaring people away, and come off needy and clingy.

And when you do see/hear from them again, you have to play it cool and nonchalant to avoid showing your desperate, miserable side. Otherwise, the second you show those vulnerabilities, that you wish to be around more people, is the second you become creepy, and permanently dropped by not only the person who had the misfortune of seeing that sad, but also everyone who knows them. Time and time again.

And despite my age, I've yet been able to figure out how to navigate and meander between the two. You either give people space, and become abandoned since they think you're doing well enough. Or reveal that you want people in your life, and be abandoned for being a needy, clingy weirdo.

For a quarter of a decade, I could never figure out how the nuances of balancing the two out. And each attempt always backfires and destroys the few closest relationships or have. While, weirdly, the lack of attempts ruins all your relationships anyway. It's a wonder why people our age eventually do themselves in; and becoming just another statistic in the end.

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How many private messages do you send/get in a day on social media?
I'm very sure im in to low end of it with less than 0.1 messages per day.

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My balls and bladder area hurt. I feel like having a harem with a personal army of sex slaves now.

Is this pain normal? And should one persevere?

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I need help /adv/.

When im horny (about 2 times a day) every thing around is at risked of being fucked. Family members, my hand, one time i thought of humping my dog (Thank God i didnt) my pillow, my sheet, bannana pills, my girlfriend even though shes not in the mood, you get the gist.

How can I control my urges, and do I need to get a therapist?

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Be me
>Currently 25, single and not into drugs/heavy partying/etc but I'm a social person.
>Pretty much makes good decisions and isn't a fuck up (unlike others in family).
>Get degree in Petroleum Engineering & Minor in Math
>O&G Industry goes to shit
>Go back and gets MBA
>Willing to work any job in any industry (prefer Technology/computers tho cause it's my hobby).
>Still can't find work despite numerous people helping me by being referrals/contacting others and sending out around upwards of 750+ applications.

What do I do?

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29 been working at the same job since I was 18. Been promised several promotions but those positions were given to other people. Applied to different places and never got a call back. Thought about going back to school but all the majors I'm interested in require calculus or physics and I'm horrible at math. Should I stick it out at my current job or attempt college and possibly waste money bc I don't know if I can pass the math courses.

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>aloof demeanor
>girls are initially attracted because I act like I care, but it's seems a little not genuine, mysterious
>get serious with girl(s)
>personality backfires, all of a sudden upset that i seem too aloof/uncaring

What do?

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I've been interning in some IT office for about 2 months now. The job, as described by my manager, would be just to set up computers with software for all the departments. He said that inbetween that I may be able to take some calls and other random tasks. Only problem is now there are hardly any computers left to set up and I've been getting no work the past few weeks. So I basically just sit at my computer the entire day doing next to nothing spare the few times I went up with a coworker to physically set up computers.

My boss gets annoyed any time I ask him a question about extra work and my coworkers are almost always in the middle of a call. When I do ask them if theres something I can do they usually just say idk and offer nothing.

Am I in the wrong if I just sit there doing nothing? I've gotten a little discouraged from asking them anymore since my boss is always "busy" and the other guys are just really low tier support guys that can't give me any actual tasks to do.

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So after years no car, finally got a car and my license. My question is regarding speed limits.

In my area, residential is usually 25, and highway is 45.

Doing under 25 is easy with red lights, etc.

On the highway, I usually go 45 on the dot. For me, speeding is going 55.
Then I have people fly by me, changing lanes without signaling, doing probably 70.
I dont like to speed because i leave early enough to never be late for work, and i recognize that im not dying to get home 10 minutes sooner.

Is this normal to go this fast? Or are these people that will get pulled over sooner then later?

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So basically I've been having these thoughts that I'm not breathing the right way, it is almsot like I'm in constant hyperventilation I legit feel the need to take FORCED breaths, the problem is that I when I take a breath sometimes I feel my chest pushing out, sometimes inside the chest like between the chest and back air filling up my lungs or something, sometimes I feel my abdomen muscles only pushing out, and this freaks me out, I legit feel like I'm not breathing the proper way as funny as it sounds, yes I'm not dead, I don't cough etc, It seems fine but there some mental thing behind this and I need to calm down, I need to know how to breath properly. It sounds absolutely trollish but it's not, I legit might be this retarded. Sometimes I feel like people treat me differently based on where I feel the sensation in my body etc. It's really weird