>aloof demeanor
>girls are initially attracted because I act like I care, but it's seems a little not genuine, mysterious
>get serious with girl(s)
>personality backfires, all of a sudden upset that i seem too aloof/uncaring
What do?
Find the right girl.
>>18583271
Or communicate a little better once you're in a relationship. Not as a "keep the lady happy" thing, but as a "always work on improving yourself" thing.
If things you're doing piss people off and make them leave you, you can either say "it's just my personality" or you can work on the problem.
>>18583255
You can be aloof but you have to gradually begin to give a bit or she's going to feel like she isn't connecting to you and move on. Even stoic badasses need womanly affection so let go a bit