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I masturbate once a month on average, and I want this to stop.
I do everything to stop thinking about sex, but after about a month or so the libido it just builds up on its own.
I'm in constant stress now and about zero free time, which make it even harder to stop.
How the fuck do I stop fapping at all?
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>>18586057
Get a gf
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why would you stop fapping? it's healthy for you
don't let the no fap zealots get to you
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Where my Social Anxiety Disorder crew at?
I've noticed it hinted to quite a bit on 4chan.
Haven't seen it straight up addressed.
How many of you guys have social anxiety?
Have you made any progression with it since
you first noticed it?
Do you think it can be cured by accepting
yourself whilst consciously taking actions to better yourself?
P.S. I know they're are forums and support groups but I identify more with you guys.
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How do I tell apart someone with social anxiety disorder from a quiet, shy, socially awkward person who likes staying home?
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>>18586066
Well the person with anxiety will get the fight or flight response. They will get adrenaline introduced to their system.
I've theorized it may be misdirected motivation.
Just a thought.
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Attractive, but >tfwnogf 2017-08-03 06:00:41 Post No.18586038
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I'm decently attractive. Sometimes I notice girls checking me out, and just recently two girls I met through a mutual friend told that mutual friend I was "really handsome" (very exaggerated, I'm barely a 7/10). But the problem is, I'm not very outgoing, I'm a bit socially awkward due to lack of experience, and I'm terrible at conversations. And I have the typical loser interests: vidya, anime, music, and sometimes reading. Might learn the guitar soon, and I lift so it's not that bad, though.
But I mean, if I just stay home browsing 4chan and jacking off all day I might as well be an uggo. So considering I have it easier than some people, how do I meet a qt? I hate parties, and my course in uni has no girls, not to mention I have kind of a bad reputation there. So what can I do? I'd try interpals, but my online game is even worse than my offline game. I wish I had the guts to casually start conversations with random cute girls at the bus or whatever who look my way a few ways. And if possible, I'd like to meet a girl whose personality aligns with mine - a traditional, quiet, homely, gentle girl
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stop jacking off all day and just get out there. Go join a sports team or go to social activities quite often. It really isnt that hard.
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I've heard people can make a living full time with remote web developer jobs.
Where can I get started with this?
I'm already going through all the W3 schools tutorials to learn.
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I want to know too. I want to save my body from being destroyed by manual work
how do i make it fullscreen? i pressed ctrl + esc to stop playing a little bit and i found it like this
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nvm, i found the solution
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>>18586014
Alt + Enter
I need to sober up immediately
any advice?
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>>18585992
cocaine
everybody knows that
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Coffee, water, pain
has online dating ever been successful for Muslims?
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Surrendering from the religion will bring you better chances nowadays.
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If you ever decide to do this then you will have constant thoughts of 'this is stupid' and 'a hypnotist visit would cost too much money'. The reason you would think those things is because of and individual who does have pastsight and would send those thoughts to your unconscious from an ability acquired from pastsight. Pastsight allows you to remember your past lives from previous universe resets. A universe will reset when the end of time comes.
Pastsight will give you the knowledge to easily make a lot of money. Here's how to acquire it: find a hypnotist and tell him 'tell me to make a strong connection between the conscious part of my brain and the unconscious part of my brain'. Make sure you bring cereal and milk, you can also bring multivitamins as backup. If you prefer a survival guarantee then you can bring a full box of cereal, a gallon of milk and multivitamins because you will need the nutrients. If you actually decide to do this then you will be constantly thinking that 'this is stupid' and 'a hypnotist visits costs too much money', the reason is because the individual who already has pastsight won't want you to have such a gift.
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Any good places to go to in texas or colorado?
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I feel terrible, don't have anyone irl to share this with.
Apologies if my native tongue slips in english grammar.
Everything starts with a girl. I met her around 5 years ago. She was... An antipode to me. Carrying, sensitive, passionate about simplest things. I met no one who loves children and animals that much. If she's late to somewhere most likely because she saw a cat and had to pet it!
She was a mystery to me.
We got along together. Developed feelings to each other.
Here's the catch: she's 18, I'm 24. One day says that she wants to stop meeting me and talking with me. (We talked a lot, about nothing and everything)
I felt dead inside...
Convinced myself that it's because she's too young, that nothing would ever happened between us anyways.
After few months I met another girl (let's call her Ruby and first one Perl).
She was fun, easy talking with her. Apparently she's engaged, but her patner is becoming an alcoholic.
In my head I decided to help her ditch him, he doesn't deserve Ruby!
Me and Ruby now 2 months together. Pearl sends a message to me, that she's visiting my city for vacation with her parents.
Decided to meet her and told to take my book I gave her to read. I was angry, all I wanted was to take my belongings and leave... But when I saw her... I felt so fucking weak...
She tells me that she did a terrible mistake... That she wants to be with me...
I... I can't... I can't do this to Ruby... How I'm sure Pearl won't do same thing again..? She's only 18...
Most rational decision was to be with Ruby. So I did.
Now, after 4 years, Ruby says she wants to break up... No reason, just wants to be alone... And I was planning to marry her...
This happened 3 months ago.
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Yesterday (and day before) I met Pearl (she's 22 now).
Nothing has changed, she's same person 4 years ago. We talked what happened 4 years ago. She had really hard time recovering from our last meeting...
Now she has a bf (2 years together).
I never forgot her and I think I did mistake back then. Although last 4 years I felt happy. But might been happier being with Pearl for a lesser time.
What am I whining about?
Before these two girls I never felt need for someone's company. Never was afraid being alone. That's why I don't really make friends nor I keep old ones.
I feel horrible now... Like I have something stuck in my throat, like there's something eating me from inside...
I don't want to be alone anymore...
I'm writing here because I don't have friends.
I'm living alone, renting a flat in the city.
I can't kill myself just yet. My mother has health problems, I don't want to hurt her. My brother and sister (both younger) would deal with it, eventually.
So I have to wait to kill myself.
What I'm asking: how should I spend next year?
Currently what I'm doing:
- getting /fit/
- reading books I always wanted but had no time (philosophy mostly, if have recommendations, go ahead, liked Schopenhauer a lot)
- and improving my programming skill (maybe hobby become a new job)
This is not a joke. I'm not killing myself over girls. I'll kill myself when right moment comes, when my death will cause least pain to others.
Might make this thread annually.
Reporting my progress to death.
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Helping me to change my mind would be good too. Currently I don't feel like having anything to live for.
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You made the right decision being with Ruby instead of Perl. Perl was naive and didn't know what she wanted. Also you did a good thing, you saved Ruby from a potentially toxic marriage and should be proud of yourself for that. Also being in a relationship doesn't just require a good personality and mutual attraction, it requires maturity that Perl probably just didn't have at the time. I guarantee you if you chose her you would have felt even more heartbroken and much earlier.
You realize this yourself, but your mistake was making your happiness dependent on just the woman in your life. She should be a great source of happiness, but not the only thing that lights up your life. You're doing good now, just continue indulging in things that make YOU happy and working on yourself as a person. It sucks now but a year or two (or maybe MUCH less!) down the road you'll be thankful for choosing life instead of death.
I wish you luck in the future, my friend.
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College and Job Advice 2017-08-03 05:04:23 Post No.18585893
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I'm about to start college but I'm having trouble deciding where I want to go in life
most of the issue is determining which markets are saturated and which major will pay the most
Now I am an above average student, no where near genius, but passed with high marks in Calculus and Physics
so engineering is my first option.
The main issues that I keep seeing arise is
>too many engineer graduates
>not all engineers have job security
>some engineers have to move a lot
I'm also interested in business and thought about getting a minor in economics or finance along with
an engineering degree. However, with job availability becoming a pressing issue in the industry
I'm leaning towards other options like Law, Programming, Pharmaceuticals, potentially Medical field.
I don't mind tedious work so long as it pays well, I just wish to know my future is secure and I will
be able to provide for a family.
So what jobs or majors do you recommend for the future market?
The Engineering Degrees I was considering are in order
>Computer Engineering
>Biomedical Engineering
>Computer Science
>Civil Engineering
>Systems Engineering
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I am disguisting fat body. My weight has been all over the place in the last two years. First I went from 220 pounds to 140 in the course of three months because I was depressed and rarely wanted to eat, along with giving up sugary drinks and only drinking water. I got a girlfriend and it's vastly improved my quality of life and I've started eating too much and went back to soda, now I'm back up to 180 and it doesn't feel or look good. I've been off soda again for about a month, so there's that.
The college I go to throws in a free membership to their gym with tuition, it's really new and nice, I plan to start going there but I'm ignorant of proper nutrition or fitness. My body hardly ever eats anything that isn't extremely processed frozen foods or fast food. I need advice on where to start, my life needs a drastic overhaul. I'll be going to college with 15-18 hours a semester while also working 25-30 hours a week at my job so time will be a little tight but I'm ready to do whatever it takes.
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>>18585879
Try to find the best time to try to work out, cut down on the sugary drinks m8. Also try to look up better diets that you think you can pull off.
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>>18585879
eat less, read the /fit/ sticky
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Done. Thanks gentlemen.
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I really need to know what I should do with my life. I am a 24 year old neet but I believe I could make some money writing books or developing a video game because I'm fairly creative and have studied the latter specifically. The island I live on has no job opportunities so I need to do something off my own back. I have also been considering just hanging myself because I can't take the way people speak to eachother. I'm going to post some shitty blog of my life in this thread so people can get the idea but I'm not really expecting a positive response.. Please help me if you can I am in hell /adv/
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I'll try to spew this out as quickly as possible and keep things not essential out. I'm a 24yr old neet but I've had some half decent jobs just never been good at saving or really earned enough other than when I was in this factory. A year ago I was basically forced to live with my father on a remote island because I had fucked up living with my mother so much, quit the factory because my weed smoking fool of a father claimed he was onto some rare shit, turns out he allegedly has bipolar and is just a nutty retard with pie in the sky ideas (fyi you can't be diagnosed with bipolar if you smoke weed). The guy hasn't always been a lazy reject who sits there and watches day time TV he's actually build several homes and has always turned his hand to something and made money from it. But pretty much since this whole episode he does such childish shit and doesn't care about life, won't even strim weeds down you know( sits there and sprays shit out when he sneezes or fucking sits there rifling through his nostrils for boogers[seriously]). I quit my job as a truck driver for the shop on the island because it paid fuck all and my manager was a proper try hard egoist on a serious power trip(when they fucking live in caravans on our land or did before I told them to get to fuck). I had been speaking to this girl in America for about 3 years but she's always been disingenuous and cagey, lying about such insignificant things like a child who doesn't want to get in trouble, also recently admitted to doing things behind my back but claims we weren't together while also simultaneously claiming that she would die for me all this shit(Always been suspicious because she says she doesn't want friends and then when she finally moves into a decent town she fucks off for a night with a guy on his birthday without any method of contacting me).
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cont Like I am no angel either because this girl who lives here had done the same thing to her bf by coming to mine for a whole night without contacting him and it got a bit and it got really suspicious.. We had hung out before and she basically admitted to having a foot fetish when I was drunk so I like massaged her feet and after some nights we were fucking most times we hung out. Pretty much I'm admitting that either my own fuckery is being projected on her and I'm suspicious that she would do the same or I deserve to her cheat on me(In my defence she had allegedly let some guy finger her at her cousins merely weeks into us speaking). So anyway that was my only reason to live because I would plan to meet her you know but that's kind of fucked and as I said I have this issue with the way we communicate. It seems like people also say shit to have it mean something else y'kno what I mean? Well anyway she is a fucking game player and I can barely tolerate her as it is so I may aswell just drop this shit. I just need to go out but in my next post I will outline my current plans. I am looking for people to just comment on my situation and recommend anything they can. Like do you think I should forget the American or try because atleast it is something to work/live for?
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I usually trick my way out of spending a lot of time on stuff. Sometimes I just do the easy way...like condense the work I need to do to as few days as possible. That's what I'm doing with school, and next quarter I might possibly be attending class three days a week. Recently, though, I found another class that'd push my schedule to 4 days. It's a cool class that's unnecessary, but something that I always wanted to take. Then that got me thinking about my habits and my past. Was that crazy quarter with 2-day schoolweeks really worth it? Do I remember anything at all of what I spent the extra time doing? Or, did it just reinforce my laziness and fuck me up?
My regular rationale is that limiting the days saves a shit ton of time because honestly going to class is the commute and the getting ready part...two hours or more per day are spent on the context of there being class. Thing is, it isn't really like I'm spending the saved time productively. Let me reassure you guys that I'm so lazy that a sloth would think I'm rock. My perpetual fatigue - once I go out, when I return home I'm deflated and usually go and sleep for an unholy amount of time 12+ hours) - my sore eyes and general social anxiety enable me as well. The less I go out, the less stress and pain.
I know this is kind of vague. Maybe taking 3 or 4 days is more up to me than you guys. However, I'd like a second opinion here. How do you gradually go from a rock to a doer? I do have the rest of summer break and I figure that I could try to untangle myself from this stagnant mess I've gotten myself into.
Goals:
>get /fit/ so I'll feel less self-conscious (I lost a lot weight by not eating much in the past few months, but still haven't exercised+need to lose 20 more pounds)
>practice my hobby every day
>not be too sad
>main thing: be able to motivate myself instead of thinking it's all meaningless and the same
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Is it legal to save an image on 4chan from an anonymous post and plan to sell it on a site? Site in question is redbubble. I do not intend to sell anything, I'm just wondering about the potential copyright infringements I have to leap over. I have the option of keeping it private, but it still says that I must agree to copyright infringement plans, but all I want to do is keep it for myself.
pic related
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You have to find the license of the image issued by the creator. If none is present, I think the assumed is public domain.
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>>18585916
there's a very similar image on deviantart but it's not as quality although I have a feeling it might be the same artist. I'll just pm the artist or request her to upload it on the site.
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Why don't you just create your own shit loser
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>be a college newly college graduate in Seattle,Wa
>work at shitty gas station job
>see the Amazon hiring event in Kent
>figured, why not, it'll actually be more productive with my time
>go to the event, feels good even though I'm waiting for results
>next day later, parents yell at me because an image of me pops up on Fox News as the station shits all over Amazon.
God dammit
How do I convince my parents that I'm not into Fox News and that I'm trying to be a more productive member of society rather than the typical shit stoner in Seattle, and will Fox News ever get its shit together so people can stop being so cut throats over one another?
I'm getting tons of emails from friends and relatives calling me a sell out just because Fox News showed a clip of me standing in line on their editorial ep.
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>>18585789
If you explained the the situation to them and they still shit on you. There a bunch of retardeds.
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>>18585789
It's not really your job to convince them. You can't change people's behaviors--they're gonna do what they want to do, and if they want to get mad and yell and believe you're a sell out just from a clip on a news network, that's their problem. All you can really do is just tell them the truth, convincing them is out of your control