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basically i need a girl with similar interests and life experience. I know a few girls like this on the internet that I can't be with because of how far away they are. Most of them are normal/cute but they're just held back by social anxiety or not fitting in with the people around them.

Any places other than 4chan? I want to meet like shut-in types that you wouldn't find at social events that aren't bpd attentionwhores. I know they exist because I know some of them personally but I found them through weird roundabout ways. I'm in a lot of discord servers and all the girls there are cancer so discord is a no-go too
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My problem is NOT cumming too fast. My problem is that I go soft after a while. My girl likes to go for hours, but I start to lose it after like 30-40 minutes regardles of position, kink, foreplay, condom or not, etc. My dick just goes soft and I need to wait 30 minutes or so before I can get it back up. Is this normal?

Pic unrelated
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I can't get a job even with experience and connections, like not even to the interview phase. I even got certifications and tons of training for this hospital job but I still get zero responses. should I just enlist in the army and stay for as long as I can?
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>>18586720
Bump

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I am dragon
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Sup guys, I'm about to go into my junior year in college for engineering. I am at a school that I really don't like after transferring from a school I hated. When I transferred I was lied to by an incompentent administrator in the transfer process and even though I had A's in the classes I had already taken at my last school, I was forced to retake a bunch of stuff. I screwed up a bunch of classes my first year after transferring and just took some summer school classes. I get really debilitating panick attacks sometimes and I just failed the final for the class that is bottlenecking me from the rest of my degree. I don't know what happened, I studied really hard and knew the material but when the test game I forgot everything. this test was most of the class grade and failing it means I failed the class. this means I'm stilled barred from repeating the courses I already passed and had A's in because of one class. Essentially I will be a second semester junior with as many credits, still taking freshman classes for my degree.

My GPA is fucked from transferring because school policy resets transfer student GPA's when I had a 3.7 my freshman year. I'm stuck at a school I don't want to be at, 2 years behind everyone else my age and I'm still trying to transfer to the main campus of the school I'm at so I can actually switch to the degree I want.

in other news I still am stuck on this one girl who broke my heart really bad 3 years ago, I miss he terribly and haven't heard from her in 3 years. I tried getting over her and dating around but 1. ive never met anyone else I liked. 2. there aren't very many women out there I have wanted to date anyway. I have been on dates with women since but nothing has changed. she was the whole reason I went to college in the first place, She convinced me to turn my life around and made me want to better myself and being with her made me happy.


I kinda want to kill myself but I'm too afraid of death to try, what do?
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Don't give up. Talk to someone in advising about your options. Your age doesn't matter at all; some people start college after working for several years. Talk to someone in the counseling/disability services at your school, see if you can get extra time to take exams.

Practice under pressure. Every practice exam you take is THE REAL THING and feel that stress as you take that practice exam. Do it with a time constraint. This prepares you to use your brain when taking the real exam. Good luck op, you've got this.
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>>18586862
I know that age does not matter in college but i cant shake the feeling im getting left behind in life while everyone i know is vastly more successful than i am and im worried i womt be successful in what i want to do in life. In loos a lot like i wont finish school till im 25 and it drives me nuts. I screwed up a lot in the past and it's somthing thats been chasing me forever. I didnt even want to go to school originally, and i almost failed out of highschool because i didnt do homework for 3 years. I only changed in the hopes of being good enough for the girl im stuck on and that one way i can be with her. And now I realize that college is about the only way to be successful anymore.

Also the advisors at my school are incompetent and the reason i got screwed on transferring. The advisor im assigned is a dumbfuck.

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>Friend asking for advice for the past few months on how to deal with their significant other
>Give her advice constantly
>She'll call me in the middle of the night crying
>Feel bad, console her blablabla
>This goes for awhile
>Talk to her earlier about ending it, she agrees it's a good idea
>She doesn't, get's back into it
>Keeps asking me for advice
>Finally lose my patience and explode on her and rant how I can't keep giving her advice for her to not follow it, mad as hell and tired of hearing the same thing over and over
>Hasn't talked to me in the hours since

I'm not sure if we're still friends. For the record I have a gf, I'm not trying to dig her out. I'm just tired of hearing her bitch and then pussyfoot around the problem
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She is using you as an emotional tampon, she does not give a shit about the advice you give.
In the end people will still do their own shit and many times they just want someone to vent their problems to not get actual advice.

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Im a noob lolol
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>25 years old in a major American city
>feel like there are no single women left
what now?
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>>18586687
Tinder.
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Date a divorced mudshark with a kid or two

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Not a request for advice per se, but...

I have several memories of men being inappropriate with me during my childhood, am I the only one? Does it happen just as often with guys?

When I was 4, I remember being at my neighbour's with my mom. Their son (14ish) was very playful and made sure I was entertained. When we were left alone, he played that game where he put a finger on my butt and asked "what do you feel?" And I said "your finger", then he lifts both hands he asks the same again and ask the same question. It didn't stop there though. Once he got a feel for it, he really forced himself inside me. Naturally he didn't get far at all, because I don't know if I mentioned it but I was fucking 4. Once he heard people coming he pushed me onto the floor.

When I turned 6, I was at my mom's best friend's house. Her daughter was about 14-15 as well, and she was hanging out with this friend the same age. They were playing mortal kombat, so I joined them. The daughter was called up to buy a sack of flour, so the boy and I were left alone to play mortal kombat. I was 6, he was over twice my age and I was kicking his ass at the game and I found that hilarious so I couldn't stop laughing. He threatened that if I didn't stop laughing he'd tickle me. First time I won, laughed and got tickled. Second time I won, laughed, got tickled. He said "if you laugh again you'll regret it". I won, laughed, and this time he said "lie on the bed as I do" as he lay on his stomach. I said, "why?" To which he responded saying "don't worry, trust me on this". I obliged, and he proceeded to press himself against me. This went on for a solid 5 minutes before the daughter came back and literally caught him in the act. I didn't know what had just happened, but there was a really unsettling atmosphere for the rest of the night.

Then once I reached pre-puberty being hit on by older men (and family friends) was pretty much routine.

Was everyone's childhood this messed up or was I molested?
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I'm a guy, when I was 5 my female cousin had sex with me, she's 6 years older and we were sleeping in the same bed due to lack of beds in the room, her sister was just across the room. We started of kissing and then sex happened.

Year later my neighbour who's also 6 years older than me waited for his parents to go on work and when I was alone with him (we were hanging around since he's an idiot we were on same IQ level) he told me to go to the living room, sat on a couch, took off his pants and told me to sit on his dick. Naturally I didn't get very far since I was 6 years old but yeah, was molested aswell.

Til now didn't have any similiar experience since I don't go out much and when I do it's just school so nobody gets to fantasize about me.

I guess it isn't that rare to have something like that in your life afterall, neighbour also made aunt's son that was like 3 years old max suck the tip of his dick, fucked up.

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So I was just "fired" from my first job after putting in my 2 weeks notice and was given the reason of tardiness/attendance. I was never tardy or missed a day on my schedule but I missed a call two or three times because my phone was on silent while I was asleep. Was I fired or did I quit? Do I avoid putting this job on my resume so a future employer doesn't try to call them for reference?
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Sounds like they're just sore about you leaving. I would get a friend to make a call to your reference pretending to be a potential employer to see if you can use them.

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>literally too anxious to work
>want to get genitals mutilated daily among other things
>can barely take care of myself at home now
>crying mess everyday
how does one get out of this so they can start saving up money?
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What's a degree that I can get a job in with 2 years while I continue my education? Preferably no nursing.

Also is taking 16 credits along with 30 work hours a week a bad idea?
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I really want to know the deeper implications of this question, yet I don't think I'm experienced enough, nor wise enough to truly know the answer.

Is it -ultimately- better to focus on becoming a master of one thing, or is it better to be pretty good at a range of things?

A little context:
I really love creating, in general. I'm working towards a degree in illustration right now, but my love for drawing/painting is a war with other interests. I love composing/playing/interpreting music, I love reading/writing literature, I love shooting/watching/interpreting films and such. I admire the different aspects that not only go into creating/performing, but I also admire what can be taken out of.
That being said, I kind of want to bring all these skills up as a whole, but I know that I'd be spending a lot of energy and money just trying to be decently good at these separate things. I'd hate to have to leave out something entirely because then I feel as though I'm letting myself down. Perhaps that's not the way others see it, but that's how I interpret it.
Maybe I'll understand as I get older, or maybe I should take it up with my parents/grandparents. But I thought that you guys could spread some insight on what you believe is true.

Maybe my whole outlook isn't the way I should be seeing things, but I would really like to hear what you guys have to say. Am I wasting my life? Can you strive for higher achievements with only one focus? How many different sub-sets are too many?
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Another Art anon here

I understand your desire to become skilled at all your individual interests but there's a limit to everyone's ability. Eventually you will hit a road block and the stress of maintaining each skill becomes more detrimental than useful.

My recommendation would be to hone in on the specifics in each field, at least one in each.
I remember back when I tried to keep up with playing multiple instruments, drawing every day, and auditioning for musicals at my school it became stressful beyond belief.

I ended up ditching everything but art in an effort to mediate my studies and get the equivalent of being well rounded in an educated sense.
I wouldn't say you're wasting your time or life but you need to realize there will come a point you can't push yourself anymore and you will HAVE to choose your path.
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>>18586572
Any advice on how to begin moving onto a path? (In terms of dealing with the emotional trouble of leaving other things behind)

I guess what I'm ultimately afraid of is that I'll lose the ability to remember each skill that I leave behind. But as soon as I pick it up again for a little while, I begin uncovering more and more interesting information that leads to more time with something else rather than the "focus."

Anyway, thanks for the reply. It's also nice hearing from another Art Anon who's gone through this. May I ask what type of art you do?

I have to make a choice about A or B college.

A:
>Private college in my city, classes during the night
>Like 5km away from my house, easy to go even on foot
>3 years IT inferior IT degree
>Will probably cost less long term because i'll stay with my parents until i graduate

B:
>Public college in a close city (~30km), classes during the night
>I'll have to take a bus every night
>Can end up costing less because, even being a free college, there's costs with the bus and books etc
>5 years IT degree

I don't really care about the degree level, i just want to do something as i'm 18 and may end up liking it. But i don't know wich one to choose.
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>>18586513

>classes during the night

...why? Absolut poison for your sleep cycle. And difficulties to concentrate are programmed.
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>>18586527
I think it's better for my routine, i have hobbies during the day and i plan get a job during the day to raise money. Also the classes finish at 11pm, i can sleep at midnight (it will be an improvement, i used to sleep at 3am)
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>>18586513
Shameless self bump

btw i was in a hurry and fucked up the OP, i mean college B can end up costing more long term

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Anyone know where I can find a decent fl studio 12 torrent? I was planning on buying kinda low on money at the moment.
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bump because I'm in that same situation. We might be more lucky posting in the /prod/ thread
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>>18586443
Go fuck yourself adam

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