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>>18656308
Is there really any problem with talking too much about yourself though? A lot of people hate talking about themselves, and are told to listen more.

Anyways, as with anything you want to do, it requires practice. I suggest just setting yourself small goals which relate to talking about yourself less and listening to others more - and do this consistently.

I don't have any experience doing this, as I am trying to talk more about myself because I'm terrible at it. Best advice for me is (in practicing how to just talk and have fun talking) is to stay in the present and focus on the present.
So sorry, can't exactly help except just start with small goals and be consistent with it.

>>18656308
The point of a conversation is talking about what both you and the other party wants to.

>>18656308
Talking to yourself is very calming and normal. But what all people learn is to talk only inside their head so they dont look crazy to others.

Do it the same way. And talk loudly however you want when you are alone.

>>18656300
Toilet.

>>18656296
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arachnophobia
Look at treatment headline.

>bite me
Unless you live in kangaroo land, this is not an issue. Spider fears you more then you him. Simply blow some air on him and it will leg it.

>>18656311
Yesterday morning I went to hang out my washing and there was a redback in the clothes peg container.

Anyone still got some tips`?

Its just fucking scary when theyre suddenly next by me or crawl on my desk

>>18656276
yeah, sometimes

>>18656276
Hahahaha nooooooo

Nah, I fap to girls I know regularly. The guilty/weird feeling can hit me post fap sometimes though.

Read the sticky.

>>18656264
Self confidence to a large part comes from positive social feedback.
If you never got any, good luck fixing that later in life.

>>18656266

Not OP but as a child I was abused by all the other kids for my whole time at school.

Even even after becoming a popular guy afterwards and from the outside developing normal social skills, I still have zero self confidence.

Is it ever possible to un-just yourself?

>>18656247
Depends. If pic related, don't. If US or such, why not? Only thing that could keep you is physical strength.

>>18656246
Talk to doctor who prescribed you this. Good luck and remember, it isnt about curing you, but about generating as much profit from you as possible.

>>18656252
I just don't think I can take three weeks or more of feeling like this while I'm tapered off

>>18656254
A lot of happy pills takes like a month before the desirable effect kicks in.

That said, it is supposted to improve your life quality, not the opposite. You can try to call the doc instead.

And the erectile disfunction is super common. You could label happy pills as birth controll for males.

So why did you get prescribed happy pills? What was your diagnose, what did you tell the doc and what did he told you how to "cure" you? And why didnt you go to psycholog or therapist instead?

>>18656242
Instead of typing all of this bullshit, you should type something about her, you, your marriage and what is so wrong with it.

>mutual divorce
This suggests she is actual reasonable mature person who wont try to backstab you in the divorce process meaning she is already better than 50% female population.

Any marriage can be saved *easily* if both parties want to. The question is: do you want it to solve it? Will you miss her pussy? Her cuddling? Her nagging?

We dont know you or her, YOU do. What do you want? Imho you married for some reason at the start. Are you sure you dont have any reason left for staying with her? I mean does her smile makes you feel there is a reason to keep living? Does making her happy makes you happy?

>>18656238
Complain to the principal. Have specific examples to tell/show him so you don't just sound like a crybaby.

>>18656238
Prove him wrong by neing exceptional student. Or are you too dumb for that?

>>18656234
pics or it didn't happen

>>18656234
Fish oil, biotin, and vitamins c/b5/d would all be useful for thickening your hair. Most hair and nail problems are caused by deficiencies. Also topical sprays and even root lifting serums would probably be helpful.

There's a chance that your naturally straight hair just goes super flat and lacks volume because of what you wash it with. If you use too much conditioner it can weigh down your hair and give it the appearance of having no volume at all. Very stripping shampoos that contain ingredients like salt can make your hair have more volume, but they can also be super drying and cause split ends.

>>18656208
People don't like to be challenged. There is nothing rational about it, it comes from that animal part of the brain.

You have to be 18 to post on this site.

People are retarded. A lot of people get thrown off when you go suddenly "implosive" to "explosive".

I keep shit bottled up until it's worth making a stand and when I make a "stand" it's usually not in the method they expect. When people piss me off enough I just walk away and quit fucking with them. shouting and arguing is a waste of time and energy and gets nowhere so I don't do it.

I think when people get rude they expect you to listen and expect you to jump into the game of arguing back so they feel like there is at least a chance of them winning and getting their way for the sake of the conversation. Smart people don't do that shit. I know when a person is a waste of my time and trying to get them to think something is a waste of effort. They think what they think and they're going to stick to it.

>>18656205

What a strange question. Like, 70% of the surface internet is porn.

You never heard of Google?

What exactly do you mean by 'hard'?

>>18656200
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MBRqu0YOH14

I suggest ice cream or chocolade.

where were she going anon?

this sounds exactly the sort of accident which happens when lover thinks the girl got rid of boifriend and on her way to get her ass fucked again

OP I do not know whether or not your girlfriend stepped out on you but just wanted to chime in that this whole "oooops, meant for another person" is a strategy that some guys use. Basically if she's intrigued then he can use it as an opening to talk about sex, if she's offended he can reasonably insist that it was never meant for her and thus save face. As long as she either ignored it or told him to fuck off and is not being secretive, I do not think there is something suspicious about a guy being thirsty itself.

>>18656231
nah the guy is here, she's going somewhere else with her brother and cousin
>>18656232
interesting point. she did ignore it and in fact deleted him from everything. the problem is somewhere along the line in this situation i would be acting on faith.

Is it a credit union?
Because mine is like that so you need to find a better bank which can give you a temporary card to use while the other is being shipped
Or you could physically withdraw money

Fuck that bank.

My debit card takes like a week and they give me temporary atm cards while I wait.

Also keep some cash in your place. I it's in there it's not really yours.

I use Chase btw.

use checks? use a credit card? get cash from a bank? switch to a bank that does not take two fucking weeks to send a card?