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>>18662372
That kid is cuter than the mother with her Terminator jaw.

>>18662372
>i am taking ssri happy pills
If you ever cared to educate yourself, you would found out these pills are not end solution. They are just a crutch so you dont jump from cliff.

Taking pills for ever is stupid. You are suppoated to be doing therapies, visitng psycholog and doing CBT and eventually be able to be "ok" without pills and without suicide thoughs.

>constantly tired
>don't want to do anything
Yea, sounds like happy pills are working. They basically disable part of your brain and make you like this. Whatever you do, you cant keep taking them forever. Seek SOLUTION for the CAUSE or your problems, not just limiting symptoms.

Tldr talk to your psycholog!

>>18662372
Quit surrounding yourself in negativity. If you're fucking suicidal why are you on 4chan when this place is filled to the brim with negativity like your pic

>>18662338
Get a good group theraphy, so you'd be able to keep yourself and others in check on the good trails of recovery.

Good thing is you admitted you've got problem and want to do something about it. Gradually stop your self from being shit yet don't be too hard on yourself when you fail to keep yourself from doing that.

Try to record the times you succeed and failed and make adjustments accordingly.

>>18662338
Try focusing on the big picture in life instead of zooming in so close that small things frustrate you

>>18662332
With your current IQ you will get caught very quickly, waste few years in prison and when you will get outside, nobody will hire you no matter what because permanent record.

The last thing you need right now is to go to jail. Try to be less retarded and THINK FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIFE before you do something stupid.

>>18662328
Talk with people at your classes. Start with: hello, can i sit next to you?
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation

>>18662316
Just fap on your bed with eyes closed.

>>18662430
This times ten. I am the same way, I adore sex but I don't want to look at other people having it when I'm thirsty. I want to relive memories of being held or fantasize about it happening again in the future.

so your wife obviously has issues with her sexuality and your response is wanting to fuck someone else instead?
boy you're a good husband.
help her, goddamnit. read the tao of sexology or something, there's ways to fix the sexual balance in a marriage, people have been doing that for thousands of years.
don't you remember the vow you took?

you don't want to cheat, you want to get better sex.
have you considered a couples/sex therapy?

You need to spice up you sex life, not cheating. Stop being extreme.

If you have access to it, why not?

Can confirm that thst shit works like magic. It gives you a little bit of assurance that even if you're nervous or whatever, you'll still have a great boner

Not a bad idea. Your first time will suck anyway, it's good to have one less thing to worry about.

>>18662251

Oh, and unless you have proper ass ED, youll only need like 25-50mg. Use a pill splitter. It'll make the purchase go a longer way.

It's generally more economical to buy 100mg tabs and spilt them. That's what I did

>>18662232
Always pay bills first, then give yourself an allowance between what you normally spend on luxuries and whats reasonable for your income and cirumstances. If your lifestyle includes no realistic long term or personsally meaningful short term goals then you have nothing to work towards. If your first thought upon getting a check is all the stuff you can get you are doing it wrong.

>>18662232
Make a budget. There are plenty of online guides, but here's the essence

Sit down and make three lists:

1. Things you absolutely have to pay out of each paycheck. Rent, utilities, car, loans, insurance, etc.
2. Things you absolutely have to pay but that can be juggled about a bit. Food, etc.
3.Things you like to spend your money on, but if pressed could live without for a while

The minute you get your paycheck, set aside what you need for Group One. NEVER neglect to do this, and NEVER steal from that fund for anything else.

Group Two may take you a while to sort out, but try to keep track of what you spend there for a typical week. After a while you'll be able to set aside that money as well.

ONLY after you have locked away the funds for the first two groups can you see how much you have left to spend on Group Three.

That means that on a bad week you may have to deprive yourself of some luxuries. But at least your essentials will always be covered.

And once you get into the rhythm of this, you can add Savings to Group One.

>>18662232
bumpity

>>18662210
the specific kit doesn't matter nearly as much as practicing with different locks a lot with them beforehand. Why are you doing this btw?

>>18662237
Long story short, the house was my grandfather's, who had passed away earlier this week. I'm trying to retrieve an item that is very sentimental to me and my family, which has a strong connection to my grandfather. My aunt, however, is in control of all his stuff, including the house and the key. She hasn't been cooperating with the rest of the family. I've asked her if I can retrieve said item, yet she still won't let me. She is being extremely unreasonable and unfair to my extended family as well. That's all I need to do. I'm not there to take what isn't mine. I'm not there to loot. I just want that one item, and then I'm out of there for good.

>>18662210
Take a pic of the door lock first and and try to buy a similar one to practice on.

Wear a tool belt and blue collared clothing when you're attempting to break the door.

get a prescription. alcohol in those levels is kinda rough on your body, yo

>>18662190
You've got it backwards. Being drunk doesn't save you from nightmares. Being a drunk causes them.

Alcoholism has affected your body chemistry so that it actually feels more natural to be drunk than not. So when you go to bed sober, you go through withdrawal pains, just like a drug addict. And the physical pain manifests itself in painful dreams.

Only solution: wean yourself off alcohol. It will hurt, just like a junkie's withdrawal. But once your body feels normal without alcohol, the nightmares will stop

>>18662173
>She works under me
Don't do it.

What above anon said
You make one wrong move or and she'll report you to be or some shit for sexual harassment

you got this far on your own, you don't need advice.
come back if you somehow fuck up.

When you realize if you truly feel that way you could at least try and be less of drain on others. Happiness sometimes finds it's way to people but never those who sit and wait for it. You can accept the way things are and sulk or try and attempt to rectify what you perceive as wrong with your being. If you truly care about those people's lives, and not just the excuse of it, killing yourself isn't an easy longterm fix easyway out for you because you have already made meaningful relations with these people.

>>18662197
Suicide it is, then.

>>18662201
I think you are selfish, scared, and that combination is very convenient for your self justification. Again, I'm not telling you not to kill yourself but the reason you haven't is for this reason not to.

>>18662136
Are you currently living with and depending on family for a roof over your head?
If not then just move, or even go anyways. Search for jobs and rentals in the nearest city to make it easier. Once you get out you'll be so fucking happy. Lived in a hick town till I was 16, the amount of diversity was nothing. Literally 2 black people in jr high and that's because they were siblings, plus maybe 2 1/2 asians (Im mixed so stuck out even more)
HELL i tell you. Everyone was either Christian or Catholic too which sucked even more being atheist

>>18662158
So like just go to NYC and sleep on the train and sell crack with the blacks and stick up convient stores or is that wrong?

I don't get it. This is literally hell I'd rather be in and out of rikers sleeping on the streets and murdering innocent people this is fucking bull shit

>>18662122
Get caught with child porn or doing something illicit to an underageb&.

>>18662122
Nothing wrong with milking it. For one you could certainly get some hot piece of ass by admitting to yourself and the world that you're gay.

>>18662122
That is certainly a problem that absolutely everyone on 4chan is familiar with, so you have definitely come to the right place with your question. I am sure you will be inundated by advice given out of lifetimes of experience with this all-too-familiar burden.

>>>/r9k/

>>18662117
Like a billion other dudes on the internet. You gotta give us more info.

Same