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>>17976010
You're an idiot. Why would you get back with an abusive ex?

>>17976021
When your with someone long enough, despite what they do its almost safe and secure

>>17976025
In other words, you're a fucking retard.

Can anyone give me advice??

lead with the fact you are a virgin. make it apparent and say you are proud of it. if the conversation changes, try to refocus it on the fact that you are a virgin. if she isnt, try to make her feel bad about that a little bit to asert tour dominance.

>>17975992
such bad advice. lie and tell her youre a slut. focus the conversation on that fact. tell her you have sex all the time. make her feel bad that you have more sex then her

>>17975954
>I noticed he has a tendency not to reply to me much outside of fapping so I worry he might just see me as a fap buddy and nothing more.
Not saying this to hurt you, but there's a 95% chance you're right about this. It's very, very rare for this type of long-distance online connection to turn into anything "real." Just enjoy it for what it is, don't let your imagination run away with you too much.

If you really feel like it's worth a try, you should start by just trying to have non-sexual conversations and get to know each other on more of a "friends" basis. If he doesn't have any interest in doing this, then it's not meant to be

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>>17975988
Well, we do have plenty of nonsexual conversations about like our lives at university, work, etc. So there is hope at least.

what is your discord name?

>>17975899
You ask her, faggot.

If she doesn't cough it up you stop trying or wait for you two to get to be better friends and try again.

>>17975899
Very complex issue with a very complex solution OP. Are you ready for this? You only have one shot at this and it could ruin every future interaction so make sure to repeat what I am about to say exactly. It's very hard to understand but here you go:

>Hey, what's your Skype name?

>"did you know if you post your Skype username on Instagram, it censors it?"
Worked all the time for getting kids Runescape passwords

>>17975846
So she could keep access to your dick. Im sure she's thanking her lucky stars someone would lay in a pigpen with her, and by that last line, you have no intention of leaving

>>17975846

Because she's secretly in love with you and would do anything to save your sorry ass.

>>17975846

she thinks of you as the male pigpen and is worried that if you break up with your gf you'll want a relationship with her

>>17975845

we dont know the context of the pic, what did she call you.

>>17975845
consider suicide

>>17975845
Only you know what kind of girl she is, dude. Best advice I can give is to not ignore your gut feeling when it comes to girls.

>>17975842
More than beta, that's Omega

>>17975842
If she already knows there is no point in doing it. You'll sound pathetic. Move on. She knows you like her, she said no. You did your part, the rest is up to her. Find someone else.

>>17975842

kinda yeah. depends on your definition of friend zoned. some guys think that hearing 'you're a great friend' is friendzoning. but its not. lots of guys who are told this go on to date the girl. not all, but lots.

did you ask her out and she said 'no i want us to just be friends'?

>>17975815

there were better candidates and to interview you would have wasted their time.

>>17975815
You could ask thelm

>>17975821
But why did they write that and not what you wrote? I even double checked the job advertisement after reading their response.

>>17975795

the one you enjoy the most.

i enjoy the stress.

>>17975795

When in doubt, its best to ask yourself which of the missed options would you regret more in 5-10 years.

Musk is a businessman and performer. Take advice from a real scientist. At the end of the day a job is a job.

>>17975766

the question is flawed because there aren't really places where you are designed to meet people outside of bars.

but what you can do is think about what you like to do, and look things up in your area. are you a nerd? go to your local comic / game shop, and see if they have events there. if not, ask about setting them up. for instance you can set up weekly magic the gathering tournaments, or even offer to bring in a game system and host a tournament and they can keep the majority of profits.

thinki about what you like, go do it, and most of all TALK TO PEOPLE WHILE DOING IT.

if your answer is
>but all my hobbies are introverted

you are wrong. even if all you like to do is watch anime and read books there are people who at least want to talk about it with you.

>>17975800
Eh I see.
I have tried meeting people via internet into that. but usually theyre too far away

>>17975809

thats why i dont suggest the internet outside of meetup. though you can try to also join facebook groups in your local area.

she sees you as a pussy bitch because YOU see yourself as a pussy bitch. Grow some balls and stop that shit

>>17975753
>only two hours apart

This is still a ldr and will slowly shrivel and die. So it doesn't matter what she thought about your break down.

>>17975767
I've always held myself highly before this. Probably so high, she probably thinks Im self absorbed. I've never felt insecure in my life up until now.
Keep this in mind, mate. I should have put this in.

>>17975751

you don't really. you can ignore it, but its like trying to diet. Your stomach will rumble no matter wehat. you can either feed it veggies, or you can feed it cake.

you cant stop wanting cake, but you can choose to be stronger than your urges.

you can also try to pick out the good qualities and not the bad ones.

your dad may have beaten the shit out of you, but dating a guy who also likes nascar like your father doesn't mean he'll also beat the shit out of you.

though if he is watching nascar it is a good chance

>>17975751
hey baby. watchu doin? ;)

>>17975751
You cant overcome it, but you can gain some self control and refuse to act on it. If you want to keep acting on it put up boundaries with the guys, as in never having a real relationship with them, and never putting yourself in dangerous situations with them.

>>17975719

think were going to need more details than that

>>17975722
Hi anon,

I am concerned that individuals whom I have relationships with are engaging in negative and hurtful behaviour expecting some kind of sexual punishment in return, which they are not receiving from me. I am wondering if you have any thoughts or experience on this topic.

It's kinda kinky but idk I would prefer it not being due to actual bad behavior, more just as like after playful banter. If she's being a bitch I'd just dump her imo.

>>17975681

yes. when you wake up you feel you have the whole day to do anything, so might as well have some fun first, cuz you can always work later.

then as the day goes on the thing you found fun are now becoming the stress. when you first play a game its fun, when you finish, you're burnt out. same with binge watching.

then by evening you get your 'third wind' and your energy comes back and since you're tired of relaxing shit you want to work, but you still got this sleepy haze coming in.

happens to me too

Yep
Once you start going you want to keep going

So the hard part is starting
Wake up early and do something outside of the house early on
And suddenly the day feels 10x longer as you're in the "work" mode earlier

>>17975658
>4:20 am
the hell dude

>>17975658
OP, blur the name of your sis, you're making me want to send her a message asking her.

>>17975658
I'm 28 and my sister is 33. We just recently in the last year or two became a little closer to each other as family. It's possible, and actually sort of interesting to re-learn someone you grew up with, but haven't lived with in well over a decade.